In the days without their mother and daughter, the two-person world between me and my children can be described as a vast sky.

Toys, picture books, and many other things, even a piece of rice, are as unsightly as a garbage dump in my intentionally or unintentionally...

Because, I hope that through the chaos of the external environment, I can achieve a great deal of governance in children's psychology and behavior...

Because, I want to break the order of his original inner consciousness through the chaos of the external environment, and then generate the corresponding new order of consciousness in a specific situation, and rearrange the new consciousness by adding and subtracting...

Because theoretically, the external environment and fate are the refraction process of the inner world, so in turn, the external environment can also have a counter-effect radiation and molding, and the inner world acts on the environment to achieve the corresponding destiny...

Therefore, thinking of this, I took out all the card books mailed by his uncle who was far away in Hefei.

At first, he was still as usual, turning a blind eye and hearing nothing, no matter how I induced and asked, at most he only looked at it occasionally, not to mention that he would take the initiative to ask, take the initiative to say and take the initiative to read it himself!

Therefore, I think that if you use coercion or demand, as well as the ABA reward and punishment training method, it is not only difficult to achieve the goal of self-directed learning in a short period of time, but also will be time-consuming and laborious in this training process, and waste more time in vain, not to mention, it is more likely to cause other potential psychological problems.

Therefore, I think that even if we use consciousness as the starting point and use the time floor and the Denver model, it is also difficult to achieve the effect of rapid and effective natural healing. Because floor time and Denver have a better effect on children who already have a certain interest or conscious experience. ABA behavioral therapy mainly focuses on thinking and consciousness, which is relatively suitable for children with normal intelligence, stable sense of security and corresponding conscious experience. And although he has a better intelligence, he lacks a corresponding basis for conscious experience of this, and at the same time. Under the impact of negative subconscious information caused by my grandmother, it is difficult to achieve short-term results, and form natural learning behaviors oriented by conscious drive.

If ABA does not have the explicit and subconscious as a support point, even if it learns something, it is easy to forget it quickly, or it is stored in the subconscious, due to the lack of conscious experience, it is easy to form mechanical, rigid, stereotyped, etc., which is difficult to effectively become the mind and act on reality under the integration of the three consciousnesses...

Therefore, I think about it and feel that in the cultivation of thinking consciousness-oriented behavior, we must first base ourselves on the core experience of the conscious mind, and focus on the development of interests first, so that we can naturally develop the corresponding thinking consciousness, subconscious mind, and explicit consciousness. Therefore, on the basis of the lack of benign three consciousnesses, perhaps, the best way is to use the principle of hypnosis first and take the subconscious mind as the starting point to better solve the problem. And it's also more in line with the natural pattern of healthy development.

Because the principle of hypnosis is to use the weak state of human thinking, skip the thinking consciousness and the conscious experience, and directly input the subconscious, and then in the corresponding environment, induce the conscious experience behavior dominated by the thinking consciousness, so that the corresponding benign interaction of the three consciousnesses can be obtained in the true sense, and act on the external behavior.

The subconscious information implantation, there is also a mode, although the thinking consciousness is in a normal state, but can repeatedly use the sense of touch, vision, hearing, smell, taste and other physiological perception functions, in the continuous superposition, stimulate the awakening and generation of conscious consciousness, but also can achieve the effect of avoiding thinking consciousness and producing the effect of being oriented by the conscious! Let the corresponding information enter the subconscious mind first, and then act on other consciousnesses.

And this model is actually similar to the common advertising model in real life!

And this truth. It was also thousands of years ago that Mengzi's mother used the environment to construct the truth of Mencius's success with the subconscious as the starting point. Thus effectively proving that the acquired environment is also a major reason for affecting fate!

So, once again, with the support of this principle, I started by awakening his habit of throwing things, first using his hand touch, sight and hearing, and first by gaining conscious experience to induce his interest in picture books.

Sure enough, with my support and encouragement, the child started to play occasionally, until he was happy to throw it all over the ground regularly.

Then, a few days later, when he was released and entered a free state of mind, I began to use the strategy of retreat into advance in the corresponding constraints, and strengthened his desire to contact picture books...

