The "common people" of the military compound (3) (5)
Yang Chuanfu's old mother is very popular in the village, and several old ladies in their seventies and eighties who live nearby also like to get together with her. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info The old ladies are together, nothing more than talking about some housework of the east family, the west family, the south family, the diligent and the north family, and the lazy housework, and it is inevitable to talk about the good and bad daughters-in-law in their own family or other people's families. Some wise old ladies always say good things about their daughter-in-law in front of everyone, and the good things she says reach the ears of her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law treats her better; Some old ladies who are not very smart always speak ill of their daughter-in-law in front of everyone, and the bad things she says reach the ears of her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law treats her even worse.
Zheng Lina said to Yang Chuanfu that generally speaking, the mother-in-law can tolerate her son-in-law, but the mother-in-law cannot tolerate her daughter-in-law, not only because of gender issues, but also because of emotional problems. Many mothers-in-law can treat their son-in-law as half a son, and only a few mothers-in-law can treat their daughter-in-law as half a daughter. The reverse is also true, the son-in-law can treat the mother-in-law as another mother of his own, but it is difficult for the daughter-in-law to treat the mother-in-law as another mother of his own.
Yang Chuanfu felt that Zheng Lina was also quite concerned about her mother-in-law, and often called to greet her, and the old man was more enthusiastic when he came to Beijing several times. She said to Yang Chuanfu, when your mother came to our house, I always felt that there was a layer of window paper between me and her, and I had to be careful when I spoke and did things, I don't know why? Yang Chuanfu thought to himself, do you still need to ask this question, your mother comes to our house, you can hand her the towel you use after washing your face, my mother comes to our house, wipe your face with your towel once, and you will be unhappy for a day or two.
The Snow Maiden was kissed by the hot lips of the sun and burst into tears, she seemed to be an infatuated girl in love, and gradually lost herself in infinite emotion.
Fei Yuanqing's current military compound is located along Fuxing Road, close to the Gongzhufen business district, and the transportation and shopping are very convenient. His little grandson Xiao Xiao came back from the shopping mall outside the yard wearing the sneakers he had just bought, and he didn't listen to what Fei Yuanqing shouted at all when he was carrying the old shoes.
When passing by the military service club in the compound, Xiao Xiao said to Fei Yuanqing: "Grandpa, I still want to eat chocolate." Fei Yuanqing said: "That's not good, I told you just now, your mother asked you to eat less sweets, for fear of eating your teeth, your mother may be ready to cook for us at home, let's hurry home and eat." ”
Xiao Xiao pouted, leaned against the trunk of the small pine tree on the side of the road and refused to go any further, letting the melted snow from the tree drip on the down jacket.
Xiao Xiao also loves fruits, Fei Yuanqing promised to buy him oranges, and he jumped into the military service club.
There are no oranges in the military service club, only navel oranges, Fei Yuanqing just said to let the waiter weigh two catties, Xiao Xiao stopped doing it on the side, and shouted: "I want to eat oranges, don't eat oranges!" ”
Fei Yuanqing said: "Aren't oranges the same as oranges!" ”
"It's different!" Xiao Xiao shook his head, "My uncle said, oranges are big girls, oranges are little girls, big girls' clothes are not easy to take off, little girls' clothes are easy to take off." ”
Several customers and waiters next to him laughed, and a three- or four-year-old kid would say such a thing! Fei Yuanqing's face turned red, he didn't buy oranges, and took Xiao Xiao's arm and walked out of the military service club.
Fei Yuanqing usually doesn't have much to say to Aijun, and rarely has the opportunity to quarrel and grind his teeth, and many times they tacitly understand or tolerate each other on many things. However, this time he was obviously angry, and returned home to reprimand his son: "If you don't teach your children to learn well, do you want to be an instigator?" ”
After the inexplicable Aijun figured out the reason for Fei Yuanqing's anger, he smiled disapprerovingly and said: "Dad, I teach Xiao Xiao to learn knowledge with figurative words, which will help his growth more than you pamper your child." ”
Fei Yuanqing was the most reluctant to hear others say that he was spoiled by Xiao Xiao, although he was very pampered, and shouted to Aijun with a stiff neck: "How can I spoil him, don't you educate him to learn well every day!" ”
"You can educate your children well in that way? Let's not talk about anything else, you see he is like now, in our house is more and more 'casual' - I'm talking about open defecation. ”
Aiqin, who was cooking, heard Fei Yuanqing and Aijun arguing loudly in the living room for Xiao Xiao's matter, and hurriedly walked out of the kitchen with a spatula, and after asking the reason, he leaned towards his father and said to his younger brother: "You sometimes do some things a little too much, the day before yesterday your brother-in-law was smoking on the balcony, Xiao Xiao saw it, and shouted to him, 'Zhao Qiliang, don't smoke anymore!'" So angry that your brother-in-law slapped him a few times, Xiao Xiao said that you taught him to shout like that. ”
Xiao Xiao is still a little afraid of his father Zhao Qiliang's slap in his own home, and he is not afraid of anything in his grandfather's house, his father sometimes can't help but get angry, Xiao Xiao will shout loudly, "Grandpa!" Grandfather! It seems that Fei Yuanqing is "119".
