In the countryside a few days after parting, the mountain is still the same mountain, and the water is still the same water, but that home has returned to the hazy silence with the Spring Festival. Sometimes because of the laughter of the two children, there is a faint hope and happiness...

In a bit of boredom and loneliness, day after day, day and night, in addition to taking Xiaobao is my main job, as for Dabao has been in continuous progress, and I have gained a depression that is difficult to release, I decided to put it down for the time being and then consider it. Anyway, the current child has his god-like grandparents and grandparents, who help him cultivate and practice again in a lot of experience, even if I want to, but because of their divine skills and preaching, the Dafa of Breaking Closure is temporarily useless!

Besides, at this time, I was also physically and mentally sleepy and tired, so I just took the task of taking Xiaobao as a godsend opportunity for self-healing...

In this way, in the days when the fireworks were dying, he and his mother were repeating the cross-belt of the child every day. Watching them grow healthily day by day, becoming more and more like chicks after spring, always getting more and more cute in the lively and lively chirping!

Every day when the sun and moon alternate, we are almost like printers, constantly replicating the same day. Every night, as always, in order to reduce his mother's hardship, I always asked her to feed the baby first and go to bed first. Then I sat on the stool with the child in my arms, hoping that both mother and son could sleep soundly.

However, in the machine-like cycle, it was a stormy night before you knew it. Her mother, as usual, seemed to fall asleep with the occasional snoring. And the little treasure in my arms is also like a carefree little angel, in a peaceful sleep, sometimes showing a fleeting smile.

With the lingering sound of wind and rain, in the dead of night, only a body that is difficult to fall asleep on a stool is left at this time, and a soul that never needs to sleep, and in the shadows, they begin to work together in a whimsical way, thinking about Xiaobao's keen sense of touch.

Xiaobao's profound experience of tactile sensitivity has been manifested in the crying caused by the lack of vitamin K. And when he was born in the hospital, because the temperature suddenly decreased the appetite for milk. And because of the keen sense of touch, the need for a sense of security experience, and only by holding it can you sleep peacefully. Perhaps it is the tactile reason, and the associated cause of cow and goat milk allergies to cause vomiting, and show a red rash on the face. Therefore, the profound experience of touch and positive good feelings arouse good activity and stimulate his activity. Let his physical and mental development always be in good condition.

At this time, if the tactile sensitivity experience that is still in a normal state can be given corresponding tactile stimulation and protection, the child is easy to gain a strong sense of security in a good tactile experience. Therefore, based on this theory, this is the main reason why I went to great lengths to sleep with him!

Because, if he is forced to sleep in bed soon after birth, then he will not only be insecure due to his keen sense of touch, but also affect the quality of sleep, thus affecting the dual development of body and mind.

At the same time, it will also cause potential problems such as psychological, emotional behavior and other potential problems due to the lack of sense of security! Maybe in the future, he will unconsciously enter the development process of his brother, mother, and even grandparents. It will affect the whole life because of the acquired court environment, which causes physical and mental problems...

Therefore, if you look at Dabao's naturally strong sense of security, this reasoning is correct at least for now. Because, at the beginning, Dabao was because of his slow sense of touch and keen vision, although he could sleep well in the cradle, but every twenty minutes or so, he would open his eyes and look around, and if he found someone, he would close his eyes and continue to sleep. However, when they find no one, they immediately start crying until someone is waiting again. Secondly, he has always behaved relatively quietly, well-behaved, mature and sensible.

And today's Xiaobao is just the opposite of his brother at the beginning, he not only has a large amount of activity, but also has all stages of development, except for his weight and slightly the same anemia as his brother, and other mental behaviors are completely or even exceeded. In the first few months of birth, as long as you hold it in your arms, you can sleep until you wake up naturally. Even if you wake up halfway, you don't need any teasing and will fall asleep naturally.

However, no matter how well he was asleep, as soon as he put him on the bed, he would often wake up crying immediately. After that, even if you coax him no matter how hard it is, it will be difficult to help, and only by holding him in your arms again can you sleep peacefully again!

The difference between their brothers is not only that, when Dabao was not yet six months old, he was once in my arms, and wanted to pull the cupboard, but when I gently said to him: "Good, obedient, this can't be played..."

