Grandma worked hard for a long time, made a tribute, placed the tribute in front of the shrine of the king of the stove, and then burned incense and kowtowed, and her mouth was still chanting, and she probably said the same set of words that asked the gods for forgiveness.

After worshipping the gods, the tribute cannot be moved, and the gods must enjoy the effort of the tribute. Although I was already hungry, my grandmother didn't say let me eat, and I didn't dare to eat!

Smelling the fragrance, my stomach growled, and my grandmother probably heard my stomach growling. Knowing that I was hungry, but the tribute was not yet edible, my grandmother pulled me to the hall, and then took down a carton on top of the cabinet, the carton just took it down, and before I opened it, I smelled the fragrance of the dim sum in the carton, this fragrance had not smelled before, I didn't know what was delicious in the box, my heart was full of anticipation, and my eyes did not leave this dim sum box that exuded an irresistible delicious aroma for a moment, and my heart was also impatient, but grandma did not open the box before, and I could only endure it, grandma took the dim sum box, walk up to the table, gently place the snack box on the table, and untie the paper rope that binds the snack box (it's hard to see that kind of paper rope now, this kind of paper rope should be specially used to tie the snack box, because it is almost impossible to see this oil paper rope used anywhere else).

After untying the oil paper rope, remove the sealing paper covered on the top of the snack box (at that time, all kinds of snack boxes, there will be this kind of sealing paper, generally red, and patterns, there are also other colors, but the sealing paper of other colors is much rarer than the red sealing paper), even the sealing paper exudes an attractive fragrance, but no matter how fragrant, the sealing paper is not edible, grandma took off the sealing paper, and gently put it on the table, which is also grandma's consistent style, no matter what you do, you are very cautious and careful, Never made a mistake because of carelessness.

The seal paper was put away, and grandma used two hands to gently lift the carton lid on the snack box, move it to the side, and then gently put it on the table, just now the snack box lid left the snack box, the snack in the snack box burst out with a strong fragrance, and the fragrance is also unforgettable for me, because that kind of snack is the only time I have eaten it in my memory.

I've never eaten that kind of dim sum again, and I can't remember what brand it is. Even if I remember the brand of dim sum, it is estimated that it has long been gone, maybe there was not even a brand of dim sum at that time, not only the brand, but I can't even remember what the dim sum is made of.

I only remember that the strong fragrance rushed straight to the nostrils, and the fragrance entered the abdomen along the nostrils, spreading from the abdomen to the whole body, and suddenly felt an unprecedented feeling, followed by a strong appetite aroused by the fragrance, and I can't remember whether there was drooling at that time.

I couldn't help tiptoeing to look into the dim sum box, and saw that there was a layer of oil paper wrapped in dim sum, grandma was opening the oil paper, with the opening of the oil paper, the dim sum with a strong fragrance finally revealed the true face of Lushan: it is a rectangular biscuit, milky yellow, full of appetite when you look at the color, the biscuit has not been moved, it is a whole box.

The upper layer is two rows, look at the thickness of the biscuits, and the thickness of the snack box is measured, about five or six layers, I didn't know the calculation at the time, but I looked at about five or six layers, one row is five, two rows are ten, five or six layers are calculated, probably not fifty or sixty.

The width of a biscuit is about three centimeters, the length is five centimeters, the thickness is about one centimeter to one point five centimeters, the vertical two rows of biscuits are the width of the snack box, a biscuit is five centimeters long, the length of the two pieces is ten centimeters, the two rows of biscuits are very close, there is almost no gap, so the width of the snack box is a little more than ten centimeters, the horizontal row of biscuits is five pieces, one is about three centimeters, five pieces is fifteen centimeters, the length of the snack box is about a little more than fifteen centimeters, and the thickness of a biscuit is calculated by one centimeter. If the thickness of the biscuits is 1.5 centimeters, the thickness of the snack box is 7.5 centimeters to 9 centimeters, and it was impossible to see what the thickness of the snack box was at that time, and the thickness of the snack box should be seven or eight centimeters in the vague memory, because the memory of the taste of the snack is too deep, so the memory of the snack box is also very deep, saying so much, in fact, this is the size of the snack box and the shape and color of the snack box seen by the glasses at that moment.

Just look at it, and if you want to make it clear, you have to be so verbose. I looked at the tempting snacks, smelled the strong fragrance, the eyes were bubbling with hungry green light, my mouth involuntarily opened slightly, at that moment there was only one thought, that is, immediately put the biscuit into my mouth, enjoy its deliciousness, grandma gently picked up a biscuit with her hand, handed it to me, I did not use the palm to pick it up, afraid that my hands would not be clean, the biscuit would be dirty, I gently pinched the biscuit with my fingers, and did not stuff it in my mouth, but gently put the biscuit into my mouth for a third, and took a bite gently, the biscuit was not crisp, not hard, It's a little fluffy, but it's not particularly fluffy, because I still used a little bit of force to bite off the biscuit, and the bitten biscuit fell into my mouth, and the deliciousness of the biscuit was felt through my mouth.

I have never eaten such a delicious snack, although I am very hungry, and I can't wait, but I still chew gently and slowly, savor its deliciousness, I enjoy the delicious biscuits, but also look at grandma, grandma smiled kindly and watched me eat, although grandma's smile has long been familiar, but at that moment I feel grandma's smile is extraordinarily warm, and I will always remember grandma's kind and warm smile.

It took me about a few tens of seconds to chew the first bite of the biscuit very finely, and then swallowed it gently.

"Is it delicious?" I didn't speak, because my hand had once again stuffed the remaining two-thirds of the biscuits into my mouth, which was already occupied.

I was reluctant to withdraw the biscuits from my mouth, so in order not to affect the progress of eating the biscuits, I nodded vigorously while biting the biscuits.

In order to show grandma that the biscuits are delicious, I nodded twice, and the biscuit also bit down, this bite is basically the same size as the previous bite, and there is still a third of the whole biscuit left in my hand, this bite is chewed relatively fast, about less than ten seconds, the biscuit will go into the stomach, and then the last third is also stuffed into the mouth, almost the same speed, and eat into the stomach, the biscuit fragrance and the taste of the biscuit, are unprecedentedly delicious, grandma saw that I finished eating a piece, and took a piece from the box and handed it to me, I still caught the biscuit in the same way, and this time I didn't immediately stuff the biscuit into my mouth, but looked at my grandmother and asked:

"Grandma, where did this biscuit come from, it's so delicious, why haven't I eaten it before!" Grandma still smiled kindly and said to me:

"This is what your aunt brought back from Tianjin, we don't have it here, so you haven't eaten it before," the eldest aunt went to Tianjin because of his military profession, and after he stabilized, he transferred the whole family's household registration to Tianjin.

I came back to visit my grandfather a few days ago, and this snack should have been brought back this time. I went on to ask:

"Did you just bring a box? Such delicious biscuits, it would be nice to bring an extra box. Grandma smiled and said:

"Tianjin is far away, you have to take the train, there are a lot of people on the car, and I brought other things, so I only brought such a box, you have to love to eat, next time I will ask your aunt to bring two more boxes back." I say:

"When I grow up and go to Tianjin, there will be a lot of delicious food there." Grandma smiled, and smiled very happily.

