vs 34 The benefits of being a gentleman

Whoever comes to see me, as long as he can voluntarily give ten pieces of dried meat as a gift, I will teach him. I teach my students that I won't enlighten them until they have to figure it out. When he wants to say it but can't say it, it won't inspire him; I will not teach him this kind of student who cannot draw inferences from one aspect of the other, but he cannot deduce the other three things. Confucius ate next to the mourners, and he never had enough. If Confucius wept because of mourning on this day, then he would not have sung again on this day.

With me, I'll do it; Without me, I'll stay aside; Such feelings are only shared by me and Yan Hui. Zilu asked Confucius: Master, if you were to command the three armies, who would you like to work with? Confucius replied: I will fight with a tiger with my bare hands, cross the river directly without a boat, and I will not regret it when I die. The kind of people I work with are people who become fearful and cautious when faced with a task, who are good at scheming, and who are able to get the job done in the end.

Wealth can be pursued if it is in accordance with the way, although sometimes it is an inferior errand for people to be whipped, and I am willing to do it; If wealth is not in line with the Tao, you don't have to pursue it, so it's better to do things according to your hobbies! Confucius was careful about three things, which were fasting, war, and sickness. When Confucius heard the music of "Shao" when he was in the Qi Kingdom, he was so intoxicated by it that he could not taste the taste of meat for a long time, and he praised: I can't imagine that the music of "Shao" is so beautiful that it has reached the point of charm.

Ran You asked Zigong: Do you say that the teacher will help the monarch of the country to do things? Zigong replied: Hmm... I'll ask him; So Zigong walked to Confucius's room and asked, "Teacher, what kind of people do you think Boyi and Shuqi are?" Confucius replied: O ancient sages! Zigong asked again: Then did they have a grudge? After hearing this, Confucius pondered for a moment and replied: What they seek is benevolence, and they get benevolence, why do they have resentment? After Zigong saluted, he walked out of Confucius, came back and said to Ran You: The teacher will not help Wei Jun. Confucius said: Eat coarse grains, drink white water, bend your arms as pillows, and the fun will be in it; The riches obtained by unfair means are like clouds in the sky to me. When Confucius talked about the Book of Changes, he said: In a few years, when I study the Book of Changes when I am fifty years old, I will probably be able to understand it very well.

Ye Gong asked Zilu about Confucius and wanted to know what kind of person Confucius was, but Zilu didn't answer for a while; After Confucius learned about it, he hurriedly said to Zilu: You can say this, he is a person who works hard in his studies, sometimes he even forgets to eat, and he is so happy that he forgets all his worries, and he doesn't even know that he is about to get old, am I not like this! Confucius said: I was not born with learning, but I loved ancient things, and I was diligent and agile in seeking knowledge. When Confucius talked about problems, he did not touch on the aspects of weirdness, violence, chaos, ghosts and gods. When Confucius read the Book of Songs, recited the Book of Songs, and praised the ceremony, he used elegant words. (Yayan is the opposite of dialects, which is equivalent to today's Mandarin in meaning)

A few people walk together, and one of them must be my teacher; I will learn good qualities from him, and when I see his bad points, I will use this as a lesson to correct my own shortcomings. When Confucius passed through the Song Kingdom, he once taught his disciples to salute under a big tree, and Huan Wei (tuí) brought a group of people to cut down the surrounding big trees to harass Confucius; Confucius left the place under the protection of a large number of students; Confucius smiled and said: God has given me virtue, what can Huan Wei do to me? The disciples of Confucius felt that Confucius was supreme and could not learn his essence, and some people wondered if the teacher had concealed it; Confucius understood what his disciples were thinking, and said, "Children, do you think I am hiding something from you? No, am I not with you all day? Haven't I always been like this? Confucius usually taught his students the four contents of literature, conduct, loyalty, and faithfulness.

It is impossible for me to see a saint in my life, but it is enough to see a gentleman; It is impossible for me to see good people, but it is enough to see people who are consistent and virtuous. It is very difficult for a person who does not have the perseverance to maintain good character, who pretends to be full of emptiness, and who pretends to be rich when he is poor. When Confucius fished, he only used a fishing rod with one hook, instead of a large rope with many hooks; When shooting birds, they only shoot flying birds, and never shoot birds that rest in their nests. There is such a person, who may not understand anything, but he creates out of thin air there, but I have never done that; Listen more and choose the best things to learn; Seeing more, and then keeping the useful in mind, is the second order of wisdom.

Confucius found it difficult to talk to the people in that place, but Confucius met a boy in the township, and the students were puzzled; Confucius explained with a smile: I am affirming his progress, not his regression; Why go too far? In order to make progress, people have corrected their mistakes, so we should affirm him and not cling to his past. Confucius said: Is benevolence really far away from us? No way! Whenever I think of Jen, Jen comes.

Chen Sifu asked Confucius: Does Lu Zhaogong understand etiquette? Confucius replied: Yes. After Confucius left, Chen Sifu made a gesture to Wu Ma Qi beside him, asking him to stay closer to him. Chen Siwei said to Wu Ma Qi: I heard that a gentleman has no partiality, does a gentleman still protect others? Lu Jun married a woman with the same surname as his wife in the state of Wu, and she was the same surname of the monarch, and the monarch called her Wu Mengzi. If Lu Jun is considered to be polite, then who else does not know etiquette? Later, Wu Ma Qi relayed this sentence to Confucius. After hearing this, Confucius smiled and said, "I am really lucky, if I make a mistake, others will definitely bring it up."

When Confucius sang with others, if he heard them sing well, he would definitely ask him to sing it again and sing with him. As far as the knowledge in books is concerned, I have mastered it almost the same as others, and I still can't really be a gentleman who practices it. When it comes to holiness and benevolence, then how dare I! However, the direction of pilgrimage and benevolence has been working hard, and this is something I have never been tired of; Teaching others, I never felt tired, this is something I can admit; After hearing this, Gong Xihua sighed: This is exactly what we can't learn!