Dear Daughter,

During the family meeting, you told your parents that you wanted to be a trainee, and your father was really shocked, and your mother was even more shocked. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info After your explanation, we only know what a trainee is, such as Zhang Yixing, Huang Zitao, etc. At that time, after some arguments, I couldn't completely convince you, and you also felt very aggrieved, and left tears many times. The next day, because you're going to school and your mom is going to work, you and mom are going to town. I've been thinking about this question since I got to work at the unit, and I've consulted the relevant personnel. Dad has a lot of things to say to you, but he is afraid that the verbal expression is not clear and detailed, so he thinks it is safer to write a letter, which is also convenient for you to read and think about it a few more times.

First of all, let's talk about the back of what you want to be a trainee. Three aspects of the problem are reflected. You said that you have to fight, which is right, life is not exciting. This shows that you have a strong desire to grow, become a talent, and succeed, and you are also eager to prove that you are worthy, and want to be recognized by your parents, classmates, and society. At the same time, it also shows that your life has goals, dreams, dreams can be motivated, goals can be pressure, and the country still talks about the Chinese dream. Mom and Dad are very pleased with this and applaud you. But behind the dream, you say that you want to make your debut, and after your debut, the dream must always shine into reality. I also checked the relevant information. In Baidu Encyclopedia, the trainees are introduced like this: trainees are a method of discovering new artists in Japan and South Korea, and they are well known to the public in South Korea, almost every entertainment company has a rookie reserve, and the company conducts regular auditions according to the plan, and the trainees are called graduate students or specific titles in Japan. The selection method is a draft or a talent scout. At the same time, the encyclopedia also introduces its so-called "unspoken rules",In fact, it should be called "clear rules",There are 5 in total,For example, the training content is very cruel、Become a slave after signing a contract、Plastic surgery before debut, etc.,I can send it to your QQ space,Take a look。 And it doesn't mean that you can be selected if you sign up, Zhao Liying entered the showbiz because she won the championship of Feng Xiaogang in the Yahoo Star Search Competition, Zhang Yixing participated in the Hunan Economic Television "Star Academy" competition in 2005 and won the championship in the finals, and only became a trainee of an entertainment company through selection, Li Yifeng also entered the showbiz after graduating from Sichuan Normal University. What you have to do now is to turn yourself into an "iron pestle" and a "jade", so that in the future it is possible to be sharpened into a "needle" and made into a "beautiful jade".

But more importantly, it shows that the communication between us is not smooth, I usually pay more attention to your learning, and I am aware of your spare time, but I always think that you can treat it correctly and do not intervene more. I hope you, me and your mother, the three of us will communicate more and listen to your heart. The process of communication is the process of heart-to-heart, the process of communication is the process of collision of ideas, and I hope you can be more cheerful, more lively, and more talkative.

In order for you to see things and problems better, let's make a comparison. The first is that you compare yourself to your aunt's child, she wants to learn fashion design, she doesn't want to go to high school, she wants to go to junior high school. This wish is more realistic, but Dad feels that the starting point is lower, if she can be admitted to the university to choose a fashion design major, may be closer to the real fashion design of her dreams, although she did not say that she wants to become a fashion designer, but always feel that the cultural foundation is not laid, and the future development path is narrow. Your wish is to make your debut, to be a star, and you also have the strength to fight hard, your wish is right, but the foundation is weak. Thousands of high-rise buildings rise from the ground, and a house without a foundation can only be a pavilion in the sky. You must control your own destiny, and you can't throw your destiny to a so-called company that doesn't know the roots. The only thing you can do is to let the company come to you when you have a certain strength, so that you have the initiative and the right to speak, so that you can not only develop your own career but also protect yourself from harm. If the goals of the two of you can be combined, it's perfect. The realization of any dream and any successful case are inseparable from being down-to-earth and moving forward with silicon. Success is 99% sweat + 1% inspiration.