At that time, I thought, a child who is less than six months old will not really be able to understand what I say, right? So after thinking about it for a long time, in such doubts, when he tentatively wanted to get something again, the result was surprisingly giving up his needs!

Especially from the moment he first knows how to pick up things, as long as they are perishable, he never throws them away. For example, mobile phones, chopsticks, water cups and other items. Even when you can't help but be angry, you only throw it lightly within a safe range. It's like once playing with my mobile phone and I deliberately teased him, he suddenly bent on his waist in anger, and just when the phone was close to the ground, he just gently pushed forward.

Later, after the age of two, once at noon, when he was eating, not only did he not eat seriously, but also picked up chopsticks and played with his grandfather, I saw him endlessly, suddenly pretended to be a little angry and deliberately slapped the table, and then pointed to him and said unceremoniously, "Eat well!" Unexpectedly, as soon as he heard it, his delicate and handsome face immediately showed a puffing expression, and then suddenly raised the chopsticks in his hand and was about to throw them, but he was still aggrieved and put them on the table and pushed them, and then he was grinding here and there!

However, things that are not easy to break, such as shoes and towels, he often throws them around like a madman, laughing and throwing them non-stop, no matter how good he says, it is basically useless, or even if he doesn't say it, it makes him throw more in excitement!

It's also comforting that since he can take things, he doesn't put anything in his mouth, even if it's food, as long as he hasn't seen it, he has to watch us demonstrate before he opens his mouth. As for other security awareness, it is like an adult, and it rarely makes people worry and be afraid!

In comparison, today's Xiaobao is more than eight months old, although both physically and mentally, emotionally and emotionally behaved, it seems to be particularly up to standard or even extraordinary. But Dabao once had outstanding advantages, he didn't seem to have any of them.

Especially when he just knows how to take something, no matter what, he will keep sending it to his mouth, except for forcibly blocking it, no matter how he says it, it has no effect, let alone being able to be obedient and sensible like Dabao was at the beginning, and he doesn't throw it around! Now Xiaobao, when he wakes up in bed, not only does he not cry, but crawls around like a guerrilla fight. Therefore, it has been more than once that I have fallen out of bed ...

Therefore, as far as the gap between the two of them is concerned, especially on Xiaobao's sleep problem, I said to her mother worriedly at the beginning: "This child can't sleep well in bed, and he needs to be held to sleep, which may mean that he can better experience a sense of security by holding it." If that's the case, then sleeping with him in his arms for the time being is very beneficial to the formation of his sense of security..."

Of course, I also thought that if I held it like this for a long time, it would definitely not be the way to go. Therefore, his mother also said in worry: "Then what will I do when I go to work in the future?" ”

When I look at her somewhat tired and slightly confused eyes, I think that her worries are the same as mine, not superfluous. Therefore, I comforted her and said, "When he is older, he will be better sensible..." Although she doesn't know what to do, for the sake of the child, in the case that she has no good way, this is the only way at present.

In fact, it was not a comforting word just now. If you look at the situation of Dabao at the beginning, this is indeed the case. It's like Dabao reacted too strongly to the sound at the beginning. But as I get older and have a basic understanding, today I already know how to protect myself.

Therefore, I think the child is still relatively lucky, if he was stimulated by noise or often quarrelsome environment, then today he can still have good self-protection behavior and awareness? I think that not only will it be difficult to develop a proper and healthy sense of self-preservation, but worse, the autism he induces today will be even more severe.

On the other hand, if he hadn't encountered his grandmother's personality and environment like an adventure, it might not have been difficult to induce autism at all, and he would have been growing up healthily and successfully passing the dangerous period of autism's internal causes!

Perhaps because of this, when the child returns to Anqing, he will reappear with the changes in the benign environment, such as the lack of water and the seedlings suddenly get nectar, and continue to make breakthroughs and progress!

For example, during this Spring Festival, he wanted to watch fireworks, but he was still scared because of habitual and sensitive stimulation, but he asked me to hold him to watch fireworks in his arms. When the fireworks are louder, he will be like a desert camel in a wind and dust storm, with his eyes closed and his head stuck in my arms, and from time to time with the decibels of the explosion, his head stretches and shrinks!