After I ate about five cookies, I said no, and my grandmother asked:

"Haven't you eaten enough!" I say:

"I didn't eat enough, but I couldn't eat anymore, and when I finished eating, I didn't have anything to eat, and my grandmother didn't have to eat." Grandma said:

"Grandma doesn't eat it, it's all yours." I say:

"I won't eat that either. Let's keep it for grandma! I'll eat kitchen meatballs and noodles for a while. Grandma looked at me for a while and said:

"Okay, then put it away, put it for you, and eat it when you want to." After speaking, grandma unhurriedly rewrapped the oil paper wrapped in the dim sum, gently buckled the box, then covered the sealing paper on the box, tied the oil paper rope, and I stood next to watch grandma restore the dim sum box step by step, just like the dim sum box had not been opened.

After my grandmother put the snacks on the cabinet anew, I said:

"Grandma! Why don't you eat a piece! Grandma said:

"Grandma won't eat it, I'll give it to you," I said.

"Grandma! You can try a piece! It's delicious," said Grandma.

"Next time! The next time you eat again, grandma will eat a piece too. I nodded, I knew that my grandmother was reluctant to eat, at that time there was a serious shortage of materials, not to mention biscuits, even flour was in short supply, usually eat mixed flour buns, only during the festival and the New Year to eat white flour buns, that is, the tribute made to the gods today, it is just enough to pay tribute to the gods.

At this time, it was already noon, about one o'clock at noon, and my grandfather came back from working in the field, and when he saw me at the door, he smiled happily and said:

"You're here alone. At a young age, what a guts! As soon as the words fell, Grandma answered:

"It's not a small amount of courage, but today I'm scared. As soon as he entered the door, he cried, saying that he saw a dead man hanging from a tree in that mass grave. I made a conjuring for him, fried meatballs and noodles, and the gods should run out of them, so I went to withdraw the tribute. We'll be able to eat it in a moment. Grandpa said:

"As soon as I entered the door, I smelled the fragrance, and I thought that the neighbor's house made delicious food, but it turned out to be made by our family, is this child scared? I don't think there's anything wrong with this kid, isn't this quite lively! Grandma said:

"Just wait! Nightmares are required. "I really let my grandma say it right. I really had a nightmare at night, and I woke up crying in the middle of the night.

Grandpa coaxed for a long time to recover, and fell asleep again. As for the hanged man in the cemetery, what happened!

Unknown. There are a few things I will never forget about this day, the first is my grandmother's smile, my grandmother's smile is so kind and warm, forever engraved in my memory.

The second is the dim sum I ate, the taste of that dim sum, although I can't remember it clearly. But I remember that it was very fragrant, very delicious, it was the best dim sum I have ever eaten in my life, until today, I have never eaten such a delicious biscuit, maybe I was hungry that day, in short, the taste of that biscuit is very deep in my memory, and I will never forget it for a long time.

The third is to see the corpse hanging from the tree, although I didn't see the appearance clearly, but the general picture of the corpse, the upper half of the body is wearing white clothes, the lower half of the body is black pants, the hair is scattered, covering the face, so I didn't see the terrible face of the corpse, the corpse hanging on the tree, swinging back and forth, although I only watched it for two or three seconds, the huge sense of fear exuded by that picture was enough to carve permanent fear in my young heart.

Although I still walked to my grandmother's house later, I still had to take that road, passing by the mass grave, I would involuntarily glance into the woods, but I never saw a corpse hanging from a tree again, it is said that the mass grave had hanged several people, but let me encounter it once, it is already a high probability.

Because the number of times I pass by that mass grave is still very effective. I don't know when, the mass grave was tidied up, and the grave was no longer visible.

Then the woods disappeared and became crops. Now it's also farmland. The only thing that remains unchanged is that road, but it has also been built into a cement pavement, and that road is still the same grandma's village, and the sad thing is that grandma has already passed away, grandma was not yet sixty years old when she died, and grandpa also passed away a few years ago, grandpa lived a relatively long life, and lived ninety-two years old.

In my childhood memories, there are some things that I remember deeply, and some things that I remember vaguely, and later I verified many vague things through chats with my mother, and there is still not much difference.

When I was five years old, there was a whole relocation of our village, and the current village is about a kilometer away from the original village ruins.

Now the village was originally the farmland of the village. The original ruins of the old village were relocated to their current location due to their low-lying terrain, and the current ruins of the old village were irrigated for more than a year after the relocation and turned into farmland.

I have some impressions of the old village, not the whole village, or the appearance of my house, there are vague memories, the surrounding neighbors, and the memories of the scenes around my house, probably there is no error.

The surrounding neighbors, that direction is the neighbor, and they basically remember it accurately, and they are also neighbors now.

It's just that the location of each family has changed completely from the original old village, and when the village is relocated, it is certainly impossible to plan according to the original pattern of the old village, the original old village, the living is relatively scattered, not to mention that there is no smooth alley, and even the street is not straight.

The new village has been planned as a whole, with two straight east-west avenues, a north-south street running through the middle of the village for one day, and a smooth road around the village around the village.

From east to west, fifteen alleys are neatly arranged, all of which lead from south to north. The pen is straight, at the beginning it was a dirt road, it was relatively poor at that time, there was no condition to repair the cement pavement, and now the alleys, the main streets, and the roads around the village, all are cement pavement, which was just repaired a few years ago.

It has been more than 30 years since the village was relocated. All the houses in the village have been renovated, some twice.

From the very beginning, it was a half-brick and half-earth house. As for the monolithic brick houses, some families have torn down the brick houses and built two- or three-story buildings, and the whole village has long been the same as it used to be.

Compared with the original old village, not only does it not have a smooth alley, but most of the houses are mud houses.

It is really an earth-shaking change, and this is also a change in some rural areas under the environment of the great development of the motherland.

The lives of ordinary people have changed dramatically, although people now feel that the pressure of life is greater, but the quality of life has indeed been greatly improved, in fact, the pressure comes from people's greed for material needs.

It is this kind of greed that gives people endless motivation to make unremitting efforts for a higher quality of life and a better standard of living, and it is this instinctive greed of human beings that pushes the rolling wheels of progress of the entire human race.

From my childhood memories to today's social state, in the past 30 years, it can be said that round after round of changes have occurred at a rapid pace, and this change has been moving forward.

All the way to the good. Almost everyone shouts that life is stressful, but the elderly really feel that today's living conditions have improved to a level that they could not have imagined compared to 30 years ago.

Of course, there are also some old people who are in trouble because of their second daughter's unfilial piety, and their lives are really difficult. But this is someone else's human factor, the living conditions have improved greatly, and there is a part of the people's minds that have not yet kept up.

This involves a more arduous long-term project at the national level: the building of spiritual civilization. It's a long-term project.

The duration of the project cannot be determined and cannot be predicted. It is necessary to change the outlook on life, values, and worldview of countless people.

