The "common people" of the military compound (3) (4)
Yang Chuanfu thought about going to the park with Fei Yuanqing yesterday, and unconsciously walked to the place where he broke up with Fei Yuanqing on this road that night. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info he couldn't help but look in the direction where Fei Yuanqing lived, knowing that Fei Yuanqing was unlikely to go out in this weather, and today was Saturday, and his daughter might also bring her children to see him.
The street lights had already worked their night shifts, handing over the obligation of lighting to Dawn.
Xiaoxue was like a silk basket sifting powder, wanting to stop, and several old people who had been exercising with Yang Chuanfu in the morning on this section walked by and greeted Yang Chuanfu with their eyes.
Yang Chuanfu was afraid that he would come out for a long time, which would cause Zheng Lina to worry, so he turned back and walked back before he walked to the Military Museum.
Yang Chuanfu thought while walking, although Fei Yuanqing's wife is gone, but he has both children and daughters, and he already has grandchildren around his knees, and his daughter Qiuping is also twenty-six or seventeen years old, she has really become an autumn duckweed, and I don't know where the roots are in the future.
Yesterday, Fei Yuanqing also asked about Qiu Ping's situation, Yang Chuanfu told him that Qiu Ping said on the phone with Zheng Lina a few days ago that she considered that the current domestic development space is relatively large, and she is an only child, and her parents will need to take care of her in the future, so she plans to return to China for employment after graduating with a master's degree. Regarding the many urgings of her parents to talk about her boyfriend, Qiu Ping told Zheng Lina that the Chinese circle where she studied was very small, and if there was a suitable boy in China, she could pay attention to it. After Fei Yuanqing listened to Qiu Ping's condition of finding a boyfriend with "a bachelor's degree or above, a height of more than 1.75 meters", he joked to Yang Chuanfu and said, I want to climb high, but unfortunately the ladder is short, otherwise I will let my son pursue your daughter, and our friends will add relatives. However, I know that although my son's conditions are not very good, some of the editors in their editorial department have good conditions, and one of them is still your fellow countryman, I don't know if they have a partner now.
Yang Chuanfu listened to Fei Yuanqing's words, and hurriedly said that he should ask Aijun to ask Aijun, and if possible, let Aijun help Qiu Ping find a boyfriend.
The snow stopped, the day dawned, and Grandpa Sun climbed up from the roof of the building in the east with a flushed face as if he had drunk a few more cups of Erguotou last night, and said good morning to the city of Beijing, which had just woken up.
Yang Chuanfu returned home, had breakfast, and heard the clock on the wall ring nine times before dialing his mother's phone in his hometown.
After watching the news broadcast every night, Yang Chuanfu would look at the weather forecast in Beijing and his hometown, and he knew yesterday that there was a strong wind in his hometown to cool down today.
The old people have not yet gotten up, the old people in the countryside are generally in a semi-hibernation state when the weather is cold, sleep until - it should be said to lie down - at nine or ten o'clock in the morning, get up and eat something casually, if the weather is still good, just find a leeward place, a few people get together, bask in the sun, chat about family life, and do not have to pay the heating bill to God, and then eat a slightly decent lunch at two or three o'clock in the afternoon, and get into the bed at five or six o'clock. The old man told Yang Chuanfu on the phone that his two younger brothers had built a coal stove for her, and because the weather was too cold, the daughters-in-law would not let her cook alone, and took turns to bring her food at noon every day.
Yang Chuanfu's mother is 87 years old, and after his father died, the old man used to take turns eating and living at Yang Chuanfu's two younger brothers' houses. When the old man brought up the four children who stood together like two brothers standing on a ladder one by one, the contradiction became prominent. Since six or seven years ago, despite the opposition of the children, the old man insisted on living alone, on the grounds that he was old and had many problems, and he did not want to find too much trouble for future generations. Yang Chuanfu vaguely heard that the two brothers-in-law had words and behaviors that disliked the elderly, and the stubborn old mother also said to Yang Chuanfu: I can eat coarse tea and light rice, and I can wear tattered clothes, but I don't want to listen to other people's ugly words, and I don't want to see other people's ugly faces.