Especially now, when you are walking on the street and hear and confirm that a harmless sound is heard, you will immediately cover your ears to reduce the stimulation of the sound shell and protect yourself. Or stop and watch and get around the route, instead of being in constant overwhelmed fear, as you used to be!

Therefore, in the same way, when Xiaobao's healthy growth and sense of security are smoothly formed, it should also be supported by the sense of security and the cognitive function of thinking consciousness, and gradually get rid of the habit of sleeping in the arms. In fact, Xiaobao's progress and performance to this day have once again confirmed my original inference.

Therefore, today's Xiaobao can not only sleep well in bed independently, but more importantly, because he has a strong sense of security, even when he wakes up, he will not cry as soon as his eyes open like his brother at the beginning. On the contrary, when he sleeps alone, he must always pay attention, otherwise he will fall to the ground when he wakes up, in order to experience a good tactile feeling in the crawl!

Perhaps it was because of his keen sense of touch at the beginning and the fact that he continued to fall asleep in his arms that he gradually gained a good sense of security, evolved pleasure and relaxation, so that today, almost like his brother, not only loves to laugh, but also laughs cutely and naturally...

However, although I have told them more than once about this matter, I don't know whether it was because his grandfather was full of experience, or because he wanted to experience the happiness and satisfaction of domination, that he always said more than once like a master of the world: "What if the child sleeps like this every day, and it becomes a habit in the future?" How are you all at work? ”

At that time, although I didn't want to explain again, but considering the minimum respect for him, I had to explain to him again: "There is still a while to go to work, and it may be better when the child is older, and if it doesn't work, then I can only put him on the bed and sleep, but at least we haven't gone to work yet..."

He listened, still silent as usual, and seemed to dismiss, as if the natural sound I had just now still did not exist. It's embarrassing to think about, but maybe it's because I'm used to it, and I seem to react to him as well as he reacts to me, except that I'm disappointed, and I feel that there is no point in communicating with him anymore.

At that time, I thought that with me and the child's mother, the child naturally didn't need him to take it. At most, when he is bored, he just hugs occasionally like a drunken addiction. But what I didn't expect was that the child's grandmother, who was already full of wisdom, may have been more like a virgin at some point under the guidance of his teachings. Then it takes less than a minute to pick up the child who wakes up again, like an experiment!

Thinking about the face of such a thousand-year-old crane, I have more than once wanted to pull out those mutilated wings in an unbearable anger. But thinking about it, the end of the family at this time, and this kind of immortal-level cloud god is not something that ordinary people like me can provoke casually. So, thinking about it, although I was angry, whenever the double saints drove, I pretended to grind and chirp perfunctory.

However, even so, it is still unthinkable, perhaps because of my evasive behavior, my grandmother is even more like a fish in water, and continues to play her spirit of catching ducks on the shelves, but is even more tireless and more active. As long as the child is in her arms, almost every time it is like a scientific experiment, in the back and forth of getting up and sitting, tirelessly, without considering the quality of the child's sleep, often holding the child, coming and going between waking up in the bed!

However, her brain, which has also evolved for tens of millions of years, can exert superhuman wisdom when maintaining her mood, why is she reluctant to think about it when facing life outside herself, the original Dabao will be mainly because of her keen hearing, but when she is deliberately protective and has not been in direct contact with her, in addition to less activity and later walking, she is normal and excellent in other aspects. There are even places where children of the same age can be surpassed. It was only later when she took herself to the countryside alone that she gradually developed autism problems! Could it be that this is just a coincidence, which can be fully explained?

What's even more embarrassing is that even today, why are you still reluctant to think about it, when the child is out of her upbringing again and returns to Anqing, why does it start to make continuous progress in the nectar? So today, I can only be speechless here, judging from the actual development process of Dabao, then Xiaobao also has the potential internal factors of tactile sensitivity. Therefore, if I can't learn from the experience and lessons of the fairy couple, maybe Xiaobao will also be strengthened and radiated by the keen sense of touch, and it is far from knowing that he will induce acquired autism again...

