Chapter 19: New Missions
Now it's not like that, why don't you tell your parents to make them die? With your ex-wife, your ex-wife may still be waiting for you.
"You just said the object, what are you doing, I know, you are using the money as a spare tire, this girlfriend can't get along. He has a heart to reconcile with his ex-wife."
"You say you're not as happy as I am, look at your behavior, if you've been a girlfriend for more than a year, you don't announce the fact that you're a virgin, and then you're very ambiguous enough to accept your mother's suggestion to participate in such a big event in this person's family in the early stage, he is a son-in-law, you say you don't have this kind of mind, I don't believe you see, of course it's unrealistic, I did go to this thing, but it's other things, I never participated"
Confucius taught an apprentice and scolded the saying that we all know, rotten wood cannot be carved, and the wall of dung cannot be enclosed, why? He, this apprentice, said this very nicely, and began to say that this apprentice is very good at coaxing people, and he said what is Confucius's surname, but later he found out that it was not like that. The student told Childe that I must study hard, but as a result, I didn't get up until three o'clock in the morning, and the other students were reading aloud, and then the students were sleeping there.
Very angry, Confucius said in the past, I am looking at his words, believing in his deeds, behind my back I want to observe his actions and informants, what do you call watching his deeds and believing in his words, you keep saying, you don't mean that, but what do you say, what do you say, what is your behavior saying. Fundamentally, are you inconsistent with your words and deeds, without me thinking so, because at that time, it doesn't matter what you think, our behavior is known to all of us.
I have to see what your behavior is, if you don't announce the news of your virgin girlfriend, your parents don't know, and your closest parents don't know, you still say that you are filial, and then go to participate in the early activities as a son-in-law, and don't tell your parents that you are friends, isn't it just to leave a way for your ex-wife to remarry her ex-wife?
No matter how much you say, do you want me to see your behavior, or do you believe what you say? I don't think so, will my girlfriend want it like this, otherwise people will want to break up with you? I really think so, reasonable and unreasonable, do you think?
"I think it's reasonable to stand in her position, I, as a melon eater, I think the same way, but I regret this matter, and I also decided to change it, if it is useful to apologize and regret, what do you want the police to do. Decided to get rid of that one and beg him. And he said it was me, and I shouldn't have said that if I said it from him, it was he who said thank you yesterday and didn't let me go."
"You just said a detail, that is, when you went to this funeral and participated in this big event as a son-in-law, you said that you didn't take this matter seriously at all, with this detail, can I deduce a conclusion, I don't care about your girlfriend's feelings at all, you don't think about other people's feelings at all, people will naturally be, what have you thought about, you have thought that you can still go, will you go?"
You're a clever tongue, but who is rare? I don't believe you talk first, your girlfriend definitely doesn't believe it either, the feelings of the masses and the real feelings you are still turned off, you know this kind of thing can't let him know that you are friends with others, you don't really renew it, you still turn off the phone, you hide from others to go to your ex-wife's house to be a son-in-law, who will continue with you, don't break up with you, isn't that woman confused, Mr. is this matter is my fault, and then I also realized my mistake, that is, the messenger is the greatest, so since you say what is right to whom?
Is this a question of whether or not you are a person who treats your girlfriend sincerely, what does it have to do with the king? If it is something else, I really don't get involved, for example, who can't tell your girlfriend? Two people face together, this shows that you have a good relationship, I'm afraid that he will be unhappy if he knows, and then he will know that he will be unhappy about this matter, he will not approve, you still hide it from him, how much feelings do you have for him, I deserve to break up with you in other people, this is what you deserve, if Mr. can't get up, then you can't ask her for forgiveness, you can ask for more blessings, okay?
I just didn't take other people's feelings to heart, and I didn't have the sincerity to take the money to the whole root as a spare tire, I was wrong, if you can forgive me, give me another chance, I can't forgive the pull, my family's tail is so simple, what else is there to nag to listen to you more of this clever position of the distinction is not necessary.
This is a problem of family education, it really hurts, it is indeed like this to be able to participate in family education, it is more careful, his little pick is still two different things. There are also three months, but I told him about the bride price. It may be a bit early, but I'm in the morning, and I feel that he is a little younger, and after telling him to make him self-motivated, I don't mean to let him take out the money at once and slowly work hard to earn it. But he told me, was there something wrong with his answer?
Then you just recognized the eight characters for three months and haven't skimmed it, so you plan to ask for 150,000 yuan, so that he will quickly bear this pressure, do you think there is something wrong with what you are doing?
But girl, anyway, these young men, he thinks he pays more than you, well, because for example, if he goes to your house, she will spend 500 to buy gifts, and you may buy two or three hundred when you go to his house, because you have less income, not as much as him, you have a monthly income of 2,000, and he has a monthly income of 5,000, but you may go into her house as much as you can, or give him some gifts.
You tell your daddy, you analyze that he is young, and your previous boyfriend is older, it won't be like this, oh you won't say that you don't care about this not about age. And in general, a little bit of tutoring and this social polite person will not be like him, that is, what does he belong to, not only a matter of young age, but also a problem of family education, family education and human nature, so you have thought about what we are not dealing with, you can stand his kind of care, you can't stand it and pull it down. And I personally don't think this calculation will change because of age and experience, he probably is.
"For example, as he grows older, his experience increases, he earns more money, and he may seem less careful on the surface, but there are some things in his heart that will not change, and he will integrate into his living habits and, this is to become some of his lifelong detractors, do you know what I mean?"
It's easy to change. But I think it's true, you two families visit to give gifts, and you also convert the gas money into it, what kind of algorithm is this? This kind of algorithm is an operation of the orphan. It's really interesting, in the words of our Northeast people, it's really interesting, he counted the gas money for me, my God, why don't you also include the cost of wearing the soles of your shoes? Do you know how ridiculous it is? Can you tell him how ridiculous my opinion is that of a people who eat melons? Do you want me to give you two more soles? Because you went to my house, you wore out your shoes, and this kind of wear and tear should be included.
I often say that reading is very important, this reading is very important, so we, how can we be, is which books to read, often have friends, especially girls, let me make a list of books, let me this guidance is to read which books, I have been doing this for a long time, all kinds of things, I have summed up a book list.
Will you have the patience to read them all, but I personally think that if you want to, that is, as the most basic person who can read, then what about everyone, do you know what he is talking about? Let me tell you first, I will tell you what this is talking about in this statement, if you are interested, you yourself have read these 100 books, I think your level must be at that very high speed, and it will improve over time, so I want to set up a reading club to recommend to everyone, and then recommend good books to everyone.
Men are from Venus, men are from Mars, women are from Venus, or a brief history, and many other good books that everyone is familiar with, popular books, books that many people admire, I read it first, and then tell everyone about it, that is, I want to set up such a reading club, and everyone is preparing for it. Everyone should also make a preparation, so uh strive to let a lot of friends, especially girls, read more and become a smart person.
Because every reading will have a certain enrichment in your own heart, which is also a thing that cannot be avoided in the listed life, for this thing that you want to improve, no one can be your bridesmaid, this is your own behavior, but also a kind of care for your future life. Maybe everyone will have different feelings in their hearts when they see these poisons, because when everyone sees these things in front of them, they have completely different experiences, which is a difference between everyone, which can be regarded as very strange.