Chapter 24 Differences and Environments
Invisible power is perhaps the most terrifying. Because, a virus that is so small that it almost does not exist, can make human beings talk about its color change more than once everywhere. Even today, in the era of science and technology, it can also make the ancient city of Anqing, like a post-war ruin, appear in the desolation of almost no trace.
Even, even the municipal hospitals, which used to save lives and help the wounded, only had a few occasional visitors, such as the sporadic troops after the clean-up war, still in the obscenity of the plague god, sometimes appearing and quickly disappearing in the staggered rosemare...
Although, under the obscenity of the plague, the hospital notified non-urgent and critically ill patients to be forbidden to be admitted, but also in the mercy of Heaven, as always, it was open to innocent children.
When we went through the procedures and came to the children's department, we found that although the Chinese New Year and the plague were hot and cold, the number of sick patients did not seem to be much lower than in the past...
So, in this special period, with a higher level of worry and anxiety, with a child and an uneasy mood, I walked into the office of the director of pediatrics again.
In the small room, the female doctor who didn't look very old, but between her words and expression, she radiated natural tranquility and relaxation. Therefore, I was originally nervous, and I sat next to her with the child in my arms as if I was relieved. When she asked about the history of contact with Wuhan about the epidemic, she said to the child in a loving and gentle tone: "Come, open your mouth, let Auntie see..."
Unexpectedly, her voice fell, perhaps it was her soft and pleasant voice that made the original child from the previous rejection, evasion, and overwhelmed sluggishness presented by contact with strangers, and I don't know when it was replaced by a curious, quiet, and cooperative look.
Even so, when he was about to open his mouth and suddenly hesitated, I immediately took advantage of his interest in the computer and said, "Listen to Auntie, and Auntie will give you the computer to play later..."
Unexpectedly, as soon as I finished speaking, I don't know if he understood or coincidentally, in short, for the first time he was like a child with no problems, like a docile lamb, opening his mouth at the doctor's request...
Soon, after the doctor's routine examination, the preliminary diagnosis may be a common cold, but during the special period, for the sake of safety, it is still necessary to take a blood test. When we came to the second floor to draw blood and after discussing, my grandfather took the child and the cold powder prescribed by the doctor, and decided to rush home first!
Escorted them out of the hospital, looking at their distant backs, only to be left on the empty road, waiting for the results of the blood test.
Looking at the almost nowhere on the street, I was lonely, and I couldn't help but think that children are not only overly sensitive in hearing, but also slow in touch and smell, but the acuity of taste and vision seems to be equally different from ordinary children.
Because, perhaps, it is the dullness of the tactile part of the mouth that affects the sense of smell, so that he eats almost the same way as me from beginning to end, and almost goes straight to his stomach without chewing. Although I am the same, I feel good about myself, I feel like I have a strong appetite and relish, and I especially like the satisfaction of enjoying a meal to my stomach. Therefore, there is no discomfort whatsoever. But as for what happened to him, it is not known. But if you look at his body, digestion and stool, he should be of the same normal type as me!
However, in terms of taste, sight, and hearing, he is not the same as me. Perhaps it is because of his keen sense of taste and slow sense of smell that he can often decide whether to eat or not when he is eating, even if he is sometimes uncertain, it is just a bit like a wolf dog, and then repeat the sniffing.
Especially his vision, when he first spotted him watching TV, he immediately recognized it as soon as a straight line of programs appeared on the screen. At that time, I thought that this was the case, not to mention his illiterate three-year-old child, I thought that even a sighted reader would need to be confirmed in many schedules to do it!
This kind of unexpected discovery is a little strange to think about. But his grandfather thought he remembered the show, and I thought maybe it was because of that, but I quickly denied my grandfather's opinion. Because the picture of opening the program is fluid, and for a child who does not know words, he can only associate the text of the program with the plot through image memory, and it is possible to determine it correctly immediately. However, this prominent image association function is first of all based on keen vision, and only when the vision is developed, it is more likely to turn into image memory and immediately distinguish the difference between words.