This is not a simple project, it is a super project with a long way to go, and it will take several generations of ideological evolution to make it possible to fundamentally change.

It is also necessary for the state to optimize the coordination of certain systems and laws. It is necessary for all parties to cooperate closely and carry out sustained and unremitting hard work in order to gradually eliminate many stubborn diseases of backwardness in the current society.

However, we must be convinced that a harmonious and beautiful society will be realized, and the good wish of mankind to pursue a happy life will eventually be realized.

It's a bit far away, and I continue to go back to my childhood memories, although most of the memories of my childhood are poor, but there are also some bits and pieces of happiness under poverty.

At that time, people's lives were bitter and monotonous, but happiness was also so simple. The happiest moment for children is the New Year, because they are young and ignorant, they don't understand the difficulties of life, and they don't have the troubles of adults, as long as there is something delicious, the children are happy.

If there's a new piece of clothing, it's complete. At that time, the minds of adults were very simple, and their greatest wish was to be able to eat enough.

The children's minds are just as simple, they are also full of food, and they hope that they can have another good meal.

At that time, the gap between the rich and the poor was generally not large, and the wealthier families were able to eat a little, while the poor families were barely able to eat.

Life can be passed. Listening to the old man, the sixties of the last century were the most difficult years for the Chinese people, and that hardship was unimaginable for people who had not experienced it, and fortunately after I was born, that difficult era has long passed.

Although he was still very poor, he was basically able to eat enough. There are still many happy memories of the Chinese New Year in my childhood.

The earliest impression of the Chinese New Year in my memory is probably when I was three years old, and my parents were busy because of some things.

The main thing is poverty, it's almost the New Year, and the family basically hasn't prepared anything to eat, and I see that other neighbors are doing white masks that can only be eaten during the New Year, and I am very greedy.

At that time, people were a little stingy because they were poor and short-lived, so don't expect to go to other homes to eat.

Because no one has much food, it is very reluctant to satisfy their own family. So, it's not reluctant, but it's really not.

At this time, it is best not to go to the neighbor's house, otherwise it will be self-deprecating, and people will have to hide a little bit of delicious food to avoid embarrassment.

At most, I would wander around the street and ask my neighbors about the smell of white-flour steamed buns wafting from their homes.

Seeing that the year is approaching day by day. Mom and Dad are also anxious. Mom sometimes anxious tears, although there is food at home, that is, the usual mixed bread, the New Year, other people's families have white masks, of course, like my family is not the only one who is so difficult, it is estimated that at least half of the family, the Chinese New Year can not eat white bread.

But the other half of the people can have white bread is really the envy of those who don't have white bread, especially children, adults are anxious not because they can't eat white bread, but because they feel sorry for the children.

Although I was only three years old, I remember that I didn't cry or ask my parents for white noodles. Later, I asked my mother about this, and she said that I was not crying.

said that I was relatively sensible since I was a child. Although I didn't cry, it was inevitable that my parents would be anxious.

At this critical juncture, my aunt came, my aunt was not married at that time, and if she was not married, she must have lived in front of her grandmother, so my aunt came from my grandmother's house, and my grandmother's house is my aunt's home.

Only when you get married, you can have your own home. My aunt came at this time, there must be something important, sure enough, my aunt didn't come empty-handed, and carried a bag, at that time many families did not have bicycles, so my aunt came on foot.

There must be something in the bag my aunt was carrying, and as soon as my aunt entered my yard, she saw me, smiled at me and asked:

"Do you miss your aunt! Auntie misses you, go into the house with your aunt and see what delicious food she brings you. As soon as I heard that there was something delicious, I was immediately excited, and I took my aunt and walked into the house.

At this time, my mother also heard the voice, and was coming out to pick it up, and before my mother could come out, I took my aunt into the house, and my aunt said to my mother:

"The white mask for the New Year is not ready yet! Our mother knew that you were in difficulty, so she made an extra pot of white mask, including jujube flower buns, bean buns, and steamed buns, and let me send them to you, "My mother watched my aunt open the bag, and the white flour steamed buns, jujube flower rolls, and bean buns in the bag all exuded an attractive fragrance.

When my mother looked at my aunt, she shed tears, and my aunt comforted my mother and said:

"What are you crying about, we are a family, what do we have to eat, everyone must have a share, and if there are any difficulties, we will definitely carry it together." My mother actually thought that my grandmother would ask my aunt to send white bread, because my grandmother loved my mother and my aunt and uncle very much, and my grandmother knew that my family was in difficulty, so it was impossible not to ask.

But my mother didn't know the bottom of her heart, because the life of my grandmother's family was also very tense, so I couldn't ask my grandmother for it, so I could only wait.

If grandma's family can have a little surplus, it will definitely be sent, if it is not sent, it means that grandma really can't take out the excess.

Today, my aunt came like this, and she brought so much, and my mother felt very uncomfortable and sent so much.

I don't know how much is left in my grandmother's house. So he said to my aunt,

"There are only three people in our family, and we can't eat so much, so you better bring some back and give them to your parents and you and your younger siblings."

My aunt said:

"You don't care, there's enough food at home. Bring it to you, and you will keep it. If you don't eat, there are still children! "My mother brought a steamed basket prepared at this time, in fact, the steamed basket was cleaned a few days ago, but there was no white flour, and the brush was empty.

My aunt brought white flour steamed buns and jujube flower rolls, and the more delicious ones were bean buns, which were a lot, and the steamed baskets were full, and some could not be loaded, my mother also showed a happy smile on her face at this time, and my aunt also smiled, I was even happier, my aunt took a bean bag and handed it to me, saying:

"I've been hungry for a long time! I've been watching your eyes on the bean bun for a long time," I smiled embarrassedly.

took the bean bag, took a big bite, chewed the bean bag in his mouth, and said to my aunt:

"It's delicious, it's so sweet." My aunt was smiling so happily. The smile is so kind. This is the power of family affection, the warmth of family affection.

This year is the first New Year in my memory, and I can't remember when the basket didn't have it, but I remember the shape of the basket very clearly, but I can't see it now.

Sometimes when I think of that steamed basket, I still have some nostalgia. In the memory of childhood, poverty is the main theme, but there are also many joys in the hard life that cannot be seen or experienced today, and now people travel with a variety of means of transportation and transportation, from airplanes, high-speed trains to cars, ships.

From luxury cars, regular cars, motorcycles and electric cars. The astonishing speed has accelerated the pace of people's lives, and it has also made people feel the huge pressure of life.

I remember my childhood, although I lived in poverty, but it was a slow-paced life, when I couldn't see speeding cars on the road, even motorcycles were rare objects, electric cars had not yet come out, and I didn't know that there was a word called: traffic accidents.

Bicycles are the most common means of transportation, before the age of eight, there are not many families with bicycles, after the age of eight, less than two years of effort, bicycles are almost popular, families without bicycles have become a very few, my family has a bicycle is relatively early, so I learned to ride a bicycle before the age of eight, because I learned to ride a bicycle, several times almost lost my life.

