Section 115 Six Wedding Ceremonies

His mind drifted slowly, continuing to unfold his imagination. Finally he went home, and after all his mixed feelings, he finally had a solid sense of belonging. The drizzle returned to stand in front of a woman, a little sudden, but too surprising. He has been away for three years, and his wife has been at home for three years, and their hardships are the same, and their feelings are the same. When the woman saw him, she sighed deeply and hurriedly welcomed her husband in. She had just cleaned and repaired the house when her husband returned. At this time, there should be a thousand words and thousands of feelings between them, but no matter how many words there are, no matter how complicated the feelings are, in the end they only turned into one sentence: It has been three years since you left me. The words are so plain, but the feelings are infinitely deep.

He's home, and he's finally able to live an ordinary life. Peace brings the greatest happiness to the people, young men and women are married, the ceremony is solemn, the bride is ashamed, and the groom is smiling. The yellow warbler shines with its beautiful feathers and flies like wings. Such joy does not belong only to the couple, but to all. He remembered how beautiful his wife was when she got married. Now those loving couples who have been separated and reunited for a long time are not even more gratified?

There is no need to sing the praises of peace with words, nor do we need to use words to praise those who pay the price for peace, and to sing praises of a good life is the most practical and sincere praise of peace.

This is his imagination of a better life on the way home, can his wish come true?

Since my expedition to Dongshan, my wish to return home has been empty for a long time. Now I am returning from Dongshan, and the sky is full of light rain and fog. I said that I wanted to return from the east mountain, and I was sad and flew west early. Make a piece of home-style clothes, and no longer have military ranks. Wild silkworms curl up trees to climb, and the fields and mulberry forests are its home. Sleeping in the open will be curled up and sleep under the car.

Since my expedition to Dongshan, my wish to return home has been empty for a long time. Now I am returning from Dongshan, and the sky is full of light rain and fog. Melons were formed on the vines of the tower, and the vines climbed under the eaves. The house is damp and raw ticks, and spiders build webs as door hangings. The deer trails are left on the field, and the phosphorus fire flashes at night. It's not terrible to have a desolate home, and the more you feel homesick.

Since my expedition to Dongshan, my wish to return home has been empty for a long time. Now I am returning from Dongshan, and the sky is full of light rain and fog. The white stork cried softly on the mound, and my wife sighed in the house. Sprinkle and sweep the rat holes in the house, hoping that I will go home early. The gourd was cut in half, and no one cared about the pyre. I don't see the old things, and it's been three years since I came here.

Since my expedition to Dongshan, my wish to return home has been empty for a long time. Now I am returning from Dongshan, and the sky is full of light rain and fog. At that time, the yellow warbler was flying, and the yellow warbler had a glow in its feathers. The man came through the door to be a bride, and the horse was white and yellow. The mother wore a scarf for her daughter, and the wedding ceremony was complicated. How beautiful is the newlyweds, and what should the reunion become!

Title: A bamboo stick is attached to the mouth during the march to ensure that there is no sound

"Broken Axe": Water can carry a boat, but it can also capsize a boat

The Zhou Gong's crusade lasted three years, and finally put down the rebellion and gave the people a peaceful life. The common people of the four countries of Guan Guo, Cai Guo, Yin State, and Xian Guo wrote this poem to praise him in order to thank Zhou Gong for his merits.

Both axes and 斨 (qiāng) are the production tools of the people, and they are the dependence of the people to create wealth and sustain their livelihoods. However, due to the long years of labor of the kings of the four countries, these tools were destroyed, and the people's household income fell into hardship, and the people were deeply resentful, and life was difficult and difficult. But the road to heaven and earth finally has a turning point, and there is finally hope, because Zhou Gong led his troops to the east. As a result of the Zhou Gong's crusade, the rebels of the four kingdoms fell into panic and panic. Zhou Gong was sympathetic to the people and was a sage who really thought about the people.

If the people in the diaspora can return to their homes, reunite with their families, and unite the people, the country will naturally be strong and stable. The Eastern Crusade of Zhou Gong quelled the rebellion, and for the soldiers of the Eastern Crusade, the sacrifice was very large; But for the rulers and the common people, this is a wise and righteous act, and it is indeed worthy of praise.

Peace is the eternal theme:

Those old men have broken my axe, and they have mutilated me. The Duke of Zhou led his army to the east, and the monarchs of the four countries were all terrified. Zhou Gong took pity on us civilians, how benevolent and virtuous it was.

Those old men have broken my axe and crippled my wit. Duke Zhou led the army to the east, and the people of the four countries were deeply infected by indoctrination. Zhou Gong took pity on us civilians, how kind it was.

Those old men have broken my axe and crippled my skull. Zhou Gong led the army to the east, and the people of the four countries reunited and lived peacefully. Zhou Gong has mercy on us civilians, which is a great grace.

錡 (qí) 銶 (qiú)

Vake: Accomplishing a good deed requires a reasonable process

A man saw a woman he liked, and he hurriedly told the matchmaker to talk about the matchmaker; Under the diligent persuasion of the matchmaker, the marriage was finally decided; The man arranged a grand wedding ceremony and married the woman he liked.

The pre-Qin period was the formative period of traditional Chinese marriage culture, and this period was also a transitional stage in ancient Chinese marriage problems. The Duke of Zhou formulated rituals to regulate people's behavior. Marriage is the foundation of the formation of the family, and it is also the basis for the existence and development of society. Therefore, marriage was included in the category of etiquette very early, and the core system of dowry marriage was established. The matchmaker also became a special official position, in charge of the marriage affairs of the people. The orders of parents and the words of matchmakers began to enter the lives of the people with the help of rights, and formed a stereotype to affect the married life of future generations.

The Book of Rites reads: Weddings are a matter of inheritance, and they are also a matter of reproduction to infinity. It emphasizes that marriage, which has evolved through a long period of primitive society, has become the premise of the existence and development of human society, and is the eternal existence of society. After hundreds of years of development and evolution, dowry, as a marriage system generally accepted by the society, gradually occupied the dominant position of social marriage and became the mainstream of marriage at that time.

Matchmakers play a very important role in the process of dowry. It is recorded in the Book of Rites that in order to complete a marriage, it is necessary to perform six rites, namely, Nacai, asking for names, Najib, Nazheng, inviting and greeting. Nacai means that the man wants to marry the woman, and the man sends a matchmaker to the woman's house to propose marriage and give gifts to propose; Asking for a name means that after the man's family performs the ceremony, he asks the matchmaker to ask the woman's name, date of birth and time, so as to facilitate the man's divination and inquiry, determine the good fortune and evil, and decide whether to marry or not; Najib is the etiquette for the man to inform the woman of the auspicious sign of the marriage after asking the name and combining the eight characters, and to give gifts to express the engagement.