"That's a good question," Liu Ronghua said with a smile, "so in addition to doing the above, you have to do your best to do something that no one else can do, and no one else can help her solve it, but you have done it, this is the most effective way to impress her." Because this shows your extraordinary talent in the first place, and at the same time excludes

Any competitor, all the touches in her heart, are bound to you alone. ”

After Sun Yimin pondered for a while, he raised his thumb to Liu Ronghua: "It makes sense, it deserves to be a master, and it has been taught." ”

Liu Ronghua smiled humbly and added: "If you can deeply understand what I said above, then you will understand that the behavior you just mentioned giving flowers, gifts, etc., to girls is not very meaningful to impress girls." It's just like chatting online, it's just the most rudimentary way to pick up girls. It can only play a role on the surface. At most, it makes her willing to give you some contact. ”

Sun Yimin nodded: "Well, I understand the general meaning." ”

Liu Ronghua made another summary: "Let me reiterate one more point, what I said above, whether it is passive display or active pursuit, actually needs to be built on a foundation: that is, you need a transactional environment to get along with him." For example, the same office, or the same living quarter, the same class. With such an environment, you will have a better chance to show yourself in front of her, and you will have more opportunities to do all kinds of things for her that can move her, and finally let her build feelings for you. ”

"But Zhang Xinyao and I only have one side, how can we have this channel?" Sun Yimin asked.

"I didn't say that this transactional communication environment must be in the real world," Liu Ronghua explained, "As I said before, online games simulate all aspects of the real world, and in the game world, people will have all kinds of social contact, such as completing various tasks together, playing quests together, fighting bosses, producing materials, trading equipment, fighting and killing...... With such a social environment, you have a lot of opportunities to show off your talents, and at the same time, you have more opportunities to do things for her that impress her. ”

Sun Yimin nodded thoughtfully. Then he asked, "Can you be specific, for example?" ”

"This is a very simple answer," Liu Ronghua said without thinking, "For example, she was alone in the wild today and fell into a monster siege, and you put down what you were busy with and arrived in time to rescue her." For example, she longs to clear a difficult mission, and you go through a lot of hardships to achieve your goal. In short, whether in real life or in the game world, you must strive for more time with her, only in this way will you have more opportunities to impress her. There is a saying that as long as two people get along long enough, even if the other party is not very good, they will also have feelings. That's it. ”

Sun Yimin silently digested Liu Ronghua's words and deeply agreed.

Liu Ronghua said: "In addition, women always advocate the strong. Zhang Xinyao is a weak woman, and in the game world, it is a hundred flowers profession that needs protection, so it needs the protection of men even more. You have to protect her from being bullied by other players, and you have to make yourself strong, and even have enough power to give her a sense of security in the game world...... So you have to have combat power in the game, so you have to charge money. ”

"I have the money, I don't need to recharge it." Sun Yimin smiled proudly.

Liu Ronghua praised: "That's right, you are very smart at this point, I really admire you." Relying on your own ability without spending a penny, you can already achieve combat power comparable to mine......"

……

In a pleasant atmosphere, Liu Ronghua's explanation came to an end.

Sun Yimin benefited a lot. After gradually digesting the essence of Liu Ronghua's lecture, he seemed to have a general idea in his heart: how to pursue and impress Zhang Xinyao.

At this time, he asked a digression with great interest: "Then you say, why do people like a person of the opposite sex?" ”

"This question is a bit profound," Liu Ronghua took a puff of his cigarette, put away his smile, and said, "Before answering this question, you have to figure out what the word like represents between men and women." ”

"What does it mean, like is like!" Sun was puzzled.

"The word "liking" actually has multiple meanings in Chinese," Liu Ronghua explained: "liking in the usual context is just a good feeling for a person or a thing, for example, I like to smoke, I also like you as a friend, of course, don't get me wrong, my sexual orientation is normal." It's just that if the word like is used between men and women, the meaning is different. For example, a girl tells you: I like you! The love here is actually love. ”

"It's a liking that you like me, and it's a liking that you like a girl. Let's put aside the fact that the liking between the opposite sex still has a physiological component, so what is the essential difference between the two? Sun asked.

"Good question," Liu Ronghua praised Sun, and said, "The essential difference...... It can be said that the liking of the latter is exclusive and irrational. ”

"I want to hear about it."

"Exclusivity is easy to understand, when you like someone and are in love, you tend not to be interested in girls other than her. Just like how you feel about the goddess right now. Now I'm afraid no woman can compare to her in your eyes, right? ”

Sun Yimin smiled shyly. said: "Well, but, this doesn't seem to make sense to you. He said in a slightly teasing tone.

Liu Ronghua sneered: "It makes sense, at the same moment, I just love someone." ”

"Well, let's get down to business, so what do you mean by irrational?" Sun asked.

Liu Ronghua did not answer Sun Yimin directly, but asked rhetorically: "Let's take the example just now, a male star is talented and good-looking, and he is admired by many female fans." So why didn't he make them empathize with him and abandon their boyfriends and fall in love with him? ”

Sun Yimin was stunned and thought silently for a long time. Finally shook his head.

"So to speak." Liu Ronghua explained: "Girls worship and admire male stars, which is the former kind of liking, which can be said to be a category of interest. And girls like their boyfriends, which is the latter kind of liking, belongs to the category of love. In general, this kind of liking that belongs to love is exclusive, and there is often only one man in a girl's heart. Girls can appreciate other men's looks and various advantages, but this does not mean that they fall in love with him...... So the question is, since those celebrities are likely to be much better than her boyfriend, why does she still love her relatively mediocre boyfriend? Isn't that irrational?

？ Normal people choose the best object to try to pursue possession, why would a girl choose the worse one? ”

Sun Yimin was stunned, seemed to suddenly realize, and sighed: "It seems to be like this...... Makes sense~"

Liu Ronghua said: "Love is irrational, sometimes it can't be explained, sometimes I like someone, not because of how good he is, but even if she is ordinary, she will feel that she is the best in the world." To like a person is to like her ordinary, to the point of being extraordinary, and even to her shortcomings you will like. ”

"That's right, love is indeed an irrational emotion, and it is also a kind of infatuation!" Sun Yimin echoed.

Liu Ronghua nodded. Silent.

After a long time, Sun Yimin raised his face again, looked at Liu Ronghua and said: "Two people have gone from being strangers to being more in love than Jin Jian, how did you say that this change in feelings for a person happened?" ”

"The questions you ask are always so profound," Liu Ronghua sighed, took a puff of his cigarette, and seemed to be lost in thought.

After a long time, he said: "I think it's a very delicate process that goes from both sides to a qualitative change. The girl has changed from a passer-by to a liking for you, and the occurrence of this change should be based on the slow accumulation of her good impression of you! Specifically, at first she may just appreciate and have a good impression of you. But with the deepening of contact and communication, you bring him more and more positive mood swings, and this inner fluctuation slowly accumulates, and finally makes her feel for you change qualitatively, from the initial good impression to love. Love is an irrational obsession. From then on, she decided that you were alone. ”

Sun Yimin silently pondered Liu Ronghua's words, and felt that this exposition was profound and mysterious. I feel that there is a type of person in the world, like Liu Ronghua, who is born with a talent for love, which is enviable. In contrast, his emotional intelligence is very low, which makes him feel a little inferior. [Please go to (1)(7)К to read the genuine version]