Doesn't sound a little hard to be confident, but it's true. About three kilometers north of our village is a dam, which is very high and the slope is a little steep, if you want to ride a bicycle up from under the dam and you don't have a strong body, then you don't need to do it.

But to ride a bicycle down the slope from the top of the dam, it is really very cool, but when I think about it today, it is much cooler than riding an electric bicycle, and it is not on the same level at all.

While today's e-bikes are fast and steady, there's no more thrilling feeling of riding a bike down a hill.

There is a feeling of flying, even taking a plane does not feel cool, the dam is an excellent place for children to ride bicycles and play in Sanli and five villages, there are competitions almost every day, strong children with strength, the competition rides up from the bottom of the slope, this is a contest of the strong, most of the children can only sigh with admiration, many of them ride to half of the slope and exhaust their energy, the end is basically the same, that is, they fall down on the half-slope, many of them also fall down from the half-slope and even roll and climb down, and it is common to break the flesh and skin, But no one cried because of the pain of the fall, because it was too embarrassing, and some friends even broke their faces, and they laughed when they got up, so they didn't care, they had a heroic spirit.

I was not physically strong at that time, but I also participated in a few bicycle races from the dam to the dam, of course, every time it was a tragic end, either I was thrown and climbed, or I was knocked all over the ground to find teeth, fortunately, I didn't hang the color, and the flesh and skin were intact.

In fact, although the challenge from the bottom of the dam to the top is a strong competition, it is also a little dangerous and very tiring.

Although rushing down from the dam is a very cool game, but it is more challenging than rushing up from the dam, although this does not require a strong body, but it is intimidating for the timid little partner, because this is not the strength, strong and dare to challenge, but it requires a strong sense of adventure.

Rushing down from the slope, the bicycle will keep accelerating on its own, faster and faster, and once it reaches a very fast speed, it is not possible to brake suddenly, although it is possible to stop the bicycle in the fast running, but the cyclist will fly up because of inertia, become a trapeze, which looks really ornamental, but it is fatal, in the state of no protection, fly up and down at a very fast speed, the consequences are unimaginable.

It is possible to fall to death. Even if you brake slowly, the danger is unavoidable. Once you fall, it is much more dangerous than when you rush uphill from under the dam, and you are forced to fall down because you run out of strength and are forced to fall, and the process of falling is slow, so you will not fall very hard.

And rushing down from the dam, it's going to fall, it's not a joke, if you don't react fast enough, you have to fall with a blue nose and swollen face, and you really have to look for teeth all over the ground.

It's even possible to fall unconscious. Therefore, the challenge of rushing down from the dam is not only the patent of the physically strong, but also the strong man, there will be some advantages, but it also requires an agile body, and flexible reaction, and the most important thing is to have the adventurous spirit of not being afraid of death, simply put, it is necessary to be bold, or after rushing down, the speed is getting faster and faster, if you are afraid at this time, it is looking for your own death, so dare to challenge the race from the dam to erect a person WeChat, although I am not strong enough, but I have the spirit of not afraid of death, In fact, it is stupid and bold.

To tell the truth, that's not called the spirit of not being afraid of death, it's called the nerves that don't know whether to live or die, I'm such a person.

I have participated in this kind of death-seeking competition many times, most of the time it is an extremely refreshing pleasure, although I have not taken the noun, this competition is to see who rushes down faster, rushing to the end of the race 500 meters away from the dam, who is the king, I have not even entered the top three once.

But if you can reach the finish line safely, you can be regarded as a winner, because basically every game has fallen.

Or the constant braking during the race. Keep braking, that's the weak, coward, you don't have the guts not to participate, okay, don't lose that person!

Participated in the race, cried in fright, and swayed around on the bicycle, isn't that self-inflicted!

I've never been like that once, even if I was killed, I had to rush down with all my strength and rush to the finish line.

In fact, this is the stupid rhythm of death, although countless times to become the winner, but there are also a few times almost lost a small life, each of these times, that is the luck of escaping death, there are two times with others to scratch or collide and fall, that is not a flat road fall, that is a very fast speed from the slope down the fall, the end can be imagined, the fall is called a miserable, miserable, really fall the nose and face swollen, all over the body bruises, do not dare to shout pain, afraid of other people's jokes, endure severe pain.

You have to squeeze out a painful smile, and the picture is extremely ironic and extremely funny. The two most serious times, the fall is too heavy, there is really no need to shout pain, because there is no such opportunity, people fly directly, really become a flyer, the moment I fly, in addition to the incomparable pleasure, but also with a huge fear, it is really painful and happy, the moment I fly up in the air, I feel the wind in my ears, the earth is calling me strongly, I shouted in my mouth:

"Ahh......h Ah......" Countless friends watching the game on both sides, some were screaming, some were laughing, some were shouting and cheering, and some were running to save the danger.

The screaming is afraid to see my miserable situation, the laughing is the crazy person who is not afraid of big things, and the shouting and cheering is the damn ghost who has nothing to do with himself and takes the misery of others as happy.

Only the iron buddies who really care about me are the ones who run to save the danger, although the iron buddies have tried their best, but there is nothing they can do, because I fly fast, they can only look at the dust, and my end is that I lost consciousness in an instant when I hit the ground with my face, and passed out.

Fortunately, the iron buddy shouted for rescue, and pulled me back from the ghost gate, and the iron buddy advised me not to take risks in the future, and I was full of promises at the time, because it really hurt!

I'm scared too. But after a while, the scar forgot the pain, or continued to die, sure enough, when I participated in the competition again, the same tragedy was staged again, this time it was even worse, not only took off into the air, but also made a trapeze, like a big meat bag heavily planted on the ground, and passed out at that time, and what was even more tragic was that the head did not know what hard object to hit and knocked out a bloody hole.

Scared everyone's souls out of the sky, some were scared and cried and ran away, some were so frightened that they didn't dare to look, and some were stupid and at a loss.

Fortunately, there is a little smarter, riding a bicycle back to the village to report to the adults, a few iron buddies are also scared to touch me, crying around me, like I am really dead, crying and crying, of course, I didn't know this scene at the time, because I passed out, it was later that the iron buddies said it to me, and even performed it for me.

It's really a bunch of heartless iron buddies, according to the partner who returned to the village to report the news, he shouted as soon as he rode a bicycle into the village, and when he saw people, he said, hurry up to the dam, and a partner in our village fell to his death.

When the adults in the village heard this, some of them asked whose children it was! Some people said don't ask, let's go and see what's going on!

Many adults hurried to the dam, and later my parents also knew, and by the time my parents were about to rush to the dam, someone had already carried them back to the village!

My dad didn't care about what to say, so I took it and ran to the village clinic, maybe it was still my life, although my head was planted with a blood hole, my face was full of blood, and my neck was full of blood, and it did look like I was dead, but after the doctor's rescue and treatment, I came back to life, and I was alive again in a few days.

It's a pity that after I got better, I was beaten up by my father, saying that he wouldn't care about me next time.

I knew it was scaring me, and I even dared to compete, but since I almost fell to my death, there have been very few people who have competed.

