Chen Fei's gossip did rise, because he was also very curious about these things. Men have had a queen since ancient times. The idea of the palace, and then the management problem, how to make these women get along with each other and be able to be like sisters, this is absolutely very important. They can even help each other, so that they can be considered a family. It's a pity that the vast majority of men can't do it, even the emperor in the palace can't do it.

And Chen Fei originally lived in the later life, so he didn't have any experience in managing his own multiple women. If in the next life, it will be troublesome to have this kind of experience, and it will definitely be notorious. So Chen Fei didn't know anything about this kind of thing, so he also planned to hear how the Cui family managed these women, and this must be learned. If you don't study it, you will inevitably face the result of a fire in your own backyard. Chen Fei thinks that there will be more and more women in the future, so if he doesn't manage it well, there will be problems.

"In fact, our Cui family manages wives and concubines, which is very simple, that is, they treat everyone equally. The men of our Cui family, except for the main wife, the other concubines are all of the same rank. Regardless of whether the man dotes on the concubine or not, if he wants to give one of the concubines any treatment, or buy any gifts, food, clothing, and housing, they will all be treated equally. In this way, it is ensured that all concubines are treated the same, and in this way, it is also possible to ensure that they have no opinions. Of course, the treatment of the main wife must be the best, and the son is a son-in-law and has the right to inherit. Cui Xiuxiu said.

When Chen Fei heard this, it seemed that this rule was the same as the laws of those Arab countries that Chen Fei had listened to in later generations, although men there could marry four wives, but they stipulated that every wife was required to have the same treatment and treat every wife fairly. In Arabia, a man who buys a luxury car for one wife has to buy the same luxury car for three other wives. Everything else is the same, so that they can all enjoy the same treatment. And the Cui family this method. There are some similarities with the Arabs, so that they can avoid the fights caused by different treatment in life.

If it is like in the ancient palace, the kind of deliberately divided the concubines into different ranks, and then different grades were given different treatments, so that it was first of all a source of fighting. Because of the different levels and different treatments, this will make those concubines fight for vanity and better treatment, which will intensify their backyard restlessness. And the Cui family's method ensures that everyone is treated the same, so that they don't need to fight. They are treated the same, so they don't have to look at anyone's face, and no one is much worse than anyone anyway.

And then. You know if someone has a crush on another woman's stuff, do you know how they deal with each other? Cui Xiuxiu asked.

"How?" Chen Fei asked, he had no experience in this kind of thing, so it was understandable to take the initiative to learn it.

Cui Xiuxiu continued: "If these women have anything that they look up to each other, it is to trade with each other, and it is strictly forbidden for them to give each other away. ”

Chen Fei frowned, because this was too "unkind". Originally, it was supposed to help each other as a family, and as women of the same man, they should also be "sisters". Then it is also appropriate to give each other something and exchange feelings. However, the Cui family's family rules make it clear that they can't give each other, and even strictly prohibit these rules of giving each other, so does this push the relationship between everyone farther.

"It's all family. Why bother? Chen Fei sighed and said.

Cui Xiuxiu immediately retorted: "Who is the family? Maybe between the man and any of the women is a family. However, between these women and women, it can never be said that they are a family. They are called a family. It's all because they are women of the same man that they become a so-called family, but do you think they will really be a family? I was going to share the same man with a lot of women. That's tantamount to dividing the most important things for themselves, what do you think their relationship will be? Even if they weren't enemies, they could never be friends. ”

"The ancients said that brothers settle accounts, but this so-called 'sister' is actually an enemy in their bones, and it is almost impossible to make them close to each other. Therefore, the so-called mutual gift and exchange of feelings, although this seems to be a good thing, but in the end, it is often a debt to each other. Once you owe a favor, it depends on the person's face. After a long period of time, the final result is that the grudge gets deeper and deeper, and then it explodes. So the Cui family has summed it up, they can't expect them to be like sisters, but they definitely can't make a fuss. Let none of them look at anyone's face, and no one owes anyone favors, which is the main reason to ensure that they can not make a fuss. ”

When Chen Fei heard this, he felt some emotion in his heart, this is actually using the system to manage the house. As for making these women like sisters, that's all false and unlikely. In fact, they are actually rivals in love, and it is simply whimsical to make them close to each other like sisters. They are actually strangers, but they are forcibly twisted into a family by a man, but in reality they have no family relationship. And if you give things to each other, you end up owing favors. The money debt may be easy to repay, but the favor debt is too difficult to repay. Once they owe each other favors, it is tantamount to complicating the relationship between these women, and finally a lot of family politics will erupt. In this way, they are all factors that will brew discord in the backyard, and it is men who are the victims. Therefore, it is strictly forbidden for them to give to each other, in fact, it is to simplify their relationship, and in the end, although they cannot be like sisters, at least they will not fight each other. This is probably the most stable way to manage and prevent them from getting into trouble over something.

"That's why I don't want to accept that Miss Wu's gift, I don't want to have anything to do with her, let alone owe her a favor, and we don't have any relationship between us. That way, I don't have to look at her face, and she doesn't have to deliberately please me, so everyone can be treated as strangers. Then there will be no fight between me and her, as long as you can treat us equally, and then there will be nothing to fight. (To be continued......)