Chapter 642: Between Low Self-Esteem and Control
"That's it, look at the wound on this leg."
Liu Tiantian flipped out the previous photo, and Mu Chun was also a little surprised, this girl was still carefully kept.
"This wound really looks like a nail has been driven down, is the cat still a little lame when it walks now?" Zhang Wenwen looked at it and was really distressed.
"A little bit." Liu Tiantian said.
"And it's shaved on its legs."
"Well, yes."
"Is it that Dr. Mu Chun shaved when he treated the kitten's wounds?"
Mu Chun suppressed the urge to hit Zhang Wenwen and said, "I didn't shave the hair on this leg. ”
", that's too neat, didn't you notice that at the time, the hair looked like it was shaved with depilatory cream or depilatory wax paper."
As soon as Zhang Wenwen said this, it was Liu Tiantian's turn to be surprised, "You know all this." ”
"What don't you know, the hair removal movement has been going on for almost a hundred years, a strange movement that started in the West, starting with armpit hair and leg hair, which is a bit anti-human.
Isn't there a lot of people advocating that there is no need to demand women in this way, and that it can be regarded as part of women's rights. ”
"Wait, we're talking about cats." Liu Tiantian corrected it, for fear that Zhang Wenwen would be endless.
"In this way, it really doesn't look like the kitten was injured by itself, but whether it's hair removal cream or wax paper, it's not for cat hair removal, it's all for human hair removal, who dares to move hair on cats?"
Before Mu Chun finished asking, Zhang Wenwen and Liu Tiantian said in unison: "People who abuse cats can do everything." ”
After speaking, Zhang Wenwen added: "Don't look at some of the kind that dress up cats very beautifully and take pictures, if you don't turn around and knock the cat to death, there is only a difference between 0 and countless times of cat abuse." ”
"It's cruel." Liu Tiantian shook his head and couldn't help biting his fingers.
Mu Chun looked at the photo and didn't speak for a long time, as if he was thinking about something important.
Suddenly, Liu Tiantian said, "Doctor Mu still remembers what I told you about my friend?" It's the one who was miserable by Yang Xing's pua. ”
“pua?” Zhang Wenwen made a tsk-tsk sound, "Teaching this kind of course online can make a lot of money, but now the world is declining, and people are panicking, and peerless good men like me and Mu Chun are scarce." ”
"It's not scarce, it's that you don't have the means of the group of people who PUA, they will first do what they like, care about girls very much, make girls feel that this is the person they are looking for, and then they will become your best friends, make you feel that he is the best person to talk to, they seem to have a good career, often do some entrepreneurial business by themselves, have a car or go in and out of some literary and petty bourgeois places, and some people are very caring.
Those people continue to give girls the impression that they have a certain taste for life, love to learn, and are aggressive in their careers. ”
"Sounds like the ideal person to date with." Mu Chun closed his eyes, as if muttering to himself.
"Yes, that's it. That's how my sister was hurt. At first, she was very cautious, she didn't think that she would meet a caring, handsome and polite boy, although he is not one of those prestigious university graduates, let alone international students or anything like that, but they have a positive attitude towards life and speak very warmly every day.
It will appear when the girl needs it, and it is not pestering the girl all day. ”
"It's just right, it's especially useful for girls, it will pull the girls' minds, make them keep thinking, what is that person doing, will they ignore me, in short, in the end, let the girl think about whether she is not good enough."
"It's not bad at all, Teacher Mu Chun seems to have a good set."
Liu Tiantian wanted to give a thumbs up, but he felt that this kind of thing didn't know how many kind and stupid girls he had hurt, which was really not commendable.
"Next, the boy will show another side."
Liu Tiantian bit his lip, and Zhang Wenwen listened more and more attentively, "On the other side, is the heart of the tiger and wolf exposed?" ”
"You really don't understand it at all, do you? Dr. Zhang? ”
Liu Tiantian couldn't believe it, the Dr. Zhang in front of him was absolutely superior, and the most commendable thing was that he had a good family background, which was beyond the reach of many PUA men, and in the final analysis, it was almost a pain in their hearts, so they liked to find girls with good family backgrounds, who were educated, and even had strict family education.