In fact, from the moment every child throws something, it starts with curiosity and exploration, and then gradually evolves into a desire for control, and sublimation into a way to attract the attention of others, and experience the existence of self-awareness or self-worth.

But the sad thing is that since being brought to the countryside by his grandmother, the natural development space of the child and the nature of human learning have gradually been infinitely compressed by the grandmother, and under the child's own sensitive voice difference, and in the keen intuition of experiencing the emotions of others, and at the same time, because of the grandmother's habitual high frequency, complaints, and reprimands, and phrasing, so that his originally lively and active grandson, unconsciously, gradually like her original children, resulting in long-term depression, because it is difficult to pursue and experience happiness, and in the limitation, leading to the conscious experience of closing the mind in escape from suffering...

Therefore, in order to cultivate the child's interest in reading in the future, I still use the same method of rehabilitating his mother, mainly by encouraging him to indulge himself and release the suppressed information in his subconscious. Let him gradually return to his natural nature!

So, in this chaotic environment, with my encouragement and support, the child quickly let his original subconscious order be disrupted and shattered in my encouragement and indulgence, just like her mother's reaction. I gradually experienced the joy of freedom and relaxation!

With the release of his repression, in the days that followed, he soon began to become more and more chaotic and crazy, just like the environment at home...

Sometimes, drinking water deliberately spit into the trash can, or even spitting out the water line proudly under the action of pressure...

Sometimes, between the table and the sofa, and on the bed, I jump around in the hope of getting my attention!

Sometimes, in boredom, it's not touching or messing around, and sometimes it's like a madman, suddenly screaming: "Haha... Gege..."!

Especially when eating, I often have a bulging mouth at the end, and when I drink the last sip of water, I often deliberately wrap it in my mouth, no matter how I say it, I keep wrapping it, and even vomit on the bed when I fall asleep a few times. I think this may be because his relaxation enhances his tactile experience, and attracts him to explore and experience the tactile sensations of the mouth, which leads to curious behavior.

Later, a few times because he played too late, I was forced to sleep, maybe because he didn't have fun, and a few times he deliberately urinated a few times in a minute, tricking me into bringing the urine bucket, but he had a coquettish smile, and he struggled for a long time before he was excited, squeezing out a drop or two like holy water...

So, in the freedom I let him indulge, his emotions began to grow more and more! He also began to act recklessly, and then he, who had almost never climbed, suddenly crawled around on the ground like a monkey without knowing when, and at the same time asked me to chase him. So, in order to encourage him, I gently kicked him in the ass with my foot and shouted, "Drive... When he heard this, he was like a poor bastard suddenly picking up a cornucopia, and he couldn't close his mouth with a smile, and immediately sped up and crawled back and forth...

Then, in the next few days after he often threw picture books, I began to use the subconscious mind to absorb information every night after bed and when he woke up in the morning, when his thinking and consciousness were relaxed, and asked him to put the picture book in his hand under the influence of tactile vision, and combined with the language in the audio he had heard, he said to him:

"If you want to read, you have to study hard, because reading books will be smarter, cuter, and more sensible in the future, and Mom and Dad will be happier..."

However, as expected, within a few days, after he went to bed, the first thing he did started with passive contact with picture books, and there was already an unconscious initiative to pick up picture books and occasionally flip through them. It wasn't until under the superposition effect of continuous repetition that there was soon a conscious act of flipping through picture books. Later, with the assistance of his mother, he finally began to use sign language and tone to ask questions on his own...

It didn't take long, perhaps because of his positive awareness of books, and gradually under the influence of psychological radiation, he had learned to pinyin numbers on wall charts, as well as the names of many other objects! And you can clearly say 90% of the content of the wall chart. What's even more surprising is that he often takes self-exams according to the wall chart in the narcissistic excitement, and he can achieve 98 to 100 points...

When I saw his continuous improvement, I think that before he returned to the countryside a week, he often made babbling noises in the video, and began to unconsciously say: "Mom... Mom..."

Especially during the Spring Festival that year, the family was more active in the good atmosphere because of his arrival...

We see his lively and lovely appearance, and from time to time in impatience, when he utters babbling words, everyone is full of confidence that he will soon be able to speak...

