A wise person knows how to turn anger into strength, and when encountering insults and contempt, he does not give in, does not complain, but calms down and thinks about it, finds fault with himself, and meets a new round of challenges, so that naturally there is no time to get angry.

Life is inherently a complex life process, we don't get angry about some small things, when we encounter something that makes us angry, we have to learn to turn anger into strength.

"What am I, how can they value me?" sighed, and the sadness that Huai Cai had never encountered was overflowing.

"What is he, what is he cool to me?" scolded for a while, and the feeling of being mistreated can be imagined.

When you are not taken seriously, there is no need to sigh and complain, and when you are mistreated, you can't make a mistake and get angry. Throwing away resentment, calming anger, and turning resentment and anger into motivation is not a better way to "vent" for yourself.

The smartest thing to do is to concentrate on what you are doing, turn your anger into motivation, have spiritual sustenance, and have no time to look around, and your anger will disappear.

After the great English poet Byron's first book of poems, "Lazy Times", was published in London, it quickly sold out and was greatly admired. But soon the Edinburgh Review, the organ of Scotland's largest civil rights party, published a vicious, anonymous article with personal attacks.

The article begins with the assertion: "The poet of this young baron may be said to belong to the kind of man who is neither worthy of being an angel nor a layman...... The arrangement of scripts, the calculation of syllables, does not constitute the art of the whole poem. But it seems like we should accept it, because this book of poems is the last one we will ever see. ”

When Byron read it, he immediately fainted. A guest happened to come in after he had read it, saw him depressed, and asked him if he had just had a duel.

That night, Byron drank three bottles of red wine in a row, trying to suppress the fire that had accumulated in his heart. How can this vile provocation be answered? His first thought was to write a sharply worded satirical poem in response to his enemies, in order to relieve his hatred. But then I thought about it, and I decided to ignore this kind of attack, and then make up my mind to write a truly beautiful book of poetry, because this is the most powerful struggle!

Whenever something goes wrong, people are likely to have negative emotions and of course do something unexpected. Using the method of "borrowing alcohol to eliminate sorrows" is often the original problem is not solved, and because of the poor self-control ability after drinking, the brain vents at will at any time when it is out of control, and it is very likely to do more irrational things, adding new troubles to themselves.

There is such a story.

Li is a little singer in an entertainment company, because of his height defect, he has not been able to become famous, but he has never given up. One day, a new singer singing competition was held in his city, and Li wanted to use this opportunity to make himself successful, but when he went to the interview, the interviewer said to him: "You still want to be famous?" Go home and take a good look in the mirror, young man! ”

In the ridicule of others, Li was pushed out of the door. But Li was not convinced, and he was still very angry, and the expression on his face suddenly changed from a sunny day to a cloudy day. He stopped when he reached the door, then turned his head and shouted loudly:

"Don't underestimate people! What's wrong with me? I'll be able to become a star sooner or later, don't believe you, wait and see. Li's voice was very loud, but the people who passed by here laughed when they saw Li, because they thought he was a fool. Li was not angry at everyone's behavior, and then he left with his head held high.

In the past, Li didn't know how many times he had encountered scenes like this, but he never gave up, because he had a persistent pursuit of music. A miracle finally happened, and a very famous local producer took a fancy to Li's talent, so he signed a contract with him. Soon after, Lee finally realized his dream.

Most successful people have experienced too many ups and downs, and the reason why they can succeed is because they can constantly renew themselves and work hard under the blow of many failures.

Several utility model patents invented by Xiao Ming have finally been patented. Xiao Ming only has what he does today, because of his cousin's words, "You have no future in this life." "When Xiao Ming was young, his family was very poor, and even though he was very talented, he was still looked down upon. Therefore, after graduating from high school, I did not continue my studies, so I worked part-time and used the money I earned to create inventions and apply for patents. Now when his good friend congratulates him, he says, "Xiao Ming is good." At this time, Xiao Ming always said: "You too, believe in yourself, you can be outstanding if you are talented, don't let you bow your head!" It doesn't matter how others see you, it's the most important thing to look at yourself, you should replace anger with competition, and for life, competition is the most important thing. Therefore, if in life and work, when you encounter cold and sarcasm, you should not be angry, but use competition to live a personal life to those who look down on you!

Although "fighting" and "angry" are just one word difference, the meaning is very different, striving for anger is upward, and anger is hurting the body. Competitiveness is not a manifestation of emotion, but a pursuit of goals. Striving for energy does not mean that there is something to have, but it can only be achieved by hard work. Striving for courage is worthy of applause, striving for courage is worthy of encouragement, and striving for courage is worth learning. Anger is a positive action, but anger is a negative vent.

In the same sentence, some people will be inspired by this sentence, and then work hard to achieve a lifetime. Some people are stimulated by this sentence and become angry, thus ruining the right thing. People should be angry, not angry.

There are too many little things in life that are not worth thinking about, fairness, perfection, humiliation, concerns, loss...... In the face of all this, we must learn not to care, learn to replace anger with competitiveness, and enterprising is the best revenge.

There are also people in life, although they did not succeed for a while, they were hit hard, but they never gave up their efforts. They have to prove with their actions that they are always waiting, that they are the best people in the world, that they are strong men who can withstand any kind of blow.