So, in order to verify his judgment again, when he closed all the programs and reopened them, he still clicked on them directly without hesitation in an instant. It can be seen that his keen visual function, when he sees the text of the program, although it seems small to us, but in his visual function, what he sees may be like a clear picture, and he quickly discovers the program he wants in the difference.
Once, when I took him home to the intersection, he suddenly looked ahead and pointed, "One, nine", but I looked back and forth, left and right, and did not find any 19 buses and ignored him. Unexpectedly, he raised his voice again and looked ahead and said, "One, nine..."
At this time, I noticed that he was so serious, so I looked a little strangely in the direction he was pointing, but I saw a bus parked on the other side of the crossroads, about 400 meters away, next to the platform. I don't think this kid will say it's the 19th bus, right? Because, at such a distance, I could barely see a red neon sign above the car, and I couldn't talk about whether there were numbers or not, and what surprised me even more was that my eyesight was not very good, but it was also in the normal range.
However, in my skeptical attitude, I quickly pulled him forward. Unexpectedly, as I walked, when the car entered the line of sight that I could recognize, I found something unbelievable that the bus that had just stopped there was indeed the No. 19 bus. At that time, when I verified this scene, it seemed that I suddenly felt a little frightened, and I felt that he was like a ghost, which was a little difficult to accept...
Later, I found that on the whole, his sense of touch and smell was duller than that of a normal child, but his sense of hearing, sight, and taste was much sharper than that of a normal child. Therefore, this contrast leads him to face the same things as other children, but the conscious experience is far different from that of ordinary children. And his interests are formed mainly through his keen organs. The dull organ is dull, resulting in weak attention and lack of interest generated by experience, and loses the opportunity to exercise and develop, resulting in a series of corresponding imbalances due to developmental delay.
Just like his body, although he has always been very good in terms of congenital physique, it may be because of his dull sense of touch, and it is difficult to form curiosity and arouse activity in obtaining a benign tactile experience. Therefore, although his physical fitness is better, because of the lack of active exercise, he will not walk until late. What's even more different is that he barely climbed, and then he learned to walk straight away.
Therefore, if the child's sense of touch is normal, then he may be curious in order to pursue a good tactile experience, and curiosity allows him to get a good exercise in the continuous experience of tactile feelings. Therefore, it is naturally easy to learn to walk earlier when you are in good health. This combination of acuity and sluggishness may extend to the constraints of attraction and repulsion, leading to the imbalance of conscious experience, and the corresponding interest and indifference, or more two-way extreme mental behavior.
Because, the experience of the touch of the five senses, through the manifestation of consciousness, sublimates and evolves into the interest or desire of the root of the mind! Ordinary children can obtain the experience of inner psychological balance in the normal state of conscious experience, and then they will be mutually reinforcing and complementary in the three consciousnesses, and show corresponding synchronous and coordinated behaviors and emotions with the external world. At the same time, under the balance and coordination of the five senses and touch, based on each function, a balanced psychological world will be developed and act on reality.
But for him, due to the dullness of the sense of touch and smell, and because of the effect of using and retreating, the keen points are constantly strengthened, resulting in the more developed acute organs. At the same time, it is equivalent to constantly ignoring the dull point, which leads to the sluggish organ function and the more dull the function, and finally gradually leads to more and more extreme phenomena.
Therefore, in terms of conscious experience and external behavior, the corresponding level of sensitivity is easy to surpass that of ordinary children. However, the psychological behavior corresponding to the dullness point is far behind that of ordinary children. Therefore, it can be seen that his penchant for extreme phenomena such as transmutation and television and mobile phone music should be induced by his keen sense of sight and hearing. And sitting on the toilet, not like to chew and stir food, quiet and not like to crawl around since childhood, etc., should be induced by the sluggish point. The problem of poor eye contact, reluctance to contact with children, and attachment problems should be the unconscious avoidance behavior caused by the negative feelings caused by the grandmother experienced by the auditory acuity, and the difficulty in obtaining the warmth of love through tactile hugging due to the lack of hugging and tactile dullness.