The second is my comparison with your mom and yours. I'm the same as you, I didn't get into a middle school that year, I was able to study in school at that time, the second place in the whole grade, I didn't report a middle school and no one reported it, considering that your grandfather entrusted people to know the relationship was also in a middle school, I reported a middle school, but unfortunately I couldn't be admitted because of a difference of 6 points, and finally read a bargaining student. When I arrived at the school, I felt inferior, and later when I was assigned a class, because others suggested that there were many science universities and the acceptance rate was high, I applied for science, and then I wanted to change the liberal arts but didn't change it. When studying, there is a lot of pressure, because there is no hope, and no matter how much you study, you always feel that you can't catch up. Even though he later went to the "senior year of high school", he was not admitted to university. Later, he joined the army, and he has been until now. Looking back now, I have to thank your grandfather, who forced me to practice calligraphy and write a diary, and now I use it all. You were in the same situation as I was at the time, and I didn't want you to follow my old path. Maybe you may not be the way you are now, but you may be able to find the joy and motivation to learn, because you are the top student in learning there, and you can find the confidence to learn. However, in the long run, since you have chosen No. 1 Middle School, you must take root in No. 1 Middle School, and the learning atmosphere and cultural heritage of No. 1 Middle School are incomparable to other schools. Your mother is also a very motivated person, whether in study or work, she is always ahead of the curve. Although sometimes it is usually strict, the purpose is good. If my mother and I had a higher culture, the road could go higher and further. You have to find your place in the one, build self-confidence, and slowly surpass. Learning and running is a truth, don't stare at the first place, always stare at the few in front of you, lock a goal, chase one exam at a time, catch up with one semester after another, "although the road is long, it can't be done", although it is hard, there will be a harvest in the end.

Again, a comparison of cultures. We are Chinese, and we should learn and carry forward the excellent traditional Chinese culture. Japan and South Korea (Korea) were both vassal states of China more than 100 years ago. Many aspects of Japanese and Korean language, culture, and food were learned from China. It was only after 1882 that Japan expanded its aggressive rights and interests against Korea. Since then, the Qing government has missed the best opportunity to resolve the Korean Peninsula issue and has swallowed up its own ample diplomatic room for maneuver. After Japan's Meiji Restoration, especially after China's defeat in the First Sino-Japanese War, Japan began to learn from the Western powers and became stronger and stronger. China has lost its status as the "boss" and has changed from a cultural exporter to a cultural importer, and the phenomena of "Hari" and "Harbin-Han" have emerged immediately. The economic decline of a country is not terrible, but the decline of culture is terrible, and China has realized this. Now that the excellent traditional Chinese culture is returning to the classroom and returning to the right position, Chinese voices, Chinese solutions, and Chinese manufacturing are resounding and influencing the world, as Chinese, we should have a clear understanding. Although knowledge knows no borders, and culture is not superior or inferior, the nation has dignity and the country has national character. In the past, TV stations were full of Korean dramas, and Korean versions of entertainment programs were everywhere, but now there are many fewer of them? The "Korean Wave" is like the "flu", it will pass after a blow, and it is still our "Chinese style" that has been in the long and prosperous world. Now my father's place is discussing a "China-Korea Film and Television Base" project, which was scrambling for it a few years ago, and why is it controversial now, because the "wind direction" has changed, and China will become a powerful cultural exporter, instead of "coming and receiving" and "ninja slaughtering" as before.

What's next? Right now, your grades are not ideal, and it's imperative to make up for your homework. Although it is always emphasized that you should be a useful person to the society, and our family motto is also "great righteousness, great virtue, great love", but the current reality is that you must be admitted to university, which is a hurdle you must pass. There are two kinds of self-confidence in a person, one is cultural self-confidence and the other is ability self-confidence. Although a person has a diploma does not necessarily mean that he is educated, a diploma is an important embodiment of culture, otherwise people will not often ask you "what is your level of education". Diploma is a form carrier of a person's cultural accumulation and knowledge accumulation, if you can achieve the equivalence of diploma and culture, it is better. You are studying liberal arts, and at present, you should pay more attention to the study of excellent traditional Chinese culture, watch less star shows and other programs, and watch more excellent programs such as "Chinese Poetry Conference" and "Chinese Chinese Writing Conference", which is not unhelpful. Tablet computers should also be collected, a person's energy is limited, different stages of life have different focus of efforts, the computer does not need to be there, time does not need to buy anything back.

Second, you can't lose your hobbies. Music is a self-cultivation thing, and it is rare to really pursue it as a career. Mom and Dad want you to be the most music-savvy person among the literate people. Culture is the foundation of a person's life and strengthening. Although many celebrities have become characters without much culture, they also have a lot of shortcomings in their hearts, if they don't pay attention to acquired learning, they will eventually be eliminated by the trend and washed by society. Third, the three of us are a community of interests, we are firmly and happily living together, we must give each other strength, open up to each other, communicate more, communicate more, I start from me, often take a break from work, and talk to you more. Sometimes your mother complains, in fact, she just wants me to give her one more thoughtful words and comforting words, but I don't do it. I'll make the next step to correct it. You also have to improve, starting from your internal affairs, from your state of mind, from your words. OK？

Last night, I wrote you two pictures. One is: aim high, and the other is: do not accumulate silicon to reach thousands of miles, I hope you are idealistic and down-to-earth. We are a family, and we work together to encourage each other.

Finally, a smiley face for you. And to your hard-working, hard-working mom and me.

All the best!