The "common people" of the military compound (viii) (6)

Dalin helped Chen Fu burn the bottom fire: "If you can combine with Sister Yao, I will be so envious and jealous to death." Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info"

"You can't die, you're still a virgin, and you haven't even seen red and white soup, so it's a pity to die."

Fei Aijun joked with Cui Dalin.

Fei Aijun then said to Dalin and Chen Quanquan: "One more point, please pay attention to the two of you, whether the matter between me and Yao Shufen can be done or not, don't involve the old people on both sides, I once told Wu Wei that it is more appropriate for me and Yao Shufen to live together, it is just a joke." If you really do what you say, it will become a strange news in the world, you can say it casually, but if you can't be serious, Yao Shufen and I will not easily agree. ”

Dalin said to Fei Aijun: "You misunderstood what we meant, two old people are together, more of a spiritual comfort, life care, not necessarily have to register for marriage." The two of them will have a common language together, although I have only met your father twice, but I think he is very talented, he was a teacher in a military academy, and he talks like a river, spitting everywhere, similar to Hukou Waterfall. Sister Yao's mother is very caring, treats students like her own children, and I heard Sister Yao say that she was once rated as an excellent teacher in the county. ”

"My dad can't say that he is talented, he talks a lot, and he loves to nag. He was very nice to the students when he was an instructor, but he didn't look down on me when he came home. He said to me, don't think that you are a talented person, you haven't met Bole, Bole has seen you, and it can only be said that you have met a donkey. What happened to the donkey? Someone said that a donkey is a horse with a hukou. ”

Listening to Fei Aijun's tone, there seemed to be some injustice in his heart.

Dalin smiled and said: "Your father may not know that Bole is no longer in the business of Soma now, he saw that selling donkey meat can make money, and now he has become a donkey meat dealer." However, you should understand that if the person who loves you does not love you in the way you want, it does not mean that he does not love you. ”

Chen Quanfu also said to Fei Aijun: "Let me give you an idea, if you and Sister Yao become a family, whether you buy a house or rent a house, her mother lives with you, helps you wash clothes, cook and take care of the children, and your father still lives in the apartment of the army, you don't have to worry about things in the future, with your small family of three in the middle, the two old people will have many opportunities to meet and talk, which not only avoids gossip from others, but also allows the two old people to have a space to get along alone." ”

Fei Aijun nodded and said: "I think so too, no matter what my father used to do to me, I now pity him for being lonely and lonely, and I want him to have a wife to talk to, but I'm also afraid that some things will not be handled well and others will see jokes." My father has an old comrade-in-arms, after his wife died, he found another 'old man', that woman is in her sixties and still dresses up every day, she is remarried and became a family without caring for the family, talking about eating and drinking and not working, running outside with a few old men and old ladies all day long, dancing during the day, and playing cards at night. My father's comrades-in-arms later learned that the old lady used to be a woman of bad character, who was beautiful when she was young, a man when she was middle-aged, and healthy when she was old. In the end, the children of the two families met each other, and the two old men parted unhappily. I won't talk about Yao Shufen today, let's talk about it later, give yourself some time to understand others, give others some time to understand yourself, and it will save you a lot of trouble in the future. Let's switch channels and talk about something else, okay!"