Behaviors such as pulling stink, drinking milk, and being rigid should be compensatory for repression. Familiarity with routes, repetition, etc., should be insecure, resulting in conscious behaviors that require experiencing a sense of security. Rebellion, resistance, etc., are repressed conflicts that lead to the experience of self-awareness in release.
The normal articulation system but the absence of language is due to the suppression of the desire for verbal expression, resulting in a weak sense of self, which induces a nominalization response. Because of the lack of language communication, it leads to the loss of language learning and exercise opportunities, resulting in stagnation, regression, and even loss of initial physiological functions.
Therefore, autistic children need more stimulation than ordinary children at the dull point in order to have a conscious experience similar to that of ordinary children. However, in terms of sensitivity, it is necessary to avoid negative stimuli and at the same time reduce the experience of positive things. And maintain the corresponding balance in order to promote the formation of the three consciousnesses, and act on the external world!
In this case, if the child is still facing the normal child's level reaction, then the child's sensitivity will inevitably cause avoidance behavior in the negative effects of diffuse therapy, and induce a series of corresponding problems. However, at the sluggish point, it is easy to have a series of corresponding problems such as regression, stagnation, or loss of function due to insufficient experience. At the same time, in turn, it will strengthen the sharp point to induce more problems, and in turn, as the sharp point develops, the function of the dull point will be further reduced. Thus aggravating the experience of inducing negative consciousness as a whole! Various psycho-behavioral problems that lead to the three major consciousnesses.
And in terms of the five senses and touch, if it is not autistic but alienated, or autism caused by physical diseases, then this situation will be even worse...
If it is only autism with a keen sense of touch or dullness as an internal cause, it is fundamentally a problem caused by overstimulation and insufficient stimulation in the acquired environment due to individual differences. Therefore, providing a suitable environment for children is the first priority. As long as you do this, it is easy to slowly and completely return to normal when you do not exceed the limit! But autism, which has developed severely, and pathology and alienation lead to autism, needs to be treated differently!
Therefore, the causes of autism are physiologically just like the dialectics of traditional Chinese medicine, any problem in any function of the body may induce autism, which may lead to more problems! Just like any organ problem, it may induce lesions in other organs. If it is originally a heart problem, but when it seriously affects the entire internal organs, it is difficult for even the most skilled Chinese medicine practitioner to find the organ that caused the disease in the first place. And the fundamental recovery of autism, just like the dialectic of traditional Chinese medicine, is decided on the organ that induced the problems of the entire five organs in the beginning, rather than on the disease of the existing organ...
The situation is even worse if it is autism that is caused by physical problems, such as intestinal cardiopulmonary epilepsy and other more pathological problems. Because this is a psychological, physiological, and tactile abnormality, multiple diseases at the same time intersect and circulate with each other are all comprehensive autism. Therefore, this type of autism has gone far beyond the scope of true autism. It is more serious to involve difficult pathological aspects, which leads to the need for coordination and adjustment from both psychological and medical aspects in rehabilitation!
Autistic haptic retardation often requires deeper and more tactile stimulation than ordinary children in order to better restore and enhance tactile function through the mental power experienced by conscious consciousness.
Perhaps because of this, when I came home once, I was already a big baby, and I didn't want to come down in my arms for almost a day. It wasn't until the afternoon of the next day, as if he was in a mood of contentment, that he began to come down occasionally to play!
At that time, the child was in my arms, always snuggling tightly to my chest, and from time to time gently pressed his face against my shoulder, as if his keen sense of taste and my body odor could make him feel relaxed and quiet as if he was slightly drunk.
