Dragon Slayer.

Anyone who does anything will inevitably have some selfishness or obsession with him to a greater or lesser extent......

This is actually very difficult to avoid......

Sometimes, obsession is heavier, and it is not a bad thing, just like the psychology of winning, such a psychology, in fact, a lot of time can make a person do things, can maximize their ability, even in the face of difficulties, the psychology of winning can often make a person become strong in a short period of time, and can burst out of unimaginable energy......

Like the so-called explosion of many characters in anime, in fact, it is the product of this extreme emotion, and the belief in the heart, if it is strong enough to a certain extent, can theoretically create a lot of miracles......

However, there is a limit to obsession, and the deeper the obsession, the more often a person's thinking mode deviates from the right track, and the so-called paranoia is like this......

At first, it may have been for a good purpose, but because I believed too much that I was doing the right thing, I naturally embarked on a non-mainstream path......

In his cognition, smoking is not only dangerous to his own health, but also to the health of others around him, so when stopping this behavior, any means used should be just, should be recognized and accepted......

Such a concept. Undoubtedly, this is too extreme a perception......

After all. Smoking is certainly a danger to your health. But this kind of behavior itself is not illegal, snatching the cigarette butts that others are smoking, and throwing them on the ground to step on, this practice is itself a very bad behavior, whether to smoke in public, itself is only a matter of a person's morality, whether to abide by moral norms. It only depends on a person's quality and cultivation, whether it is done in this way or not, it is not considered a violation of the law......

It is no wonder that most people will not agree with his approach, even if it is a family member, they also disagree with his approach very much, they can only say that his ideas are good, but his approach is wrong. And this is the bad influence of paranoia......

The so-called poor people must have something to hate. In a certain way, it can be said that such a person is hated......

And this is the biggest difference between the law and the norm, in the law, if someone is committing some relatively bad criminal acts, then the right of legitimate defense, in fact, there is no upper limit, that is, if someone is robbing, is seen and stopped by a third party, and even because of excessive force, the robber dies directly, such behavior will basically not be investigated for any criminal responsibility, of course, in the current stage of various countries, Basically, many definitions in this area are still relatively vague, so many times there are often some righteous and courageous people who are imprisoned, which also makes the behavior of righteousness and courage in society very rare......

Everyone will have their own opinion on everything to a greater or lesser extent, and this opinion itself will also affect their judgment of the other party in a certain way......

Just like the vast majority of people, when they see a person for the first time, they will subconsciously have a certain sense of the other party, if the other party is neatly dressed and has a delicate appearance, they may have a certain good impression because of this, and on the contrary, if the other party is ugly and sloppy, they may have some bad feelings for the other party......

And this initial good feeling and bad feeling,Often accompanied by the other party's level of communication becomes increasing day by day,The initial is good,If the other party does not do anything particularly outrageous,Then this good feeling will continue to improve,Even if the other party does something a little out of line,It often does not affect this good feeling,And if the good feeling reaches a certain height,Even if the other party does something illegal and undisciplined,Or when the vast majority of people can't accept things,People who have a good impression of each other, There are also often choices to tolerate each other......

is like some celebrities who take drugs, there will be fanatical fans to chase after them, and even in the eyes of many fans, the so-called drug abuse is just a small thing that can't be smaller, which is actually a typical paranoia......

In the final analysis, such paranoia is actually like many fanatical religious believers, in their hearts, there is often no ordinary people's outlook on life, worldview and values, and their minds have been distorted to a non-mainstream value......

In fact, from a certain point of view, in this world, if someone has always had an absolute affection for him and will not change because of anything, then it must be the person's parents, because both parents, for their children, must pour all their feelings into each other from the first sight, and this affection can be said to be increasing day by day, and will never decay......

And if a pair of parents are going to disown their children, then it must be that the children have disappointed their parents countless times, and even from disappointment to complete despair, so that the parents can reverse the good feelings and affection for their children in this nature......

