(a)

After Kaohsiung and Su got married, the relationship between the two parties has not been very good, which is a well-known fact in the circle of friends. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

The reason for this state of affairs, everyone believes, is not Sue.

Su's performance after marriage is completely the performance of a normal woman. The problem lies in Kaohsiung. Kaohsiung is no ordinary man.

It should be said that he is still polite to Su in his behavior, but he often makes Su's heart stabbed with holes.

That's not a test that ordinary women can accept.

Kaohsiung has always had a lot of women outside, and there are constant scandals, which make Su often feel embarrassed and humiliated in her social life.

Su gave Kaohsiung the greatest tenderness and tolerance that a woman who loved him could give, but she also had her limits.

They later separated for a while, and the divorce has come to the level of lawyers and property division.

However, after their children were born one after another, the relationship between the two parties improved a little, and a certain tacit understanding of estrangement was reached. The crisis of divorce seems to be far away, but the scars in Su's heart are still there.

Like other people in my circle of friends, I only vaguely know that the relationship between them is not very good, but I don't know the specific details. Kaohsiung rarely took the initiative to talk to me about what happened with Su. It is often when I hear rumors that I am upset with Su and take the initiative to mention it to him, and he will say a few words.

There are a few things that can confirm that they are not very harmonious between husband and wife:

(b)

There are often rumors about my friendship with Kaohsiung that we are more than just friends and partners. Rumor has it that I am one of the many mistresses in Kaohsiung.

Sue was apparently aware of the rumors as well. But she never expressed any resentment with me. Every time we met, she was thoughtful and courteous and a pleasure to get along with.

But before the two of us bought a holiday villa together, she still couldn't completely let go and eliminate doubts in her heart. Because she didn't say it explicitly, I didn't have a chance to explain it to her.

I didn't want to explain it to her. Because, if you want to explain it clearly, then you have to tell her all about the past, tell her about your last days, and touch the most painful place in my heart.

I don't want to touch that pain. Therefore, Su Ruo didn't know what to say, so I pretended that she didn't have a lump in her breasts.

One day, Su invited Kaohsiung to a wedding party for a friend in the fashion industry.

Gao Xiong looked at the letter absentmindedly and said to her: "I have something important to go elsewhere tomorrow, and I'm sorry I can't accompany you." ”

Sue couldn't help but say, "You always have to go somewhere else!" When you're with me, you always have to go somewhere else! Every time you come home, the first thing you want to do when you walk in the door is to find an excuse to go out! ”

Su said, "Even if I'm lying in bed, you just have something to go elsewhere!" ”

Kaohsiung raised his head and looked at Su: "There must be a basis for speaking." Sue. When did you last breathe when I happened to have something to do somewhere else? ”

Su was speechless for a while. Then she said, "If you find it unbearable in this family, why did you agree to start a family in the first place?" ”

Kaohsiung said: "Because you wanted to start a family with me. I can't bear to let such a lovely woman be disappointed again and again. ”

Su looked at Kaohsiung and was speechless again.

Kaohsiung walked over, patted Sue on the shoulder and said, "Su, you are a wise woman." You have to understand that women are docks and men are boats. Ships will always need docks, and they can't be adrift on the sea forever. But you can't expect a good ship to always stop at the dock, and you can't expect to always stop at the same dock. ”

Su endured and endured, and finally couldn't help but say, "So, what kind of dock is she?" When you're with her, you never want to go anywhere else. ”

Kaohsiung stared at Su for a while and replied, "Su, the arguments of punishing the heart are all self-torture. I hope you don't get caught up in the habit. ”

Kaohsiung said: "The relationship between her and me, the relationship between you and me, these two are completely different. It cannot be used for comparison. ”

Kaohsiung said: "She is not a pier. She is the ocean. Completely different from you, she never minded me coming and going, and never thought of leaving me behind. ”

This conversation between their husband and wife was later told to me by Su herself.

Su said to me: "Kaohsiung is a person with a sense of doom in his bones. Moreover, he is slightly self-deprecating and does not resist this sense of apocalypse. ”

I resonate with her statement.

(c)

Su and Kaohsiung's wedding second anniversary party.

Kaohsiung took the stage with a large bouquet of flowers, and he held Su in his arms. He kissed Sue's fingertips and cheek deeply. He posed for a photo with Sue.

Applause. Praise.

Kaohsiung faced relatives and friends and delivered a speech into the microphone and said: "Dear Su, just now I dedicated a large bouquet of flowers to you, who is beautiful and outstanding. You must understand that this party and this flower are all to meet the expectations of your relatives and friends. It's meant to make everyone happy. And the following sentence, I give you, is to make you happy, it is a real gift, I hope you remember it. ”

Kaohsiung said: "Tell you, no matter when, don't lean on me." Sue. Don't have such illusions at any time. Because, I, I'm not reliable. ”

Su looked at Kaohsiung and didn't know how to react.

All the guests heard this sentence of Kaohsiung clearly. There was silence for a while. Then, everyone unanimously decided, pretending not to hear it.

(iv)

It didn't take long for me to hear about it in social circles.

The next time I met Kaohsiung, I asked Kaohsiung, "Why do you have that attitude towards Su?" ”

Kaohsiung said: "I'm not embarrassing her. I'm genuinely helping her. ”

I said, "That's also called helping?" Help what? ”

Kaohsiung said: "Help extinguish one of her fantasies. ”

I said, "Fantasy? ”

Kaohsiung: "Being good to her for a while doesn't mean that you will be good to her for the rest of your life." ”

I said, "You made vows to each other at your wedding. ”

Kaohsiung said: "If you swear to be good to her, you may not really be good to her." ”

I looked at him speechlessly.

Kaohsiung said: "This is also a help to myself, and it is also to extinguish one of my own illusions. ”

I was puzzled and said, "Your own? ”

Kaohsiung said, "That's right. Extinguish one of my own fantasies. Just because I've always been nice to someone doesn't mean that that person will be nice to you just as well. ”

(5)

Many people in the social circle once believed that Kaohsiung was a prodigal son in life.

But I never saw him that way.

His heart, in fact, has a warmth that outsiders don't know.

He was just showing himself as a prodigal son, and that's it.