If these girls are single in an unfamiliar city or have just graduated and work in a company, their lives are relatively unstable, and they have a stage to play.
Shh
After that, he suddenly disappeared, and when the girl asked in a hurry, she said that she was very inferior and felt unworthy of the other party.
To put it simply, after knowing each other for a period of time, the boy suddenly begins to have low self-esteem, and then he starts the mode of exchanging hearts. Thoroughly arouse the empathy of girls. ”
"Ah, there's such a thing? I probably don't know what our boys are thinking, I've never been so troublesome to chase a girl, does Dr. Mu Chun? ”
Mu Chun closed his eyes and shook his head.
Zhang Wenwen asked curiously, "Are all boys like this now?" ”
"Some boys are like this, after such an in-depth conversation, the girl's heart is actively tied to the boy, of course, this is the girl's own idea." The more Liu Tiantian spoke, the more angry he became, and he opened the refrigerator and took out a bottle of soda.
"Girls have some virgin feelings, right? In fact, girls should be completely selfish, just take care of themselves, why take care of a man who has known each other for a short time. ”
Zhang Wenwen said it was very incomprehensible.
"It's hard to distinguish between these sets and lies, otherwise there wouldn't be bad guys who would turn this kind of thing into a science taught online, right, there are many communities that are actually deformations of PUA, but with a different skin, it's not easy for everyone to notice."
"For example?"
"For example, the 'Future Elite Exchange Group'."
"Huh? Shouldn't it be a 'firewood camp'? ”
Zhang Wenwen said with a smile.
"I'm not joking with you, I'm telling the truth, and they will pass on their experiences to each other, for example, have you met a good prey again, and have you had any new meat recently?"
"Is it possible to buy and sell resources directly? Introduced to another boy? ”
Zhang Wenwen thought for a moment, but who knew that Liu Tiantian's knife-like eyes came.
"After the inferiority complex is over, it will be the third stage, which is to determine the relationship, and further if it is to leave, push down and find fault."
"Picky? How picky? Doesn't the previous script look like a dog licking script? Warm male stream? ”
Zhang Wenwen deliberately stood up and turned on the coffee machine, and the rumble of the machine woke Mu Chun up.
"I'm listening, you don't have to deliberately make such a loud noise, Lao Jia will also bring me a cup of coffee, Liu Tiantian, you continue."
Liu Tiantian didn't expect Mu Chun to drive her downstairs, but let her continue, and the little nurse who was encouraged nodded and said seriously.
"And then there's the infernal inferiority complex."
"Inferiority complex?" Zhang Wenwen has already begun to listen to the book of heaven.
"It's all kinds of disgusting eyes and words that make girls constantly feel inferior and keep doubting themselves."
"Is this any good for the guys?"
As soon as Zhang Wenwen finished asking, Mu Chun's weak voice came out, "This will make the girl afraid, afraid that if she doesn't do well, the other party will leave her." ”
"Isn't love based on likes and dislikes? Oh my god, am I out of touch with society, or am I not finding a girlfriend because I've never deprecated women? ”
"Probably." Mu Chun smiled and motioned for Liu Tiantian to continue.
"Doctor Mu, why are you suddenly so interested in this?" Liu Tiantian finally couldn't help but ask Mu Chun.
"I'm just thinking about something and I'll tell you when the time is right."
"When?" Liu Tiantian is an acute child.
"It's the right time." Mu Chun said coldly.
Zhang Wenwen saw that Liu Tiantian's face was a little ugly, and hurriedly started a round, "Doctor Mu just didn't think of what to say, so he said the right time", after speaking, Zhang Wenwen walked to Liu Tiantian's side with coffee, leaned over and whispered in her ear.
Liu Tiantian suddenly realized, "So that's the case." ”
"Well, you don't have to worry about him, he will naturally say it when he thinks it through."
"Well, my friend is like this, it was only after this kind of inferiority complex became more and more frequent that she came to me to tell me that she had dated a boy, I went to see that Yang Xing's personal page, and I felt that my friend had been deceived, and all kinds of persuasion were useless."
