Volume 8 Chapter 37 If the teaching is not strict, the teacher is lazy
After talking for a while, Mama Cui seemed to finally come back to her senses, glanced at Wei Yan, and said to the eldest grandson: "Niangniang, after listening to Lord Wei's words, the concubine is very guilty and blames herself in her body and mind. ”
Empress Changsun said: "No, Mr. is too modest, just like Ziyue said, this is just a difference between different methods, this is a discussion of methods, right, Ziyue?" ”
Wei Yan smiled and said, "Yes, Niangniang." This is a discussion, a discussion in which each person expresses his own opinion, and now it seems that Mr. Cui was convinced by me, right? ”
Cui Mama said: "Just now Lord Wei talked about what happened when she was a child, which made the concubine feel a lot of emotion, Princess Jinyang's temperament is indeed as Lord Wei said, and she doesn't need to be treated so harshly." It's just that the concubine body is also out of kindness, and only by being strict can she teach good disciples and live up to the emperor's grace, so the concubine will adhere to the principles that should be adhered to in the future, but she will change to another method. ”
Sure enough, it is stubborn that does not disappoint, looking at Mama Cui's appearance, Wei Yan suddenly remembered the two sentences in the "Three Character Classic" - the son does not teach, the father's fault, the teaching is not strict, and the teacher is lazy. It seems that this is a difference in concepts, not whether the practice is right or wrong, or a difference in educational concepts.
For a person who has been limited by this concept for decades, if you want her to change her views overnight, it is more difficult than letting the sow go up the tree, it is estimated that the sea is dry, the stone is rotten, and people should insist on it there, which is a common thing in ancient times, and people must insist on what should be insisted on. Faced with this difference in the times, Wei Yan could only shake his head and smile bitterly, although he wanted to jump over and knock on the girl's head to see if it was full of stones. Being principled is sometimes a good thing. Sometimes, it's really helpless to want to jump off the building.
Wei Yan didn't want to deal with Mama Cui anymore, so she simply turned her head and walked towards the little son, seeing that she was carefully and carefully collecting the embroidery pictures that Xie Jiu had helped draw, and wanted to choose one of them that she wanted to embroider and could embroider, frowning and thinking hard, not to mention how cute it was.
Wei Yan leaned over, tilted his head to look, and asked, "Haven't you chosen which one to embroider?" ”
The son looked up. He said to Wei Yan with a sad face: "Every one is so beautiful, I am afraid that the embroidery will not be good, and the embroidery will be broken." ”
Wei Yan smiled, deliberately turned his head to look around, looked sneaky, and whispered: "It's okay, come, I'll tell you secretly, my family Xie Jiu, when she first learned stimulation." Embroidered mandarin ducks like small balls on top of big balls, can you be worse than that? ”
"Small balls stacked on big balls?!"
The son obviously didn't understand very well, Li Zhi, who was eavesdropping on the two of them, was already snickering, Wei Yan pulled the pen and paper very directly, and said while drawing: "Look, the small ball is the head, the big ball is the body, isn't this a small ball stacking a big ball?" ”
The son laughed out loud, and when he laughed, he didn't seem to laugh when he laughed, so he smiled. Isn't it making fun of Xie Jiu? Hurriedly held back, holding back his little face red, and looked at Wei Yan with shyness. Wei Yan also laughed happily and said, "It's okay, my Xie Jiu said that she is really not suitable for learning embroidery." Come. Show me your work, let's compare it, I guess the little son should be very suitable. ”
"Well, however, the son's embroidery is not good, and Lord Wei is not allowed to laugh at others."
The little son hesitated, thought for a while, and looked at Wei Yan's sincere smile before agreeing. Squirmed and took out his embroidery work.
Wei Yan took a look. It's good, better than expected. At least, the little bird looks like a little bird, not a chicken, flowers and trees are still the way they should be, but occasionally the stitches are messy, and the traces of modification are heavier, which is a matter of technical proficiency, as far as an eight-year-old child is concerned, the embroidery is already quite good. Wei Yan raised his thumb without hesitation: "The embroidery is so good!" It's beautiful, it's beautiful! ”
The son blushed and lowered his head in praise and smiled with a small mouth. Just by looking at it, he knew that the stitching method was very complicated, and Wei Yan was dizzy for a while, so he simply asked his son for advice, where is the stitch used, what is the particularity, and how to embroider.
