Fei Aijun smiled and said to Dalin: "She likes natural beauty, not dressing up, and it's useless for me to say it." Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info Women pay too much attention to dressing up because they don't have enough faith in their own longevity, in fact, a woman, dressing up beautiful can only seduce men's eyes, and living beautiful can move men's hearts. ”

Chen Quanfu said: "Editor Fei's words are good, a woman's red face fades after the age of thirty, just like falling flowers and fruits, losing her youth, in exchange for temperament and demeanor, Sister Yao lost no time in collecting these two fruits, and won the hearts of men with maturity and sophistication." I want my girlfriend to be pretty, but I don't want her to be pretty. Wearing expensive new clothes does not prove how noble a person is, and there are many pet dogs who wear beautiful clothes, but it is still a dog. ”

Wu Wei said: "I also agree with what Editor Fei said, what's the use of women wearing such beautiful clothes, and they don't have to take off all the same when they see rich men." Don't laugh, I'm telling the truth, this is what someone said, when the girl was young, it took her a few years for her to learn to put clothes on; The girl is older, and some men can make her strip all her clothes in just a few minutes. Of course, Sister Yao is a self-reliant woman, she doesn't rely on men to eat, let alone deliberately dress herself, no matter how new a ten-yuan ticket is, there is no old hundred-yuan bill to be flattering. ”

Cui Dalin said: "There is always a smell of copper in Xiao Wu's words, what I just said is that women should 'dress up properly', and I don't like women who pay too much attention to dressing up." When I was an intern at a company when I first graduated from university, I sat face-to-face with a girl for a month, and I never saw the color of the skin on her face, only the effect of using different brands of cosmetics. Nowadays, many girls are slaves to cosmetics, boys should pay special attention when looking for a girlfriend, I once met a 'toad', he began to think that his girlfriend was a white swan, he picked up a big bargain, happily dated for a few months, until one day his girlfriend undressed in front of him, he found out that the other party was a black crow. ”

Shen Qiao saw a few young people talking lively, and interjected: "A marriage is a book, and most of the time, others can only see the cover of the book, but do not understand the contents. From now on, you must be mentally prepared to enjoy the sweetness of love life, and you must also bear the burden of housework such as educating children, honoring the elderly, firewood, rice, oil and salt, and buying vegetables and cooking. Some people say that love is enjoyment, and marriage is endurance; Falling in love is tasting nectar, and getting married is swallowing bitter fruit. These words are not unreasonable, love life is a wine made of bile, sweat and tears, and it is often forgotten to add sugar. However, people can't just fall in love and not get married, if you just want to appreciate the brightness of the flowers, you can't taste the sweetness of the fruits. ”

Chen Quanfu said with a smile: "Director Shen always stands up to give us philosophy lessons at critical times. ”

Shen Qiao said: "I don't want to give you a philosophy lesson, but to give you a wake-up call first, I have participated in many weddings, and the host generally wants the bride and groom to express their stance on the life after marriage, but I also found that it is often the man who speaks well, and the woman who does the good thing." Men have a relatively strong two-facedness, and men's two-faced nature is manifested in many places, such as the tone of speech before and after marriage, the different attitudes towards his wife in bed and out of bed, and the different behaviors in his parents' house and his father-in-law's house. Another point is that when young men and women get along, they should not have to distinguish between me and you and wrong in everything, but should not make concessions on matters of principle and pretend to be confused about trivial matters. Love and friendship are different, friendship, equal exchanges can last; Love, the pursuit of equality can break up. Whether it is premarital love or post-marital life, people who always want to show themselves smart are destined to have a lot of troubles, and seemingly mediocre people are often very happy. Couples who are considered by others to be very compatible may quarrel every day, and others think that the two people who are chaotic may live happily, and the key issue is that they must be able to understand each other, be considerate of each other, and deal with all kinds of contradictions encountered. One of the secrets of a happy marriage is to be calm with yourself, tolerant of each other, and it is best to turn the other person's habits into your own. In the life of both sexes, it is also necessary to remember the saying, 'Pretending to be deaf and dumb is the wisest place, and it is the wise thing to calm things down'. ”