"Are all women in love blind and deaf?" Zhang Wenwen was a little angry, and he was afraid that there would be some misunderstanding, so he changed his words: "Could it be just the normal unpleasantness between lovers, and there is no such thing as deliberately hitting self-esteem?" ”
"Do you mean girls think too much? I don't think so, I think a boy starts with all kinds of things that a girl is good, and after the relationship is determined, that is to say, after the girl falls in love with him and sees the other party as the object of the relationship, the boy begins to dislike it in various ways, which is problematic, either he doesn't love it, or there is another reason. ”
"Liu Tiantian, have you ever been in love?" Zhang Wenwen gossiped.
"I fell in love in college, but then I didn't, but this doesn't affect my analysis of men, don't forget that I am also inspired to become a psychosologist like Teacher Mu Chun, and analyzing a person's thoughts and behaviors is also one of the daily assignments.
Even in the past, I liked to analyze this kind of emotional problem, and when I heard more, I was able to see people accurately. ”
Liu Tiantian is still very confident in himself.
"This infernal inferiority complex blow is really very useful, it's just annoying, my friend used to be a very cheerful girl, but she was depressed all day long, this boy gave her the news, she was happy, and after a few hours of waiting for her boyfriend's news, the girl couldn't give up, and always felt that the whole world was dim, and became super inferior."
"Mu Chun, why is this happening?"
"Well, it has to do with a lot of reasons, fundamentally most girls have strong self-esteem, and these boys have studied the situation of their partners at the beginning, and they tend to choose girls who have a better family background or a better upbringing, these girls may be required to be better in all aspects since they were young, and the pressure from the family already exists, and this kind of girl will pay more attention to her own performance when she interacts with others, for fear that she will do something bad, for fear of messing up a relationship. They are more afraid, and the more they are afraid, the easier it is to get nervous and be easily ......"
"PUA, excessively, killing without blood."
Liu Tiantian was furious.
"Usually that's not all, it's possible that there will be some financial intersections between them, such as women are more likely to help men, because men will say that they are in some difficulties, such as debts or want to help their families, in which case, the girl is likely to offer that she can help."
"Is it just taking the initiative to give money to boys? Why should such a good girl live up to it? Zhang Wenwen sighed with emotion.
"No, this is a kind of control, once there is a financial intersection between the two, the party who pays the money wants to control the relationship more, and will feel that she controls the relationship, in fact, the man at this time is very grateful and shows disgust from time to time, or 'you see which girl is so good, It's so good', this will make another girl very uncomfortable, she wants to do more to please the other party, sometimes it is not necessarily to please the other party, she just wants to control the relationship, the more the person who pays more, the more she cares about losing. ”
"If you don't love it, won't it be over?" Zhang Wenwen still believes that the relationship between the two should be completely based on love.
"Of course not, once a girl pays a lot of money, it will deteriorate, she just feels that she loves each other very much, and she loves each other to death. I had no idea what my friend was in love, and that man was busy and pestering her, making her almost insane. ”
"Love is very simple, but it is also very complicated, people may not be able to distinguish what the feeling of love is, especially when they fall into a feeling that is always risky, people will be afraid of losing, the stronger the feeling of fear of loss, the more they pay, and then they will not be rewarded, they will enter extreme inferiority and madness, which is the most terrible place in the whole PUA."
"That's right, my friend committed suicide once for Yang Xing, a scumbag."
As soon as Liu Tiantian said this, Zhang Wenwen finally knew why she was so serious when she talked about it.
also roughly understood why Mu Chun asked Liu Tiantian to continue, maybe Liu Tiantian didn't say it, it was also a kind of heart disease for her.
"Mu Chun, who would summarize this kind of thing into a course and teach it everywhere, this kind of thing is too much."
"The person concerned may not think like this, first of all, it can bring money, in this era, money is something that can blind the mind, and no one can get rid of it. Secondly, the most terrible thing is to brainwash others before brainwashing themselves, and these boys don't necessarily think that they are doing something wrong. ”
"Yes, people feel a little uncomfortable if they feel that they have done something bad, but some boys don't think that way at all."
"Those who liar first deceive themselves." Mu Chun concluded.
"So won't the girl resist?" Zhang Wenwen said angrily.