However, at noon, my grandmother, who was cooking in the kitchen, didn't know whether she was distressed and tired of me, or she was worried that the child was afraid of being hugged by me, or she was under the domination of driving desire, and said more than once: "Come down, don't want Daddy to hug me!" ”
In short, maybe my grandmother has long been accustomed to letting the mobile phone TV accompany him, and ignored that the child needs to be hugged like a lover in love in order to grow up more healthily. Perhaps because of this, the child is constantly reinforcing her sense of sight and hearing, so that today's child has a similar schizotypal autism phenomenon as her. And under the influence of her personality and closed environment, it also caused an escapist lack of social interest and actual social skills.
Therefore, when I think of the Spring Festival a week later, when he was playing happily in the bathroom with the young lady who was two years older than him, I didn't expect the young lady to suddenly scream because of excessive excitement, he immediately blushed, and in an instant, with tears in his eyes, he was at a loss as if he had been splashed with cold water, stood for a moment, and then walked out silently! From then on, I was a little worried that the frequency of the voice might have a negative effect on him, so I explained and asked more than once how his brilliant grandparents should treat the children. It's a pity that they are accustomed to listening only to their own natural sounds and ignoring the voices of the mortal world!
So, once again, it was also at home, and the aunt next door asked me to help turn on the electric car, but, unexpectedly, he was still like this, and he was having a good time next to me, but when we were discussing the car in a slightly louder tone, I accidentally found that he immediately had a red face and nervous eyes, looking sluggish and at a loss...
Later, in the hospital where Xiaobao was born, his auditory and visual responses were more prominent. When an aunt teased him in a tone similar to that of his grandmother, he immediately asked his grandmother to take him out in fear of rejection.
Even on the third day, even if he changed the delivery room, because of the radiation effect, he still clearly remembered that in the dim delivery room at that time, another uncle who had not provoked him, let him in the negative radiation effect, even if he saw the innocent uncle who came to visit us, he quickly ran from his mother's bed to my arms like a tiger, looked at him with three points of fear and curiosity, and pointed and asked him to go out...
However, when the innocent uncle walked out of the delivery room again, a middle-aged nurse changed the needle for his mother, and teased him again with a gentle and loving tone, but he was happy like an angel, although he couldn't speak, but in the excitement and smile of fingering, he naughtily wanted to go over and play with the needle that the nurse and aunt were adjusting...
Therefore, if we look at all kinds of phenomena, we have already explained how serious the results are caused by his sensitivity to the positive and negative perceptions of sound, and the corresponding systematic response to the external environment caused by the radiation effect of consciousness.
It is also conceivable that the profound experience caused by the positive and negative sounds caused by the sharp sense of hearing, and the sharp development of visual functions, led to a strong memory, and at the same time, the negative impact on his development caused by the lack of correct treatment and manufacturing in the environment matched by his family is self-evident!
Therefore, for children with individual differences, the acquired environment is very important to his life!
One day after he was two years old, when I came home, I accidentally found that the child, who had always been very fond of playing with the washing machine, stood in the corridor of the living room with an awkward and embarrassing desire, looking at his grandmother who was operating the washing machine from afar. The moment the child heard my call, and then smiled slightly shyly in passivity, and walked into the living room with me...
It can be seen that the way and intensity of grandmother's control of children's mischievous behavior have produced miraculous effects, which is also a major factor that induces children's acquired autism. Therefore, it can be inferred that when the child is in the countryside, the environment he has been in, the influence he has been subjected to, and the anti-radiation effect he has received from his grandmother, what a miracle that is rare in a thousand years!
Later, when I recalled the signs, I finally preliminarily concluded that the child's autism is mainly caused by the individual's sense of hearing, sight, and taste is too sharp, and the sense of smell and touch is too dull. Then in the acquired environment, the grandmother-based personality, as well as the separation of mother and child and diet are the main factors, and the acquired autism induced...
