"So I said what's the difference between this and Ming robbery, no one wants to give you a wedding, besides, the man's family didn't even mention the matter of registration, I don't think I have much confidence and confidence in this girl, plus this girl opens her mouth and wants a house and a car, it's like robbing money, do you say the man's family can stand it?"

Can you think you're a good girl? Sometimes, I don't keep telling you about it, this girl, whether she is taken seriously or not is not actually about how much the bride price is, but when the bride price is paid, it is how much the bride price is when you get married, and the more the lion opens his mouth.

"The higher the position in the family or whatever, on the contrary, it is a girl who has a big mouth and wants a bride price, it may be this kind of behavior to bury mines for herself after marriage, that is all maybe, affecting the marriage relationship, that is all uncertain. Therefore, everyone is saying that they know the bride price, it is an old custom, what is it, that is, folk customs are whether it is a bride price or a dowry."

Everyone is trying to make both sides willing, happy, happy, then you both take 1000 yuan each, or even more 10 million, everyone is happy, there is nothing wrong with that, but because of the bride price there was a conflict, there was a quarrel, and even a stick beat the mandarin duck, that means it is unreasonable, not worth it, everyone should reduce their behavior to see whether they put forward unreasonable requirements, is this some aspects really not done, all carry out self-criticism, right?

There are some girls and their parents, the thoughts in their heads, they are more conservative compared to this and this, and I may also think that marrying a daughter must open their mouths to ask each other for a bride price. Now it's different from the past, it's not the old society now, right, this daughter-in-law's behavior, conceptual point of view, that is, its definition, it may not be the same as in the past, and it is not the same as the feudal society, so we maintain the etiquette Oh, this gift is also one of the Zhou rites, we maintain this gift culture, in order to make him, uh, just to make this thing, make our life more ceremonial, more beautiful.

"It's not about letting anyone, because this lion opens his mouth, this raises money to improve his life, this is not the original intention of the bride price and dowry, not the original intention of pretending, everyone must not understand wrong, do not destroy the good marriage because of this"

The purpose of getting married, getting along again, and then something happened in the past two days, which caused him to separate from me, what is the reason? is my Xuanyue suit, when he died and was buried, my mother and this ex-mother-in-law's house were walking, because the child was there, so I talked about saying that the family is like my ex-wife who has not had a boyfriend anymore and is single, and then in such a situation, if there is this son-in-law, or if there is a boyfriend, there should be a man to follow and participate in this matter.

My mom came back to me, and from my point of view, I didn't want to go, but the family said that if you are like this, you can go, there is really no one in the family, and generally your scalp is too hard, so hard that you can't think about the problem normally, if you go, what kind of identity do you go to? What is the lack of people? A son or aunt is the eldest man, right? What kind of identity does you go? Can your girlfriend be happy? It's a different angle, he and her ex-husband's side, and the family is also like this, no matter what kind of thing it is, whether it's a happy event, a funeral, and the role of a daughter-in-law and child has been divorced for several years, or he will find it.

Pretending to be a daughter-in-law there, so that everyone watched, um, how did you feel after listening to it, do you think he was helping others or misbehaving? Did he listen to him think about your feelings before he did this? Well, if other people lack anything, you just go to patch it, ah, you didn't think that the two of you have nothing to do anymore. Isn't that what your family thinks?

"It's mainly what the family thinks, he kind of let me think about it, it's just that your family thinks about it, it's just so confused, the problem is that you are in your 30s, almost 40 years old, you can be so confused, the family thinks so you go, you say it's really idle, the object has been there for too long, the little crown is that I don't want to disobey my parents, ah your parents let you go up to pick the moon, you don't want to disobey your parents, do you go up?"

Don't blame me for raising the bar for your parents to make this request, he is incorrect in itself, why should you listen to it? Incorrect things, parents are confused, old and confused, the key is wrong, let you do incorrect things, you should reasonably refuse, do you have to listen to everything? Is that stupid and filial piety? How big is the disaster?

I'm going to hide it from him. Actually, if you really think you should go, you should be happy to help others, you should say hello to him, I didn't say that I was particularly concerned about doing this, I was actually really reluctant, but that morning was this until the day, that was my mother came over, just pulling her ears, you signed for you to roll the pin, will you kill you? Why didn't you communicate with your mother before? Understood, you told him that you resolutely did not go, and you still couldn't be your own master in this matter? But I regret it now, and I'll just run away.

I can't see your current girlfriend and I must want you to pay it back, in this way, he still doesn't know that I talk about girlfriends very filial, you have been in prison for more than a year, you don't tell your parents what to do, I'm afraid of him because, because I divorced my ex-wife at the time, he was not particularly good at it, the two of us finally divorced by agreement, after the divorce, my mother has always had a heart What is it? That is, can you two get along again, but I have already expressed my position.

It seems that it's not your parents who are confused now, but your parents don't know that you are in love again, and I hope that in this way, I still want you to remarry, should you have explained this matter to your parents a long time ago, you are hiding from your parents here, and your girlfriend is hiding from you, you are really confused. That's why I said I shouldn't do it, just do it. And then you go, and you have to blame my mom and dad for this, and they forced me to go with a rolling pin, and you did it all to blame, didn't you understand? Don't you think about these reasons for yourself? Do you have to blame all the fault on someone else's family?