For example, I now use his tactile sensitivity to physically punish him during education. Or teasing with excessive force in parent-child interactions. There are also foods that take advantage of his known gastrointestinal sensitivities, self-righteousness to make him eat and drink, and foods that he thinks will improve his physical fitness. Even in family quarrels, scolding, and parental pressure diversion and substitution, it leads to corporal punishment and verbal violence against children. It is very likely that a series of physical and mental problems will be induced because of touching a certain point in both his physical and mental aspects!

Similarly, on the other hand, if Dabao's sense of touch was dull at the beginning, if his mother was not like a nerd, blindly advocating authority because of a lack of self-awareness, and because of the negative influence of the original family, which led to a lack of flexibility such as autistic conscious experience and other similar problems, it would not be because she was worried about kissing the child's face for fear of causing the child to drool. Then naturally in parent-child interaction, often unconsciously just through kissing, the child can have better tactile stimulation, and then in the benign radiation effect, think about it, what will be the result today?

However, the irony is that when Dabao returned to me, he rejected my kiss at first, and finally gradually transitioned from conditional exchange to natural cooperation. For example, at the beginning, when I wanted to kiss his face, he would immediately turn his head away with a small eye, but after a few times, under the temptation of my conditions, within a few days, as long as he was outside and whenever he wanted me to take him out to play, or wanted me to meet other requirements, he would obediently take the initiative to put his face to my mouth!

Then under the guidance of my constant demands, he will soon take the initiative to kiss my face in turn! Unexpectedly, in this way, under the tactile stimulation of the kissing face, the child was quickly promoted and regained family attachment.

As his attachment progresses, I worry that kissing his face will increase the probability that he will become gay in the future if it is excessive or inappropriate. So, I began to reduce the frequency, preparing to transform the grafting principle, and use the method of playing missing to achieve the same and more purposes...

Because, according to the extensibility of the subconscious radiation effect, this is a kind of tactile reaction, the corresponding conscious experience will eventually form the corresponding thinking consciousness and subconscious, and then the natural evolution will occur in the interaction of the three consciousnesses!

This sounds a little incredible and even unacceptable, but in fact, the desire and love between husband and wife, if analyzed from a subconscious perspective, is essentially the result of the evolution and sublimation of the love between children and parents, and the extension and continuation of love!

Therefore, in my observation and understanding of the marital status of many parents and children, I found that almost all of them exist to varying degrees, and they are in the positive and negative influence of the subconscious original family. Therefore, even if I understood this truth at the beginning, I had explained it to the child's mother, although she seemed to approve it at the time, but it was still difficult to jump out of the subconscious negative impact of the original family, and also in the unconscious subconscious radiation effect, in the end, because of my inducement and advance prevention, I was able to temporarily and effectively get rid of the negative impact caused by her parents, so that she could always use her mother's positive attitude towards her father, and his father's positive attitude towards her, and once successfully managed our marriage...

But unexpectedly, with the advent of the child, and her parents' failure to start a business with me, which was strictly the result of my abandonment, they began to be disappointed in our marriage when they could not see the benefits of our marriage. However, because of the child, her parents were immersed in the scene more than once, superimposing her consciousness and teaching her by words and deeds, and finally let her quickly induce the negative consciousness in her hidden subconscious under the effect of touching the scene. finally effectively made her parents' decades-long failed marriage effectively cover this young family. So that we once went from blending with each other's hearts and souls, to inheriting the marriage and fate of her parents in a timely manner!

So, it can be seen how important the relationship between parents and the way they treat their children, as well as their self-righteous involvement in their children's lives. What is especially sad is that such a great parent, with a noble purpose, deliberately infiltrates, and the negative effect on the marriage of their children is even easier to go straight to the Qinglou!

Therefore, today, in order for the child to better get rid of the negative influence of the original family, and to restore and cultivate his family attachment and independence, in his good performance, I began to reduce the frequency of kissing faces, and began to take him out of the house again in order to transform the principle of grafting.

Just on the eve of the Spring Festival last year, in order to train his ability to integrate with the external environment, I often took advantage of the surprise in the supermarket to suddenly hide. Because the supermarket is crowded, it can correspondingly reduce his fear of unfamiliar occasions. Therefore, whenever he finds out that I have disappeared, perhaps because of the weak family attachment, I see him in the thoughts caused by the emergency, resulting in nervous and reddish eyes, but he can look for it silently and alone in an unhurried state.