Unexpectedly, when the Spring Festival passed, in the days after the people went to the empty building, when I returned to the countryside again, I found that the doors, beds, cabinets, almost all drawers were either ropes or wires, and even there was a faucet in the kitchen.

What is even more surprising is that the child not only did not make any progress in language, but even said "Mom... , grandma... Dad...", in the days that followed, I don't know if my grandmother deliberately shirked her responsibility, or if she really didn't know, and she also went backwards and disappeared.

However, what I didn't expect to be worse was that the child's previous activity, joy, excitement, and constant babbling sound suddenly looked like a deflated ball, and at some point, the original vitality had long disappeared without a trace...

At this time, all that remains is seemingly well-behaved, and occasionally in the repression of naughty and shyness, often in a state of cautious observation and passivity...

Especially the grandmother who has also grown up in the depression, at this time, although she is old, not only does she not have any breakthrough and growth, but let the original depression, in the mentality that has mutated into a desire to drive the weak, put the bamboo seedlings as a treasure of the scepter, put it on a specific table at home, and bring it to Anqing from the countryside, often holding it, it seems to be educating the child, but in fact it is experiencing the sense of accomplishment of driving the weak, in order to get satisfaction but unknowingly intimidate the child...

As for how many times the grandmother used the bamboo seedling scepter to smoke the child in the countryside, it is difficult to know. However, if from the child's fear and obedience to the bamboo seedlings, as well as the radiation effect associated with the bamboo seedlings, which leads to the fear of shaking the compass in the mobile phone, it can be basically determined that he must have been pumped or intimidated more than once.

As for the strength of pumping, of course, it will definitely not be too serious, because even if grandma is ignorant, no matter how strong the mentality of driving the weak is, she will not be willing to pump hard. At most, when his mood is serious, he is unscrupulous in occasional light convulsions, raising his voice and intimidating him more seriously.

Because, she thinks it's just scared and harmless. Even when appreciating their proud educational masterpieces, they feel that they are great and love for their children.

But she will never understand that her subconscious desire for revenge leads to educational behavior, and relatively speaking, slapping the child's heart and intimidation are the most fatal injuries. Because her current daughter is an example of her success!

Otherwise, it would not have been possible for her grandson today to have such a strong fear and mechanical submissive response, and the fear and indifference to other things caused by the radiation effect...

Therefore, it is reasonable to say that she could whip her own young daughter with a thorny rattan stick, and now she can whip her grandson with bamboo seedlings. If her subconscious behavior expands to a certain extent, it is actually abuse!

Therefore, it wasn't until later in my subconscious analysis that I learned why the child suddenly hit a ghost in the dark when he looked at WeChat Shake and Compass, and immediately threw away his mobile phone in fear, but he was curious to continue watching.

Because the subconscious fear will generate curiosity to understand it in the consciousness of safe thinking. Therefore, the child's behavioral response is mainly due to the fact that the subconscious fear of information has not yet been raised to the level of thinking consciousness cognition, and the desire to explore is formed in the lack of clarity.

The reason why he is afraid is because the page of WeChat shake is exactly in line with the situational awareness of his grandmother shaking her fist when she scares him or whips him with bamboo seedlings.

The compass is composed of a garden line and a straight line needle, which is exactly in line with the straight line consciousness of the bamboo seedlings, and the arc consciousness of grandma pumping him and scaring him.

Therefore, WeChat shakes the page, which subconsciously represents the shape of a fist when his grandmother threatens him with bamboo seedlings. And the compass represents the arc-shaped action of Takemiao and Grandma pumping him and scaring him at the moment...

This phenomenon and principle are very similar to the reason that once a snake has been bitten for ten years, he is afraid of the well rope. The difference is that the former can clearly know the cause of fear in the thinking consciousness. So the damage is knowable and manageable...

However, the latter will precipitate into the subconscious or spiritual part as the child grows up, in the state of immature thinking and cognition, and in the state that it is difficult to be recognized by self-thinking consciousness, it is easier to change its appearance from time to time like a dream in the radiation effect, affecting the child's psychological consciousness and even the fate of behavior!

The so-called I dream butterfly butterfly dream...

