Fei Aijun continued: "I have also been to the blind date, but the girls at the blind date have good and bad conditions, handsome and ugly, half of them are when others see me and want to escape, and half of them are because I see others and want to escape, and in the end I still have two empty hands." www.biquge.info Some girls like to find diamonds because they like to find diamonds because they like Wang Lao Wu's diamonds, and some people like to find Prince Charming, because they find a prince and have a horse to ride. I can't be wishful thinking about Yao Shufen's affairs, mainly depends on her attitude, I also know that she used to care about me in life and cooperate in work, and she didn't appreciate some of my habits and styles, and sometimes showed some anger and dissatisfaction. ”

Cui Dalin said: "Sometimes some people's anger and dissatisfaction with you is just a form of love. ”

Chen Quanfu echoed Cui Dalin and said, "I just asked Sister Yao the day before yesterday, how did you think about the matter with Editor Fei?" Sister Yao jokingly said to me, Xiao Chen, why are you in a hurry, you have to wait to unbutton your clothes if you want to breastfeed! Her words made my face feverish, but I was glad that she didn't say anything about it. ”

Fei Aijun continued: "Yao Shufen is a very straightforward person, and sometimes I am embarrassed to say some things. To be honest, in the past year or two, I have also been a little disappointed, first of all, I believe what some people have said, no matter how bright the lights outside are, the one that can give you the most warmth is the one at home. My father and I have a home that is not like a home, every day we wear myopia glasses to surf the Internet, and one person wears reading glasses to read the newspaper, and we can't say three words a day to each other. Secondly, I took into account my father's feelings, my father is not too old, only in his sixties, but his health is not very good, often this pain and itching, major illnesses do not commit, minor illnesses continue, if I drag it out again, he may not enjoy the joy of raising a son and holding a grandson, if there is such a result, I will regret it for life, and I will never be able to forgive myself. ”

Chen Fufu said to the two colleagues in surprise: "Why do you all mix so many family factors in your marriage?" ”

Cui Dalin said: "Marriage is not just a major event for two people, but a major event for two families. ”

Fei Aijun said approvingly: "Dalin is right! On the issue of marriage, we should listen to the opinions of the elderly, consider their feelings, they have worked all their lives to raise us so much, we should give them more understanding and at least respect. There is a good saying, we often ignore those who love us, but love those who ignore us, young people make friends, fall in love, get married, always care about what outsiders say, and despise what people in their own family think. Sometimes when I think about it, the elderly are very pitiful, they want to love a lot of people, but there are very few people who can love; There are many people who want to worry about it, but there are very few people who can make friends; There are many things that I want to manage, but there are very few things that I want to manage. They are always long, long years later, recalling things far, far away, and they can't forget the past, they can't get used to the present, and they don't have confidence in the future. So, we need to communicate more with them and care more about them. ”

Chen Quanfu sighed and said: "Oh, Editor Fei, I seem to have suddenly found that there is a big filial son standing in front of me!" ”

Fei Aijun blushed and said: "It's not that you didn't find out before, it's that I didn't do well enough before, I don't mean to show my filial piety to the old man in front of others now, but think of myself in the future, because you will be old one day!" ”

Cui Dalin said to Fei Aijun: "If I were Sister Yao, I would marry a man like you, now she needs a good husband, her son needs a good father, and her mother needs a good son-in-law, I think you have all these conditions." ”

Chen Quanfu corrected Dalin's words and said with a smile: "You don't speak comprehensively, Sister Yao's mother not only needs a good son-in-law, but also a good wife, such conditions can only be met by very few families." ”

Chen Quanfu and Cui Dalin's words made Fei Aijun a little embarrassed, and he pointed to the two colleagues opposite and said, "You two seem to be deliberately making fun of me today?" Are you not going to make mutton shabu at noon, and you want to make fun of me? ”

"No, you're the big brother of our editors, and although we often joke together, we still have a lot of respect for you. What we just said was from our hearts. Cui Dalin said sincerely, "I have thought about it repeatedly, Sister Yao and you are indeed a good match." Although she sometimes speaks more straightforwardly and is unreasonable, she understands the general situation, takes the overall situation into account, and is reasonable. I know that you once wanted to find a girlfriend who was a little bird, anyone can take the big ideas in the family, don't compete with each other, but this kind of woman, some are like chewing gum, they start to chew sweet, the more they chew, the more tasteless they are, they stick to you every day, when they are happy, they raise their faces for you to kiss, and when they are unhappy, they pout their mouths and scold you to get out; Sometimes I still play a child's temper in front of you, I don't coax for a day, my eyes are red and swollen, I don't fight for three days, I go to the house to uncover the tiles, you may not be able to serve this kind of woman. Therefore, you have to seize the opportunity with Sister Yao, make up your mind early, and remember what someone said: If you miss this bus, you can wait for the next one; If you miss this person, you will have to wait for the next life, and no one can say what will happen in the next life. ”

"You all say that Yao Shufen is a good woman, are you trying to persuade me to agree to marry her, or do you think she is really good?"

"We first think she's really good, and then we come to persuade you to marry her. You've been working with Sister Yao for so many years, what do you think of her? ”

Cui Dalin asked Fei Aijun rhetorically.

"I used to cooperate with her at work, but now I have to match her in life, and I have faced many practical problems that I didn't think about before." Fei Aijun said with a smile, "At present, I am a fan of the authorities, I have been a single for three years, and I can't tell the difference between good and bad, I just want to hear your true evaluation of her." ”

"Other people's evaluations can only be used for your reference when making decisions, love is a living drama between two people, the parties are the protagonists, and everyone else is the audience, so you can only watch it, not participate. The key to the matter between you and Sister Yao is to make your own decision, if you think she is good, that is really good. However, everyone can use two organs to see a person or a thing, one is to see with their eyes to distinguish between good and bad vision, and the other is to see with their hearts, and to distinguish between high and low vision. I heard a legend about a prince who found a woman with one eye to be his wife, and the prince said to everyone that since I met my current wife, I think all women in the world have an extra eye. The prince saw not only the appearance of a woman with his eyes, but also the qualities that made her different from mortals. ”

Chen Fufu continued Cui Dalin's words: "This is called Xi Shi in the eyes of the lover, the person you like fart, you can also listen to it as a song, and the person you hate sings a song, and you will think that he is farting." It's like a crow singing a hymn to you, and you think it's bad luck, and a magpie scolds you a bastard, and you think it's beautiful. There are many infatuated men in the world, and there are more infatuated women, Sister Yao has such a strength, if you treat her sincerely, she will also treat you sincerely, if you don't give up, she will live and die together, and the woman who was once not loved by a man will cherish the man who loves her. Therefore, you must be sincere to her, dedicate love, and can't be distracted, Sister Yao hates the man who is distracted. (To be continued.) )