People just can't get along with each other, they can't get along with each other, so they can't live together.

If you want to live together, you must first learn the six harmony and respect.

The same goes for laymen, since they know the shortcomings, they will find a mountain by themselves, on the top of the lonely peak, swallowing all directions, not to say that people can't come, even ghosts can't come, then even Bahe Jing can do it, if you want to lose your temper, you can send a tantrum to the tree alone, and the anger is out, how comfortable.

You can't do that either! At that time, I lived alone on the top of Emei Mountain, "Tongxuan Peak, not the world, I can't do it outside my heart, and my eyes are full of green mountains", that realm is like this, even one and respect him don't need it.

If these six harmony are really done, the world will be peaceful, and the Qi family will govern the country and level the world. Which of us has done it?

Everyone's body is not harmonious, and if you are sentimental and sick, you have to be taken care of by others, and you can't take care of others.

Therefore, the Buddha said that if he takes medicine and gives alms, he will be free from illness and pain in other lives.

I have this kind of fellow believer, who has lived for seventy or eighty years, who has never known what a cold and flu is, and who is very healthy, and who has not studied Buddhism or Taoism, and who does not know how to be envied.

The second of the six harmony is "mouth and no criticism", do not say hurtful words, even if you scold people, you must have the art of scolding, and you also have to look at the object.

For example, I scolded Lu Jushi for decades, but he never got angry, no matter how loudly he scolded him, he still had a smiling face, I really admired him.

He is not so cruel to me! It is worth learning from the strengths of many people in this world.

Some people in the same way have discord, and it is strange that what he says is not good, if it is good.

Otherwise, that mouth is very good and deliberately finds something nice to say, but as soon as you hear those words, you know it, and it's very annoying.

This kind of harmony is to be able to speak, and in just a few words you can reconcile people's opinions, which is a high degree of moral cultivation, and it is very difficult.

But this oral karma is also cultivated, you did not cultivate the oral karma in your previous life, and your oral morality is not good, the more you persuade, the more people will have to go to court.

As soon as some people came, they scolded or two, "What a fame!" It's not like that! Ass! I'll invite you to dinner", others stopped arguing, and a few unreasonable words were solved.

This is his previous life of mouth cultivation, and he has virtue.

So you have to cultivate your mouth! This is one of them.

Second, there is nothing to do with the quarrel in the mouth, and the words are empty, but I grasp it so tightly, and I have been angry in my heart for several days, not only my face is green, but I am also angry.

Especially the quarrel between the two husbands and wives, when they come to me to complain, I have a good score in my stomach, and neither of them is a good thing.

Why? There is no argument about peace of mouth!

However, you should pay attention when persuading the husband and wife to discord, they say that the other half is not, you should not go along with it, they will turn around and reconcile, and they will say that you are not the middleman, this is a practical example.

Talking and being honest is not wrong, this is practice! Don't think it's empty words, you're just going to have nothing to do, what's the use?

So we have to reflect, how many people are peaceful?

Like me, it's bad to be annoying as soon as you open your mouth.

The third is "meaning and colleagues", we should pay attention in daily life, it is easy to discord with the mouth, sometimes the mouth says some lies, alas! I'm sorry, I'm sorry......

But there is a stalk in the stomach, this will cause a stalk, really! The symptoms are related to sulking.

A very introverted person, a person who doesn't fart when you hit him, and then his face is blue and black, and he gets angry inside, and he will get sick 100% in the future.

The other is a very big temper and is also suspected of liver disease.

Chinese people have a lot of liver disease, and they just like to sulk in their hearts.

Because this people are very strange, there is a false face on the surface, pretending to be fine, but sulking in the heart.

How to achieve harmony, not only harmony, but also to be able to work with others, to be able to live with others.

The same is true for families, do you think parents and children will have the same opinion? Absolutely not.

Now talking about the generation gap is discord, and there is no generation gap between the two sides.