There are very few people who will not be ridiculed and ridiculed by others, and there are people who are always angry with those who ridicule themselves because of this. In fact, in this way, it happens to fall into the trap of those who like to ridicule others! At such times, what a smart person needs is not anger, but a calm and composed response to these villains!

Kang Neng was once a prominent figure in American politics, and his outstanding speech and eloquence won over many government officials. However, such a good orator was ridiculed when he first addressed the House of Representatives. But with his wit, he finally prevailed over those who mocked him!

Before that speech, because he had come from the western countryside in a hurry, he was not dressed much, and he looked dirty all over his body. Seeing his appearance, a sharp-tongued and humorous congressman in the audience sarcastically said in the middle of his speech: "This new guest from Illinois must still have a full of oats in his pocket!" ”

The audience burst into laughter. It is conceivable that if the person who is ridiculed is someone who has little social experience, he may be red-faced and even angry. However, dealing with such ridicule is a piece of cake for Mr. Kang Neng!

Kang Neng knew that the councillor's ridicule of him was indeed true, because he was indeed very dirty. So he replied very frankly: "Truly, not only do I have oats in my pockets, but I also have a lot of rapeseed in my hair!" Most of us who live in the western countryside are dirty, but the oats and rapeseed we have in our collection often produce good seedlings! ”

These few words of return immediately made Kangneng's name a sensation throughout the country, and everyone gave him a nickname, called "Illinois Canola Congressman".

In the face of ridicule, the angry person is the most incompetent. People who are truly capable will admit their shortcomings while subtly turning them into advantages. Only in this way can those who are interested in watching your jokes not get their wish!

For ridicule. The more real the facts, the more exciting they are. A person with a cowardly character will be bent by the force of ridicule that will bend the original straight back; People with strong personalities, on the other hand, see the ridicule of others as a force for self-improvement.

When we work hard in society, we will always encounter some things that make us sad and angry: being harassed by others, being looked down upon...... So what to do after being stimulated? Anger doesn't help, and fighting back is a laughing stock. The best way to do this is to turn the stimulus into motivation and keep learning and improving. When you have completed your skills and have sufficient confidence, who will dare to despise you at that time?

Let's see how Wu Shihong grew from an ordinary person to a first-rate person.

Wu Shihong was the general manager of IBM (China). Many years ago, Wu Shihong was just a nurse. When I first applied for a job at IBM, she was just a clerk, but in fact she was just a handyman, and even ordinary foreign employees could just do odd jobs with her. Once, a foreign female assistant asked her to pick up something, and Wu Shihong took the initiative to ask if it was different from the last time, and the foreign lady glanced at her with contempt, scolding her in English for not understanding anything, and being self-righteous.

Generally speaking, a person's talent comes from his talent, and talent is not easy to change. In fact, most people's ambitions and talents are latent and need to be stimulated by something from the outside. Once the ambition is aroused, it is not impossible for a miracle to appear, because the potential of people is enormous.

Since then, Mr. Wu has vowed that one day I will take care of anyone in the company, whether he is a foreigner or a Hong Konger. If you are willing to feel inferior, you can only sink. If you don't want to feel inferior, you will have endless motivation. Wu Shihong is studying every day in addition to work, and she is looking for the best way out.

When a person's dignity is violated, he may remain silent, but when it erupts, the power is terrifying. Through several years of hard work. Wu Shihong began to embark on a bright path as a professional manager.

Eventually, she joined IBM with her, and she was the first to become a business representative. She was the first to become a local manager, the first to go to the United States headquarters for strategic research, the first to become the general manager of IBM South China, and finally Wu Shihong became the general manager of IBM (China).

That's when everything changed. Those who used to laugh at her now flock to her; Those who once despised her now want to be her friends; The people who used to tease her for her hard work have now become respectful of her.

External stimuli are a double-edged sword, which can sink you or push you forward. So, when stimulated, don't always be indignant about it, but think about how you can make yourself as respectable as the elites.

In life, sometimes it may be a word of contempt that pierces your soul like a cold, scathing, sharp needle cone, embarrassment and pain, but you must let these words become a shadow that you will never get out of in your life.

Just because others are indifferent to you doesn't mean your value doesn't exist; It doesn't matter if others look down on you, a person only needs to value himself. Don't care too much about the cold eyes and ridicule of others, motivated people will use other people's "white eyes" as a ladder, maintain an upright character, an open mind, and rise to the top step by step.