Liang Shiqiu said: "When a person is angry, it is the most ugly. Even if his face is like a lotus flower, once he turns blue and white in anger, his face will be as pale as earth, and his face is full of twisted muscles and flesh, and his face is really ugly.

Generally speaking, there are several stages in the process of getting angry. At first, it is just unpleasantness, annoyance, or muttering on the face; If the emotion is aroused, the anger will intensify, and then the whole body will tremble, the hands will tremble, and even the loss of self-control, anger, and even rage, and finally it will turn into an irrational rage. At this time, the face is also the most ugly.

There was a boy named Xiaohu, when he was young, he had a particularly bad temper and would get angry at every turn. When someone touches him a little, he gets angry. If anyone provokes him, he will curse loudly, even hit people hard, or else he will cry loudly, as if he wants to lift the roof cover. Every time he gets angry, his family will hide far away, for fear of being swept away by a typhoon.

Once, he had an awkward quarrel with his younger brother, and his bull temper came up, and he was so angry that he blushed and had a thick neck, put his hands on his waist, and scolded while stomping his feet. At this time, his mother came quietly and held a mirror in front of him. He saw himself, his brows were furrowed, his face was wrinkled, terrifying and funny, it turned out that he was so ugly when he was angry. From then on, every time he was angry, he would think of his angry face, and when he thought that he was so ugly, he would no longer mess around.

Anger is a destructive emotion, and it is so ugly that there is no way for a person to control their expression when they are angry.

In one factory, when the boss visited the warehouse, he saw a worker sleeping on the ground. The boss hated the workers the most, and when he saw such a scene, he woke up the workers very angrily: "What is your monthly salary?" The sleepy-eyed worker said lazily, "2,000 yuan!" The boss immediately asked the warehouse management foreman to give the worker 2,000 yuan, and said angrily: "Take the money and give it to me!" Afterwards, the boss asked the foreman: "Who introduced that worker?" The foreman said, "Boss, that person is not an employee of our company at all, he was sent by another company to deliver goods." ”

Anger is a kind of nervous emotion caused by people's dissatisfaction with objective things, and too much abnormal anger can easily make people's psychology lose balance, weaken reason and self-control, and make impulsive behaviors occur.

One day, Napoleon Hill had a misunderstanding with the administrator of the office building. This misunderstanding led to a hatred between the two of them, and even turned into a fierce hostility.

Napoleon Hill often worked alone in the office after hours, which prevented the administrator of the office building from resting. The administrator turned off all the lights in the building to show his displeasure. This happened several times in a row. For the last time, Napoleon Hill was preparing a speech, and when he had just sat down at his desk, the lights went out.

Napoleon Hill immediately jumped up and ran to the basement of the building, where he knew he could find the administrator. When Napoleon Hill arrived, he found the caretaker busily shoveling coal into the boiler, whistling as if nothing had happened.

Napoleon Hill immediately yelled at him for five minutes. In the end, Napoleon Hill couldn't think of any more swearing, so he slowed down. At this point, the Administrator straightened up and turned his head, a cheerful smile on his face, and said in a soft tone full of calm and self-control, "Ah, you're a little excited today, aren't you?" ”

His words were like a sharp dagger that pierced Napoleon Hill's body at once.

Napoleon Hill turned around and returned to the office as fast as he could. He had nothing else to do. When Napoleon Hill reflected on the incident, he immediately saw his mistake. But, frankly, he was reluctant to take action to undo his mistakes.

However, he knew that he had to apologize to that person in order for his heart to be at peace. In the end, it took him a long time to make up his mind and decide to go to the basement and endure the humiliation he had to endure.

Napoleon Hill came to the basement and called the caretaker to the door. The Administrator asked in a calm, gentle tone, "What do you want to do this time?" ”

Napoleon Hill told him: "I have come to apologize for my actions—if you will accept it." ”

The Administrator had that smile on his face again, and he said, "By God's love, you don't need to apologize to me, no one hears what you just said except these four walls, and you and me. I'm not going to tell it, and I know you won't either, so we might as well forget about it. ”

This passage shocked Napoleon Hill even more than he had said the first time. Because the Administrator not only expressed his willingness to forgive Napoleon Hill, but also expressed his willingness to assist Napoleon Hill in concealing the matter and not publicizing it so as not to cause harm to Napoleon Hill.

Napoleon Hill walked up to him, grabbed his hand, and shook it vigorously. Napoleon Hill shook hands with him not only with his hands, but with his heart. On the way back to his office, Napoleon Hill was in a good mood because he had finally mustered up the courage to undo what he had done wrong.

After this incident, Napoleon Hill made up his mind that he would never lose his self-control again. Because once a person loses his self-control, he will be very ugly.

When you are angry, you might as well reflect yourself in the mirror, what an ugly expression, at this time, whatever you do will only be your own appearance.

A philosopher once said, "A man in anger is like riding a crazy horse, and if he does not harness it, he will break his neck." "Anger makes you lose your mind, and people who lose their mind look ugly.