Don't look at the small son, when he talks about this, he talks about the Tao, how to go with every needle, he says it clearly, Wei Yan just listened, and felt that it was very complicated, let him fiddle with these, he would definitely not be able to bear it.
After the son finished speaking, Wei Yan smiled at her, turned his head to look at Mama Cui and Queen Eldest Sun on the side, and said, "Niangniang, Mr. Cui, I am a big man, I don't know embroidery and stitching, and I don't know if what my son said just now is right?" Otherwise, Mr. Cui will give a review. ”
Mama Cui looked at her son approvingly, and affirmed: "Lord Wei, what the princess said just now is correct. ”
Wei Yan smiled at the son again, and the smile made the little face of the son full of confusion, Wei Yan said: "Mr. Cui, since what the princess said is correct, does it mean that the princess has mastered the embroidery method?" ”
Cui Mama understood what Wei Yan meant at this time, her face became stiff, and she said seriously: "The princess can talk about all the stitches, which means that the princess has mastered the method, but she still needs to continue to lay the foundation and practice the basic skills, not only master the method, but also master the technique in order to embroider a good picture." ”
Wei Yan said: "Mr. Cui said so, so it seems that embroidery is a skilled job?" Is it to be practiced by accumulating time in time? ”
"Exactly." Mama Cui replied. Wei Yan showed a big smile, and turned to his son, "Son, do you hear that?" Mr. Cui said that you learned very well, and memorized the needle she taught you, although it is not proficient now, but as long as we practice diligently, one day the technology will go up, Mr. Cui said that the son learned very well. ”
"Really?"
The son's little face was immediately filled with the brilliance of expectation, and a pair of big eyes looked at Mama Cui with anticipation, as if she couldn't believe that Mama Cui would affirm her. Facing such a face, even Mama Cui couldn't be ruthless, stiffened her face, nodded, and said, "What Master Wei said is right." The princess is in good hands. ”
The son's face lit up, his eyes were shining, and he seemed to be full of energy, and he flew up all of a sudden, pursed his mouth and smiled happily, and saluted to Mama Cui: "Thank you, Mr. Cui, you are all taught well by Mr., Jinyang can learn, Mr. has worked hard." ”
This is very sincere. If it's someone else's words, it may be polite words, but what the son said, it's absolutely sincere, this little Lori is a good boy who is considerate and honest.
Mama Cui was stunned, her expression was very complicated, and she returned the courtesy of her son, and said, "The princess is polite, this is the result of the princess's efforts, but." The princess also still needs to improve, the shortcomings have just been said, please princess practice hard, let's work hard. ”
"Yes, sir." The son agreed very seriously, but it was obvious that she was in a good mood, and the shadow of being beaten just now seemed to have been swept away. Wei Yan secretly breathed a sigh of relief, although he couldn't change Cui's concept all at once. However, slowly proving it to her so solidly, Wei Yan believes that she will change her opinion after all, after all, Mama Cui is not a bad person, nor is she out of some perverted heart. It's just that the concept and way of being a person made her choose a stern way. In general, she is just a strict and rigid person, and even a little too serious, for the things she maintains, it is never allowed to be destroyed by others, and it is this kind of character that makes her frown at the way Wei Yan and her son get along with each other, and she is so worried about Xie Jiu's participation in the matter of His Majesty Li Er's order to release the palace maid. In Cui's opinion. These are signs of transgression, and the rules. It is what she clings to and protects. Although Wei Yan disagrees, he can understand.
The son was also happy, Mama Cui's concept has also been reversed a little, this trip is not without gain, Wei Yan is very satisfied, watching the son happily fiddle with those embroidery pictures, and also followed the silly fun, after the fun is over, I remembered that it was time to say goodbye and go back, and by the way, I told the son's mother about taking the two brothers and sisters out to play.
