Fei Yuanqing said to Yang Chuanfu: "Someone once said that comforting people is an emotional investment that is very profitable and does not cost money, and the 'bureau' will not only comfort people, but also draw cakes for me to satisfy my hunger!" ”

Yang Chuanfu smiled: "I'm not painting cakes to satisfy my hunger, but to book 'dinner' for you, I found out." When you were a teacher in a military academy, you stood on a three-foot podium, impassioned, enthusiastic, radiant, and eye-catching, and because of your discerning eye and ingenuity, you have cultivated many young cadets with knowledge and talent, and many of them are now leading cadres of the army, and under the inspiration of your spirit and thoughts, they have made remarkable achievements in different work posts. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 info You knew in the past, and you should know more now, on the road of life, there are beautiful mountains and rivers, there are mountains and rivers, and there are mountains and rivers that have no way out, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village. ”

Fei Yuanqing smiled bitterly and said: "The hero doesn't mention the courage of the year, don't talk about the love in the past, at that time it was bloody and strong, now it is covered with bruises, at that time it was young and vigorous, and now it is an old dragon clock." People's lives pass really fast, often you have not learned to manage youth, you have already reached middle age, you have not had time to reasonably design middle age, and you have reached old age. ”

"You're only half right." Yang Chuanfu said, "Life is like a dream, in the blink of an eye is a hundred years, success or failure, turning the head empty, life is red at sunset several times, and no one can violate the laws of nature." However, people at all stages must have different perspectives, young people should look far, set goals, and not care about small profits; Middle-aged people should see through, be down-to-earth, and not be burdened by fame; The elderly should be bearish, do nothing, and talk and laugh about gains and losses. ”

"I agree with your point of view, life depends on good and bad, what you gain does not have to be happy, and what you lose does not have to be sad. Especially at our age, we should have no heart, be at ease, go and stay unintentional, pamper and not be shocked, forget the past, cherish the present, and wait for the future, which makes sense in theory, but it is difficult to do in reality. That's often the case, when the real problem is in front of you, you become a different mindset and take a different approach. ”

"The situation you are talking about is called the disunity between theory and practice, and this is because some people do not solve the problem fundamentally in terms of thinking. For example, when you treat Aijun, you are too disappointed in him now, because you have too high expectations of him in the past, if you can realize that he has a casual style but keeps to himself, and has no ambitions but can do his job, you will feel that he is a good young man, and there will not be so much resentment and dissatisfaction. Lao Fei, I think you worry too much about your children and grandchildren, and your intentions are too heavy, and the most taboo thing for the elderly is not to give them space when you love your younger generations, and not give them a chance when you are angry. There is another sentence that I don't know if you love to hear it, it is the saddest thing in life, it is not that you have lost the person you love, but that you have lost yourself for the person you love, a person who no one wants to be treated badly, will eventually treat a person badly, that is yourself. I advise you to spend the rest of your life in exchange for half a lifetime of love, and find a suitable wife at the right time, hand in hand, and spend the sunset together. When you have a new joy of life, you will be happy and happy. ”

Fei Yuanqing listened to Yang Chuanfu's words and laughed: "The 'bureau seat' is really a person who has been a leading cadre, which is different from what ordinary people say, and he is very good at doing ideological work. I have a plan for my children and grandchildren, and they won't take care of so much in the future. I haven't thought about finding a wife yet, first of all, my son should approve, even if he agrees, I will be cautious, although Aijun's mother has passed away for many years, but now I still only have her in my heart. I have a fellow countryman, the vice president of a company before retirement, and soon after his wife died, he found a half-aged who was more than 20 years younger than him, and the result was that the female was full of interest, and the male guy was weak, and he was also anxious, and sometimes he tinkered in bed for a long time, slower than the national football team. The life of the husband and wife was not harmonious, and the personality was too different, and in the end, the woman proposed to break up. I also have a colleague who, after the death of his wife, met a dance partner at the Community Elderly Cultural Activity Center, and the two of them were close to each other and fell in love. But the sons and daughters of both sides did not agree to their union. After my colleague remarried, the children of both sides came to my colleague's house to make trouble, and sometimes the two groups of people met together and began to speak ill of each other, and then they added fists and kicks. In the end, my colleague was angry and regretful, and passed away less than two years later. ”

"You can't use individual negation in general, and there are not a few old people who remarry who have harmonious husbands and wives and happy families. Although Aijun was naughty when he was a child, he was a reasonable and good boy, and if he had any other ideas about your wife, I would do the work. Okay, now it's time to talk about my family. On the train back to Beijing from the provincial capital, I happened to meet an editor of Aijun's magazine, who should be the boy whom Aijun was going to introduce to our family Qiuping. ”

"It's really a coincidence, I've heard Aijun talk about this matter, and I'm about to ask you. Listening to Aijun's talk, he asked the young man again, the young man thinks that the conditions of your family Qiuping are good, but he has some concerns, he is afraid that he does not have a Beijing hukou, his family is relatively poor, and the economic conditions are not very good. In addition, he felt that his education was lower than Qiu Ping's, and he felt that he was not a good match for Qiu Ping. ”

"According to Qiu Ping's meaning, the man's household registration and education are not a big problem, to see whether a young man is rich, not only to see whether he has a house, whether he has a car, and how much money he has in the bank, but more importantly, to see what hardships he has suffered before, whether he has unusual experiences, this is also the common point of view of Qiu Ping and me. Through a short period of contact, I think this young man has unique views on many issues, and the natural conditions are not bad, I have introduced the scene of meeting the young man on the train to Qiu Ping, Qiu Ping seems to have a good impression of him, you let Aijun touch the young man again, do you have any other ideas. ”

Fei Yuanqing agreed.

Yang Chuanfu was talking and walking with Fei Yuanqing, when he suddenly stopped and asked Fei Yuanqing with a smile: "Hey, old Fei, where have we got?" Didn't you say that you would go to Yuyuantan Park today, why did you come to Lotus Pond Park again! ”

Fei Yuanqing also laughed: "The two of us only care about talking, and we even get the general direction wrong, Lotus Pond Park is Lotus Pond Park, if we meet Director Gou and Lao Shi, let's walk and brag together." (To be continued.) )