When he was a little anxious in the supermarket, he was finally discovered by a kind aunt, and then he saw the aunt raising her voice while looking around, "Whose child is this?" There's a kid here looking for his family..."

At this time, I was hiding behind the shelves, and when I saw the expected scene, I was a little moved and almost couldn't help laughing! But unexpectedly, when the child who was looking for me alone, heard the aunt's call for help, he suddenly grabbed a life-saving straw, and immediately ran over and followed her closely...

Looking at the surprising child, because this kind of game time should not be too long, I stood up with apologies. The kind aunt learned that I did it on purpose, so she looked at me with angry eyes and said, "You will frighten the child like this..."

In the days that followed, on the road, in the square, in other supermarkets, this scene kept repeating itself, so that I was reprimanded by those uncles and aunts more than once. However, I didn't expect that in the process of this thousand fingers, I was disappointed to find that the child's every reaction was still the same, and it was not much different from the reaction in the supermarket for the first time!

However, I didn't expect that not long after I gave up playing and disappeared, when I used the benign consciousness experience of touch through kissing the face again, I unexpectedly found that this method had effectively helped him restore his family attachment. Because, one day on our way to the kindergarten, I repeated the same trick, but unexpectedly, he suddenly burst into tears with a red face: "Wow..."! Immediately shouted, three words: "Dad, Dad... Daddy, Dad", at the same time, his whole person was like being hunted down, quickly looking for an escape route in front and back, left and right...

I didn't expect that the progress he expected, so that his nervous fear, and heart-rending cry, made my nose suddenly sore, and I couldn't help running out anymore! quickly took him into his arms and said to him in heartache and guilt: "Be good, don't be afraid, don't be afraid, Dad will never leave you in the future..."

Later, I thought about it and found that perhaps this fear of loss induced by family attachment is also the basis for children's emotional development. Therefore, it can be seen that without a good experience of family affection, there will naturally be a corresponding attachment response. If there is a lack of attachment experience, it is naturally difficult to develop fear due to the loss of experience. Without the right sense of fear, children are naturally prone to exhibit corresponding attachment behaviors due to a lack of negative drive!

Therefore, the relationship between children and their parents is the core foundation of all their psychological states. The existence of this foundation, the ripples generated by the throwing stones in the center of the lake, will continue to spread to a wider space. When the base point of this ripple is positive, the space for natural fluctuations is also positive. If it is negative, of course, it will also radiate a corresponding negative ripple in the law of cause and effect.

When I came out of the memories again, if I could preliminarily conclude from my reactions before and after playing with him before and after I went missing, children with weak sense of touch were more likely to induce family attachment problems in autism because of insufficient tactile stimulation with their loved ones. Conversely, the negative experience caused by the lack of family attachment can also induce autism.

Because, when I found out that the child's attachment emotion was greatly improved in the process of kissing the face, I didn't expect that when he got the experience of deep family attachment, he experienced the fear caused by the disappearance of his relatives because of the profundity of family attachment, which led to the experience of escaping the pain and closed his mind again. Because from that day on, the child will already say: "Daddy, Daddy... Mommy... Grandma...", but the three overlapping titles have been significantly reduced, and even the correct title that has begun to appear in the heart of the heart: "Mom...", has suddenly disappeared again...

Based on this phenomenon, I felt that he said three words for the first time in excitement because of the advent of his little brother: "Little brother...", and then quickly said it in a comprehensive manner, mom, dad, grandma, little uncle, daddy, grandma, daddy, daddy, and many other three-word titles like singing lyrics. This kind of singing-like title can make him consciously perceive and experience better benign emotions. and more likely to improve the fluency of expression due to lack of lung qi. Therefore, it can be shown that children are more likely to have corresponding benign manifestations because of the benign conscious experience and the formation of experience feelings as the support!

Therefore, in turn, it can be explained that the child's lack of benign conscious experience, coupled with the disintegration of consciousness caused by the environment when he returned to the countryside, caused by the disconnection of consciousness and other depression. As a result, grandma, mother, and dad have been able to say it because of depression and the fault is lurking in the subconscious. Although he returned to Anqing again, because of the split consciousness, it was difficult for him to integrate his mind for a while. As a result, on the basis of emotional experience, the previous conscious information is forgotten again, and a new three-word title is re-spoken, forming in the experience of relaxation, because the subconscious mind is released and free, and can occasionally say two words: "Mom...!" "Two once repressed correct titles!