Because, in the golden age of children, being in such an environment for a long time, coupled with their own internal factors, it is inevitable that it will easily cause stagnation and regression of expression desire and loss of language development exercise! And because of this for a long time, it forms a closure in the escape from pain and depression. In the end, it leads to irreversible physical function and psychological development disorders, and mainly highlights the problems such as difficulty in pronunciation of the language system! As a result, due to the lack of communication and limited activities, it causes more depression to form psychological problems, and the performance and external behavior. Therefore, even if the child changes the environment today and recovers under my recovery, it is easy to make more recovery difficulties due to the golden recovery period of the wrong thing. It can even cause problems that are difficult to reverse for a lifetime. Perhaps, the best outcome will only be to follow in her mother's footsteps!
Before the age of three, the child's brain, just like the building under construction, if the corresponding stimulation materials cannot be given in time, then the child's brain development is prone to physiological and neurological development problems. If you miss the golden period again, it will be like a pot of half-cooked rice, and it will be difficult to develop normally. Perhaps it is for this reason that many autistic children do not show symptoms until they are about three years old. And worse is unavoidable, easy to last a lifetime!
Although, it is undeniable that medicine is important, perhaps it is precisely because it is so important that many people have absolute authority over medicine. As a result, many problems that are difficult to solve and determine in medicine ignore the possibility of breaking through and recovering the power of the mind outside of medicine, as well as shaping the functions of the body and mind...
For example, in terms of children's growth, a couple in the United States who adopted an orphan with Down syndrome abandoned by their parents in China are growing up in the direction of infinite normality in the warmth and care of high-quality science. When looking at her picture, her smile, and the skills she already possesses, it's hard to spot at a glance that she was once a Don's orphan! Therefore, with all kinds of realities in front of us, doesn't it still explain something?
With the development of medicine, many people believe in and recognize the role of physiological inheritance and variation. However, it ignores the plasticity and reversal of genes. Therefore, in the same way, human beings, especially growing children, are more likely to be inherited from the psychological, emotional, and behavioral aspects of family personality on the basis of genetic inheritance.
And this kind of inheritance, excluding the physiological and genetic aspects for the time being, in fact, this kind of inheritance is a subtle influence of psychology. It has nothing to do with genetics. In the formation of the shallow level, this kind of subtle influence will again play a role in the interaction between the conscious and the thinking consciousness and the subconscious in the subconscious radiation and projection effect. And gradually form a systematic, stable, and self-perceptible psychological world...
Therefore, when I went home again with the normal test results and wanted to explain some problems to them, I did not expect that even if I put the child's diagnosis certificate in front of them, unexpectedly, they were still like a piece of thousand-year-old ginger, although the reaction was not big, but the original flavor was very strong. And strive to continue to perform, the fairy style of nothing to do. As a result, I gave up the opportunity to communicate with them again in the helpless immortal differences!
Thinking about me, in order to comfort myself, I thought that the child had returned to me anyway, and the future would be long. Now it's his turn to be far from the emperor. I'd better go into battle myself and advance and retreat with my children!
These immortals in the forest can't help it. If you continue to hope for them, maybe the child's problem will not be solved, but you will get the problem out of yourself first. In addition, my health is not good, and in the end, even if I don't accompany my children with autism, I may completely lose the opportunity to be reborn in their mana!
Therefore, if you think about the problem that makes people more worried, maybe the child's mother will also be in the regression of youth, and hold Xiaobao as a jade rabbit and return to Guanghan Palace again, it is far away!
Therefore, after thinking about it, I still kept my mouth shut. Finally, a few days later, in the child's fever and runny nose, in the repeated recovery, under the blockade of the whole city, we went back to her parents' house like a little daughter-in-law again, leaving only the child's uncle to dance with the plague god. Let's go all the way through again, like idle clouds and wild cranes, back to the small courtyard of the forest court where the child once successfully cultivated...