Two, three, four: interpersonal communication

Originally, Ming Tian had already dealt with it, but because of the nonsense of this rectum idiot, the atmosphere at the scene suddenly became awkward.

Although An Luo is stupid, it is indeed unintentional to say this, but there is a good saying: the speaker is unintentional, and the listener is intentional.

What's more, Anluo's sentence is quite hurtful.

As soon as Ming Tian saw Cui Huijing's expression, he knew that he thought that he had not entertained himself well and lost the friendship of the landlord, which was quite embarrassing.

Ming Tian was really embarrassed at this time, and turned his head and glared at An Luo fiercely.

An Luo was stunned for a moment, and when he saw Ming Tian's eyes, he obviously realized that he must have said something wrong again, so he hurriedly lowered his head and stopped talking.

"Hmph, my father is kind enough to entertain you, if you don't appreciate it, it's too much to say this, right?"

The little good impression that Fang had just had for Ming Tian suddenly disappeared, and Cui Xinrou was extremely disgusted with Ming Tian at this moment.

Although her father's discipline annoyed Cui Xinrou, it was just a little girl's willfulness after all, and Cui Xinrou still loved her father Cui Huijing very much.

At this moment, the man who appeared out of nowhere in front of him, not to say anything about being the chief, but actually said such embarrassing things to his father, how could Cui Xinrou not be angry?

As soon as Ming Tian saw Cui Xinrou's expression, he realized that it was really a disaster for him to say the wrong thing this time.

It's really wronged, I really didn't look down on your father, and I didn't say that, my mother.

Settle down your stupid donkey, it was okay to cause trouble for Lao Tzu before, this time you guy said such a thing, how can Cui Huijing step down? And how can I step down?

"Patriarch Xiao, this time I didn't entertain you well, I didn't consult your taste, and I ask for your forgiveness, I will immediately order the kitchen to be redone."

At this time, Cui Huijing bowed to Mingtian apologetically.

Ah, big brother, don't apologize to me, it makes me even more embarrassed!

Mingtian is a person with rich experience in social communication, and it is precisely because of his rich experience that he will have a pain.

Because at this time, if you are an unsociable person, you will definitely say something like "This is what An Luo said, it has nothing to do with me" without thinking, or something like that.

If you say that, you're really an idiot!

First, this kind of talk is tantamount to pushing An Luo down the fire pit, and secondly, it will give people a feeling that they shirk their responsibilities and can't afford the beams, which can be described as unflattering!

Even if this statement is true, it cannot be said so!

Many people in modern times work hard in real life, but they have been sluggish, hitting walls everywhere, and even sometimes, they want to please someone, but they are hated by that person.

In fact, it is because of the fact that speech does not go through the brain, especially Internet trolls, which is particularly easy to encounter in reality.

Not to mention work and daily communication, I can't even soak in my girlfriend, I can only watch others go smoothly, and I have no choice but to find an up master on the Internet, or scold the author on the street to vent.

Why is this happening?

The reason is that you can say whatever you want to say on the Internet, and you can scold whoever you want, and in reality, the natural brain has lost the ability to judge whether what you say next is appropriate.

Don't think that talking is just an act.

Speaking is an art.

That's why 99% of internet trolls are useless waste in reality.

For people with potential, the Internet is a place for him to exercise communication, and for those who have no potential, the Internet is just a place for him to vent.

Therefore, the fight against online violence is not a slogan, nor is quality a spontaneous act, but an invisible necessity for survival.

If you become a habit of inflicting online violence on others, others may not be able to make you pay, but the reality will give you a heavy slap in the face, and these trolls are often so pathetic that they don't even know what they are doing wrong.

However, this situation fell on Ming Tian, although it was a little tricky, but it was not uneven!

As soon as he got up, Ming Tian couldn't help but take half a step back because of his too big movements, and Cui Xinrou on the second seat couldn't help but take a half step.

Arching his hand and bowing ninety degrees, Ming Tian first apologized to Cui Xinrou: "Miss Cui, I really offended unintentionally, here, please allow me to apologize to you most sincerely, and please forgive me." ”

spoke softly, but the tone was neither humble nor overbearing, and full of neutrality, without the slightest feeling of whispering, very sincere.