Father's love and mother's love are undoubtedly one of the greatest forces in the world......

But, in other words, in a way, this kind of love that borders on paranoia is sometimes a bad thing......

There is a saying that goes like this--a loving mother is a loser!

The more spoiled children are, the easier it is to be blind when they grow up, the easier it is to be lawless, and to do some harmless bad things when they are young, but they are not corrected, but are connived at by their parents, so when they really do things like murder, robbery and drug trafficking, they are often hopeless!

Many parents often look incredible when their children are proven to have committed crimes. It's often said over and over again. My children are very well-behaved. How is it possible to kill someone? How is it possible to go to robbery? How is it possible to go to drug trafficking?

In the final analysis, whoever harms the child is only because of the doting of the parents......

Many successful people in this world, in fact, often suffered a lot when they were young, even if they were in a wealthy family, their lives were not necessarily happier than ordinary people, because for some parents with real rich educational experience. In fact, they know very well what kind of education can really enable the next generation to become talents......

Of course, this qiē is not all absolute, but purely from the perspective of probability, parents who can teach their children to distinguish between right and wrong from an early age, their children are often always relatively better able to grow up after they grow up, and on the contrary, parents who are overly doting on their children from an early age are often when they grow up. It's easy to bring endless trouble to the family......

At the end of the day, in this world. Some obsessions are of course the driving force behind people's success, and they can even be said to be the bottom line of a person's behavior, which is not allowed to be easily crossed, while some obsessions are more often just a kind of paranoia, and this paranoia often brings more of a negative effect......

A truly successful person is often a person who can grasp the scale of his obsession well......

They will be very reasonable to control their obsessions, and will not let their obsessions turn into paranoia, they will always be able to judge a person with a relatively neutral attitude, and will not affect their judgment too much because of various objective reasons......

The love of beauty can be said to be something that everyone has, and there will naturally be people yearning for beautiful things, and for ugly things, people will naturally have disgust, but this yearning or disgust, in essence, should have a bottom line, that is, if you don't like a person, you can choose to avoid unnecessary contact with the other party as much as possible, but for all necessary contact, you can't avoid it because of your likes and dislikes......

If your own likes and dislikes affect your most basic judgment, then it can be said that this kind of likes and dislikes have risen to the point of paranoia, and in the end, it will only harm yourself......

It's like in many novels, there are often some relatively bloody episodes, such as the protagonist who is dressed in ordinary clothes, when he buys a house, a car and jewelry, he is always the least welcome, and even when he is unlucky, he will meet the kind of sales lady who directly and simply reveals her contempt, or simply tears her face and sneers, but in the end she is slapped in the face by the protagonist......

This kind of story, in fact, in the novel, can be said to be a happy thing, really to sum up, it is nothing more than a typical case of having eyes and not knowing Mount Tai, or a typical case of a dog looking down on people, and generally speaking, after this kind of thing happens, the real bad luck will be those who are self-inflicted salesmen......

After all, as a service industry, it is undoubtedly impossible to accept the service staff who will offend customers at every turn, in fact, if you say in the end, where is the source of this bloody bridge, it is nothing more than a kind of paranoia......

Because of this, this kind of person often subconsciously feels that even if he mocks the other party, with the identity and status of the other party, I am afraid that he will not be able to fight back, which is also a sense of superiority......

In the final analysis, it is nothing more than that I have seen too few on the market, and I will always have some inexplicable sense of superiority, so I will make such a mistake......

In fact, as a salesperson, their profession itself requires them to treat every customer equally, unless they can clearly identify some customers who are purely troublemakers, otherwise, no matter what the other party's appearance and appearance and temperament are, there should be no such dog-eyed behavior, even if there is a conjecture in the heart, but it must not be revealed from the surface, because once the inner thoughts are put on the surface, Then it can be said that it violates the most basic professional quality......