First, they were all scared, and the families of the two friends also warned them not to die again.

In this way, the number of people participating in the game has been greatly reduced, and the number of friends who have watched it has also been greatly reduced, and they dare not watch it.

On the contrary, the safety has been improved, rushing up, no one is next to anyone, firstly, there will be no scratches and collisions, and secondly, there is no need to take hectic braking measures to avoid others in the speeding charge.

These two factors are important reasons for the occurrence of danger, and there is no such risk factor. The safety was much better, and in the next few races, almost no one was too much of a danger, and of course, small bumps were inevitable.

As I get older, I also have the ability to control the risk, and it has become a kind of exciting and cool game, I remember that when I was a teenager, I occasionally went to the dam to play the excitement, and then later, I didn't go, because I didn't feel that it was exciting enough.

Thinking about it, I really didn't know whether to live or die at that time, and I would play that kind of adventure game of death. Today's children will never be so brain-dead, and today's children don't have that chance, because today's children, a child and several adults are staring, and they have the opportunity to die!

Although the behavior of the early years is stupid, it also derives incomparable joy from the stupid behavior.

A few years ago, I learned through watching TV that foreigners also love to die, and some of them are more exciting than the rhythm of death when I was a child, and they are more funny and funny, and there are even many people who really die because of death.

Looks like I'm lucky. Finally, I would like to advise all the officials that this kind of death play in my childhood can only be hearsay, not imitation experience.

Otherwise, you will bear the consequences. This paragraph is closed for the time being. There are many very good traditions from my childhood, which are now gone.

The most regrettable thing is the tradition of practicing martial arts, the children at that time seemed to be more solid, rough skin and thick meat, forbidden to fight and endure beating, our village has a martial arts field, and there are also martial artists to teach martial arts, at that time not only our village, the surrounding villages, each village has several martial artists, each village also has a place to practice martial arts, almost every night there are martial artists in the martial arts training ground to teach martial arts, we all call the master.

We are also known as the hometown of martial arts. It wasn't until the early nineties, when a large number of young people went out to work, that this tradition of practicing martial arts gradually disappeared.

In my memory, in the years when I was five or six years old to eight or nine years old, the practice of martial arts was more prevalent, although there were no famous martial arts masters, but there were some good martial artists.

There are even a few who have gone to the crew to do stand-in work for some stars, and the martial artists who can do stand-in work will at least not be very bad.

But there are also better skills who don't want to be in the limelight, so they do other jobs, hide their identity as martial arts, and usually practice secretly by themselves to strengthen their bodies.

At critical moments, you can defend yourself, although you have good skills, but you don't want to make a living with martial arts, such people only know a small number of people in their hometowns, such people are more cautious in doing things, don't like to publicize, and will deliberately hide their skills, try not to expose their secrets of martial arts.

But when I was a child, it was a completely different story. Because at that time, the practice of martial arts was prevalent, and the young people in all villages were enthusiastic, not only boys, but also girls also had a lot of love for martial arts, which was influenced by the prevalence of martial arts, although martial arts movies in the eighties were also very popular, but the style of martial arts there was a continuation of the Qing Dynasty.

I remember when I was a child, there was an old-timer in my village who was over eighty years old, it is said that his father had participated in the Boxer Rebellion, and also fought in the provincial capital, in the eighties, although he was already over eighty years old, but he could also dance dozens of pounds of broadsword, and it was by no means a fist embroidered legs, dancing whirring in the wind, murderous, and the viewer could feel the chill emitted by the broadsword.

In addition to dancing the big knife, he can also turn hundreds of pounds of stones, which is really a real kung fu, but he no longer teaches martial arts, because he is too old, he will occasionally go to the martial arts field to wander around, watch the children practice martial arts, see that the child practice is really unbearable, and he can't help but step forward to guide one or two.

Although he no longer teaches martial arts, the few martial artists who taught martial arts at that time were either his grandchildren or the younger generations of his own family, and his two sons were also old, and his two sons were not fond of publicity, but two or three of his grandchildren were martial artists who taught martial arts in the village, and the other few martial artists were his grandchildren.

When I was a child, teaching martial arts and apprenticeship were separated, and few martial artists accepted apprentices, if you want to learn martial arts, you just practice in the village martial arts training ground, whether you learn or not depends on voluntariness, the master will not force you to practice, you learn well or not, the master will not care about you.

There are also some people who want to learn martial arts, but the masters do not accept it, saying that learning martial arts is too hard, and now young people can't endure hardship, and give up halfway, not only misleading people's children, but also the reputation of the master will be affected, although some people want to kowtow to the master again and again, but the master resolutely does not accept apprentices, and this part of the people slowly give up.

But the enthusiasm for martial arts has not diminished in the slightest, since the masters resolutely do not accept it, can't they still learn martial arts with the masters!

As long as you are attentive, willing to work hard, you can also learn one or two, some people insist on going to the martial arts training ground every day to practice with the master, although several masters change classes to teach, but they are all a family of kung fu, maybe the professor's method is slightly different, but there will be no big difference, as long as you learn with your heart, you can keep improving, there are competitions every month, are brothers and sisters, practice actual combat experience with this method, although it is a competition, but it is also a real fight, raise your hand mercilessly.

Injuries are also common, even broken arms and legs, but the masters will correct the bones, and if they are injured, the master will treat them.

There are also bruising medicines, and the masters never charge money. Free orthopedic treatment, often people are injured, although the masters give free treatment, but the number of people who receive treatment will give a little money, the masters push a little, symbolically collect a little, sometimes do not collect, some family difficulties, do not say the matter of giving money, the masters will not say half a sentence of unhappiness, because the villagers of a village, the older generation and the younger generation have been many lives, and the feelings must be there.

Although there are sometimes small contradictions, they do not affect the great unity. Although the masters do not accept apprentices, but they are sincere teaching, no matter who does not understand, ask the master, the master will patiently guide, will never fool, this is the people at that time have a relatively simple character.

Although the children who practice martial arts are the children of the village, they will also be distributed, the children of our village are roughly divided into four factions, and the strength of each faction is also equal, it is difficult to distinguish between high and low, and the village is assigned to the distribution, but if it is against the other villages, it is definitely one heart, and the unanimous external front is iron-clad, and there has never been a traitor, or a weak person who retreats.

When they didn't fight against the outer village, these four factions were also subdued by no one, competing with each other, and the masters would not interfere, because this would help each other improve the level of martial arts.

Competing with each other can increase the motivation to practice martial arts, so masters will not only not stop it, but will also encourage it to compete with each other.

This kind of competition will not produce contradictions, because the people of each faction often go back and forth, today with this faction, tomorrow to the other faction, so the fight between the factions is limited to one game, or just a few days of confrontation, and the number of people going back and forth between the factions is large, and the cards will be reshuffled.

The items of the competition will also be adjusted, for example, in the past few days, there is a faction that always has an advantage in wrestling, so it has to be adjusted, because it is always that faction that takes the first, it is not interesting, readjust the personnel of each faction, and then compare, or adjust the items of the game, because the personnel of each faction are adjusted back and forth is a norm, today is a comrade-in-arms, tomorrow may be an enemy, today is the head, tomorrow may be a side by side, so the factions in the village, there will be no opposing contradictions.

