Chapter 6: The Mountains Are Empty (3)
Xie Liuying: "Your stalker-like investigation method, I would have called the police if someone else had changed." But I know you're a good person, and you've made so many guesses about me behind my back, and you don't want to hide it from me, so you told so many ugly truths. ”
I'm afraid I saved the world in my last life, and I can meet a woman like Xie Liuying in this life.
Xie Liuying: "Do you know why I'm so good to you?" ”
Yes, this is the most incredible thing in my relationship with her, with her conditions, a boy who is ten times better than me may not take it seriously, why is he willing to spend so much time on me? I've been thinking about this question more than once since the summer vacation, this is a cruel reality, and there will be no such thing as an official sister-in-law.
And when we met for the first time, her words like "I see that your skills are good, the commentary is in place, and I spoke for the game and my love" and so on, although it may be one of the reasons, is obviously not convincing enough.
When I first met her, I thought she had a good personality, and she was very chatty, her game level was close, and her college entrance examination scores were also close, and she was not a selfish person. So I instinctively felt that she should have a similar family and a similar upbringing as me.
So a very strange point is that if my speculation is correct, Xie Liuying grew up in a not very good environment, and has a mediocre relationship with her parents, and it is already rare to be admitted to college, how can she still have the energy to play the game so well? Not to mention developing such an excellent character as it is now.
Another strange thing that I can't figure out is that from what I know about her, she is not the kind of person who feels inferior because of her family or circumstances, and the past that makes her uneasy and tries to hide can only come from herself. It may be the reason for the shih hat in the eyes of the lover, in my opinion, she is almost perfect, what can be the unsightly shortcomings?
Xie Liuying: "I grew up with my grandmother, my parents don't care much about me, although they don't have the ability themselves, but they are looking forward to giving birth to a capable son." ”
The bad habit of preference for sons over daughters for thousands of years has been poisoned to this day, although there are fewer and fewer people who hold such a concept, but as long as you stand up, you can only consider yourself unlucky. In just one sentence, it has explained the main reason why she has a general relationship with her parents.
I recall that when I was a child, if I was too skinny, my mother would often complain to my father: "Look at how good that daughter of whomever is Wenwen quietly, and then look at our family, alas, ......"
At this time, my father comforted me and said, "Boys will have an age that even dogs hate, and patience will pass." ”
When I think back to many of my actions between the ages of eight and ten, I want to strangle myself. Thanks to Yuntian at that time, he also did a lot of evil together, and the two of us restrain each other at this point, he won't easily break my news, and it's no wonder that my mother wants a girl.
Xie Liuying: "My grandfather used to be in the army, many years ago in a disaster relief sacrifice, before I was born, my grandmother also lived alone, my father not only did not do much filial piety, as soon as I was born, he and my mother left me to my grandmother, and enjoyed life by themselves." Many of the subsidies given by the government when my grandfather posthumously presented the martyrs were squandered by them at that time. ”
I didn't speak, but I was secretly scolding in my heart: This is really not a thing for parents, they are old and small, so it's no wonder that Xie Liuying has a bad relationship with them.
Xie Liuying: "In our chaotic community, the identity of the descendants of martyrs does not make people look down on you, and in their eyes, martyrs are just a group of fools who gave their lives for irrelevant people and things. ”
Xie Liuying: "My grandmother taught me since I was a child that although I am a girl, I must be an upright person like my grandfather, and I can't learn from my parents." So since the day I went to school, I knew that it was up to me to change my destiny. Although my family didn't have a lot of money and the atmosphere in school was not very good, I still tried my best to study, and I knew that only by getting into a good university and getting a good job could I change my fate. ”
I think it's strange that an experience like hers can't have anything to do with games.
Xie Liuying: "The ancestral house where my grandmother and I live is not far from where my parents live, and they both belong to that terrible community. Ever since I can remember, they would ask my grandmother for money under the pretext of coming to see me. ”
I know that the environment is important to a person's growth, and now I think back to it, when I was a child, my dad used to work late into the night, and even when he returned home, he was still studying tirelessly to enrich himself. And my mother not only took care of the housework for ten years, but also patiently tutored me in my studies.
In such an environment, I can clearly distinguish the priorities of things. Looking at it now, although I was playful at that time, I was not tired of learning.
My parents set an example and provided me with a good educational environment. And like Xie Liuying, her parents themselves are not enterprising, and the community environment is terrible, it is really remarkable that she did not go down the wrong path.
Xie Liuying: "My grades in school have always been good, and I have not been affected by some bad classmates. In fact, I was able to do this thanks to my grandmother, who was the only sunshine in my childhood. Unfortunately, she passed away when I was in my first year of junior high school......"
I tried to hold her hand and comfort her, but when my fingertips touched her skin, I felt too presumptuous and retracted.
Xie Liuying: "The two properties in the community originally belonged to my grandfather, and after my grandfather died, they belonged to my grandmother. My grandmother left a will before she died, designating me as the only heir, and my dad couldn't get a dime. Soon after, the government decided to demolish the area, and I not only got two houses, but also a lot of compensation. I gave one house to my parents and lived in the other one myself. ”
Me: "It's really good and evil in the end, but you shouldn't have been an adult at that time, even if the court follows the will, but your parents won't do something to make you unable to gain autonomy?" ”
Xie Liuying: "I have to thank my grandmother for writing the situation of our family very clearly in her will, and emphasizing that although I am young, I am a person with good judgment and ability to behave. ”
Me: "So you didn't get into the game until you had the money?" ”
Xie Liuying: "You can say that, but that's not the main reason. ”
Me: "What's that?" ”
Xie Liuying lowered her head; "Because...... I've had injections. ”
Me: "What??? ”
Everyone knows what the injection means in this context, even if it is later inferred that Xie Liuying's original community environment is very bad, I will never associate her with this word.