The story of Zhuang Zhoumengdie, although it is more like a Zen realm, also reflects the relationship between fate and the subconscious.

Is it the dream of human destiny that creates the subconscious, or the dream of the subconscious that creates the destiny?

In fact, between the two, just like Zhuang Zhoumengdie's spiritual consciousness, they are both independent and equal, and they exist in circulation with each other. The difference is only that there is a visible object factor, which makes people have a wrong perception.

What if this is reflected in children?

If you are bitten by a snake once, you will be afraid of the rope for ten years, so if you are often bitten by a snake, how many years will you be afraid of the well rope?

In the same way, the well rope effect is also like Zhuang Zhou's dream butterfly principle in terms of consciousness transformation. The difference is that there are only positive and negative effects!

So, in the child's dream-like subconscious ocean, if the bamboo seedling represents the snake, then is he bitten by the snake, or is the bamboo seedling in his subconscious becoming a snake and biting the conscious self?

In fact, the reason is very simple, in terms of thinking and cognition, he is a snake turned into by the subconscious negative bamboo seedlings, biting the conscious self. However, in his conscious perception, it was the snake that was recognized by his own thinking and consciousness that bit the conscious self. And that snake is the conscious experience of the bamboo seedling's mutation, which feeds back to the thinking consciousness, and forms a lot of information about the thinking consciousness, which continues to act on other consciousnesses and radiates real life.

This is also like the butterfly that Zhuang Zhou dreamed of, but on the contrary, from the perspective of Zen, it is also equivalent to the butterfly dreaming of Zhuang Zhou's truth. The difference is that the dream is reversed, and the positive butterfly is replaced by the negative bamboo seedling represented by the snake...

Actually, this phenomenon is also very similar to the visions that occur during meditation. The difference is that in the process of meditation, this kind of ordinary latent illusion of consciousness is an illusion that can be recognized by the thinking consciousness in the course of sober meditation.

And this kind of consciousness illusion of ordinary people is difficult to be perceived by themselves when it affects reality. Only dreams can be generated and self-aware. However, this kind of subconscious dream hallucination will also directly affect the psychological consciousness in the radiation effect, and directly and indirectly affect the fate, but it is difficult to be self-aware!

For example, a practitioner in the Zen Gong Case found a spider hindering him after entering the meditation. When he came out of his mind, Master told him, "If that spider reappears, you should draw a circle on his belly..."

Sure enough, when he did it according to the law and made a time, he found that for some reason, the circle was drawn on his belly...

This public case also shows very well that the spider is actually the information that is usually hidden in his subconscious, but because in the process of entering the meditation, the divine consciousness formed by the thinking consciousness left the physical self, and discovered the subconscious information transformation spider with the physical body as the carrier. And when the circle drawn by his thinking and consciousness fell on the body of the body, when he returned to the body with his concentration consciousness and discovered the circle of his belly, he realized that the spider was actually an illusion of subconscious information changing!

This phenomenon is similar to that of a sleepwalker who draws on his stomach and then wakes up again and finds that he has a stomach problem, but he is unconscious. The difference is that the meditation practitioner has the three consciousnesses as a unified interaction formed by the transcendence of the normal state, while the sleepwalker is an independent subconscious behavior caused by the division of the three consciousnesses.

This phenomenon is also the real illusion produced by the Eight Treasure Fields in Buddhism. If this kind of illusion is reflected in ordinary people, it is like the relationship between a settled walker and a spider, without the guidance of the Master, it is difficult to be self-aware and entangled with it as a fact. But in fact, the spider that turned out to be so real was the result of its own mind or subconscious transformation!

The well-known concept of the "unconscious" was developed nearly 100 years ago by the Austrian Freud. Simon. However, the influence of its mechanism on fate is exactly in line with what Buddhism called the eighth consciousness "alayya" thousands of years ago. And the so-called Eight Treasures Tianzhong gives birth to all things, this truth fully illustrates that the external presentation of subconscious inner information is actually the main force that pulls fate!

Therefore, all the experiences of human beings and other beings will form consciousness through the five senses and touch, that is, the conscious experience, and become the subconscious or the eight treasure fields of the Alaya consciousness as Buddhism is called, and affect fate...

