Recently, I feel very inferior, the reason is very simple, I have ordinary appearance, ordinary talent, mediocre qualifications, and ordinary background, which seems to be described as useless.

A few years ago, when I longed for love but couldn't, it was like trying to understand the preferences of the opposite sex.

The answer is very tactful: women like confident men. The expression of self-confidence is to be generous and decent in dealing with people, not to be afraid to shrink when dealing with others, and to be able to take charge of oneself.

At that time, I was very simple and thought that as long as I overcame the problem of being shy, I still had the hope of becoming a popular character of the opposite sex.

However, the stars have changed, time has passed in a hurry, and my personality has become more cheerful, but the title of single dog still can't get rid of, although I didn't expect to become a heartthrob surrounded by many young girls, but at least a few are not too obsessed with themselves, right?

It is undeniable that the whole society now worships money very much, not only women who hate the poor and love the rich, but many men have more than that.

The allure of money is not so irresistible, it is not far off. A lot

"Honest" girls will tell you directly that they like successful people who are rich and powerful, some

"Dishonest" girls will tell you that you are not their dish, what is wrong with it? Whether your personality is good, your height is good, and your appearance is also in the past, it may be that your name and gender are not suitable...... Sluggish, I realized it hindsight that this was a tactful refusal.

The little girl who really advocates platonic love will think of you for being dirty and disgusted that you are not considerate and romantic enough.

I was disappointed in the opposite sex, but in my moment of disappointment, there were a lot of reports on the Internet

"Exciting" news, the so-called sang

"Scumbag", disguised as a rich and handsome man to cheat money and sex. These people are very confident, and their behavior can't be seen as a rich second generation in disguise, so many little girls fell.

I was disappointed in both the same sex and the opposite sex. People have called people who are generally considered conservative, dedicated, and decent to have low self-esteem, and the reason for disappointment is also this, because people have mispositioned the boundaries of inferiority.

If you put arrogance and inferiority together, I would prefer to make all human beings feel inferior. With the development of science and technology, human beings are becoming more and more invincible, frantically praising that they are the veritable rulers of the earth, and the human race can almost stand on the height of God to despise the common people, affirming the progress of medicine, and the newspaper headline reads: "A breakthrough has made mankind defeat death again!" "Somewhere there was a drought, there was a flood, and after hard work,

"We have defeated nature again!" , after the release of a few satellites,

"Humanity has taken another milestone step and unveiled the mystery of the universe...... Of course, people know that they are exaggerating, but they can't learn to be modest, as if they will lose a lot if they use too conservative words, as if they don't blow up the sky, our motherland, our science and technology will be disgraced.

Humanity has never overcome

"Death", doctors are only able to cure some simple diseases, just like when we go to school, when the knowledge level reaches a certain level, the questions below this level are no longer unsolvable (of course, medical skills are not so humble, but excessive debasement, emphasizing modesty).

Humanity has never defeated nature, any natural disaster of a scale has brought a tragic blow to mankind, and if the disaster subsides, we can go to the rescue and do the aftermath work, not that we are like a master of the black belt and nine dan who easily quelled the fight between the 3-year-old apprentices, we subdued the weak chicken of nature with an overwhelming advantage.

When a magnitude 9 earthquake occurs, we don't have the ability to suppress it to a magnitude of 0.9, and we can't even organize a retreat and evacuation in advance.

It can't be written like this anymore, many people don't want to read it, and it will be condemned to caricature human efforts like a traitor to humanity to the point of worthlessness.

It is more appropriate to use myself as an example to dissect and belittle, although humility and even inferiority will bring infinite strength to mankind and make more progress in the exploration of civilization.

In 2000, when I was in junior high school, in order to facilitate going to school in a farther place, I learned to ride a bicycle in the summer vacation after graduating from elementary school, and I seemed to become the most powerful person after learning to ride...... Then one night, while riding in the wind, he was hit by a retrograde agricultural tricycle, lost consciousness instantly, and woke up in the hospital.

I feel lucky that there are so many people in this world, and not all of them will be baptized by death, so that you can be humble at least when it comes to life.

Death is not terrible at all, for me, if I don't wake up again, I hang up, that period of coma is extended to infinity, which is death, but it is just ignorance and unawareness, but when I wake up, I will be afraid of death, not afraid of the pain and misery of death, but afraid of cutting off all the bonds between me and my loved ones when I was alive, bringing them trouble and pain and no longer being able to make up for it.

In 2017, my wife went for a prenatal check-up and died in the womb after three months of pregnancy, and in the same month, my 97-year-old grandmother (I was born in my hometown and was cared for by her as an infant) also passed away

"Interview" What was my mood at that time, I told her that the oldest and youngest relatives in our family were not there at the same time, and I felt like I was being pinched

The "head" went

The "tail" is particularly uncomfortable, and it can't be manifested yet. We don't know anything about whether the baby in the womb is growing well or not, so we can only draw a very indetailed conclusion during the regular check-up: the current growth is good, remember to check again next month; Or if a certain index in the blood is unqualified, go back and pay attention to what to supplement, and come to the hospital in time if you feel unwell...... We don't know anything about the specific extent of the deterioration and aging of the physical functions of the elderly, and we can only make a conservative calculation based on certain indicators.

The four-character pass of birth, old age, sickness and death, the pass can make you want to cry without tears, and the most important thing is that you are at a loss, you can only pray that no bad luck will come.

In 2019, my son was born, because the fetal position was not correct and the fetus was too big, I had to choose a caesarean section, my son's first cry, I heard it through the doors of the operating room, after cleaning, my mother took the child away, but my wife has not come out, and the doctor who delivered the baby has not come out, my mother-in-law asked me to see the child, she just waited, I didn't go, I waited with her outside the delivery room, and then I heard that it was heavy bleeding, and the doctors came out safely after emergency treatment.

What is there for us to boast about? At present, I prefer life to be mediocre and ordinary, don't have too many waves, I occasionally write an article and feel that I am brilliant, but it is not worth boasting to one more person, arrogance belongs to self-entertainment, self-deception ridicule and relaxation, and inferiority belongs to humility and modesty.

With such a ratio of the two, life will be positive and vibrant, right?