As soon as Wei Yan was about to speak, Empress Eldest Sun had already put down the teacup and said with a smile: "Today, the pheasant slave called Ziyue over, and I knew that Ziyue should be able to say some truth, so I came to listen to it and learn a lesson. ”
Wei Yan hurriedly said: "Niangniang has a good reputation, uh...... The minister is this nosy problem, if there is anything inappropriate and wrong, please ask the mother for guidance, please forgive the mother. ”
Empress Eldest Sun shook her head and said with a smile: "Ziyue has thought about it a lot, and there is nothing inappropriate to say, but there are often people who think deeply, get along with children, educate children, as Ziyue said, it is really a great knowledge, no wonder there are universities in overseas countries that ask people to specialize in how to educate children, in the future, please ask Ziyue to give more guidance in this regard, Cheng Qian is the prince, the king of a country in the future, and has his own majesty and the princess to educate, but there are a few pheasant slaves and sons, although they bear the status of princesses, But I still hope that they will become people like Ziyue said, respect the old and love the young, and be able to survive independently, and in the future, I hope Ziyue will do his best, and give more guidance to the pheasant slave and the son, the pheasant slave, the son, and thank you Lord Wei. ”
Li Zhi and his son came over obediently, and Li Zhi saluted Wei Yan like a little adult: "Master Xie Wei taught, in the future, please continue to teach the pheasant slave, so that the pheasant slave can be a good child who lives up to the expectations of his father and mother." ”
Wei Yan praised: "His Royal Highness the King of Jin is really filial, I don't know what Niang Niang and His Majesty think, but as far as I am a bystander, His Royal Highness has done a good job, of course, we can't stop here, we have to move forward in the direction like there is no best, only a better direction, right?" ”
Li Zhi smiled and nodded, Li Zhi finished doing it, and his son also followed: "Thank you, Lord Wei, thank you Lord Wei for always being so good to your son." ”
Wei Yan smiled and said, "Am I good to you?" ”
"Of course!"
"Then I think my son is also very good to me, so neither of us has to thank anyone!"
"However, the queen mother wants her son to thank Master Wei, and Lord Wei also said to his son that if someone is good to him, he should also be grateful."
Wei Yan was choked by what he had said, holding his mouth, looking like he didn't know what to say, which made Empress Changsun laugh for a while, but he didn't help him out of the siege, but instead looked like he was watching his good show, Wei Yan just wanted to look up to the sky and sigh, Empress Changsun, you are a good woman who has been famous for thousands of years, you can't do such an unkind thing.
Seeing that no one was ready to save him, Wei Yan could only continue to rely on himself, thought about it, and said: "Let's put it this way, some people don't have to say thank you often, if they talk too much, they will seem to be angry." For example, let's do it! We've known each other for so long, we've played together so many times, what good playmates, right? If I keep saying thank you to my son, will my son be happy? ”
The son thought about it very seriously and said, "I'm not very happy, but Master Wei didn't do anything wrong, why is the son still unhappy?" ”
Wei Yan smiled and said: "I'm like this too, if my son keeps saying thank you, I'll be unhappy, the reason, wait for my son to slowly understand, wait for my son to understand, understand, and then tell me, okay?" ”
"Hmm!" The son solemnly agreed, this is a child who values commitment. Wei Yan smiled, stood up, and said to Empress Changsun: "Niangniang, now that the matter is over, Your Majesty has a small request here, I don't know if Niangniang can agree." ”
Empress Changsun said: "Your Majesty said that other people's requests, just think twice, but Wei Ziyue's request is not enough to think six times, Ziyue will talk about it first, and then make a decision after the palace listens." ”
Wei Yan was speechless, he just wanted to look up at the roof and study if there were any cobwebs or something. With a long sigh in his heart, Wei Yan straightened his spirits and said: "Niangniang, in the next few days, Weichen will have a month's vacation, and there will be some time to return to the capital, tomorrow, Weichen wants to take King Jin, Princess Zizi, Princess Gaoyang, and my family's two little hairy heads, my wife will go out together, I don't know if Niangniang is here, can I let it go?" ”
Empress Changsun didn't seem to expect Wei Yan to say this, so she sighed slightly and said: "This matter, let's talk about it after returning to the capital, Lord Wei has just returned from an adventure, and now Luoyang is not as good as Beijing, and it is important to be stable." ”
In other words, going out to play has failed, Wei Yan looked at Li Zhi and his son with regret on his face, everything is for his safety, who made him an unlucky guy who has just experienced a kidnapping!