The first time I accidentally found that the split consciousness caused by this kind of repression was forced to put him on the stool when training the child's instructions, but he suddenly because of fear, induced the original subconscious information, and suddenly shouted out "Mom" correctly so as to explore the reason, I almost every time I forced him to stand on the stool, he would also shout "Mom" correctly in fear When I was sure after a few times, especially after getting off the stool, because the fear disappeared, he involuntarily shouted "Mom, Mom... Grandma...", and other three-word titles, and split until now, forgetting the past!

Therefore, when I realized the dangers of this potential split, and when he was integrated because of relaxation, I tried to relax his mood as much as possible, and asked his grandmother to change the tone of his voice, hoping to quickly restore the split phenomenon of his three major consciousnesses!

Sure enough, with the adjustment of the strategy, the child is quickly improving, and can occasionally say the correct mother, grandma and gradually increase the frequency of feelings, and the original feeling that seems to be difficult to transform because of the breath, the stiff and rigid feeling has also obviously improved!

Therefore, this phenomenon can show that children avoid pain due to the lack of benign stimuli, resulting in suppressed information hidden in the subconscious. If the state continues, it will be forced to awaken the function of the psychological self-protection mechanism. and induce autism. The same is true of physiological shock, which initiates physiological self-protection. The difference is that one belongs to the physical and physical level, and the other belongs to the psychological and spiritual level.

Therefore, although the autistic self-protection function effectively avoids the continuous damage of the mind, it also leads to the integration of the subconscious consciousness and the thinking consciousness, and hinders the conscious experience, resulting in the three major consciousness splits. Therefore, it is difficult to obtain the development of perceptual function through conscious experience normally, and to establish the independence and dominance of thinking consciousness.

This kind of negative consciousness suppression of the child has appeared in his mother more than once. When my mother died in 2011, my sister-in-law was overbearing and made her feel bad. I didn't understand why, so she suddenly burst into tears like a child in my blame.

Later, after I learned about the situation, I asked her one day, "What did my sister-in-law do to you that day and make you angry?" But I didn't expect her to say seriously in her usual gentleness: "I forgot! Then I told her to think about it, but she still said she couldn't remember. I didn't believe it at the time, and I thought maybe she didn't want to talk about it anymore, or maybe she was afraid of causing me to worry. So soon we all forgot about it...

It wasn't until I got married that when I returned to Anqing again because of the children, because her mother had her own family problems and his grandfather's plans, she got involved in our lives because of the children. She was subconsciously aroused by her mother, and because of her mother's ignorance and my inability to take care of her, she suffered postpartum depression. So because of her mother's influence and lack of my care, under the triple suppression, she unexpectedly split from an angelic mood to a demon in hell quickly and unconsciously. Almost at a thought, like a shrew who hasn't woken up, she often makes trouble unconsciously and unreasonably, constantly blindly accusing and blindly complaining and attacking the existence of my problems!

Therefore, in desperation, I formally filed for divorce for the first time, but because I was afraid of blaming her, I used my mother, sister-in-law, and sister as case studies to find that she would also show positive and good side in relaxation. And let the negative consciousness be in an unconscious state of sleep. But at the same time, it will also override the positive conscious behavior by awakening the negative conscious behavior in the corresponding stress. Unconscious behavior that is difficult to detect. This latent sense of splitting, once beyond the limit, can develop into a melancholic type and schizophrenic disorder. But if you are in a good environment, you will gradually weaken the latent negative consciousness because of the continuous strengthening of the benign consciousness, and finally you will gain the integration of the mind...

However, this phenomenon, in the state of not obtaining integration, will lack the ability to feel the emotions of others due to the lack of conscious experience support, and be in the thinking consciousness knows, but the explicit consciousness is difficult to experience, so it is easy to cause the subconscious and the thinking consciousness to be in a state of separation across the river...

