Yao Shufen, a typist in the editorial department, is one year Chinese New Year's Eve old today, and her two-year-old son is a "souvenir" left to her by her ex-husband. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

When divorcing her husband, Yao Shufen only asked herself to live with her son, and did not want the other party's child support, nor did she allow her ex-husband to interfere too much in the lives of their mother and son.

Yao Shufen now feels that her decision at that time was right, she had long found that her husband, who had come out of the countryside to develop in the city like herself, had some savings in his hands, first learned to spend money, and then learned to spend money, and he was dizzy and turned around in the neon world of flowers. Many couples who go to the city are like this, when the family has little money, they work together and work together. After the conflict between Yao Shufen and her husband intensified, the two constantly quarreled and fought, the double bed at home often became a boxing ring, and the youngest son could often enjoy one wonderful mixed wrestling match after another without buying a ticket. After Yao Shufen got married, her heart was not wide, but she was fat and had a lot of strength, she was a female, but every time she fought with her husband, she was more powerful than a male lion, and she always beat her husband to the point of urine, and she was willing to bow down.

Yao Shufen's ex-husband and Yao Shufen's marriage is already a second marriage, and recently heard that his third marriage has a crisis again, Yao Shufen said that his family is "an iron husband, a flowing wife".

When Yao Shufen graduated from high school that year, she was only a few minutes away from being admitted to university, she was hardworking and capable, with a flexible mind, and before the divorce, she and her husband worked together to do a prosperous business, and they were at ease. After the ex-husband's company lacked the hard-working and capable Yao Shufen, the situation deteriorated, the wind and rain were shaky, and almost all the employees left, and now there are only three people left, he is the chairman and general manager, and the other two people are a man and a woman, the man is a friend and a close friend, and the woman is a secretary and lover.

Can someone like an ex-husband have a good influence on children in the future? If marriage is the grave of love, then, for some people, divorce is an escape from death.

It is difficult for a young woman to survive in Beijing with a child who is only a few years old. Yao Shufen made some money when she was doing business with her ex-husband, and she got some property when she divorced, and she lived with her children, and she didn't have much financial problems, mainly because the psychological burden was too heavy. Yao Shufen's mother asked her eldest daughter to send the child back to the countryside and hand it over to her to take with her, Yao Shufen disagreed, she knew what the hometown people said to the left-behind children: only the mother is bad in the world, the child is born and does not take it, the child is hot and cold, and few people ask, and follow the grandmother to eat pickles. She doesn't want her children to have no father's love and no mother's love. Yao Shufen's mother took pity on her daughter, so she had to leave her hometown and come to Beijing to "squat in prison" in a small one-bedroom house rented by her daughter, doing laundry and cooking every day, and taking care of her little grandson.

After Yao Shufen divorced her husband, several good sisters persuaded her to find another man to start a family as soon as possible while she was young. Yao Shufen disagreed, she felt that she should be cautious about remarriage. Looking for a man is not like looking for a job, being someone else's wife, you can't resign easily, you can't change jobs casually, the marriage certificate is a "deed of sale" that does not indicate the amount and quantity for both husband and wife, and the owner who buys their body is called "family". What's more, now I not only want to find a husband, but also to find a stepfather for my son. She regretted her rashness at the beginning and didn't see through what was hidden in her ex-husband's bones. She also remembered what Cui Dalin told her: No matter what others say about a man, what suits her is the best, if women choose their husbands like they choose their own clothes, then there will be fewer unhappy marriages in society.

When he first applied for a job at the magazine, the editor-in-chief was not too satisfied with Yao Shufen's resume, and he wanted to find a young man with sharp hands and feet to be a typist. As a result, Yao Shufen found the editor-in-chief and argued: "Now we need men to recruit drivers, men to recruit security guards, and men to recruit chefs. ”

The editor-in-chief couldn't help laughing, and said politely to Yao Shufen: "As an employer, we have to consider some situations that lesbians have more housework than gay men, which will definitely affect their work in the future." ”

"Men don't have a lot of housework? The man who doesn't do much housework just because he doesn't want to do it himself, pushes it to the woman. What's so great about a man, give birth to a child and come out let's see! ”

"You can't say that!" The editor-in-chief looked at the woman in front of him, a little crying and laughing, for the woman in front of him, he first thought of the word "pungent", and then thought of the word "capable".

"What should I say? I won't say anything, will I go to the hospital for sex reassignment surgery first and then apply for a job? ”

Yao Shufen was a little ridiculous when she said this.

The editor-in-chief is also good-tempered, he couldn't hold back his laughter again, thought about it and said, "Okay, you come tomorrow, try it for three months first!" ”

Yao Shufen is a strong woman, after she divorced her husband, she didn't want to do business anymore, and soon learned to type in Wubi font, faster than the average typist, and later used her spare time to study graphic design, and soon obtained a college diploma.

Yao Shufen's later practical actions made the editor-in-chief feel that his original choice was correct. After hiring Yao Shufen, the editorial department has a competent typist and a layout designer who can cope with normal work.

In order to save money, after Yao Shufen worked in the magazine office, she still lived in the small house she originally rented in Tongzhou, leaving early and returning late every day, and commuting by subway. It is not easy to squeeze the subway in Beijing, you want to sit without a seat, you want to stand without a place, and you open your mouth to breathe exhaust fumes from others. Everyone in the carriage stands straight, everyone is uncomfortably crowded, and you will not fall down when you fall asleep, and sometimes when others get on and off the train, you have to involuntarily stand on tiptoe to move with the crowd. After being in this environment for a long time, Luo Guo can heal his waist, and maybe he can train many excellent ballet dancers. However, Yao Shufen feels that the subway for two hours a day is really nothing, in the first few years of coming to Beijing, she has to take a train for more than ten hours every time she goes back to her hometown, in fact, the term "taking the train" is not accurate, many people are often "station" trains, on thousands of miles of railway lines, reluctantly pay tribute to the Minister of Railways.

Yao Shufen usually lives a simple life, but she grows meat when she eats anything, and her weight of more than 80 kilograms can occupy the position of two slender ladies on the subway. Because of her cheerful personality and big grin, several young people in the editorial department liked to joke with her. One day not long after she first arrived at the editorial office, Fei Aijun had lunch and had nothing else to do, so she pushed open the door of the typing room and said to Yao Shufen: "Miss Yuan, I want to ask you something------

Yao Shufen said: "You remember wrong, I don't have the surname Yuan." ”

Fei Aijun hurriedly said: "Oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, you don't have the surname Yuan, you are a ------."

Yao Shufen saw the sly evil smile on the face of the thin Fei Aijun, and immediately understood what was going on, and felt that he was a little too much for the woman she had just met, although she was not very happy in her heart, she still said with a smile on her face: "You want to say that I am round, right?" My body shape fully reflects the superiority of the socialist system, but I do think that your body is a bit condescending to work in the editorial department. ”

"What do you think I'm supposed to do?" Fei Aijun asked with a hippie smile.

"You should go to the ant farm and be a milkman, it doesn't matter if you can't touch the ant's belly, just set up a ladder."

Yao Shufen laughed after speaking.

Yao Shufen's words made Fei Aijun's face flush, he fled to room 205 in embarrassment, and said to several other young people in the editorial department: "Yao Shufen, this woman is really amazing!" (To be continued.) )