Section 5 A beautiful dream
Liu Sanbian has a lot of worries, and his inner world is extremely complicated, but he never got off the boat.
He thought of his step-grandmother Yu, especially in his hometown of Chong'an, whenever she was frustrated on a study tour in Wuyi Mountain, her firm attitude and her tenacious character always had a huge spur effect on Liu Sanchang. At this time, this character trait developed dominated his mind and made him stay on the ship regardless of it.
In the fierce struggle with his heart surging, Liu Sanbian thought a lot.
Get off the boat, immediately rush back to remedy the lack of filial piety, use family affection to unload the spiritual burden of the father, use the family affection to drive away the haze that the father thinks the child is unscrupulous, use the family affection to get rid of the illness on the father's body, use the family affection to make the father show a comforting smile on his face, and let the father spend his old age happily and happily.
After getting off the boat, he immediately rushed back and knelt down in front of her mother, who was once elegant and beautiful, and eliminated the colics of her soul with meticulous care, eliminated her spiritual sorrow and spiritual sorrow that was desperate because she could not see the future of life, and returned her the optimism and self-confidence of an intellectual mother, and gave her a beautiful face and a happy face.
Disembark, return to the warm embrace of your wife, and fully enjoy her beauty, generosity, gentleness, thoughtfulness and deep love, let her feel comfortable with the dignity she fully enjoys, let her rejoice that she has found the true love of her life, and let her be content to snuggle up to her talented husband. As husband and wife, we create a comfortable nest that is the envy of the world, and we have to have many children, so that innocent loveliness, infinite fun and incomparably joyful life stories surround us.
Let these lovely children bring joy to their families, especially grandparents, let them enjoy the joy of their children and grandchildren around their knees, let them feel the joy of old age, and let them smile often. Live a long life and become the happiest person in the world.
Hey, Liu Sanbian shook his head, sighed softly, and gasped, his eyes moistened. He closed his eyes, trying to hide the unease, unhappiness, and even pain in his heart.
He struggled in the depths of his heart, no, it shouldn't be like this, a manly man should stand up to the sky, he should move forward bravely, he must not look forward and backward, at least he should not be as hesitant as he is now. What great things can a hesitant person do, and what great things can he achieve. Are you willing to be in the company of cowardice, willing to be a companion of inaction, and willing to sink into the vulgarity of inaction of children's affection?
People who have a good life don't need a little filial piety, they don't need to be confined to the environment where their children and grandchildren are around their knees, they don't need to live plainly, they don't need to waste their lives for vulgar firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, no, never. Who am I? I'm Liu Sanbian, and I'm a big husband. People who want to make a vigorous career, people who impress the world!
Liu Sanchang, you, who have lost the power of your example, don't you remember Zhang Zifang? Zhang Zifang persisted and happened to meet the Huangshi Daoist, persistently obtained the "Taigong Art of War", which was the capital of the emperor, and got his best friend Xiang Bo, who had killed people and escaped. Regardless of Liu Bang's rude words, he got the position of the emperor who has been recited through the ages. Is this the result of the one-sided pursuit of filial piety? No, no, those who achieve great things should be free and easy, and they should be able to afford to put it down.
Liu Sanchang, you actually forgot the noble martial arts brother. Forgot the fate of the nobles, people for the emperor's safety, born to death, desperately resisted, so that the attempt to assassinate the emperor could not succeed, so the establishment of outstanding meritorious service, by the emperor extraordinarily important, could have been a high-ranking official, the power in hand, people can be attached to the highest level of martial arts, heavy Shaolin, re-cultivation of martial arts, in the general martial arts people dare not think of the desperate situation, actually created a miracle, so that the little prince out of danger safely.
So, Liu Sanbian made up his mind to do his filial piety!
Yes, strive to inherit the survival strategy of grandpa and father, there is a way to give, there is no need to live in the realm of gray theory, to know how to be flexible, to know how to detour, to know how to overcome rigidity with softness, not to stick to the subtleties, not to hinder the situation, in the present life to live their own wonderful, to live their own wisdom, to live their own shrewd ability.
If you do your filial piety, there will inevitably be sacrifices. Well, then sacrifice the foolishness and filial piety in the eyes of the world, you don't have to obey your parents' wish to raise children and prevent old age, you don't have to let them enjoy the joy of family life full of children and grandchildren, and even sacrifice your own wife, let her stay alive and widowed, let her cry tears of sorrow to survive, and let her struggle in painful torment.
In this way, the perfect filial piety can be achieved. As the saying goes, loyalty and filial piety are in a dilemma, "loyalty" is the top priority, the most important, for the sake of "loyalty", why not sacrifice "filial piety"? "Loyalty", the same is not coexisting with the love of children, for the wife, to fulfill your temperament, in the minds of people to establish the eternal chastity archway, which itself is the embodiment of "loyalty".
The more Liu Sanbian thought about it, the more relaxed he felt, and he even thought that as a scholar, a cultural person who had studied the four books and five classics, he did not have to be called Confucius and Mencius, and his actions must conform to the most transcendent realm of Confucius and Mencius, and he had to use practical actions to prove that the way of Confucius and Mencius was the embodiment of the supreme reason, and it was the universal truth!
As a result, Liu Sanbian's inner world became stronger and stronger, in order to glorify his ancestors, in order to be worthy of Lingxiu's ancestral home of Chong'an, he was willing to endure all kinds of hardships, not only to rack his brains to understand the way of Confucius and Mencius, but also to learn and apply it, not only to become a theoretical student of the way of Confucius and Mencius, but also to become a practitioner of practice.
At the beginning of toddlerhood, who was born to walk like flying, who was born to cross the three rivers and cross the five lakes, always stumbled in the fear of the elders, always stumbled in the critical eyes and walked steadily, always in the scorn of the derogatory, and then could look back at the begging of the people in the same way, in order to repay the smile of the victor under the hard work of the pursuers, In order to feel the happiness of the successful in the sighs of the discouraged.
He is also mentally prepared to pretend to be a grandson, and people grow up little by little, especially in terms of political future.
It takes courage to pretend to be a grandson to do a good job, obviously it is a familiar path and direction, but you have to pretend not to know the way, you can't tell the direction, you pretend to be submissive, you pretend to be pitiful, you can't pretend to be stupid, you hold the clothes of the arrogant, and sometimes you pretend to be incompetent in the flat ground and the heel, so that the arrogant person is full of compassion and kindness in contempt, contempt and self-aggrandizement, and is willing to lead you away, willing to lead you away, willing to carry you away.
Pretending to be a grandson requires wisdom to persevere, suffering from self-esteem all the time, being sniped by self-confidence all the time, being cursed with pride all the time, and laughing at yourself all the time for the desire to become Lao Tzu, so can you still live? If you give up the idea of survival, is there any point in pretending to be a grandson? If you understand the basic laws of human growth, if you are not a grandson, how can there be Lao Tzu, Lao Tzu is standing up from the confidence of his grandson, he has survived from his grandson's wholeheartedness, and understands this kind of human survival wisdom, there is hope to become Lao Tzu, and Sun Tzu will not be in vain! (To be continued.) )