Therefore, when I began to understand that my child was afraid of mobile phones, I hoped to gain the approval of his uncle, so that he could support me in convincing his extraordinary parents to stop thinking that they were experts and continue to cause problems for their children and hinder my recovery.

However, I didn't expect that his uncle, who was covered in the smell of ink, took the lead at the level of an expert, and didn't even give me a chance to breathe, so he disdainfully denied what I hadn't finished speaking...

Thinking about the embarrassment, it is really enviable, I can't imagine that in such a talented family, and I don't seem to have lost the right to speak!

So, in desperation, I was a little unwilling to be lonely, so I could only hope for the most primitive and indiscriminate witchcraft methods, hoping to solve the problems created by these experts and disdainful of them.

Therefore, at noon the next day, in order to clear the child's subconscious fear caused by the bamboo seedlings, I prepared two similar bamboo seedlings and gave them to the child who was beside the stove and asked him to fill them by himself...

This seemingly witchcraft principle is actually to reawaken the corresponding fear in his subconscious through the bamboo seedlings, and then implant the information of burning the bamboo seedlings, so as to induce the subconscious to awaken the conscious experience, and in the process of forming the thinking consciousness, let him experience the sense of security that has evolved from loss and disappearance. and then use this to stay in the air, submersive, and squeeze the original information and space in his subconscious. Therefore, if this method is done a few more times, even if it is difficult to be completely clear, it can effectively reduce the negative meaning produced by the bamboo seedling, and effectively solve the corresponding radiation effect of the subconscious, and contact more hidden dangers of his future fate!

For example, if this kind of subliminal information cannot be effectively solved, then after he falls in love or gets married in the future, it is easy for him to buy a piece of clothing with a bamboo leaf pattern or an item related to bamboo seedlings because of his lover, then his subconscious information will be awakened by the corresponding situation. As a result, it is easy for him to feel inexplicably in a bad mood suddenly, or in the radiation effect, to begin to doubt his lover or lover, thus leading to a crisis of confidence and worsening their relationship. If there is an emotional problem that is already a negative event, the result will be even worse...

However, in his thinking consciousness, it is difficult to perceive subconscious information, although he thinks that his lover is innocent, but due to the subconscious consciousness mutation and radiation effect, it is easy to have suspicion, disgust, strangeness, fear and other contradictions, antagonism, and even evasion, shirk responsibility and other emotions for his lover.

If they don't recognize each other's true causes and take appropriate measures, it's easier for them to continue to deteriorate...

For example, in this state of mind, later it was originally with the purpose of going out to relax, but because the subconscious mind induces the conflict between the conscious experience and the subconscious due to the effect of touching the scene, it leads to confusion, resulting in the opposition to the thinking consciousness, forming emptiness, escaping, longing for understanding, and so on under the consciousness of the evolution of bamboo seedlings, it is easy to get together with other women. Or something else happens...

In fact, his mother was in such a similar state of mind, under the impact of her mother's original family emotions, with the support and acquiescence of her father, and in my disappointment with her, let it develop, and finally deduced an admirable and strange extramarital affair under my nose. And her parents, even in this effect, are like a pair of beacon beauties, and it is difficult to say goodbye when they meet, and they want to give up for decades...

Therefore, in the same way, for example, one day his child does not study seriously because he plays with bamboo, or other things related to bamboo, he is prone to self-righteousness in this radiation effect, and he will make a big move on the child for the sake of education. As a result, innocent children once again become victims and inheritors of the original family...

In fact, I once beat my child's buttocks into green trees and flowers, although it was also to warn my grandmother not to continue to blindly prevent me from recovering my child in order to experience the value of my own deformity, but at the same time, it was also equivalent to consciously falling into this effect.

The difference is that although I have long understood this truth clearly, for the sake of my children and under the principle of surpassing me, I still have difficulty controlling myself in the Revelations. Therefore, it can be seen how powerful the power of the subconscious mind is, not to mention many people who are unaware of it!

And this phenomenon of the child's mother, grandmother and even grandfather is actually more serious. So, because of this, she and them were unaware of the victimization and inheritance effect, and even without reservation, and passed it on to their own children and their children's children. Although they are often aware of the existence of problems, in order to cover up and realize their noble ideals, they still go their own way in the split of conscious bigotry! Keep inducing pain and trouble for yourself!