This generous, public apology made Xiaorou dumbfounded.

The standard posture, humble attitude, and sincere tone, although it is an apology, just show that a man can stretch and bend, and he should be generous!

Sometimes, taking the initiative to apologize is more face-saving and more pleasing than holding on.

Ming Tian's apology, although it failed to solve Cui Xinrou's knots, made Cui Xinrou admire.

Obviously, I'm still very upset about this man's insult to my father, but I can't hate it, what's going on?

Looking at the man in front of her, Cui Xinrou's heartbeat couldn't help but speed up a little, and she wanted to scold a few words, but as the saying goes, she doesn't hit a smiling person, how can she scold, she can only puff out her mouth and say angrily.

"You're like that... What's the use of telling me, tell my daddy. ”

Obviously, she jumped out to scold Mingtian just now, but Cui Xinrou was embarrassed to blame Mingtian, but she just sat down with a crimson face and didn't say a word.

One done.

Ming Tian straightened up, sat down, faced Cui Huijing, didn't give him a chance to speak, and raised his glass first: "General Cui, although what I said just now was said by my brother, but it is true that I, as his eldest brother, I usually discipline him badly, and I ask General Cui to forgive me, in order to show my sincerity, I will punish myself with three cups." ”

Immediately, after pouring three cups in a row, Ming Tian drank it all in one go.

Perfectly, I stated that what I just said was not my intention, but at the same time, I took the initiative to take responsibility and self-review.

Generous, sincere, responsible, the impression left by people will never be a nest, on the contrary, it will only be an excellent impression.

As for Anluo.

After saying such things, how could anyone make things difficult for him? On the contrary, these words also reminded An Luo of what he was wrong about.

Killing three birds with one stone, this embarrassment was naturally perfectly resolved by Mingtian.

Cui Huijing was heartwarming when she said this, and then looked at Ming Tian's bold appearance, where did Cui Huijing still have an embarrassed expression?

Instead, there is a happy face on the top of the eyebrows!

"Hey, Patriarch Xiao doesn't have to blame himself so much, indeed, it's me who didn't entertain me well, and I want to ask for your understanding."

Cui Huijing has been mixed for so many years, and it is not for nothing.

Since Ming Tian understands the art of communication, how can he not understand it?

As he spoke, he raised his glass and toasted three in return.

The atmosphere of harmony immediately returned.

Cui Huijing's is another art other than speaking: wine table culture!

To be honest, although Cui Huijing is now following Ming Tian, Ming Tian is still very sensible, because of himself, why don't he need to get Cui Huijing's power?

After three rounds of drinking, Ming Tian naturally never dared to slack off, talking and laughing with Cui Huijing, after a table of banquets, Cui Xinrou couldn't pick out Ming Tian's slightest thorn except for pouting angrily.

But...

"Oops."

Took a sip of wine and put down the chopsticks, I don't know why, probably a little drunk, Cui Huijing actually said something on a whim that made Ming Tian stunned.

"I was captured by Patriarch Xiao that day, I forgot the specific details, but... That plate of chicken wings really makes me think about it every day, if only I had the opportunity to eat it again. ”

Belch... That's a bit off-standard.

Ming Tian stayed there, carefully looked at Cui Huijing's greedy expression for a moment, and probably understood.

Well, after all, he is a rough man, and it is normal for him to drink and lose his words, it seems that he doesn't want me to cook, it's just an ordinary emotion.

In addition to the Chaos Ripper, Mingtian's greater hope is to be able to enhance his relationship with Cui Huijing.

This will be of great benefit to the future attack on Jiankang.

At this time, Cui Huijing's gaffe gave Ming Tian a great opportunity.

Without thinking about it, Ming Tian got up and arched his hand in front of everyone: "It's really my honor to let General Cui miss my cuisine so much, if you still want to eat, or... How about I cook it myself? ”

"What?!"

Hearing this, Cui Huijing was stunned: "Patriarch Xiao, is this true?" ”

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