For the sake of his old mother's life, Yang Chuanfu put a lot of thought into it, and there were some unpleasant things with his two younger brothers. Yang Chuanfu sometimes thinks in his heart, "It's not too much for a mother to give birth to ten sons, and it's too verbose for ten sons to raise a mother." This sentence is not bad at all, in the past, the living conditions were not good, a couple could support a group of children, but now the living conditions are good, a group of children can not support an old man. There is also an old folk saying, "You must know the kindness of your parents and hold your children and grandchildren in your arms." However, some people hug their children and grandchildren, but they forget the old man who once hugged them. How much can an old lady eat and drink? Add an extra bowl of water to the pot, which is her meal, and a bed in the room is her home. For the affairs of the family, Yang Chuanfu, who is thousands of miles away, has no other way, the old man is unwilling to leave his hometown to live outside for a long time, although he has been to Beijing several times, but he will leave after living at the eldest son's house for a few days. In the past, the living conditions in the countryside were not good, and Yang Chuanfu sent dozens of yuan of living expenses to the elderly every month, and the two younger brothers felt that it was very rare, but now that the living conditions in the countryside are good, no one cares about sending back a few hundred yuan every month.
Yang Chuanfu's younger brothers also have opinions about him, who is an elder brother, saying that it is the cadres in the village who are messing around, some have built houses for their families, some have bought cars for their families, and some have arranged jobs for their relatives in the city. "The right not to expire and be invalidated" is what his two younger brothers often say to him.
After Yang Chuanfu retired, he planned to go back to his hometown every few months and stay at home with his mother. The old man knew that his eldest son had been working outside for decades, and now he was not used to living in the countryside for a long time, and he used to come back either with a cold and fever, or with gastrointestinal discomfort, so she asked Yang Chuanfu to go back once or twice a year when the climate was good. Yang Chuanfu also knew that the old man wanted to let himself accompany her more, leaning on the door to look at the township, hoping that her son would return as soon as possible, every time she knew that her eldest son was going back, she would be so happy that she couldn't sleep well for several days. However, she couldn't bear to watch her eldest son live at home and not adapt to it. In the world, regardless of your own feelings and difficulties, and even regardless of your own safety, the person who always thinks about you wholeheartedly can only be a mother.
Yang Chuanfu knows very well in his heart, I don't know which time, the difference between himself and his old mother has become a farewell, and the time he lives at home is limited, and what is easy to do at present is to call the elderly more often.
Every time Yang Chuanfu leaves his hometown, he is reluctant, and he always wants to go back to see when there is not much to do in Beijing. He felt that the happiest thing for a person in his sixties was to return to his hometown after a long absence, push open the familiar firewood door, and shout "Mom, I'm back!" Then I saw an old lady who was still in good health trembling and coming out on crutches------
Around the Mid-Autumn Festival this year, Yang Chuanfu accompanied his mother to live in his hometown for more than half a month, and every time he returned home, the old man only let his eldest son sit and talk to him, and did not let his son do any work. Yang Chuanfu wanted to pour boiling water for her, she took the cup and poured it herself, Yang Chuanfu wanted to fold the quilt for her, and she pushed Yang Chuanfu aside.
"I also told your two brothers at home, I don't have any major problems with my hands and feet now, none of you can do anything about me, and when I can't do anything, you can help me." She said to Yang Chuanfu.
Some of the nephews and nieces went out to work, some lived in the school to study, and every time Yang Chuanfu left his hometown, he told his two younger brothers to tell them to go to the old man more often, take good care of the old man, and don't let the old man be thirsty and hungry, fall and touch, and don't make the old man angry.
What makes Yang Chuanfu feel relieved is that the old mother is not too lonely in her life, her younger brother and sister-in-law do not live with the elderly, and there seem to be a lot fewer contradictions, and they are able to visit the elderly often. It stands to reason that the younger brother and sister-in-law can do this step is not bad, and the old couple of Yang Lao in the back village have also separated from their two sons, according to the agreement, each son will give the old man 35 yuan per month for living expenses, and Yang Lao often asks his two sons for accounts because he can't get the money in time. The sons are usually very reluctant to give the old man money, and the old man is not willing to go over to help, some people in the village say that Yang Lao's two sons, one wants the old man's land, and the other wants the old man's house, and they don't want their own face. There are also people in the village who say that Yang Lao Lian and his wife raised a pig, fed a sheep, and two sons, and they have a total of four "beasts". In the end, the "beast" is inferior to people, Yang Lao Lian and his wife's health is not very good, no one pours a bowl of water when they are thirsty, and no one cooks a meal when they are hungry.
Yang Laolian's eldest son went to high school and was considered a literate person, and when he heard someone in the village scolding him as a "beast", he still had a heartfelt words: "Are people originally beasts?" ”
He is also right, but it takes tens of thousands of years for a "beast" to become a man, and it only takes a short time for a person to become a "beast". What is even more tragic is that some people are not even as good as animals, and if anyone puts them in the piggery and sheepfold, the pigs and sheep may bombard him outside, and they will be ashamed to be with him. (To be continued.) )