The first three, just because there is a "me", so there will be those problems, if you "I" are empty, not selfish, self-interested, where is that "me"? Therefore, not fighting, not being greedy, not seeking, not being selfish, not self-interested, and not lying, this is also included in these four. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info" Yan Ji looked at Gongzi Yingji after speaking, hoping that Yingji would be able to pay attention to it!

For Yan Ji's actions today, Gongzi Yingji was also very confused, but in his words, he was clearly telling himself that there were some things that could not be hidden, and in his words, he also conveyed his dissatisfaction with his actions! However, Gongzi Yingji still hoped to take advantage of this to capture what Yan Ji wanted to say, and then asked:

"Why was Confucius like this?" What is revealed in the words is why Yan Ji did this, and what does it mean, but the magic is one foot high and one foot high, and Yan Ji still said what she meant, pretending to be the mouth of a saint!

Confucius is like this because there is no self, and without self-grasping, self-grasping is already empty. in order to be empty-minded; If it is not the heart of a saint, it will not be empty. Just as the person at the moment only sees a self and does not see anything outside of me, only cares about me and does not care about feelings outside of me, in this case, there is no state of selflessness at all.

Sage Yun'This heart is blinded by selfish desires, which is the principle of heaven! But all pretending to be 'selfless' is not long-lasting, people can see at a glance, this place is the most test of real kung fu, usually have to be sincere, otherwise, when the matter comes, you will still take too much care of your own feelings!

"No self", the first "no meaning" in the front, "no necessity" and "no solidity" in the middle, just because Confucius has no self-attachment and sees "me" as very detached, so there is no problem. Why do people cause trouble? Why are you unhappy? Why bother? Just because the mind, the will, the firmness, and the self are all thoughts of the mind, not where the truth is. If there were no Confucius, what would be the value of human life in the world? Confucius taught the Five Virtues, the Eight Virtues, the Three Principles, and the Five Constants – benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom, and faith, which everyone must understand. If everyone can complete benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faith, people's qualifications will be perfect, if they do not understand benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faith, it can be said that they are not human! ”

Yan Ji's words made Gongzi Yingji stunned all of a sudden, he really didn't expect that Yan Ji would have such amazing words! Although he didn't say a word about himself, but invisibly, every word was said to himself, which made Gongzi Yingji's heart feel like pressing a boulder.

Breathless, but the more intuitive feeling is still as if eating dead human flesh, extremely disgusting, but I can't find the words to refute it, Gongzi Yingji's face is red, and the scene suddenly becomes very embarrassing, although there are words in Yan Ji's words, but I don't know how to answer!

However, it is this kind of change that makes Yan Ji aware of the clues inside, and from another aspect, I am also sure that the words of the guards are definitely not groundless, but there is no real evidence at the moment, so I really didn't continue to question it, Yan Ji saw that the time was almost over, and if she asked again, I am afraid there would be no good results.

It's better to push the boat down the river, don't annoy Gongzi Yingji, and fortunately, after he leaves, he can treat his daughter better, Yan Ji said:

"I don't know son, what advice do you have for finding a slave?" When the two spoke, the little girl was a little impatient, but seeing the expressions of her parents, she was so serious, she didn't dare to interject a sentence at will, but now that there was a gap, the little girl took the opportunity to take over the conversation and muttered:

"Father must have come to play with Ling'er!" As soon as these words came out, the tense atmosphere was eased a lot, and in front of the child, Gongzi Yingji was still able to maintain the image of a father, and his rhetoric and defense were also very methodical, and he would not lose his sense of proportion.

Seeing that the girl stepped forward to talk, she didn't want to continue to entangle, if she continued to entangle, she would also be asked at a loss, and then she got off the donkey, stretched out her hand to pick up the little girl, and said a little naturally:

"Ling'er! Do you want us to play together? ”

"Good! All right! All right! "The little girl is more than others, and she is already very happy to see her father and mother by her side, and as for other things, they are naturally not in her own consideration!

Yan Ji saw that Gongzi Yingji was like this, and her heart was also a stone falling to the ground, anyway, according to the current situation, even if she left this place, Gongzi Yingji would not be difficult for her daughter, no matter how you say that Gongzi Yingji is also the father of the girl, the truth that tiger poison does not eat children, Gongzi Yingji still understands!

Don't talk about the powerful position in the world, don't say it's a high-ranking official or a wealthy businessman, but anyone who still has natural principles and morality, benevolence, righteousness and shame, can understand that their own identity, their own position, and how they do it in front of their children will affect the style of the next generation.

It is very likely that this practice will also affect the development of future generations, so in front of their children, everyone will be cautious about their words and deeds, and do not leave a bad influence on future generations.

There is a saying in Confucianism: 'His body is upright, and he does not obey orders; His body is not right, although he does not obey orders, whether he is an official or a worker, in the end he is a man, whether it is in front of people or after people, only if he has a good character, even if he does not issue orders, everyone is convinced of himself, if he is not upright, even if he issues orders, or comments on some things, everyone will not obey. ”

Gongzi Yingji and Yan Ji both understand this truth, so now the two of them look at each other and smile, although the smile is full of endless speculation and confusion, but the two know that at this moment and now, what the two should do is still to be a good parent and what they should do.

Putting aside all the vendettas in the rivers and lakes, all the palace infighting, Gongzi Yingji and Yan Ji and their own daughters, the three of them ran wantonly on the river beach, the little girl's favorite game is nothing more than the game of you chasing me, Gongzi Yingji picked up the little girl, Yan Ji pretended to chase hard in the back,

The little girl giggled happily, and the laughter was full of attachment to her mother and father, and such emotions were like spring rain.

Good rain knows the season, when spring happens. Dive into the night with the wind, moisturizing things silently. However, such a scene is destined not to last long, and it is destined to be like an epiphany, always in an instant.