Later, because of this, I understood the reason why she became so perpetual, and what was even more helpless was that once she split and changed, all her behavior was almost the same as her mother's. So, what does this phenomenon mean? It shows that a longing for beauty, in the process of rejecting her mother, in order to escape the pain, leads to the closure of her heart. The final result is that no matter how she rejects it, it is still imperceptible, resulting in her subconscious existence of a mother's self and an ideal self in extreme opposition, which is difficult to effectively integrate, and can only suppress negative consciousness in the division of escaping pain.

What's worse is that these two opposing selves are difficult to unify because of conflict. It is easy to be torn apart by external pressures and situations, and you are often in unspeakable pain.

The sorrow caused by this ignorance made me feel sorry for her, and finally because of her mood and children, she killed herself for the first time and took back the divorce!

Because I know that the split between her thinking consciousness and the subconscious mind due to the lack of explicit support is due to the unconscious or subconscious behavior caused by her mother's awakening of the original subconscious negative consciousness out of self-conscious protection in the experience of negative pressure! Therefore, if in essence, she is just an innocent victim, the diversion and bearer of the original family, and her mother and father are the pressure diverter and inheritor of the original family of her grandparents.

Therefore, my existence in their world today is like a mirror, reflecting the comprehensive negative problems of their original family, that is, she and her mother father, and her mother's father's mother father, that is, from her to her grandfather and grandfather, if you add today's children, in fact, the negative impact of this original family has been passed on to four generations!

In fact, this phenomenon is real in many families, and this kind of character is mainly formed by the family subtly, so it is not inherently unchangeable. Because it is mainly the result of being radiated by the negative influences of the acquired family environment. And this kind of stress leads to the phenomenon of consciousness splitting, which is also simply reflected in the lack of thinking consciousness cognition that leads to subconscious behaviors that are difficult to control. It's what people usually call unconscious behavior.

This unconscious behavior, no matter how direct and simple it is, can be conceptually experienced and understood from the phenomenon of mantras. It's like someone who is consciously speaking, but there is unconscious scolding, when they are slapped by others, but they don't know why. Even if you tell me that it's because you scolded me, it's hard for someone to admit that they occasionally have this kind of unconscious swearing. Because his thinking consciousness is too stimulated, he ignores the moment when the subconscious mind skips the control of thinking consciousness, resulting in the impression that he has no scolding at all in his thinking consciousness.

But some of them are because he understands his unconscious behavior, although he felt that he didn't scold at the time, but he can feel from his past experience that he may really scold, but he didn't pay attention. In fact, this phenomenon is the epitome of schizophrenia or the three major consciousness faults! When this unconscious behavior expands to a certain extent, the subconscious mind will be dominated by the explicit consciousness and cover the thinking consciousness, forming different degrees of schizophrenia. Similarly, many autistic children are in this state of different degrees of splintering consciousness, which leads to more autistic external behaviors and emotions!

Therefore, if we reason from the perspective of the three major consciousnesses and behavioral emotions, then from the child's mother, it is actually equivalent to that she is the inheritor of the subconscious of the grandmother and grandfather. However, due to her individual talent and physiological differences and the culture of the times, she is a rebel or antagonist of her parents' thinking consciousness. Then in this kind of thinking consciousness to get rid of the subconscious evasion, it is only in the escape from pain that the conscious experience is forced or unconsciously to give up the conscious experience and close the conscious perception. As a result, due to the suppression of subconscious information, it leads to a strong independence in the thinking consciousness, and due to the lack of conscious experience, it leads to a fault between the subconscious and the thinking consciousness, and the stereotyped stubbornness, narrow interests and lack of self-awareness and other phenomena. All of these phenomena are based on the positive and negative experiences of family affection and individual differences.

Therefore, looking back, it is completely conceivable that since the child went to the countryside, when they loved him like a treasure, in fact, the child faced her grandmother with such a character, coupled with the basis of individual internal factors, how much depression she had endured, which induced and aggravated the problem of autism today...

The world is a mess...

Thoughts drift like wind and rain...

But no matter how messy the hemp was, it used to be neat

No matter how strong the wind and rain are, it seems that there will always be times when you are tired

At this time, the stormy night is also like a thought

And in the middle of the night

At the same time, when exhausted

Fall asleep and dream

Wait again at the same time

The sun in the darkness and clouds

Calling for the sleeping dawn...