But after each adjustment, the factions will also go all out to compete for the first place in the game. Each faction every time the reshuffle, the strength of the stronger will try to evenly distribute, if the strong hands are divided in a faction, then there is no need to compare, the comparison is not interesting, the victory and defeat do not need to compare, the ending is clear.

The actual difference is huge, but also what is the strength, therefore, the battle of each faction is actually a battle between several strong players, the battle is not only the level of the individual, but also the victory or defeat of the team, a comprehensive strong hand, not only personal kung fu to be good, more important things understand how to assign team members, in order to do a good distribution of team members, it is necessary to have a comprehensive understanding of their own team members, and then to strengthen the strength of each team member for targeted strengthening exercises, not only to understand their own team members, but also to understand the other three factions of the team members, Then analyze the strengths and weaknesses of the opposing players that your players want to play against your own players.

Use your own strengths and attack your weaknesses to achieve the goal of defeating your opponents. Only in this way can we let our players play their best in the competition and achieve the goal of competing for the first place in the team.

My kung fu was very average at that time, but I had a little idea, so every time I was assigned, I was also a hot item, every time I was assigned, the leaders of each faction wanted me to be assigned to his faction, and sometimes when there was a dispute, I took the way of drawing lots, which was also the most commonly used way, and the leaders of the four factions each wrote a paper ball, and then handed it to the master, and the master put the paper balls into four small bottles.

Then let me choose one of the four bottles, after choosing, the master personally opened the small bottle, took out the paper ball, and saw that it was the paper ball of that faction, and it was the paper ball of that faction, and I was divided into that faction, and every time I was assigned to that faction, the possibility of that faction competing for the first place would be greatly improved, because the faction I was in each time won the most times, and rarely lost, several masters often praised me for having the talent of a military advisor, and my talent was not born, because I had a good personality and got along with anyone.

Therefore, knowing more about most people and mastering the strength of most of them is equivalent to knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent, and the possibility of winning can be greatly grasped.

This can also be said to be a specialization in the art industry. I have strengths in this area, but I also have weaknesses, and my martial arts kung fu has always been at a medium level, more than the upper and lower than the bottom.

In the case of individual matches, I lost more and won less, because I was in that faction, I became a thorn in the side of those three factions, so I became the key target of defeat by those three factions, and almost every time I played against a strong opponent.

So there are many times when I lose, because of this situation, the master sent me two sentences: a military advisor who always wins, and a general who often loses.

It means that if I want to be a military advisor, I will win more and lose less, and if I want to be a general, I will lose more and win less. My understanding is that the master is reminding me that only by choosing the right position can I give full play to my strengths and realize my own value.

The master didn't elaborate, and I didn't ask in detail, but that's how I understood it in my heart. Actually, if I say this, no one will believe me.

When I was three years ago, I read a lot of martial arts novels, not Jin Yong's series, but "Yang Jiajiang", "Hu Jiajiang", "Yue Fei's Biography" and other "Water Margin", and even "Dream of Red Mansions", but I don't understand it very well.

Later, I read it several times before I understood a little. is not only reading books, but also listening to book reviews, which is mainly to listen to Liu Lanfang and Yuan Kuocheng.

Later, I listened to Shan Tianfang more. Although I read a lot of books, I didn't read them too clearly, probably because of my young age, and I couldn't recognize some words.

I often have to use a dictionary to cooperate, but my comprehension skills are okay, although I don't understand much, but I can learn some of them.

That's part of the reason why I've been able to split my forces and win. Although I was young at that time, the environment at that time was very training.

I really learned knowledge that I would never have learned in a school class.

Although it seems useless, because I will never lead troops to war in my life. Besides, if you really lead troops to fight, my little Jiujiu is useless.

I still have this self-knowledge, although heroes are useless, but as long as you use your brains more, ponder carefully, and be a little more flexible, you will find that this way of thinking can be transformed into other problems.

The specific problems are in the specific application, and I have really benefited a lot in my later life. Let's talk about one thing specifically!

Later, like my friends, I came out of my hometown to work, it is a garment factory, my ability to learn various technologies is very average, but I am good at chatting with people, and I can also talk to others very happily, and talk to a few people happily, these people, when they finish their work, will help me work, I find someone to chat, specifically looking for some good technology to chat, technology is good and work fast!

He works fast, only has time to help me do it, and help me do it fast, talk about so few, my work, at work, how much can be done, just do as much, anyway, after work, there are a few technical experts to help me complete, this is the use of the principle of knowing oneself and knowing the other, understand the strength of the other party, understand the psychology of the other party, do what they like, make them happy, the other party will also like to be friends with me, since it is a friend, it may help me.

Although it is not possible to be 100% sure, it is enough to have a 30% success rate.

Although my ability has not improved much, because I am an ordinary person, and I can't encounter any major events, so it is nothing more than a trivial matter in life and work, but I believe that some people have a strong ability to see people, that is, to look at you, through your behavior, and even expressions and eyes, you can have six or seven points of understanding of you.

There should be more such people in the people's police force, because the police profession needs people with this ability to do some special work.

There is also a fortune teller, there will also be some ability in this area, because fortune tellers often tell fortunes, at first they may often fail, and even be scolded, but slowly they will accumulate some experience.

Some are fooling people, but some fortune tellers do have a strong ability to watch people cook, and they can really scare some people into being stunned.

Even convinced. Isn't it off topic again, it's a bit far. That's all for today. Some of today's phenomena are not new, but have been there many years ago, such as school bullying, which is not a new phenomenon that has emerged in recent years, at least when I was a child in school, it was wrong in school.

It's just that the information blockage at that time is not as developed as the current information, especially when it comes to school-related events, which will quickly attract the attention of netizens, because children are the hope of the future and the lifeblood of countless families, so any negative impact on the campus will attract the attention of the society.

In particular, the phenomenon of school bullying and even school violence crimes. Decades ago, when I was a child, bullying in school was commonplace, and even violence was not uncommon, and there were fights between classmates almost every day.

Bullying of classmates also happens from time to time. Even if some of the stronger students are the kings and hegemons in their grades, they will only be beaten when they encounter opponents in the senior grades.

There are also many factions on campus, and the factions also come and go, fight each other, and fight each other.

I can't be alone, but I try to avoid armed conflicts, I don't do it if I can, and I never do anything to bully others, and few people bully me, but it's not absolutely possible to hide, sometimes my iron buddies fight with others, and I am inevitably involved, although I am involved, but I don't really do it a few times, I still play my strengths, try my best to resolve armed conflicts in a peaceful way, and the success rate is more than 80 percent, Because I rarely have conflicts with others, I love to use my mouth but not my hands.

So my popularity is still relatively good, no matter what grade or class, they can give me a chance to speak, as long as I am allowed to speak, I have the opportunity to resolve the contradictions between the two sides invisibly.