Cui Dalin said: "We don't have a personal experience of how to arrange married life, my point of view is that there is no nostalgia for love life, and there is no fear of married life. After observing others, I feel that in a family, whether the husband and wife get along harmoniously or not, both people are working, but the main role is the woman. A man is like a car, while a woman, some are like a parking lot, for cars to be parked; Some are like gas stations, refueling cars; Some are like toll booths, and they ask for money when they see you; Some are like repair shops, and they will clean you up when they get home. Some men have two sides because they are a 'vulnerable group' at home, and 'two sides' are just a strategy to defend their own rights and balance the relationship between husband and wife. ”

Wu Wei said: "I agree with Dalin's words, I have a friend, his girlfriend is beautiful and loves cleanliness, known as 'Mei Jiajing', and my impression of her has always been good." However, after she married my friend, it was like a different person, gentle as water at first, and then cold as ice. She always mediates the relationship between her husband's family members, and speaks ill of her in-laws in front of her husband, and she says that her husband is not in front of her in-laws, and I told my friend that she is not 'Megajing' now, but 'double-sided needle'. My friend used to be a dutiful son, but after getting married, he changed to a pug in front of his wife and a white-eyed wolf in front of his parents. ”

Shen Qiao looked at his watch, it was almost afternoon work time, and he was about to urge the editors to "discharge floods" and "irrigate", when he suddenly remembered something and asked Wu Wei: "Is your father gone?" ”

"I just left yesterday, and I promised him to remit another 20,000 yuan to the family when he built a house in the autumn of this year, and he left with peace of mind. Some people have demolished the east wall to make up the west wall, but now I don't even have the east wall that can be demolished, and I only have the money to buy two marriage certificates. Some elderly people in some families don't understand the difficulties of their children, so they know that they want money, so I dropped my dad to the bus station, and the cars were all gone, and he waved his hand at me from the window and shouted, 'Don't forget to send money to your family when the time comes!' When he came to Beijing this time, I really wanted to say to him: 'In the future, the money will be your own son, and I will only be a chicken you feed, and you always think that the eggs in the eyes of the chicken's ass are too slow.'" ”

Listening to Wu Wei's tone, he was a little sad.

Chen Quanfu asked Wu Wei: "Didn't you say yesterday that you would send him to the train station, why did you only send him to the bus station?" ”

Wu Wei said: "I 'saw' him to the train station at the bus station. ”

Shen Qiao comforted Wu Wei and said: "Children should not be angry with their parents, your father is not like this to you, he is mainly afraid that you will change your mind after getting married, and he does not trust your girlfriend very much, I believe that you and Xiaochang will use practical actions to eliminate the concerns of the elderly." Your father has been living in a remote rural area for a long time, and he is afraid of poverty, because he wants to scrape together some money to build a house while you are not married yet and you have the final say. ”

Chen Quanfu said on the side: "People who have lived in the city for a long time and those who have lived in the countryside for a long time have big differences in ideology and living habits, and if they do not pay attention to communication, they are prone to misunderstandings. However, now the countrymen are also learning the way of life of the city people, and Xiao Wu's father, after living in his rental house for two days, also learned to pull the water tank after spitting and wash his hands before eating. He also learned to brush his teeth when he got up in the morning, but he always said that his son's toothpaste was of poor quality, and it wasn't until Xiao Wu found that he had less and less hemorrhoid cream in the bathroom that he knew the reason for his father's complaint. ”

Shen Qiao saw Wu Wei's embarrassed appearance, and said to him with a smile: "Don't listen to Xiao Chen's nonsense, I know he is joking with you." I always feel that your attitude towards life is a bit negative, and positive youth are like the sun, round and bright every day; Negative youth are like the moon, and the fifteenth day of the new year is different, so they are always emotionally up and down, and they are constantly troubled. People from poor families should not feel inferior, for some people, poverty is another sense of wealth, in this regard, you have to learn from Cui Dalin. ”

In the corridor, the voice of the office director Fan Lin spoke, Fei Aijun and Wu Wei hurriedly went back to their respective rooms, and Cui Dalin and Chen Fufu also hurriedly took their places. (To be continued.) )