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After returning home from the military rest center, Yang Chuanfu told Zheng Lina that he had signed up for a writing class in the military rest center, and in the future, in addition to exercising, the main time was to learn to write, and also tried to send some manuscripts to newspapers and periodicals. Zheng Lina dances with a group of old ladies outside every day, for fear that Yang Chuanfu will be in a hurry at home alone, some time ago I was very happy to see him and Fei Yuanqing as companions and often go to the park to exercise, but I didn't expect Fei Yuanqing to get sick again later. "I support you to go out more often, but don't participate in organized 'study classes' and 'lectures', you have been at work for most of your life, and you haven't been constrained enough? In the future, it is better to do whatever you want. She said to Yang Chuanfu.

Yang Chuanfu disagrees with Zheng Lina's statement: "I think it is better for the elderly to participate in group activities, and people should also have a sense of teamwork and organization when they are old, so that they can live a fulfilling life and have a sense of belonging." Comrade Cui Can, you know, he was an administrative cadre of the army before he retired, and now his daughter has gone abroad, his wife is still working, he is idle alone, riding a broken bicycle every day, we jokingly call him 'road angel', he always wants to find someone to chat, he knows all the masters who repair bicycles on the side of the road in the princess grave area, people are doing business, he has nothing to say. Sometimes the weather is bad and it is not convenient to go out, he is bored at home, from house to house, and from house to house, and he is not sitting or standing, and he is so anxious that he turns around. Buy a small electrical appliance for dozens of dollars, and you can also make several free after-sales ******** calls, and talk to the waitress endlessly. Another time, he dialed the wrong phone number and insisted on chatting with strangers for more than half an hour. ”

Zheng Lina smiled and said to Yang Chuanfu: "You sometimes like to exaggerate, can he be so boring!" ”

Yang Chuanfu deliberately made Zheng Lina laugh, saying: "What I said is basically consistent with the facts, and it is appropriate to exaggerate at some times. Some retired cadres like to walk around outside, and some like to stay at home and not go out, and one person is different from another. Lao Qin, who retired with me, was an archivist in the army before he retired, and after he retired, he was at home every day, watching TV, flipping through books, and he didn't want to participate in any activities, and there were some things that should be done, he either let his wife deal with it, or he shirked and said, 'I'll go next time', he had a fellow countryman's only son get married, and invited him to the wedding, and he casually shirked and said, 'I'll go next time', and his fellow villager said unhappily, 'How many times do you want my son to get married?' ’。 ”

More than a week has passed, Yang Chuanfu listened to a lecture, went to the bookstore several times, and bought seven or eight books such as dictionaries, dictionaries, idioms and allusions. ”

"Of course, since you want to do something, you are determined to do it well." Yang Chuanfu said.

Zheng Lina believes what Yang Chuanfu said, and it is his lifelong style to work hard. She didn't forget what she cared about, and asked Yang Chuanfu: "Did the young man surnamed Cui express his stance on the matter between him and Qiu Ping?" ”

"When I accompanied Fei Yuanqing with Fei Aijun to see a doctor, I asked him, and he said that Xiao Cui was discussing with his family, and Xiao Cui was very cautious about finding a partner to start a family, and he said that he was responsible for both himself and the woman." Yang Chuanfu said to Zheng Lina, "Xiao Cui also told Fei Aijun that he is now thinking more about how to take care of his parents in the future, he feels that his parents are honest farmers, and it is not easy to raise him and his younger brother in such poor living conditions in the countryside. ”

Zheng Lina said: "In this way, Xiao Cui is a sensible and filial child, yesterday I told Qiu Ping on the phone about some of Xiao Cui's situation, she is different from some girls, or want to find a boyfriend whose family economic conditions are poor, I have suffered and suffered." ”

Qiu Ping also told me this a few days ago, although I have only met Xiao Cui once, but he left a good impression on me, his parents are simple farmers, it can be seen from his words and demeanor that he inherited the duty and sincerity of his ancestors. Some people say that boys look at their mother-in-law first when they look for a partner, and girls look at their husbands first when they look for a partner, which should be said to have some truth. ”

Zheng Lina disagrees with Yang Chuanfu's point of view: "In terms of human appearance, there is a certain truth in this, but in terms of morality, this is untenable, the son of a rich man is a loser, and the daughter of a strong woman is Miss Jiao, this phenomenon is not a minority; Conversely, parents are mediocre and their children are more outstanding. I'll give you two examples, one is my distant relative, I should call him cousin, his neighbors have a summary of his family members, saying that his wife is a foodie and calls himself a 'gourmet', his son is a fool and loses money in any business, his daughter is a merchant, and the public security department has been the target of several anti-pornography campaigns, and his neighbors joke that their house is a 'department store', because my cousin is also a 'goods' - a real doctor, a top student who graduated from Tsinghua University. The second example is Sister Liu, who danced with me, some of the sisters in our dance team said that her husband was a smoker, her son was an alcoholic, she herself was a stingy ghost, and her daughter was a person who dealt with the devil, but her daughter was not a 'ghost', but a 'god', hardworking, self-taught, and sang very well folk songs, and was called the 'goddess of folk songs'. ”

Yang Chuanfu said with a smile: "I believe what you said, and the examples you gave are also convincing, but these are all individual phenomena. It should be said that more often than not, the parents are very good and the children are also very promising, which is 'teaching children well'. I have a comrade-in-arms Lao Qin, one year older than me, still working, he is the chief engineer of a scientific research unit in the army, technical level 3, his twin daughters, one is a doctor, the other is a master's degree, are all graduates of famous universities in China, the sisters are married to two postdoctoral fellows of our institute research institute, I joked to the director of the institute, your institute 'group purchase' of two girls from the old Qin family. ”

"Yes, other people's girls have a home, and our family's Qiuping is still a 'North Drifter', not in Beijing, but in North America." Zheng Lina said with a sigh.

Yang Chuanfu comforted Zheng Lina and said: "Qiu Ping is now the best of the best, don't worry, let's see how this Xiao Cui's attitude is, he hasn't said he disagrees at present, of course, our family Qiu Ping didn't say completely agree, I mean let them communicate at a certain time, it's best not to let others pass in the middle." ”

"Listening to you talk about Xiao Cui's situation, I think he is a good match for us Qiuping, but it's not very ideal. We can't say that the combination of men and women must be the right person, but it should also be equivalent, Xiao Cui's family is in the countryside, it doesn't matter if the economic conditions are poor, we can subsidize it, the main thing is that his parents are not in good health, Qiu Ping will be very heavy if he becomes a family with him in the future, the burden of taking care of the elderly will be very heavy, I feel sorry for my daughter. (To be continued.) )