Gradually, I got a nickname: Peacemaker. I'm glad to accept it, but there are times when I get burned, and I really can't help it.

There is only one time to go to war. The two sides inevitably had a fight, I was injured a few times, even if there was a fight, my team almost never lost, don't look at my fighting effectiveness is not very good, because my popularity is better, once there is an armed conflict with the other party, there will be foreign reinforcements, so almost never lost, and there is a group fight after school out of the campus, in the campus, at most it is a fight between individuals, and it will soon be stopped by the teacher, if the two sides are out of the teacher's reconciliation.

If both parties are just under pressure from the teacher, and the apparent reconciliation is an illusion, then both parties will contact their respective friends, and then notify each other, make an appointment after school, and then compete for the winner.

It was the norm when I was a child, and there would be a fight every once in a while, until I was a teenager, until I left the campus, and this kind of fight and group beating on campus also happened repeatedly.

Because adults are negligent in disciplining their children, at least more than 80% of the children are like wild children, everything is up to them, and they don't tell their parents anything, if there is an elder brother, it is better, then it must be the first to ask for help with the elder brother, when the elder brother is naturally to draw a knife to help, fight a brother!

Not only will they draw their swords to help, but they will also contact their partners to strengthen their camp and enhance their combat effectiveness.

This was also a common phenomenon at that time, and even had serious consequences, but it was a group beating incident that occurred in middle school when I was a teenager, and in elementary school when I was a child, there was no serious consequence incident, at most it was a blow to the head and broke the bloodstream, but it was a slight injury, and the children at that time were indeed solid, almost no one went to the clinic for bandaging and treatment because of the injury, and they tried to hide it from the family members as much as possible.

Because of being known by parents, not only will they not be cared for, but they are likely to be beaten up. In my memory, parents at that time seemed to be like this, and it is rare to see that their children are suffering losses now, and they will go to the school to seek justice from the teacher, or even negotiate with the other parent.

At that time, there was almost no such situation, no matter whether their children were right or wrong, they first taught their children a lesson, and it was rare for the children to fight and involve the parents of both sides to fight again, or that sentence, very rarely it is not nothing, and there were also because the children fought and finally the parents of the two sides fought again, and even the situation expanded again, causing a large group fight between the two families, I remember there was such an incident, and in the end, the number of people involved in the group fight between the two families exceeded 100 people, and it also caused very serious consequences, It is said that the people of the two families have not been in contact with each other for many years, and this should be a relatively serious consequence caused by a child fight.

Let's go back to my childhood. When I was in elementary school when I was a child, fighting was not just a patent between boys, and now, there would be armed conflicts between girls, but compared to boys, girls had martial arts incidents that were too inferior, girls rarely had group fights, basically between two girls, at most a few girls fought, girls are still girls after all, they all happened on campus, there was no campus that could not be solved, and after school, a larger group fight continued outside the campus, I haven't had a group fight of pure girls in my memory, but because of the martial arts between the girls, it was not resolved under the coordination of the teachers on campus, and there have been some incidents that caused the girls to pull teams to continue to the outside of school, but the teams pulled by the girls are no longer pure girls, and both sides will ask the boys for help, and in the end it is a group fight between the boys.

I also participated once.,That's the sister of one of my iron buddies.,I had a quarrel with other girls.,Later, in the classroom, I started fighting.,And there are other sisters on both sides to join.,Although it was later stopped by the teacher.,But both sides expressed dissatisfaction.,The teacher actually saw it.,But the teacher just needs to let the two sides not fight on campus.,As for what you do after school!

The teacher doesn't bother with that idleness, out of the campus, what's the matter, it has nothing to do with the school and the teacher. It's your own business how you like to fight, and this kind of thinking was common in my childhood and adolescence, and the teachers and the school just need to make peace on campus.

As for leaving the campus, the school turned a blind eye to any incident that happened to any student, and no one went to find the school to react because of this, and even some teachers turned a blind eye when they saw children beating up after school, and passed as if nothing happened.

As long as it's not your own child, it's a high-minded attitude that doesn't matter to you. In fact, the teacher just wanted to manage it, but he couldn't control it, and the children at that time didn't listen to the teacher at all as long as they went out of the campus.

will even say: This is not in the school, the teacher can't take care of it, and advises the teacher to be less nosy. Both sides did not listen, and it was difficult for a teacher to calm the flames of fighting on both sides.

So don't be bored. Very few teachers will come forward to persuade peace. Even if the teacher occasionally came forward to coordinate, it was also a moth to the fire, which didn't work at all.

The children didn't listen to that, so they still started a war, and the teacher couldn't see that he was in this face, so he could only shake his head and slip away.

Or continue to talk about my iron buddy and his sister, because the teacher's mediation did not completely calm the anger of both sides, but only temporarily suppressed it, which laid the groundwork for the larger group fight later.

My iron buddy's sister is not a weak little girl, that is also a heroine in the girls' school, although the school was forced by the teacher's pressure to temporarily stop fighting, but privately inform the other party, don't leave after school, about the place to divide the high, during the recess, my iron buddy's sister asked my buddy for help, said don't leave after school!

She made an appointment with someone else to fight, my iron buddy was originally a master who loves to fight, as soon as he heard his own sister asking for help, there was no second word, quickly contact his own buddies, ready to fight, the girl on the other side must not be able to go it alone, and will also pull the team.

Looking for foreign aid, or wouldn't it be a staring loss in front of you? Sure enough, after school, my iron buddy and a group of our brothers and I went to the place where we made an appointment with each other under the leadership of his sister, and the girl on the other side also brought a group of people, several girls, most of them were boys, and many of them were acquaintances.

It's all the same school, can you not know each other? But now each is his own master. I can only pretend not to know, let's see what the protagonist means!

It's a direct fight! It is still necessary to negotiate before deciding whether to fight or not. At this time, the protagonist of the negotiation is no longer a girl, and the spokesperson of both sides, my iron buddy's sister is the protagonist of our side, but now his sister can only stand aside, my iron buddy must stand up and negotiate with the spokesperson of the other party, the girl on the other side has no brother, but has a sister, and her sister has found a group of boys to help.

So his sister came forward to negotiate with my buddy, and both sides also expressed their own opinions, both of which were very reasonable, and it seemed that the negotiation could not solve the problem, so it would have to be solved by force, and I would not be bored as soon as I saw it.

I've got to do that. I leaned over to my buddy and said:

"Don't worry, I'll talk to her for a few words." My buddies also know me as famous: peacemaker. I stepped back, and I became the protagonist of the negotiation.

I looked at the other side's camp first, and many of them were acquaintances. I thought to myself: If you negotiate directly with the other party's girl, it is not easy to solve, because I also saw the situation just now, the other party's girl is very confident, and she has a very unconvinced mentality, depending on her meaning, she has to solve it by force to calm her anger, I can't touch the nail, I have to insert a needle from other gaps, I ignore her first, I first greet the acquaintances of the other camp, and there are a few acquaintances who see that the strength should be the main force in the fight.