In fact, in today's society, the vast majority of service personnel are basically able to serve with a smile, like the bloody episode in the novel. The probability of happening in reality. It tends to be relatively low. On the one hand, the vast majority of service personnel often receive relevant training before taking up their posts to avoid offending some customers who cannot afford to offend, thus bringing wealth and reputation losses to the company. will have strict paranoia in dealing with people......

In the final analysis, a person can have his own obsession, but this obsession itself cannot affect a person's normal work, nor should it affect the judgment made in the work, otherwise, the person's obsession has risen to a paranoid level, and a paranoid person is actually not suitable for working for others, because of their paranoia. Sometimes it tends to sell out the company's interests and affect the company's reputation and image......

It's like a time ago when there was a news that there was a man who was ugly because of his appearance. Seventy percent of the year-end bonus was deducted by the new female supervisor, and there is not much controversy about the right and wrong of the matter, in this matter, in fact, the female supervisor has embarked on a paranoid road of judging people by appearance, she feels that the other party is ugly, and the year-end bonus should be given less, and it is even better not to give a penny......

In a sense, the behavior of the female supervisor is actually a very unprofessional and unprofessional practice, which can be said to be strict and affects the interests of the enterprise and ruins the reputation of the company. From a certain point of view, this is completely possible, because such a person has completely put his personal likes and dislikes above the interests and image of the enterprise, which is also a state of paranoia to the extreme......

In any country, the law of the country is always greater than the human feelings, and the same, in an enterprise, the rules and regulations are always greater than the personal likes and dislikes, if their personal likes and dislikes are above the rules and regulations, then the enterprise is often not able to really become bigger and stronger, from a certain Cheng dù on, why such a person can be on the top, I am afraid that it is worth pondering, in such a place as the workplace, any position itself, more or less may have a certain human factor in the existence of zài, But if the human factor has reached a high enough level for such an incompetent person to steal a high position, then I am afraid that the enterprise itself will not go far......

In fact, if you think about this question carefully, if this female supervisor treats her subordinates with paranoia, do the higher-level leaders who choose this female supervisor also have this kind of paranoia and willfulness that deceives people, or are there some secrets that everyone knows, but can't declare?

Paranoid people will never feel that they are wrong, and this is the most terrible thing about bigots......

In fact, in this world, no matter who it is, there will be more or less paranoia, and even some people's paranoia is completely unreasonable paranoia......

In fact, many times, the reason why scammers can deceive others is often to take the route they like, people will always have their own preferences, and will always have a natural good impression of some things, and the reason why scammers can deceive people, in essence, is that the vast majority of scammers always look like successful people in suits and leather shoes, or have faces that look very honest and honest......

The former brings the temperament of a successful person, while the latter gives people the illusion of being down-to-earth and reliable, and the two temperaments are often the temperament that is most likely to gain the favor of the vast majority of people......

The more people judge people by their appearance, the more susceptible they are to this kind of deception, because they always subconsciously regard good-looking people as good people, and always subconsciously regard vicious and rugged-looking people as bad people......

Of course, if from the physiognomy point of view, judging people by appearance is not completely unreasonable, after all, the so-called phase is born from the heart, a really good person, generally speaking, always does not give people too vicious feelings, and a bad person, it is not easy to really disguise as a good person, but for the vast majority of people, there are very few people who can really judge people by their appearance and can understand people's hearts through their appearance. The appearance that most people see. It's just a simple appearance......

There is an obsession. There is persistence, there is a bottom line, there are likes and dislikes, in fact, it is not a mistake, just like the same class, there is always a difference between a dead friend and an ordinary classmate, and sometimes, the quality of the grades does not affect the communication between classmates at all. Classmates become dead friends, many times there is not much reason, either the personality is the same, or the distance between the desks is relatively close, or even just because the family lives very close, often sit in the same car, if you have to say any reason, I am afraid that in fact, there are not too many reasons for such a relationship......

