From this, we can see how important all parents are to the growth of their children, but which one parent? Seriously thinking about it from the child's point of view, they just do what they think is right. The main thing is that I am faced with so many divorced people in society, and I really feel heartache for their children.

In the words of the contemporary Pure Land Sect's great virtuous monk Master Jingkong, all divorced parents should go to hell, and he said such a thing, which is a bit heavy, but if you analyze it carefully, it is also very reasonable for him to say such a thing.

Because children who live in single-parent families, they have a lack of love and will become a problem child in the future. There are only two kinds of serious analysis of the problem children, one is that the child is very precocious, very smart and sensible. The other is that the child is very rebellious.

In fact, for parents of single-parent families, they may also hope that their children belong to the former, but if they simply hope that their sons can become the former, then they are a little too idealistic, and they must create such a smart and sensible environment for their children if they want their children to be smart and sensible.

What kind of environment? It is parents with children, don't instill some toxic words in their children, the so-called toxic words are not to say some bad things about dad and mom who are no longer with themselves.

For example, if some people are ignorant, the father or mother will often tell the child, how bad your biological father is. Some people even say that all the men in the world are bad guys.

If I really say that, I don't have some bastard words in it. Seriously, he really doesn't know how to educate his children. If you put a smart and sensible child there, it is possible that he will educate the child badly.

Really, how should children be educated? I think it's better to put it that way. For single-parent families, as a mother or father of children, that is, although I am divorced from your father or mother, we both love you very much, and you should not hate your father or mother because of the relationship between the two of us.

I was thinking about this when the train suddenly shook.

"Uncle, what's wrong?" Jiang Cong asked me.

"It's the train that's starting to start." I replied to Jiang Cong.

"Uncle, where is the train going? How do you look at the number behind and how do you go backwards? ”

"You'll learn these things when you're in junior high school."

"Okay!" I didn't explain that much to Jiang Cong, so I looked very unhappy during the talk.

I didn't want to explain that much to him, but I wanted him to find the answers she wanted to know through the current network devices such as computers and mobile phones.

This truth is very simple, but I am not alone in discovering it, as early as 3,000 years ago, Confucius said such a truth.

"What do you want to do in the future, Jiang Cong? Because now we don't have anything else to do in the car, we can have a good chat. ”

After I finished saying this, Jiang Cong looked at the roof of the car, and I knew that he was thinking about a question, that is, what kind of problem does he want to do in the future?

"I want to be an actor?"

"Oh?! What is good about being an actor? ”

In fact, you don't have to be an actor, because everyone has their own rights and obligations, and you have to play a different role every day, if you are young, then you play the role of a student when you are in class, if you are a good student, then it is also a top choice, if you are a disobedient student, you are a disobedient child, a bad child, a bad student, of course, when you get home, if you are a sensible child, you play a sensible child, such a bureau, It's the role of an ignorant child.

If you have siblings, you should play the role of the younger brother in front of the elder brother, and if you have a younger sister, you should take the role of the elder brother. There are very, very many of these problems, so no matter what kind of role you are facing, you have to play it well.

Of course, if you play this well, it doesn't mean that your acting skills are outstanding. If you act well, you can get an actor, or an actress or something. If you act too well, but you don't do it well in essence, that's not okay either, and then you're a very bad actor. It may be a temporary success, but it will definitely end up in a very miserable end.

Therefore, when the squad leader proposed that he wanted to be an actor, I honestly didn't support him very much. Because I know that the current entertainment industry is very, very chaotic, this is not my own evaluation, not long ago, Fan Bingbing, the queen of a topic, was fined more than 800 million.

What kind of concept is more than 800 million yuan? It may be that some people can't earn so much money in their lifetime, no, many people can't earn so much money. But for her, she may only spend a few days or months, and a few years of hard work can make so much money. This is something that no one else can imagine.

So I said to Jiang Cong: "Your question, wow, I don't support your idea, although, but I think every industry is very worthy of respect if it does well, and in the big dye vat of the entertainment industry, there are a few people who can control their own ethics." Because the water is so deep, it's not easy to get out of it, and of course, if you use some unspoken rules, you might be able to mix it up, but if it's a few years, you can go down, and there are a lot of things that aren't worth it, so there's no need to do that. ”

"So what do you like to be besides being an actor?" I asked after Jiang Cong's words.

"I like to be a doctor?"

"It's good to be a doctor, and being a doctor can save lives. But can you tell me why you want to be a doctor? ”

"Being a doctor makes a lot of money, how expensive do you have to be, my parents used to go to the hospital to treat my younger brother, and they spent a lot of money, doctors are very profitable, and I want to make a lot of money in the future."

When Jiang Cong said such a question, I couldn't help but be surprised, the meaning of running this school for me is to let children have the correct concept of money from an early age, of course, it is not that children are not allowed to grow up to earn money, it is not the only purpose of life to make money, they should have a higher pursuit, at least they should become useful to the society, make you a big one to the society, then the stronger your ability to make money, that is, you can't make money for the sake of making money, do some speculative and opportunistic things, That's not good.

Since Party A raised such a question, or has such an idea, then I would like to say that in our traditional culture school, I think there should be a lot of people who still have this kind of thought, and the reason why they have this kind of thought is not just this kind of thought, it is they from their parents, maybe our teachers, from their mouths.