Che 舝 (xiá): A satisfied scholar

A scholar, who drove his own car, without a guard of honor and an entourage, walked on the way to the bride, telling the joy of marrying the wife and the longing for the couple.

The carriage and horses were closed, and the sound of the marriage car began, and with the sound of the carriage and horse, the girl who had been thinking about it for a long time was about to get married, which revealed the ecstatic feelings he had accumulated for a long time. However, he naively stated that the reason for his rejoicing was not that the pleasure of men and women was about to be satisfied, but that he admired the virtues of women, and that he loved virtue more than beauty. Of course, this is just that he "has no silver three hundred taels here", so he couldn't help but say: Although there is no congratulations from relatives and friends, the joy in his heart is only understood by himself.

The scholar drove the wedding car across the jungle, in the middle of the forest, he saw pairs of pheasants, thought of the woman in his car, coupled with her beautiful upbringing and morality, made him feel agitated, and swore that I love you for life! The man sincerely confided in the woman: Although my family does not have good food and wine, and I do not have noble morals, I have a heart that loves you. The words of the scholars are simple and unpretentious, and they are also sincere and touching.

The wedding car entered the high mountain, where there are lush oak trees, and the soft and bright green leaves on the oak trees are the best metaphor for a beautiful and lovely bride. The scholar is very fond of the bride, so he bluntly said: I am really comfortable with you today, and all the troubles in my heart have been eliminated. The wedding car crossed the mountain and entered the road, the scholar looked up at the mountain, overlooked the road, faced with the couple, full of love, he couldn't help but say from the bottom of his heart: the majestic mountains need to look up, and the flat avenues need to gallop. The bride's beautiful form and steadfast virtue are as admirable and desirable as the mountain road. The scholars are full of affection, and their beautiful and harmonious life after marriage can be imagined.

The wheels turned, and the charming girl wanted to leave the cabinet. No longer fantasize about comforting my heart, there is a virtuous lady to meet. Although I don't have good friends, I celebrate and drink together.

The jungle is dense and full of plains, and the long-tailed golden pheasant perches on the trees. The woman was strong and beautiful, virtuous and educated. It's really pleasant to feast and drink, and the love is endless.

I don't have that good wine, but I wish you could drink one. I don't have that good dish, but I hope you can eat some. Although virtue is difficult to match you, come and sing and dance.

Climb the high hill, and split the branches as firewood. The oak branches are split for firewood, and the leaves are lush and full of treetops. At this time, I can receive you, and all the troubles in my heart will disappear.

The majestic mountains should be looked up, and the flat avenues can be galloped. Drive the four horses quickly, pulling the reins like tuning the strings of the piano. Today, I met a newlywed lady, and I was full of joy and called it a beautiful thing.

"Blue Fly": Slander is very harmful

As an annoying insect, flies have the habits of chasing odor and rotting, spreading germs, buzzing, etc., and these habits are the same as those of those who seek cracks in the world to slander others. It is very appropriate to use the fly as a metaphor for a slanderer, who flies around and keeps sowing chaos, and the behavior of the slanderer is the same. Flies bite when they see a crack and do not give up, giving people a lingering sense of disgust.

Therefore, a righteous man and a gentleman should not listen to slander. The first is that it will disturb the relations between neighboring countries, which is the so-called disaster for the country and the people. The second harm is to sow discord among friends, so that friends and confidants dislike each other and turn against each other. And these two evils are all due to the fact that there is no standard for slander, and there is no certain standard for the conduct of those who engage in slander.

Buzzing the flies flying in the camp, stopping on the fence and licking non-stop. O amiable gentleman, do not listen to harmful slander.

The flies that buzzed and flew in the camp stopped on the jujube trees and sucked non-stop. Slanderous words have no standards and have thrown their neighbors into chaos.

Buzzing and fluttering flies, stopping in the hazel bushes and licking non-stop. There is no standard for slanderous words, which makes you and me look at each other.

"The First Feast of Guests": A banquet that conforms to and violates etiquette

During the reign of King You of Zhou, the state government was deserted, and the monarchs and ministers indulged in wine banquets. As a subordinate of King You, Duke Wei Wu inevitably attended the banquet with King You. At the banquet, King Zhou You lost his manners, lost his words, and lost his morality after drinking, and there was a series of indecent behaviors, but Wei Wugong did not dare to speak out. Later, Wu Gong put forward a proposal against excessive drinking, which was used to repent and warn himself, and hoped that the king of You would hear and correct his mistakes a little.

A proper banquet is as follows: the guests are seated after the banquet, the host and guest are seated separately, and the food utensils are placed very neatly. Musical archery cheers, and hosts and guests toast each other. The music is harmonious and beautiful, the dance is light and entertaining, and the thoughtful etiquette is full of affection. The atmosphere of the whole banquet is joyful, harmonious and cheerful, and the host and guests are relaxed and natural.

A banquet that violates etiquette is that at the beginning of the banquet, the host and guests are gentle and courteous, and when they are not drunk, they can be called majestic and solemn. When the host and guests were drunk, the majesty and solemnity were gone, and everyone left their seats and ran around, and the ugliness was full of unruliness. The whole house was drunk, shouting and shouting, and the food utensils were also messed up. People are swaying from side to side and don't know what is wrong and absurd.

Therefore, some precautions must be paid attention to at the banquet, and a wine supervisor must be set up to supervise the host and guests to drink, and if you are drunk, don't persuade you to drink, so as not to be contemptuous and willful when drunk. At a banquet, don't speak if you shouldn't speak, and don't speak up if you don't speak out against the law. For those who don't know the etiquette of drinking, after three drinks, don't persuade him anymore.

China's food culture is splendid, and the wine culture and tea culture are about the most eye-catching, they have a long history and rich connotations, which can almost be said to be a concrete and micro epitome of Chinese civilization.

When the guests come to the first seat, the host and guest sit in the division of things. The food utensils are placed neatly, and the fish, meat, melons and fruits are placed there. Since the wine is sweet and mellow, the guests are ready to drink. The bells and drums have been erected, and the toast will not stop. The big target has been hung up, and the bow and arrow are all salute. The shooters are ready, please offer your marksmanship. The arrow hit the bull's-eye, and I secretly rejoiced when you drank the penalty wine.

Dancing and drumming, the music is harmonious and soft. Offering music and dance to entertain the ancestors, the ceremony is thoughtful and affectionate. All kinds of etiquette have been exhausted, and it is not enough to say that the grandeur and richness are enough. The gods love you and bless you, and your children and grandchildren will enjoy themselves in peace. Harmony is cheerful and joyful, and each shows his skills, not conservative. The guests choose to compete with each other, and the host joins behind. Pour wine and fill the empty cup and offer it to the archer in it.

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