"Jiang Cong, where do you want to go?" I asked.

"I want to go to places with more places of interest."

As soon as Jiang Cong said this, I remembered that some places with more scenic spots and historic sites are only two cities in the country, Xi'an and Luoyang, which are known as the ancient capitals of the Thirteen Dynasties. For Luoyang, of course, it is not as small as in the past, Luoyang is much smaller now, not even a provincial capital.

Then we have to go to Xi'an.

Speaking of Xi'an, I have been to Xi'an once before with a female colleague from a former company. Let's be honest, though. We didn't really have a good time that day. Since I was asked to go over with Jiang Cong this time, then we have to have a good time. And play openly.

With that, the two of us prepared to go.

"Jiang Cong, do you think we should drive over or take the high-speed train?"

"Either way. As long as you don't run past. ”

After Jiang Cong finished speaking, he kept laughing there. I knew it was pretending to be a joke on me, but I couldn't imagine how this kid was going to joke with an adult when he was so young. It seems that her homeroom teacher really didn't hurt her in vain. In fact, this is fine, so that the child's personality is relatively cheerful, and health is very helpful to her growth.

Since she said so, then we will take the high-speed train like last time.

However, we can't do the train past this time like last time, and we are going to do the slowest train this time. My purpose is actually very simple, that is, I want Jiang Cong to feel the feeling of taking the train, although Jiang Cong has a large amount, but to be honest, he has not taken the train once, since this is the case, I will let him enjoy the train this time.

"Let's buy a ticket for the slowest train, don't you think?" I told her.

"Absolutely."

In that case, let's go!

I booked a train ticket for 6am. Because in this case, it is estimated that when we arrive in Xi'an, it should be at night, around 20 o'clock, if this is the case, we can find a hotel after arriving in Xi'an, and then we can have a good rest after taking a bath, which is relatively more comfortable than taking the train at night. If we take the train at night, not only do we have nowhere to rest, but it is very uncomfortable to lie on the table at night. This has been the case for me more than once, so I can't let Jiang Cong suffer the same sins I suffered before.

When we went to the waiting room, it must have been around half past five, and it was less than half an hour before the train departed, so we should hurry up, if we didn't hurry, maybe we would have missed the train. That would cause unnecessary trouble, and the gains would outweigh the losses.

When we got to hang up, we were sweating all over. Jiang Cong is also very hot.

If I wanted to take off my clothes, I told her, "Not now, if I take them off, I'll catch a cold." If it's really hot, you can unbutton your clothes, that's fine, but if you want to take them off, it's not good. ”

Jiang Cong didn't follow me since I was a child, but now the two of us have a tacit understanding, no matter what I say, she always thinks that I am right, so she has never refuted what I said.

Isn't that good? As the principal of a traditional culture school, I also have a lot of parents who have had some discussions with me about their children's growth, or want to hear me give them some guidance.

I'm really embarrassed if I want to say I know, and if I want to say that I don't want to compete and discuss with each other, I think that's okay.

Some parents asked me why children are slow to write homework.

If you want to explain this problem clearly, it is actually a very simple thing. Because children write homework slowly, generally speaking, he is not very proficient in knowledge, so let's put it this way, if you go out with children, now homework is 1 + 1 is equal to 2, such a simple question, I think he must be very easy to learn, so why is his child writing slower? Or he didn't understand it in class. If you really understand it, there are no such problems at all.

In fact, when it comes to this issue, I really shouldn't be here today, I should talk to parents about the problem of children's rebellion. Speaking of this matter, it may be more serious, because our Huaxia words have paid great attention to the question of cultivating offspring since ancient times, why do children rebel?

As a parent, has he ever wondered why his child will rebel? In fact, if you seriously analyze this problem, it is because parents do not form a certain prestige in the minds of their children, and parents can do any little thing in the family, so that children can say certain reasons and say that they have heard certain principles, so that children will definitely obey their parents. In fact, when a child's rebellion encounters such an expert, the explanation of this problem is not very good.

Because of these educational specialists, he did not fundamentally solve the problem. On the surface, it seems to solve this problem, but in fact, the problem is like a weed. If you pinch off its leaves, but its roots are still there, then it will definitely grow one day. So what to do? It is to uproot its roots. For example, if a child does not listen to his parents, then it is necessary to analyze why the child does not listen to his parents, and what kind of reasons do they eat? If you want to change it, is it all the responsibility of children?

You directly blame the problem on the child, in fact, this is not very fair. To use an inappropriate analogy, like a photocopier, if the original is wrong, then the copied thing must be wrong, so how to change it? It can't just be changed, but the original scrap should also be changed. Like a few years ago there was a famous, day case. Why are both parents famous stars, famous actors, and their children become one, criminals, is this a bad child? This must be a problem with the parent's education.

As for what went wrong with the education of parents, I think that as a parent, I have to reflect on it one hundred times thoroughly, to put it bluntly, no one can teach as a parent. They all became parents in a daze. Then they should have a certain amount of responsibility.

There is another problem, that is, the reason for the child's rebellion should be the problem of getting along with the two parents, because no matter what, his father and his mother, if they quarrel, it doesn't matter, any one person is reasonable, as long as the two of them quarrel, it is undoubtedly a timed * for the child, because parents may not have thought about it, this is the matter of the two of us, you as a child should not intervene, he is a matter between the two of us, but adults think like this is very selfish, Because he didn't think about the two of them, for the child, they are actually the two closest people in the world to the child, so in such a family, the sense of security of the child who grows up is relatively lacking.