Therefore, such a mentality and personality directly led to today, and directly and indirectly passed on to his grandson. Therefore, if you count it, their original family problems or family style have been passed on for three generations...

Therefore, it is conceivable that just a bamboo seedling effect can make a child's life full of crises in such a law. What if you add other similar bamboo seedling incidents? Then you can naturally imagine the child's life...

Conversely, what if the bamboo sprouts represent a subconscious message that is happy or positive? Then there is no doubt that his life will enter another benign state corresponding to it...

This effect and the law of evolution is one of the factors that make destiny...

Therefore, what is worse is that if the child cannot effectively relieve such a subconscious negative consciousness, he will also be in this kind of law evolution and radiation effect, like wearing a pair of colored glasses, radiating to all aspects of his whole life and difficult to know...

Therefore, when he was born, in order to cultivate a positive attitude, I used to lower the lights in the room and use a red convenience bag to make the whole room in a light red state.

Sure enough, after the child first went out, he paid great attention to the red neon signs, and watched them from time to time in an involuntary smile. Even today, he still has a natural affection for the red lamp, in the radiation effect...

For example, this kind of benign red radiation effect will easily make him like a girl who wears red clothes or has something to do with red. Red things are easier for him to have a good mood, and even sometimes when he is in a bad mood, he will feel better when he suddenly sees red!

And is his good reaction just because red represents positivity, warmth, or motherly love? In fact, this is not entirely the case, if he was suppressed or even abused in the room of the red room after he was born, then his reaction to red in his life will enter the negative effect of bamboo seedlings, and it will most likely lead to his negative life!

Later, when I came home, I hugged the child who liked to lie on the window and look out, but when I was about to approach the window again, he suddenly said "Ah...", like a ghost in the daytime, suddenly in a strong fear, his face was red, and he quickly tied his head tightly in my arms...

As soon as I saw this, I knew that the child was frightened again, and he was very frightened. So, I used the principle of recreating the original scene and told the child: "Don't be afraid, Dad will hug you tightly, let's see if it's okay?" ”

After being induced by me several times, the child finally began to cautiously stick his head out of my arms in fear.

In this way, the next day and so many times, sure enough, the fear was easily lifted, and he returned to before, and he had to look curiously at the window. He didn't have any fear reaction until I handed his head outside!

Conversely, if this fear consciousness cannot be effectively removed, it will also affect his whole life through radiation and mutation. For example, fear of heights, dislike of mountains, distrust of people taller than him, etc. In short, it is easy to associate all the chain negative reactions that are highly related. As for the degree of reaction, it will be directly proportional to his initial fear and willpower...

At that time, in order to verify my judgment, the child's grandmother evaded and admitted under my direct questioning: "The child is scared..."

Then, before I could ask how I was scared, I didn't expect that she was in the habitual self-conscious protection, shirking her responsibility and saying something, how she was scared. It probably means that the child is blamed for being naughty and careless.

When I listened to it, I lost even the interest in getting angry, because I could tell how scared the child was when I thought with my toes. So I didn't bother to listen anymore, and I didn't want to know what she had to say!

Because, from the degree of the child's fear, I already know that my grandmother should be on the second floor, in the mentality of driving the weak, experiencing pleasure and domination, and I don't know it, because she is bored and teasing the child and deliberately scares him.

Her thinking consciousness was originally intended to be because she loved children and teased children, but driven by her negative subconscious, because of her mutated desire for revenge and control, she expected to obtain the satisfaction of self-manifest experience, and refracted with innocent children!

Her grandmother scared the child in the same way that my mother teased me, tricked me into going to the well, and then suddenly pressed my head down.

In the memories of the later re-experience, I only remember that I was at that time with a loud "ah...", in extreme fear, my body and mind suddenly felt as light as a soul, and in a brief moment, there was a feeling of time and space stagnating...

So, as I continued to grow up, it was not until I was eighteen years old that I suddenly found in fear that I seemed to have the same fear and curiosity about wells, bridges, deep water, large ponds, low-lying areas at night, the sound of big water waves, etc.

