vs 442 In front of his parents and in-laws

All the members of the house, both men and women, should get up and wash their hands and gargle their mouths when the rooster crows, and put away their pillows, sprinkle water and sweep the floor, and clean the chambers and courts, and lay out their seats, and each man do his own thing.

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∮ the fastest updated novel, a child who has not yet gone to school can go to bed early and wake up late as he pleases, and there is no fixed time for eating.

If the son has a priest or above, he must live in a different courtyard from his father.

At dawn, I went to my parents to say good morning and offered something delicious to show my filial piety.

After the sun comes out, you can retire to your parents, and then you can do your own thing.

When the sun goes down, I have to go to my parents to say goodnight and bring something delicious to offer.

When the parents and in-laws are about to sit down and rest, the son and daughter-in-law will hold the mat and ask which side to spread; If they want to change their sleeping quarters, the elder of the children should hold the mat and ask which side it is to make. If they want to change their sleeping place, the elder of the children should hold the sleeping seat and ask which end of the foot is facing, and then the younger of the children will move the bed and the wife of the family will sit on it.

At this time, the waiter brought in a few cases for the parents and in-laws to follow, and then sorted out the housekeeping for them, put away the big mat and the close-fitting bamboo mat, hung the quilt, put the pillow into the box, and collected the close-fitting bamboo mat.

The clothes, quilts, bamboo mats, pillows of the parents-in-law should not be moved casually, so as not to bother looking for them when they are used; Their canes and shoes are to be kept away from them, and not to be moved; The vessels of their food and drink, the divination did not dare to use them when they ate the rest of their meals; The things of their daily diet, and the rest of what they eat, no one dares to touch.

If the parents are still alive, their son and daughter-in-law will help them eat the rest of their meals for breakfast and dinner every day.

If you have eaten, you must eat cleanly, and there shall be no more left.

If the father dies and the mother is still alive, the eldest son will take care of the breakfast and dinner every day, and the mother will eat the rest by the younger brother and sister-in-law, and the same must be eaten, and there will be no more leftovers.

Delicious and easily digestible food, if parents can't finish it, it's up to the little ones to eat it.

In front of their parents and in-laws, if they have something to call, they must first use "only"

Say yes, and then respectfully reply.

In front of his parents and in-laws, he had to be dignified when he went in and out, and he had to lean over when he ascended and descended the stairs and entered and exited the door.

In front of my parents and in-laws, I didn't dare to burp, I didn't dare to sneeze and cough, I didn't dare to yawn and stretch, I didn't dare to lean left and right, I didn't dare to squint, I didn't dare to spit and touch my nose.

In front of them, I didn't dare to put on my clothes when I felt cold, and I didn't dare to scratch when my body was itchy.

In front of them, divination did heavy work for the elderly, and did not dare to strip and show their arms; It's not wading, and I don't dare to lift my clothes.

If you find that your parents have saliva and snot on their faces, you should help wipe them off in time.

When their crowns were dirty, they were washed with ash dipped in the ashes; When their garments were dirty, they were washed with ashes; When there was a tear in their garment, they sewed it up with a needle and thread, and every five days they were bathed in hot water, and every three days they were allowed to wash their heads.

During this period, if the face is dirty, boil hot rice water to let them wash their face; If your feet are dirty, boil some hot water for them to wash their feet.

The younger serve the elderly, and the lowly serve the noble, and do according to the etiquette of sons and daughters-in-law serving their parents and in-laws.

Men don't talk about things that should be cared for and done by women, and women don't talk about things that should be cared for and done by men.

If it is not for the holding of sacrifices and funerals, men and women are not allowed to pass things by hand.

If something must be delivered, then the woman has to use a bamboo basket to carry it.

If there is no basket, the person who delivers the object sits down and places it on the ground, and then the person who receives it sits down and takes it off the ground.

Men and women no longer draw water from the same well, bathe in the same bathroom, do not share the same bed, do not ask each other for borrowing, and do not mix the clothes of men and women.

What is said inside the boudoir cannot be transmitted to the outside, and what is said outside the boudoir cannot be transmitted to the boudoir.

When a man enters the inner house, he must not boo or point with his finger, lest the man feel sneaky.

Light torches when walking at night, and don't go out without torches.

When a woman goes out, she should cover her face with objects, and if she is walking at night, she should light a torch, otherwise she should not go out, lest people make irresponsible remarks.

Walking, men walk on the right and women on the left.

If a son and a daughter-in-law want to have a good reputation of filial piety, they must not disobey the will of their parents and in-laws, and do not slack off.

If the parents and in-laws tell them to eat, although the sons and daughters-in-law don't like to eat, they should taste less, and wait until the parents and in-laws notice that they don't like to eat, and then stop talking.

Their parents and in-laws gave them clothes, and even if they didn't want to wear them, they had to put them on temporarily, and they could only take them off when their parents and in-laws said to put them away.

Although I don't want someone to replace me, I have to leave it to the person who replaces me to do it, and when the person who replaces it does things badly, I can calmly clean it up from the beginning.

When the son and daughter-in-law are working hard, the parents and in-laws feel very sorry for them, so they must persuade them not to rush so hard, and would rather let them rest a few more times.

If the son and daughter-in-law do not honor their in-laws, there is no need to be angry and complain, you can educate them first.

If education doesn't work, then they can be punished; If the punishment does not work, then the son is thrown out of the house and the daughter-in-law is adjourned.

Even so, they should not be openly said to others, so as not to publicize the ugliness of the family.

When parents make mistakes, the son should admonish in a low voice and with a pleasant face.

If the counsel does not work, the son should be more respectful and filial, and wait until they are happy to admonish again.

Another admonition may also cause the displeasure of the parents, but rather than let the parents offend the township party and the state, it is better to offend the majesty of the elder.

If you offend the majesty of the elders and cause your parents to be angry and beat yourself to the point of bleeding, then you don't dare to be angry and complain, and the second is to be more respectful and filial.

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