Aijun quibbled with his sister and said: "I want my brother-in-law to smoke less, it's for his good, why can't Xiao Xiao call him Zhao Qiliang's name?" Now you have to have a real-name system for everything, you have to have a real-name system to buy a plane ticket, you have to have a real-name system to buy a train ticket, and you have to have a real-name system for depositing money and withdrawing money in the bank, so your family can't implement the real-name system?
"When you were a child, did you dare to call our father's name in our house?"
"Me? Of course I didn't dare when I was a kid! Aijun felt a little unreasonable, and when he saw his father enter the bathroom, he was embarrassed to whisper to his sister, "When Xiao Xiao was so old, our mother and the two of us had not joined the army, and every time my father visited the house, I was so frightened that I hid behind my mother when I saw him, like a thief seeing the police, and dared to call his name?" ”
"You don't dare to call our father's name, so let Xiao Xiao call his father's name, isn't this still deliberately teaching him to learn badly?"
"Times are different, now is not a society that teaches people to learn well, deceives superiors and subordinates, and makes a fortune by lying and lying, do you still want Xiao Xiao to be an honest and obedient fool like us?" Aijun is sometimes unreasonable and cunning in front of his sister.
Aijun said a little hard behind this, and was heard by Fei Yuanqing, who had just come out of the bathroom, he felt that his son's words hurt his ears, and criticized Aijun and said: "Are you like what a young man in the new era said, the sunshine and darkness in the world coexist, and the beautiful and the ugly coexist." You can embrace the sunshine or curse the darkness, but you can't deny this society, you are also a member of society, and denying everything in society is equivalent to denying yourself. Respecting the elderly, loving the young, and being honest are the virtues that have been passed down from our ancestors for thousands of years. Abusing power for personal gain, embezzlement, and bribery are nothing but dregs that have risen in a certain period of time in the long river of history, and they have no vitality. ”
Aijun unhappily reminded Fei Yuanqing: "Old man, this is at home, not in class, you are talking to your son, not to the students!" ”
Fei Yuanqing also became serious, and his words were not very good: "Many things have to be found from themselves, I don't like the so-called 'angry youth', blindly blaming others and resenting society." If you're wearing a top hat, someone else will put you on your head, and if you're a pair of sock pads, someone else can only trample you underfoot. ”
Aijun also wanted to refute his father's words, but when he saw that Aiqin gave him a look, he swallowed back the words that came to his throat.
Aiqin comforted Fei Yuanqing with kind words, Fei Yuanqing breathed a sigh of relief, and when he saw Aijun enter his room, he said to Aiqin: "Okay, okay, don't persuade me again, I'm not angry, he was originally a dog's tail grass, and I can't expect him to bloom peony flowers." ”
Although Aiqin often favors his father when he has conflicts with his younger brother, he is unwilling to listen to his father say something demeaning to Aijun, such as "**** is ****, even if a layer of sesame seeds is stuck on the outside, it can't become a snack." "If the crow wears a white hanger, no one will say it's a swan." And so on, these are all his evaluations of the Patriotic Army. Aiqin thinks that Aijun is kind and kind, straightforward, and likes to complain about bad phenomena in society and tell strange things, but he will not do things that are out of line. After his mother died, he cared for his father well, but he didn't coax or talk about it.
"There are some things that can't be blamed entirely on Aijun, you can't talk at length as soon as you speak to him, full of anger, what you said to him just now is really like a lecture in class, he is your son, not a cadet of a military academy!"
Fei Yuanqing listened to her daughter's words, lowered her head, and said nothing.
Seeing that the family was not too happy, Aiqin didn't want to stay at his father's house for long, so he called Zhao Qiliang after dinner and asked him to drive home early to pick him up and Xiao Xiao. (To be continued.) )