Even for words with names and wells, there is an inexplicable sense of rejection and distance.

So, in order to find out why, it was only after I was twenty-two years old that I found out in my self-hypnotic suggestive memories that I was frightened by my mother when I was about three years old.

Now, if you want to get rid of this fear, the only completely effective way is to use the principle of hypnotic original scene reproduction, elevate the subconscious information to the level of thinking consciousness, and then reawaken the conscious experience in the thinking consciousness cognition...

Therefore, this well, the window of the child's fear, as well as the grandmother's bamboo seedlings, and the mechanism of his mother's beating of the thorny vine by his mother's mother, almost all belong to the same effect in the same system in the law of the evolution of fate.

Therefore, even today, the daughter who seems to be a mother in her thirties, when she heard the teacher talk about the problems of her original family for the first time in kindergarten, she still couldn't help crying, like a wronged child.

Because of the lack of experience of healthy maternal love, although in an unfamiliar environment, due to the subconscious expectation of ideal maternal love, suddenly awakened by the principal's similar tone, resulting in the false empathy effect, in line with the desire for conscious understanding, acceptance, and warm experience, and mistakenly thought that it was the principal's care, so the sense of value to be understood, resulting in the dual power of the conscious and subconscious beyond the thinking consciousness, and the formation of rational and emotional split, resulting in the difficulty of self-control, thinking of the moment of the thorn vine and sobbing...

Therefore, in a poignant scene, you can imagine what her past, present, and future will be? It's been more than 30 years since I think about it, and I'm still immersed in the shadow of my childhood, and it's hard to get out. So it is conceivable that this kind of family atmosphere, like rainy weather, will never be just a drop of rain or a cloud. It's the whole earth, covering the whole sky, and even the whole environment of growth, and the endless life!

As a result, as she grew up, this effect of thorn vine-like radiation and subconscious mutation would exist throughout her life in forgotten and residual memories, like nightmares.

Therefore, she has told me more than once that she is afraid of snakes, and often dreams that snakes chase her everywhere. And the snake subconsciously represents a man, which shows that her father also caused her deep fear. And the snake in the field can represent the unstable mother in the subconscious.

Therefore, this double injury caused by parents worsens the dream of the subconscious thorny vine mutating into a field snake, and puts her in the radiation effect of the mind, causing her to escape the pain and aggravate the closure in order to protect the mind. Due to the radiation effect, she was ruthless to flowers and plants, insects and birds. Because flowers, grasses, insects and birds, in her subconscious, also represent her mother and father.

This kind of indifference and ruthlessness is mainly due to the lack of benign conscious experience, which leads to a lack of affection. Since there is a lack or even none, of course it is difficult to give. It's even easy to get that missing share and lead to blind extremes! In fact, in order to obtain this lack of affection, she has already experienced two extreme events...

Therefore, this lack of soul causes monotony and lack of interest, and aggravates depression and anxiety in the heart, so in the blind black and white world, like a sometimes blank and messy paper, constantly in the content of various environments, blindly copying and escaping the world of others, and lacking self-assertiveness, independence, thought, and the meaning of one's own essential life...

However, when she feels that she is in a state of security and trust, especially in such a long-term atmosphere, her temperament and comprehensive quality are as easy as the sky after rain, becoming clearer and clearer...

However, when this good space is pressed, once it is pressed, it is easy for her to be like a frightened turtle, in order to protect her mind from being closed again, suppressing her chaotic consciousness. When the tolerance is exceeded, other unexpected events are often induced because of the evasive compensation...

But, sadly, when I faced her wise father by chance, hoping that he would understand why his daughter was like this, that he would understand some of the truths and give some comfort...

Unexpectedly, as soon as I said about the thorn vine, his father, who was never known for his talents, said to me like a god operator: "Hey, then you can't sow discord, she remembers this matter in her heart, so isn't she hypocritical to us?" ”

However, if you take this as an example, through subconscious analysis, you can get the correct answer. That is his father, at any time, the first thing that comes to mind is himself, not the first thing that thinks of his own children. Therefore, this phenomenon has led him to always have the mentality of being a hegemon in family relationships, and has caused many problems for children and families!