Because they are familiar with each other, who can eat a few bowls of dry rice also knows each other's hearts, as long as the opponent's main fighting force is disintegrated, then this group fight can be avoided, one of the stronger buddies in my opponent's camp said:

"Two little girls have an unpleasant situation, this is not a big deal, we can't fight again because of this little thing, so many of us will fight, no matter who loses or wins on both of us, let other buddies hear that our group of boys are fighting because of the two little girls, isn't it a little less glorious! Besides, you can also see that the number and strength of our two sides are about the same! It's hard to tell the winner in a fight, no one can pick up a bargain, we are all acquaintances, and the relationship is okay! If there is a real fight today, then I will look down and not look up to see you in the future, how embarrassing! You say! Otherwise, you persuade this girl, if you come today, she must be looking for you, so you come forward to persuade her, this matter will be solved, and I also guarantee that the protagonist on our side can accept a peaceful solution and shake hands and make peace. What do you think? Nabs! "Although this guy doesn't usually have much contact with me, he actually knows each other very well, and he also knows my nickname: peacemaker.

There is also the fact that he also sees that the strength of the two sides is really similar, and when it comes to fighting, their side can't take any advantage, and this is not his own business, he is also standing up for others, combining these factors, I conclude that he will do his best to persuade the other party's protagonist: the heroine who is full of anger and wants to be angry with his sister.

As expected, after some persuasion, the angry heroine's expression was obviously calm.

She muttered to her sister for a while. Seeing that the meaning was slow, I said to my buddy:

"Persuade your sister, it's best to settle this matter peacefully, you see that your sister shouldn't have suffered any losses when she fights with each other at school, and I don't think the other party's girl has any losses, it's just a small fight, and there are no big contradictions. If we really want to fight because of this matter, you see today's situation, we don't have an absolute advantage, and we can't lose both. It's not interesting. "My buddy isn't stupid.

Hearing me say this, he lost the strength just now, so he persuaded his sister, I also beat the side drum next to him, and his sister saw that this meant that her brother wanted to settle the matter peacefully, and then looked at the other party's situation, it seemed that it was not as tense as just now.

Her anger has also disappeared by half. I looked: Okay. After a group fight subsided, I went to the other person's buddy and said:

"Dude! That's all for today! There is no big contradiction between the two little girls, why don't they shake hands, classmates, and get along in harmony, girls! Don't be so angry in the future, girls must learn to be gentle, don't do it without saying a word, how unsightly! The little friends on both sides laughed, and the little girls laughed too, and I turned back to my buddy's sister and said:

"Come on! Shake hands with your opponent and make peace, you can't start a fight because of a little thing in the future, you have to learn to convince people with reason, you know? The sister of the little girl on the other side also asked her sister to come over, and the two protagonists shook hands and made peace. At this time, the acquaintances of both sides did not collapse.

Some talked and laughed when they hugged their arms and waists, and some pretended to be unconvinced, hugged each other and fell a few times, and got up and laughed.

A dangerous group fight turned into a big party, and after everyone had a good time, they went home.

Finally my iron buddy said to me:

"Brother! You really can, you have to take it! Today is thanks to you. Otherwise, a big war is inevitable! "I played a trick and said:

"Today's matter is to see that our strength does not have an overwhelming advantage, and we can't get any bargains, if we have the certainty of victory. I won't make peace with them today, just start fighting, and have a good time. My buddy looked at me with two big eyes and said:

"Or you're the worst! There are too many ghost eyes, if there is anything I will do in the future, I will look for you, you can't ignore it! "Hey!

I was clever enough to make a fool of myself. Why am I saying this? But I can't get it back.

can only say yes:

"Don't worry, who is with whom! Your business is my business, and you speak about it. As soon as these words came out, I couldn't help hating myself, my mouth, good and bad things come from it.

I really want to smack myself in both mouths. This is considered to have set himself in a solid trap. My buddy said happily:

"It's interesting, I can remember your words, what's going on with you, I'll be sure." He's down-to-earth, but I'm not steady.

Come on, I can't talk more! Evacuate quickly.

"That's it, you're almost home, see you tomorrow!" I'll flash people! After that, I parted ways with him and left.

His house and my house are not too close, separated by a few alleys, and it is not far from his house, and he will be far away if he walks together, so he also said:

"See you tomorrow." Why do I remember this incident so deeply, because later I went out to work and worked with the other party's little sister, that is, today's heroine of the other party, for almost a year, and we talked about it, and we talked very happily, saying that it was really fun when I was a child.

I miss the time when I was a kid. So I have a deeper memory of it. At that time, although school bullying or school violence was common, it was very different from the current phenomenon of school violence and bullying.

But now the nature of the phenomenon of school bullying is much more serious, not just a fight and a mess, but will cause not only physical pain to the bullied, but also more serious psychological damage, this problem is very serious, which will lead to the psychological shadow of the bullied person's life, I think in the final analysis, parents now have an unshirkable responsibility, at that time, although parents did not care much about their children, but the situation was different, at that time the child's thinking was also simple, unlike today's children, through the Internet, The information received from the outside world is too complex and at the same time deeply affected by bad information, which makes the immature mind confused, and may even stray into unimaginable dark sides.

Not only the people who are bullied, but also the children who bully others, are no longer mentally healthy. It would be very dangerous, and they would act unimaginably without thinking about the consequences, not knowing that they already had very serious symptoms of their psyche, and they would be completely unaware of the serious harm that their madness would cause to others.

This has been a very serious social problem in the current society, but the root cause is not only in the school, but hidden in the children's family, to solve this problem from the root, we must start from the parents, but the more difficult to solve the problem is exposed, due to the national conditions, China's regional economic development is unbalanced, many poor areas of labor force have to gather to developed areas, work hard for life, this has emerged a phenomenon, can also say a new term: left-behind children.

The family education of left-behind children is almost a huge blank, not to mention family education, even parents are not around, so family education is impossible to talk about, family education blank is not only left-behind children, many children who live with their parents, family education of many families is also seriously lacking, parents are working hard for life, even if they live with their children after work every day, but they rarely communicate with their children's hearts, this phenomenon is not a minority, it is a very common phenomenon, It is the negligence of the parents of this part of the family that has laid unhealthy hidden dangers for their families, for society, and for their children.

The child's immature mind is almost out of control. This has caused a thousand strange undesirable phenomena in the current school and society, even very bad phenomena, once the teenagers have problems, it will be a national problem in the future, which will lead to the existence of unstable factors in society, so some phenomena seem simple, but in fact they are inextricably linked to each other.

The undesirable phenomena in society are basically comprehensive problems, and it is impossible to completely solve them without comprehensive rescue and only partial efforts.

It can only be pressed down and the gourd is lifted again, and the symptoms are not cured. About building a harmonious society in an all-round way and creating a better life.

This arduous task is a long-term and arduous long march. It requires a long-term effort of perseverance across the board.

to be able to achieve it. It requires everyone's example and efforts, and it can be said that it is difficult to rely on the management of the state alone.

However, we still have to firmly believe that our country will become better and better, which is not only the task of the country, but also the good wish of everyone.

That's it for this chapter (to be continued).