And some people, even if everyone else likes it, they just don't like it. It's also a very normal thing, like some idol stars. It's very popular among young people, but if you don't like it, no matter how much others like it, I'm afraid it won't affect you......

In the final analysis, this is also a manifestation of people's likes and dislikes!

However, this kind of likes and dislikes itself should have the most basic bottom line!

Just like sometimes, classmates correct each other's homework or silent writing in class, if it is a student who has a good relationship with each other, generally speaking, can let the little partner pass, 55 points almost passed, the little partner raised his hand and let people go, and if there is really no way to help, it can only give up helplessly, no matter how big the favor is, it can only be a favor within the rules......

Generally speaking, even if it is a relationship with ordinary classmates, others are just a little bit of a passing dictation, if it is not that the relationship is too bad, they will generally choose to let the other party go......

Of course, if you meet a classmate who has a bad relationship, it is also occasionally time to deduct points from death......

However, no matter what, this kind of mutual correction of homework, one thing will never happen, that is, it is clear that others are the correct answers, deliberately help others change to the wrong answers, and then deduct points, whether it is impartiality or favors, it is all within the scope of being recognized by the teacher, but this kind of malicious framing can be said to be beyond the scope that the vast majority of students can accept!

Just like in the current society, if the police catch their friends and choose to raise their hands and let them go, or choose the lightest way to deal with them, the vast majority of people will definitely find it acceptable, after all, if they are in the same situation, most of them will make such a choice......

And if the police catch a stranger or a habitual offender, choose to handle it impartially or increase the punishment, then the vast majority of people will not have anything to say, after all, this is itself a right within the authority of the police, the same thing, the first offense and the second offense must be different concepts, the police must also have their own rights in this regard, although there will inevitably be more or less problems, but at least for the vast majority of people, their law enforcement can basically maintain justice, and will not provoke too much dissent......

However, if the police choose to fish for law enforcement, or even maliciously frame suspects, then it will undoubtedly be a very vicious incident, which is enough to arouse public indignation in the whole society......

In fact, in many Hong Kong police dramas, there are often such unscrupulous policemen who do whatever it takes to solve the case, stepping on the line in various ways, and even falsifying evidence to frame the suspect, which actually violates the professional ethics of the police profession......

Law enforcement offenses, in essence, are already a very bad practice......

And the man was deducted the year-end bonus because he was ugly, in fact, it is the same reason, the behavior of the female supervisor is actually beyond the pure workplace behavior model, in the workplace, if you hate a person, you can use a variety of workplace trial techniques to transfer the other party, or choose a variety of reasonable, at least superficially reasonable reasons to suppress the other party, or to find fault with the other party everywhere, a skilled workplace manager, if you want to rectify a certain person, can often make the other party not even know how he died......

However, depriving the other party of its original interests in such an almost stupid way is undoubtedly a self-defeating approach!

In fact, this is a typical example of destroying the established order because of one's own paranoia......

When people are doing things, as long as they have a certain obsession, they will more or less integrate their own ideas when doing things, just like when a teacher is teaching, as long as they are not taught according to the textbook, then they will more or less inevitably carry some of their own ideas and private goods, and these ideas may also bring subtle influence and changes to students......

And if you want to do something in the true sense of the word, then you must reach a state of selflessness in the true sense!

The so-called selflessness is the existence of completely forgetting oneself, completely letting go of one's paranoia and obsession, and completely concentrating all one's spirit and attention!

Only when this state is attained can a person truly achieve a state of theoretical perfection......

In fact, many artists, when creating the pinnacle of artworks, are often in such a state of selflessness in their hearts, they have completely forgotten their own existence, devote themselves to the creation of their works, and sometimes even hunger is completely forgotten, they will forget the needs of their bodies, and devote all their attention to the creation of their works......

And Wang Yu at this moment is in such a state!

He is like a devout sculptor, ready to use all his heart and soul to create a perfect work of art...... (To be continued......)