Anger often makes people lose their minds. Reasonable people know when they are in a bad mood, and smart people know how to never take any action when they feel unconscious.

The ancients said: Anger can't be a teacher. There have been many tragedies in history that have led to "anger and rejuvenation".

When Chu and Han were fighting, Xiang Yu instructed the general Cao Ji to stick to Chenggao and not to fight, as long as he could stop Liu Bang for 15 days, he would be meritorious. After Xiang Yu left, Liu Bang and Zhang Liang made a "scolding plan", sent troops to the city, named and insulted, drew cartoons, and insulted Cao. Cao was angry from the heart, and immediately led the men and horses to kill out of the city gate. The Han army had already been ambushed, just waiting for the Chu army to leave the city; As soon as he saw the Chu army entering the urn, he suddenly killed from all directions, only to kill Cao Qi's entire army.

For a sober-minded person, one should avoid acting in anger, and irrational decisions are often made in anger.

During the Song Dynasty, there was a queen who was very virtuous, and when the emperor lost his temper because of the dereliction of duty of the palace people, she always pretended to be angry and asked the palace people to be handed over to the officials in charge of punishment. When the emperor asked her why, she said: "The punishment inflicted by the emperor in his anger is often excessive, and it is only fair to leave them to the officials in charge of punishment, so as not to give the emperor a reputation for cruelty." ”

In life, there are many times when people will bear bitter fruits because of momentary anger, and it has become a knot in the heart that can no longer be untied.

The king has a pet dog that has followed him for many years. One day, he suddenly found that there was blood on the corner of his dog's mouth, and at the same time roared like crazy, and when he looked closely, he found that the dog was covered with dirty blood.

Strange to the king, he followed the dog to the newborn baby's bedroom, and found the newborn in the cradle bloodstained, and the baby was gone. Then I saw that the dog was jumping and barking hysterically, and the corners of his mouth were still stained with blood.

The king thought that the dog must have hurt the baby, and in a fit of rage, he drew his sword and stabbed the dog to death. At the same time, he suddenly heard the crying of a baby. The king followed the sound and looked, and the baby was in the corner of another room with a dead wolf, who was scarred and lying in a pool of blood, and the baby was unharmed. Unexpectedly, the dog who desperately protected the baby died tragically due to the king's impulse. The king stood beside his dog with the baby in his arms, remorseful.

This story teaches us that we need to be calm in everything we do, and that impulsiveness is the enemy of reason.

When we encounter difficulties, if we can analyze and solve the problem with a rational mind, we will definitely avoid some mistakes that should not happen.

There is a distributor who has worked hard to recommend several nutritious foods to customers. But a few days later, the customer called out of the blue, and the customer's anger was clearly felt on the phone. The customer was very emotional, accusing the distributor of saying that after eating the nutritious food he recommended, his physical problems were getting worse and worse, and he kept saying that the distributor had deceived him, and said that he would go to the consumer association to file a lawsuit and demand compensation from the distributor. The customer's words are so outrageous that they can't be heard and they have a big posture of not giving up. At this time, the distributor's mood can be imagined, but he did not get angry because of the other party's attitude, he calmly explained to the customer, and finally calmed the customer down because of his patient and kind attitude.

Subsequently, the distributor took the initiative to visit the customer, and under his patient and meticulous explanation, the customer finally understood that the series of discomforts in his body were precisely because of the detoxification reflection of the product after the product took effect on him.

In the end, with the encouragement of the distributor, the customer continued to eat nutritious food, and after a month, the customer's health improved significantly, and now he has also turned from a consumer to a distributor of this nutritious food.

Later, the distributor summed up the experience and said, "When you have a problem, the key is to be calm. I never doubted our products. If I hadn't been calm with my customers, I might not have ended up like this. ”

If you can deal with difficult problems calmly and not impulsively let your anger out, you will avoid making irreparable mistakes. An excellent and mature person should be a very rational and calm person.

"Think twice" is a wonderful way for those who are prone to anger to avoid mistakes. Don't lose your mind, so that we can keep our wit, and when a person's head is completely occupied by anger, he is not a normal person.