"What are you going to do now?" Sometimes, it's not that you don't want to live a better life, but that there are no better options at all, and Xiao Li's situation is like this.

"After remarrying, she moved out of my mother's house, and the children were taken care of by her grandparents. This time I can't stay at home and be a housewife anymore anyway, I don't have financial resources, no matter how much you pay, others will look down on you, they won't take you for granted, and I don't want to open my mouth to anyone for money anymore. ”

"When are you going to remarry?" Regarding Xiao Li's marriage, Xia Ruoxi is not without worries.

Xiao Li smiled bitterly and shook her head: "It hasn't been decided yet." He said that 150,000 yuan was not enough, and begged me to help him borrow some more. ”

"How much is missing?"

"He said 300,000."

Xia Ruoxi sighed in her heart, that guy is too dark! How can a big man open his mouth and ask a woman for 300,000? What's more, this woman has a child, and it is difficult to even support herself.

To say something ugly, even if you eat soft rice, you have more ethics than him!

"What do you want to do?" Xia Ruoxi didn't fail to take out the money, but she didn't want Xiao Li to fall deeper and deeper. At the beginning, she borrowed money to let Xiao Li see this person clearly.

Sure enough, people are greedy, they got 150,000, and they want 300,000!

If Xiao Li is not awake now, she will really be hopeless!

"I borrowed him 150,000 yuan for the sake of him being the father of the child, and I wanted him to have a career to support his family. From the very beginning, I made up my mind that this money could not be given to him for nothing, but only borrowed. My brother still has to settle accounts, not to mention that we are not even husband and wife now, when he took the mistress to force me to divorce, I have already seen through him as a person, this time even if he says it well, I will not trust him easily. ”

Xia Ruoxi felt a little comforted in her heart, but fortunately, Xiao Li had not completely lost her mind.

If a person wants to live a good life, he must first learn to save himself in the face of adversity, and learn lessons to make himself smart and strong when he encounters pain and setbacks. Instead of being confused, complaining, and making mistakes again and again.

So I asked him to write me an IOU, but I didn't have time to work overtime that day, and it was rare that my mother was willing to take the initiative to run for me, so I gave her the money and explained that I wanted to write an IOU of 200,000 yuan, and my mother also promised to do it well. I thought that a shrewd and greedy person like my mother would definitely not send the money for nothing, but I didn't expect that she took 50,000 yuan by pretending to be smart, and couldn't get my ex-husband to make an IOU of 200,000 yuan, so she gave the money out in a daze. ”

"When I came back from work, I didn't see the IOU, so I was so angry that I called my ex-husband, and he repeatedly promised that he would pay it back, just to use it for a turnaround."

"I didn't believe him, I went to the door the next day, and my mother cried to me that she was poor, saying that life is so hard now, and praised me a thousand times, saying that she didn't agree to his son looking for a junior at the beginning, but she couldn't help it. This time, if she is willing to help her son tide over the difficulties, he will be the lifesaver of their family, and he will be good to me and the child for the rest of his life. ”

"Do you believe that?" Xia Ruoxi asked.

Xiao Li shook her head: "Although I felt pitiful for a moment and was moved, but when I look back and think about those things in the past, I understand everything." If it weren't for you and your friends, would their family think of us? ”

"At noon that day, their family left me for dinner, saying that they were discussing remarriage, but as soon as they had eaten, they began to talk about money, saying that 150,000 yuan was too tight, and let me help them get another 300,000 yuan, as long as they get through this difficulty, life will get better and better in the future. My ex-husband's useless guy actually knelt in front of me for money and assured me that it was the last time. In the future, he will be good to me and the baby, and he will not provoke other women, and he will devote himself to making money to support his family. ”

"You're soft-hearted?" Even if she didn't see it with her own eyes, Xia Ruoxi could imagine the ugliness of that scumbag!

"Yes, I'm impressed! A woman like me, who is too eager for love and too insecure, will desperately reach out to grab it, even if she knows that the happiness in front of her is a mirage. But I'm more afraid that he will lie to me and lose even worse in the future. I told him that I don't want to be rich and rich, and if the company can't be opened, don't open it. The two of us work part-time to earn money, and the elderly help take care of the children, so we can also support the family. ”

He said that he couldn't lose face, and his relatives and friends would laugh at him when he went out to work, so why should he work hard! He knelt before me, wept bitterly, and begged me to help him again. ”

Xia Ruoxi sighed helplessly in her heart:

A man kneels down and begs a woman to stay, or begs this woman to do something for him, not because he loves this woman so much, but because he is very selfish and has only himself in his heart, and he is afraid of losing, so he will do whatever it takes, and even trample on his dignity.

But at this time, women tend to be soft-hearted, thinking that a man who is willing to kneel down for himself will definitely change his past and get back together, but they don't know that some people don't have a bottom limit at all, resulting in deeper and deeper falls!

A man has gold under his knees, not that a man's kneeling is so expensive and how much sincerity he can show, but that he can't take out more valuable bargaining chips, a man who doesn't even have self-esteem, can he be expected to achieve great things, and how much sense of responsibility does he have?

Once the woman is unmoved and refuses, the man will immediately change his face, scold the woman for not having a conscience and shamelessness, and all kinds of vicious words can be said, just because he kneels, he feels that even if he makes a big mistake, he should be forgiven! People who don't forgive are unreasonable and hard-hearted, but women often eat this set and make mistakes again and again.

I'm afraid I'll miss the opportunity to be happy!

"Do you need money?"

Xiao Li shook her head and cupped Xia Ruoxi's face: "Ruoxi, I'm just too soft-hearted, but I'm not a fool, I can't be deceived by a man again and again." If I believe his nonsense and borrow money from you, I am no longer worthy to be your friend. ”

"Ruoxi, I've been thinking a lot about it these days. Seeing you and your friends so happy, I think your happiness is not only because of your family background, but also because you are smart and independent, and you can assert yourself! A rotten life like mine, even if you die a hundred times, no one will care, except you. ”

"I lied to him and said that I could lend him 300,000 yuan, but I had to give the IOU to my friend, otherwise no matter how good my friend was, he would not lend me any more money, so he asked him to give me the 150,000 IOU."

Xia Ruoxi smiled with satisfaction: "You did the right thing." ”

"If I cheat on him, will you think I'm a bad woman?" Xiao Li smiled bitterly.

"To treat people who have no credit, kindness is stupid. You have nothing to blame for doing this. This is Xia Ruoxi's sincere words, Xiao Li can grow up, and she is sincerely happy for the other party.

Happy Chinese Valentine's Day, babies! No matter across thousands of mountains and rivers, no matter far away from the ends of the world, I will accompany you to live, be happy :)

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