"Hardship and tempering are the best school for teenagers, the environment is the classroom, parents are teachers, when you appreciate the excellence of students, don't forget the role of the environment and the credit of teachers. The pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info" Yang Chuanfu said to Zheng Lina.

Zheng Lina smiled: "You have just participated in the writing class of the military rest house for a few days, and your words are profound. ”

"I'm telling the truth." Yang Chuanfu's face turned red and said, "Qiu Ping wants to find a boyfriend whose living conditions are slightly worse at home, I think she thinks that such a boy has strong autonomy, can endure hardships, and is not squeamish." Qiu Ping said that the boyfriend she didn't want to find the most was the arrogant 'second generation official' and the 'rich second generation' who spent a lot of money. I have the daughter of an old bureau chief who married the son of a high-ranking cadre, and as a result, after the two of them got married, their 'eyesight' was problematic, the man couldn't see the work at home, and they both wanted the woman to do it, and the woman had money in the family and couldn't see it, so the man spent it. The husband of the old director's daughter is a software engineer, but his heart is harder than steel, not to mention my old director, and even his own father is sick and hospitalized, he rarely visits. I always feel that some people who do nothing like to mess around in society, take me as the center, wear a tiger skin, pull out a gross profit in the world and do nothing, are too lazy to die in the planned economy, are greedy to death in the market economy, do not want to eat any losses, want to take advantage of any cheapness, this kind of person has no good results. The son-in-law of the old director's family was like this, in the year when his daughter-in-law's son was born, his son-in-law also had an accident, and it was a big incident, he and a friend were sent to prison for fraud. I also thought that Xiao Cui is not as educated as Qiu Ping, and he is just an ordinary magazine editor who works in the army system but does not have a military status, but don't forget, it is those who do ordinary things with an ordinary mentality that can finally become extraordinary people. Listening to Fei Aijun, Xiao Cui and his younger brother are hard-working young people, they will have their own world in the future, the two brothers will be very promising in the future, and they will not have much problem supporting their parents, and in the future, whether it is in the city or the countryside, the social pension system will be more and more perfect, and the elderly will not be completely borne by their children. ”

"What I just said is just a personal idea, as for how the affairs of Qiu Ping and Xiao Cui will develop, it is up to the two young people to decide."

"Another thing you have to pay attention to, if the two of them continue to date in the future, you meet with Xiao Cui, and you can't say anything like financial support in front of him, I found that he is a young man with strong self-esteem."

Zheng Lina nodded, thoughtful.

Many of the retired cadres of the Wancui Road Military Rest House are known to Yang Chuanfu, and some are quite familiar. When these retired cadres were in office, most of them were leading cadres of a considerable level, and they took off their military uniforms and masks on their faces; they used to be chiefs with serious expressions in front of their subordinates, but now they are plain-faced ordinary people among the masses, especially these people of the same rank and age, who live on pensions of about the same level, get together, and they are always unrestrained and talk and laugh freely.

On the morning of that day, Yang Chuanfu went to the military rest house to listen to a writing lecture, and on the way he met Zhao Yue, an assistant who used to work with him in the same agency, and asked him: "I have heard that you also participated in the writing class, why didn't you come to the last lecture?" ”

"The last time I listened to a lecture, my wife fell into the 'well' and didn't come out for most of the day, and I was at home with my grandson."

Yang Chuanfu was taken aback, and hurriedly asked Zhao Yue: "Where did she fall into the well?" ”

"I'm talking about Wangfujing."

Yang Chuanfu smiled: "If you say so, my wife fell into the 'pool', I'm talking about Yuyuantan, she dances with a group of old ladies in Yuyuantan Park almost every day." ”

The two of them talked as they walked together, and saw a tall old comrade in front of them also shaking his body and walking in the direction of the military rest house.

Zhao Yue shouted at that person: "Hey, the 'supreme chief' in front is Lao Wang Ba (right)!" ”

The big old comrade is also a retired cadre who worked in the same organ as Yang Chuanfu, and he turned out to be a member of the amateur basketball team of the organ. He stopped, turned to Zhao Yue and said, "You old boy will make fun of me!" ”

Lao Zhao pretended to be aggrieved and said: "Let's let Lao Yang listen, what's wrong with me calling you 'Lao Wang'?" ”

"People who shout surnamed Liu can't have the word 'busy' behind them, and people who shout surnamed Fan can't have the word 'bucket' behind them, just like people with the surname Zhao can't have the word 'matter' behind them, I want to shout at you, 'Hey, Lao Zhao (Zhao) incident - there have been a lot of it recently', aren't you going to be a murderer!"

When several people arrived in the study room of the military rest center, they saw Director Gou arranging for the veteran comrades who arrived first to be seated.

"How's Teacher Fei doing?"

Director Gou was busy for a while, and waited with everyone for Lao Shi, who rushed over from Fengtai, sat down in an empty seat next to Yang Chuanfu and asked him.

"I have been hospitalized, and the situation is not optimistic, but Lao Fei is still more open-minded, and he seems to be indifferent to many things, so he doesn't have too much mental burden, I just went to see him yesterday." Yang Chuanfu said.

"Teacher Fei's wife died, he hit him harder, I think, with most of his life in the same boat, it is impossible to live and die together, there is always a person to go first, the last person to learn to adapt to loneliness. For the elderly, widowhood, illness these things are inevitable, think about it is like that, there is only a way back in the world, there is no hurdle that can not be crossed, as long as people have the courage to say 'goodbye' to the past, fate will give you a new beginning. I appreciate a saying that there are many things in life, and when you encounter something, if you like it, enjoy it; If you don't like it, avoid it; If you can't avoid it, change it; If you can't change it, just accept it; If you can't accept it, deal with it; If you can't handle it, put it down. In fact, the most difficult thing to do in life is to let go, sometimes let go, and then be relieved, in life, there is nothing big things that cannot be let go. To live, you have to keep moving forward, every distance you have traveled will have new scenery, and you must learn to appreciate everything you have passed. ”

Yang Chuanfu listened to Director Gou's words, nodded and said: "You are right, people must be able to afford to take it when they encounter things, let it go, and maintain a good attitude, in order to contribute to physical and mental health. In fact, Lao Fei should not be pessimistic and disappointed about the future, he also has many things that we don't have, such as he has children and daughters, and a lively and lovely little grandson. Hey, by the way, does your little grandson still come to you often? (To be continued.) )