There is no greater pain in life than the betrayal of relatives and friends

Anyone who has watched the movie "Infernal Affairs" must have a vivid memory of the undercover agent in it. The reason why undercover is difficult to do is because he is destined to be a betrayal. And betrayal is an unbearable thing for both the betrayer and the betrayed. was betrayed, the anger in my heart is indescribable, and the beauty that I once had and trusted no longer exists.

There is a hedgehog in the forest with a hard thorn. The fox has coveted the delicacy of the hedgehog for a long time, but has always suffered from the hard thorns of the hedgehog - as soon as the fox approaches, the hedgehog curls up into a large ball of thorns, leaving the fox with no place to behold.

Hedgehogs and crows are good friends. One day, the hedgehog was chatting with the crow, and the crow was very envious of the hedgehog having such a good guard, so he said, "Friend, this thorn of yours is really good, even the fox is helpless against you." The hedgehog was very happy when he heard the crow's praise, and he couldn't help but say to the crow: "Actually, my armor is not completely without weaknesses. When I curled up all over, there was a small hole in my abdomen that couldn't be fully curled up. If I blow here, I can't stand the itch and I open my body. ”

The crow couldn't help but be very surprised when he heard it, it turned out that the hedgehog still had such a secret. When the hedgehog had finished speaking, he said to the crow, "I have only told you this secret, but you must keep it a secret for me, for if it reaches the fox, I will die." The crow swore and said, "Don't worry, I'm your good friend, how could I betray you?" ”

Soon after, the crow landed under the fox's paws. Just as the crow was about to be eaten by the fox, it suddenly occurred to him that the hedgehog might be able to save his life, so he said to the fox: "Brother fox, I heard that you want to taste the hedgehog's delicious food, if you let me go, I will tell you where the hedgehog's death hole is?" The fox weighed it and decided to release the crow, and the crow told the fox the hedgehog's secret.

The ending ended in tragedy as a hedgehog. When the hedgehog was bitten by the fox on its soft belly, it cried out in despair: "Crow, you promised to keep a secret for me, why did you betray me." ”

It is a sad thing to be betrayed. The closer the betrayer is to himself, the stronger this heartache feels. But when you think about it, most of the betrayals are not all caused by the betrayer, and the person who is betrayed by others is actually the bane of the betrayal.

Lily's husband cheated on her, had a lover outside, and after a long time, she cried her face. One day, Lily finally realizes that she is also one of the killers of this marriage: after the birth of her second child, while Lily is raising the child wholeheartedly, her sense of self-worth is gradually lost, so that she does not restrain her husband, who is happy to come and go whenever he is happy, and allows him to be an irresponsible father......

Eventually, Lily took a firm stand and told her husband that if he wanted to keep the marriage, he had to give up the affair. He agreed to do so.

Since Lily's conditions were not harsh, Lily's tolerance made her husband respect Lily even more; It was also because of her husband's promise that Lily gradually regained confidence in him.

In real life, if your lover is "red apricot out of the wall" for various reasons, you must have the courage to accept this reality and take a rational approach to solve this problem.

His lover cheated behind his back, which naturally made people angry. However, getting angry and angry is not a good way to solve the problem, as long as there are feelings, you still have to forgive.

That night, it was already past 11 o'clock when Wang Xue came home. When she opened the door, she found that it was locked from the inside. There was a knock at the door, but no one answered. It wasn't until she shouted that her husband stuck out his head and looked like he had just woken up.

Wang Xue walked around the three rooms without saying a word, and suddenly opened the large closet, only to see a girl in pajamas huddled there in a panic.

"Get dressed and come to the living room." Wang Xue said to her very calmly.

The husband followed Wang Xue to the living room, and just as he wanted to speak, Wang Xue stopped him: "You don't have to explain, when you speak, you should avoid it first." ”

Then, Wang Xue looked at the frightened girl with sharp eyes: "You tied the wrong button." ”

The girl looked down at her dress, and sure enough, the third button was buttoned to the fourth.

Wang Xue asked her, "What's your name?" How old is this year? "It looks like it's a family conversation.

The girl behaved as if she were answering a teacher's question.

"Do you know you're wrong to do that? Of course, you can't blame it all. But at your age, you have to withstand temptation! You have to learn to find your own love, a man who loves you with all his heart......"

The half-hour conversation was conducted in a whisper, a battle between heart and spirit, and although it was not intense on the surface, it had the power to stir people.

"Eldest sister, I was wrong, I will definitely listen to you in the future." By this time, the girl was already in tears.

Wang Xue sent the girl out of the door and combed her messy hair.

Afterwards, Wang Xue forgave her husband. Wang Xue believes that she still loves her husband, and her husband still loves her, and their marriage has not yet reached the point where they have to break up.

When facing his lover's cheating behavior, a smart person should carefully think about the following two questions: first, whether he and his lover still have feelings, if not, there is no need to be together again; Second, if there is still a relationship, then the lover should be given a chance to mend his ways!

Unless you forgive the deviant, you will never be able to get rid of emotions such as anger, pain, and frustration, and you will never feel hope and optimistic prospects.

There is no greater pain in life than the betrayal of others. Blaming, arguing and all kinds of excesses do not control the development of the situation, but only make you passive, and only rational treatment can bring everything back to life.