"It's inconvenient to talk about you and Sister Yao in the office of the editorial department, just the three of us today, it's best to spread out this issue and explain it clearly. I agree with you just now, the melon is ripe, and it will come naturally. Cui Dalin said to Fei Aijun, "We say that Sister Yao is a good woman, it doesn't mean that she has no shortcomings. For example, she is more aggressive, she will not easily obey others, in some issues, you have to be mentally prepared, if you choose lemon, don't just think about the sweetness of apples; If you choose roses, don't be afraid of the pain of. Another point, Sister Yao has been divorced once and has a child, so you have to be prepared to withstand huge public opinion pressure. Some people say that the union of men and women is a balance of interests, men are afraid of not having money, and women are afraid of being shameless. I don't think so, Sister Yao is not pretty, but she makes up for her physical deficiencies with the advantages of her behavior. I can see that she is not inferior to herself, she is shameless, and she does not envy men for being rich. In general, a man, his appearance is inversely proportional to his talent, the uglier he looks, the more talented he is; A woman, her appearance is also inversely proportional to her talent, the more beautiful she looks, the less she has any great ability, you can cite many special examples to refute me, however, this phenomenon is more common. Wu Wei said a very profound sentence, he said that a virtuous and unattractive woman is a beautiful decoration of a family, and I agree with it. What I mean by saying these words to you is to make clear your own views on this issue, that is, you should weigh the relevant pros and cons clearly from the beginning, since you are determined to unite with a woman, you must be responsible for her for the rest of your life, you can't be half-hearted, you can't see different thoughts, and you can't 'hold the hand of your son', take off the ring and leave, to take advantage of others. Love is not a freebie, but a mutual giveaway, you love her, she will love you. ”

Fei Aijun nodded and said: "Dalin's words have some truth, but it is the nature of men to like beautiful women, and some people find a girlfriend who is not beautiful because their own conditions are not good enough, and if they can't find a beautiful one, they have to settle for the second." Wu Wei was the same, he saw that Chen Fuful's girlfriend was beautiful, and he was so jealous that he seemed to have pink eye, and penicillin and erythromycin could not be cured. He also likes to look at good-looking girls on the street, and once I joked to him, you don't drool when you see a beautiful woman, in order to avoid making a fool of yourself, when you go out in the future, you must first buy a Hushu Bao or a diaper to wear on your mouth. Wu Wei's advantage is self-knowledge, he said, generally speaking, the more curved the lines on a woman's body, the straighter the man's path to her, the shorter the skirt a woman wears, and the longer the man's gaze stays on her. He also told me that Chang Ying's figure is generally thick up and down, but I like her richness, Chang Ying's legs are thick and she dare not wear skirts, I like her simplicity and solemnity in pants, a period has a period of aesthetic standards, she was born at the wrong time, if she grew up in the Tang Dynasty, she would be a beauty. ”

Chen Quanfu said: "Editor Fei is talking about the actual situation, a few days ago I invited Wu Wei to have a meal, in the restaurant, I paid first, he then paid for it, the two of us chatted for a long time, he said to me and Editor Fei said the same thing, he said that Chang Ying is definitely not a beautiful woman in the eyes of others, but a person has a person's aesthetic point of view, is willing to live with you for a lifetime, can understand your past, believe in your future, and tolerate your current woman, in your eyes should be the most beautiful." ”

Dalin said: "Wu Wei can think openly on many issues, is very self-satisfied, and sometimes even 'pretends not to want because he can't get it'. Learning to be self-satisfied is the source of happiness in a person's life. ”

Fei Aijun looked at his watch and said to Chen Quanquan: "I have to attend a friend's wedding in the afternoon------

Chen Fufu also looked at his watch, and hurriedly said, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm just talking, it's almost half past twelve, let's hurry up and eat." ”

Dalin asked Fei Aijun: "Don't people in Beijing hold weddings in the morning, why do you go to the wedding in the afternoon?" ”

Chen Quanfu said to Dalin: "You don't understand this, generally speaking, the first marriage is in the morning, and the second marriage is in the afternoon. ”

Dalin said: "I am indeed a lonely person, and I don't know that Beijingers still have such a rule. The wedding invitation is a special form of fine notice, and it is not within the scope of arbitrary charges, and the fee editor has to pay another expense today. ”

"When this friend of mine got married for the first time, I already gave a gift, and this time I can give a bouquet of flowers." Fei Aijun said lightly.

"Sometimes it's strange that people say that marriage is the grave of love, but when someone gets married, their friends only send bouquets of flowers, not wreaths," Obayashi said. ”

Chen Fufu locked the door, took Cui Dalin and Fei Aijun down the dormitory building, and went straight to the hot pot restaurant. (To be continued.) )