However, at that time, people didn't expect it, as soon as I finished speaking, he paused again and said: "Then don't you also have a problem?" ”

But when his voice didn't fall, I suddenly realized that he was already a talent!

However, why am you reluctant to exert a little wisdom, think about it...

"Then you don't "also" have a problem? What does the word "also" mean?

It shows that he has known about the existence of many problems for a long time...

It shows that he knows that many problems exist because of ignorance, selfishness, vulnerability, and even stupidity and vanity...

At the same time, it shows that he is good at blaming other people's mistakes, and even using the method of fabricating facts, to cover up and cover up his own mistakes and inner fragility. At the same time, it also shows that he makes good use of the habit of attacking and sacrificing others to make up for and obtain and fulfill his own needs and satisfactions...

Therefore, before this, when there was no Xiaobao, even if he instigated the screenshot of his daughter's mobile phone to divorce in front of his eyes, he was still in the inertia of shirking and covering up, and even complained about his daughter confidently:

"Look at this, she says this to others, what do other people think of your parents? …”

However, why was he reluctant to let go of his mood and think: "My daughter, who is as stupid as her mother, was induced by me to have such a thing, so what kind of face will she have to work in the hospital in the future?" ”

However, in order to satisfy his material fame and fortune, he once again built his hope on his children, hoping to achieve the goal of separating her from her son-in-law by dominating the puppet's daughter, so as to sacrifice his ignorant daughter and grandson in exchange for his dreams come true.

Although, in order to realize his dream, he once successfully created the end of a family of three, and induced the child's acquired autism! also succeeded in scarring his daughter's marriage. But it's all today! For his own masterpiece, he still uses the mother and son as a sun umbrella to shield his soul from the wind and rain!

However, the so-called praying mantis catching cicadas and yellow finches were behind, and he didn't expect that there might be orchids in the grass. And in fact, I've always gone with the flow!

Perhaps because of this, it made the second monk of his head scratch, so he was in a dilemma, and finally let him come to this day in the midst of gains and losses!

Therefore, because of this, in order to maintain the soul of fear of light, even if the ironclad evidence is present, he still does not lose his heroic nature, and still like Han Gaozu back then, in the awe-inspiring righteousness, he once again kicked his children and children's children off the carriage for his own country...

Thinking about his emperor-like talent and mind, being able to be a commoner without regrets is really admirable and sorry for him...

However, thinking about it again, I was so unbearable that I really wanted to collapse immediately, but my brain, after going around the earth a few times, didn't find the value and meaning of letting myself collapse...

However, since he has such an imperial spirit and the wisdom of Sai Ruge, why is he not willing to think about it the other way, is it necessary for me to sow discord about his daughter's thorn vine? Am I stupid enough to be like some people who like to shoot themselves in the foot with a rock, and then hilariously blame the stone in turn? What's more interesting is that you still have to show yourself well in the desire to cover up?

And what about him? But it just shows that when he can't see the benefits of our marriage, he has been taking advantage of her daughter's ignorance and stupidity behind her back, sowing discord between her son-in-law and daughter...

I know all this, but I'm willing to go with the flow in despair...

Because, I want to know more...

Is he taking his noble ideals too seriously, or is he taking his daughter's youth too seriously?

Even so...

What about his grandson?

What can a little kid count? …

Or a kid anyway, he doesn't have many brains and doesn't bend his intestines, but some of them are reusable stomachs...

Therefore, thinking back to the beginning, if I wasn't worried about her daughter, not for the sake of the child, if I didn't think it was not easy to be a parent, I really wanted to wake up Su Qin Zhangyi in the Warring States Period, where would I still be in the mood to be humble and humble to the guests, and take advantage of the opportunity to interpret it with all my heart...

But for the sake of this young family, I still endured it in desperation, and I could only say a few perfunctory words in a little despair, and finally gave up.

But think about his daughter...

The so-called tiger father has no dog girl, and vice versa, at most, that's it!

But. The true dragon prince who has always made him proud and also entangled in his heart has always been like Zhou Lang of the Three Kingdoms, and in the different from watching the fire on the same shore, it seems that people are more aware that the incense passed down from generation to generation has become more and more intense...