Not long ago, someone once wanted to introduce a wife to Dad, but Dad politely refused, but Aijun could see that Dad seemed to be a little happy in his heart, but he didn't show it on the surface, he deliberately made a show in front of him and his sister. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 info Aiqin believes that it is normal for the elderly to be widowed and remarry, as long as the two old people can get along, they can care for each other, and the two of them live together is better than one person, at least there is a partner to talk and chat. But Aijun has always had an ambiguous attitude towards this matter, and he can't imagine how he can live in this home with a strange old lady who plays the role of a mother every day.

Seeing her brother's attitude, Aiqin didn't insist on her opinion anymore, she knew in her heart that an old lady from the family lived with her father and got along well, and her brother took pity on her dead mother; I don't get along well, and my brother pities his father who is still alive.

Fei Yuanqing knew in his heart what a pair of children thought, and he never mentioned finding a wife in front of them, and regarded this issue as a "minefield" of family life.

Aijun recently felt his selfishness and ignorance as a son, and felt deeply guilty, if his father had an old wife by his side, he would not be as lost and bored as he is now. Alas, the opportunity is knocking on the door, but I am dozing off, now things have changed, people have changed, the world is vast, the sea of people is vast, where to find a suitable wife for my father!

The mobile phone rang, and Fei Aijun saw that it was his colleague Cui Dalin calling.

"What, you saw my father's old comrade-in-arms Yang Chuanfu on the train back to Beijing? He's the father of the girl I mentioned to you, which girl? is the one who went abroad to study for graduate school and is preparing to return to China for development, and you say that you are not worthy of others, and his name is Yang Qiuping. What do you think of Uncle Yang's impression of you? It's okay, that's good, that's good, I see hope for you and his daughter! ”

After Fei Aijun answered Cui Dalin's call, he couldn't sleep anymore.

Fei Yuanqing walked with Yang Chuanfu today, and his mood was better.

Fei Yuanqing felt that although he said that he could talk and chat when walking with other people, he was not like Yang Chuanfu, who could vomit and complain together. For people who are not very familiar with it, most of the smart people insist that the ugliness of the family is not publicized, and the good news is not reported, they know that when they show the wound to others, they can only feel the pain. There are also very few people, no matter who they see, they are pouring bitter water out of their stomachs, they don't know, now there are far more people in the world who like to watch the excitement than people who like to help people, you want to talk about things in your family when you see people, others will always have a day when they are tired of listening, and you will eventually become the annoying "Xianglin sister-in-law".

"I taught my son a lesson again last night, and he didn't say whether I was right or not, he sat there silently, looking like a dead pig who was not afraid of boiling water." Fei Yuanqing wants to say something to people these days, but he can't find a suitable person to talk to, and when he saw Yang Chuanfu today, he couldn't hold back and wanted to say a good thing to him. "I thought to myself, you stinky boy, you don't want me to find a wife, I listen to you, I want you to find a daughter-in-law, why don't you listen to me? If I were like you now, if I didn't find a partner and didn't get married, would I still have you and your sister! ”

Yang Chuanfu smiled when he heard Fei Yuanqing's words, and persuaded him: "You have no reason to ask others to change anything for you, whether it is the person who loves you or the person you love, they all have the right to exist and live in their own way." That is, you have to live with the people you live with, and you have to try to adapt to each other, and not try to change whom, otherwise, there will definitely be conflicts. ”

"My son is too angry, you can't beat him, he doesn't like to study since he was a child, you know this before, let him read and study, he will say that his eyes hurt, he will say that his mouth is dry, and he will say that his ears are itchy, I said to him, you bullshit kid make excuses, let your facial features take turns on duty to deceive me! I don't have any other requirements for him now, just to get married and start a family as soon as possible and give birth to a grandson for me, which is human nature and understandable. ”

"According to my analysis, Aijun doesn't want to get married, but he may not have found a suitable girl to be a friend yet. If this is the case, it is a wiser choice to be single for the time being than to find someone who is not very suitable to make do with. So I advise you not to be in a hurry, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. ”

"You are not in a hurry to eat hot tofu, hot tofu is rushed to eat by others, Aijun's own conditions are not very good, the older he gets, the more difficult it is to find a girlfriend, whether it is hot tofu or cold tofu, you still have to eat it now, otherwise you won't even be able to catch tofu dregs in the future."

Yang Chuanfu smiled again and said to Fei Yuanqing: "I understand very well that you are anxious about your son's affairs, but what is the effect?" The son's life path can only be walked on his own two legs, there is no bus to sit on, there is no subway to take, and it is impossible to be led, carried, or held by others, he has grown up, and he doesn't like others to hold him, let alone let people carry him and hold him. ”

Fei Yuanqing said with some frustration: "Some of what you said is also right, my life road is not smooth, either I took the wrong car, or I took the station, I can't stop when I should stop, I can't move when I want to move forward, I often hit the wall and fall in the aisle, and it is unlikely that I will find a good way out for my son." ”

"You don't always dwell on some things in the past and torture yourself with helpless past. Someone once said that there are joys and sorrows are life, bitterness and sweetness are life, and if the road forward is a straight line like an electrocardiogram, it means that you are about to finish. Judging from what you said before, I think the main contradiction between you and Aijun is that you don't know much about his inner world, and you don't understand what he thinks now and what he plans to do in the future. ”

"I'm not convinced by your statement, knowing the son Mo Ruo's father, how could I not understand him and understand him? I know what kind of he is going to pull. ”

"If you understand him, you should care for him and help him in the way he needs to, and you are just wishful thinking asking him to live the way you need him, which is not right. As I just said, Aijun is now an adult, you don't always use some mean words to hurt his self-esteem, you have to praise and encourage more, praise people without losing money, roll your tongue, say nice things without paying, and don't have to pay taxes, so why are you stingy? I advise you to let go of your hands and feet, calm your mind, let him do whatever he wants, ask less and do not interfere, he puts down his burden, you emancipate your mind, and each of you behaves and engages according to your own ideas. You are mainly arranging your life now, the years are fleeting, life is impermanent, people who are just in their sixties, don't want the green mountains to be ageless, for the snow white, the green water is worry-free, and the face is wrinkled by the wind. Many of our peers have only one child, and they are very envious of your children, which is God's love and gift to you, and you should cherish it and get along well with your children. My son is not married and has no children now, it is God who gives you a holiday, so that you can recuperate, train your body, and prepare to take your grandson well in the future. (To be continued.) )