After meeting the goddess back, Sun Yimin has been a little distracted. He didn't have the heart to play games, so he sat alone on the couch in a daze. In the aftertaste, the goddess I met today had no intention of falling into the city.

Liu Ronghua seemed to see his thoughts, and said while operating the game: "Let me guess what you are thinking now......

Sun Yimin raised his head and looked at him suspiciously: "What am I thinking?" ”

"You're thinking about how to soak my sister." Liu Ronghua smiled.

Sun Yimin smiled shyly and acquiesced to this.

Then he raised his head and said sincerely to Liu Ronghua: "I am naturally dull. I'm not afraid of your jokes, I'm almost three, but I don't know anything about how to impress girls. Please give me some advice. ”

Liu Ronghua put down the mouse, was silent for a while, and said solemnly: "It seems that it's time for me to give you a good lesson." ”

"Well, listen up." Sun Yimin looked at Liu Ronghua with humility and admiration.

"Actually, it's not hard to get girls to like you. As long as I'm here, you don't need to have much experience, I promise you can easily hold a beautiful woman. Liu Ronghua's words seemed to reassure Sun Yimin.

He hurriedly said, "Okay, you wait a minute, I'll go get a pen and paper and take notes." With that, he got up and headed to his room.

Liu Ronghua gave him a thumbs up. When Sun Yimin came back, he said: "Actually, I told you before, to put it simply, there are only two ways to impress girls, the first is passive attraction, and the second is active pursuit. Let's start with the first ......"

Sun Yimin nodded, waiting to listen to the master's high speech.

"There is a saying that girls are not chased, but attracted. Although this is a bit biased, there is some truth to it. The so-called attraction, simply put, is to use your own advantages and strengths to make him excited, including your appearance, your talent, your thoughts...... Wait a minute. These things exist objectively in you, so you don't need to do anything deliberately. The only thing you have to do is to fight for more opportunities so that your various strengths can be displayed in front of her. You've already taken the first step at this point, haven't you? ”

"You mean?" Sun looked at each other suspiciously.

"You had the courage to challenge the competitive master Murong in the game world and finally defeated him, which is a great demonstration of your courage and talent, allowing you to re-establish your good image and make her look at you with admiration. But this may be just the beginning. It doesn't necessarily make her like you right away. ”

Sun Yimin pondered Liu Ronghua's words in silence and said, "No matter what. I think I just need to try to show myself in front of her completely, so that she can fully understand my looks, talents, thoughts, and hobbies...... And so on and so forth. If that's enough to attract her and make her like me, it's naturally best, but if it's not enough to make her like me, then I think it's just a matter of saying that I'm not going to have anything to do with her. I don't think there's much more I can do. I've always felt that when it comes to emotional equality, there's nothing to chase after when it comes to gender equality. ”

Liu Ronghua shook his head and said with a smile: "When I was in college, I really didn't see that your cognition in this area was still at such a naïve level. ”

"How naïve am I," Sun Yimin's tone was a hint of unconvincing.

Liu Ronghua did not answer positively, but gave an example: "Let me ask you a question first, in reality, a male star is talented and good-looking, and he is admired by many female fans." And many of these female fans also have boyfriends, so why aren't they moved by the talent and appearance of male stars, so they empathize with each other? ”

This soul question made Sun Yimin stunned, and he was silent and thought for a long time. In the end, he spread his hands, indicating that he had no solution.

Liu Ronghua seemed to smile proudly and replied: "The day you first came to Shenzhen, I told you a little: there is a big difference between men and women in terms of emotion, men will be a little faster, but girls are basically slow-burning, and they generally don't easily and quickly like people because of some advantages in each other." You may think you're talented and good-looking, but that's not enough to make a girl feel emotional. ”

Sun Yimin remembered that the goddess was a little cold at today's meeting, which seemed to confirm what Liu Ronghua said, and he asked, "So what?" ”

"So this involves the second way to impress a girl, and that is that you need to take the initiative, take the initiative to pursue her, and try to impress her in the end." Liu Ronghua said the answer.

"Okay. Pursuit, so how to pursue, chat with her every day, send her flowers, give gifts? Sun asked.

"Yes, you know a lot." Liu Ronghua seemed to smile a little ironically, and said, "Actually, these may have a certain effect, but in terms of impressing girls, these methods only involve fur and cannot play a substantive role." ”

"I want to hear about it." Sun Yimin humbly waited for him to continue.

"Let's talk about chatting first," Liu Ronghua said, "and now many people think that as long as you chat with a girl on the Internet all day long, one day she will fall in love with you, which is actually wishful thinking and superficial thinking." Chat may also show your eloquence, sense of humor, etc., but these alone are not enough to impress girls. To be honest, in my opinion, the point of online chat is more about promoting your understanding of each other and bringing you closer to the girl. Chat is more of a medium and channel, and the ultimate purpose of chatting with her is to give you the opportunity to ask her to come to reality, rather than just relying on chat to get her. ”

"How did I hear that a lot of men and women get straight to the point without two clicks on the Internet?" Sun questioned.

"I'm talking about how hard it is to build emotions through online chat. Without emotion as a premise, generally speaking, girls are rarely willing to go straight to the point with you. Of course, there are some exceptions, some people chat for impure purposes, originally for the purpose of physiological appeals or commercial transactions, this kind of vulgar things are naturally not within the scope of our discussion. ”

"Okay, let's continue what you just said, what about the reality?" Sun asked.

"In a real-world environment, you will have an opportunity to have frequent contact and interaction. Let's say you're in the same classroom as classmates, or you're in the same company as colleagues. There will be transactional contact and interaction between you. Only in this kind of communication and interaction can she slowly develop some good feelings for you, and this good feeling accumulates over time, and may eventually become her liking for you. It's a very delicate process. ”

"Contact, communication, exactly?" Sun asked.

"If you are college classmates, when you are solving a professional problem, you communicate with each other, check the information together, overcome all difficulties, and finally you come up with a successful solution idea, and finally successfully overcome the difficulty. In the process, firstly, you demonstrate your ingenuity, and secondly, you develop emotions in the process of working together to support each other in solving puzzles. This is the best way to pick up girls. ”

Sun Yimin nodded in agreement. Liu Ronghua continued: "In addition, women, as the disadvantaged party, often need support and help. When she is in difficulty, if you can be anxious about what she is anxious about, think about what she thinks, solve all kinds of difficulties in life and work for her, and do what she can't do for her. These can move her to a great extent. For example, when she is sick, buy her medicine as soon as possible, take leave to drive her to the hospital, take the initiative to help her solve problems when she encounters difficulties at work, protect her safety in dangerous environments, and send her care when she needs it, etc. Girls are vulnerable and most emotionally sensitive when they are helpless. ”

Sun Yimin pondered for a long time and felt reasonable. He thought for a moment and said, "Then I have another question, if a girl has many suitors, the effect you do may not be particularly good." For example, if she is sick, there may be many people to deliver medicine to her, and there must be many colleagues who are attentive to the difficulties encountered in her work. A beautiful girl, there are many suitors around her, maybe there are a lot of people who buy her breakfast and medicine for her and send her to the hospital, so why is she just moved by you? (To be continued)