Dragon Slayer.

Wang Yu's self-perception may be difficult for many people to really understand......

When most people are young, they may have a more or less self-centered concept......

However, as you grow older, you will gradually realize that this world is not a world where you are alone, and you are not the so-called protagonist in your imagination......

In this world, there is no one who is truly indispensable......

As a result, the vast majority of people gradually and slowly disappeared from the crowd......

In fact, this kind of extreme self-centered thinking is actually criticized by the vast majority of people in society, especially many young people, who often run into walls everywhere in society because of this or such conceit, and finally have to put away their edges and gradually become ordinary and ordinary, so that they can truly integrate into society......

If a person wants to survive in a society, it is generally difficult to mix well if he is too self-conscious......

Many children have been spoiled by their parents too much when they were young, so they have developed some arrogant behaviors, always feeling that the world has to revolve around them, and what they want must meet their needs......

In the final analysis, this kind of doting behavior of parents is, in essence, not good for children......

For children, such unconditional satisfaction will eventually only allow children to truly live in society when they grow up. Encountering numerous troubles and setbacks......

and even let them bleed in society......

A lot of the time. A lot of people in society have been crawling around for a while. When I see those fledgling stunned youths, I often have a kind of disdain from the heart, and I feel that such people can't get out in society, but in fact, the vast majority of people are not other people, but just their own past......

Almost everyone who has just entered society is often full of illusions. But with the passage of time, they will gradually understand the cruelty of society, and gradually realize that there is an essential difference between reality and imagination, and then they will become the kind of people who once despised themselves, and despised their former selves......

In fact, the trajectory of most people's lives is like this......

But those who are full of sharpness, in society, if they lack absolute ability, it is often very, very difficult to get ahead......

In fact, in today's society, whether it is in various companies or companies. Whether it is in any unit, there will be such people who save zài. This kind of person is often very capable, but many times it is a problem of temperament and personality, so he does not like the boss and boss, although the work efficiency and ability are not weak, but they are always unable to be promoted and raised, and even in family life, it will always be easy to lead to all kinds of contradictions......

In the final analysis, it is nothing more than because this type of person is too selfish, so they will always subconsciously ignore the feelings of others, subconsciously be self-centered, and subconsciously show their arrogant side......

In fact, the vast majority of such people are difficult to mix well, and having the ability can certainly keep them from losing their jobs, but if they want to live a better life, they are often unable to do so......

Such people will always be unable to get treatment that matches their abilities, and will always be easily excluded by others......

In fact, if from a humanitarian point of view......

Such a person belongs to the kind of stubbornness, ignorance of current affairs, and inflexibility......

Such people are fundamentally different from the idiots who have no emotional intelligence, they are not the kind of people who have no emotional intelligence, but a lot of things, they actually understand, a lot of truths, they themselves also understand, such as human exchanges, such as New Year's greetings, such as greetings between relatives and friends......

He knows all these things, and he understands that this is a very important part of interpersonal communication......

However, they are often reluctant to do so, or they instinctively don't like this kind of red tape......

Such a person is naturally unlikable......

But such people are often the most self-liberating people......

They're not likable, but a lot of times, they don't need to be likable either......

Some people are not able to be mavericks in the true sense of the word, and they have to be guò likable to maintain their basic life......

And some people, even if they are not likable, can still maintain their own lives, maintain their jobs, and live a good life when their own abilities are sufficient, and for such people, it is not as important as imagined whether they like others or not......

This point, just like Wei Zheng in the Tang Dynasty, in fact, this product is quite annoying, especially for Li Shimin, Wei Zheng's storage zài basically belongs to the type that is an eyesore when you see it, but even so, because Wei Zheng's own ability as a minister is impeccable, so even Li Shimin, when Wei Zheng is alive, is helpless against him, and only after he dies can he vent his anger......

Such a person, in many companies, is like the kind of business backbone who does not please the boss, although such a person is weaker in the world, although he does not like to cater to the leader, but the necessary salary and year-end bonus every year are generally not in shortage, because for the company's leadership, such technical personnel themselves are indispensable......

As a company's management, a beautiful female subordinate female secretary is indispensable, and such a technical backbone is also indispensable......

This kind of person, if he can put down his figure and do something to please and cater to his superiors, he can often easily gain the recognition of his superiors. But such people. But I don't do that......

It's like the hermits of the various dynasties. Although they have talents, they are unwilling to contribute their talents to the emperor, but simply place their affection between the mountains and rivers, and do not want to step into the mortal dust......

Speaking of which, this is where the pride of these people lies!

Because of pride, so unwilling to compromise, because of pride, so unwilling to be tactful. Because of pride, I don't want to become sophisticated......

Such a person is inherently unsociable, and in itself it is easy to be ostracized......

However, those who can insist on themselves, if they can gain a foothold in society, can really always insist on themselves and not lose themselves under the temptation of reality......

Then, often such people, once able to swim against the current. is often destined to be a blockbuster and achieve a career......

In fact. Many big entrepreneurs are often like this......

No matter what kind of difficulties and setbacks they face, no matter what kind of obstacles or temptations they face, they can always be firm in their hearts and will not have the slightest hesitation and hesitation......

They will believe that what they do must be the best!

They don't believe in anything else, they just trust themselves!

Trust yourself to be able to do things that others can't, and trust yourself as the strongest person......

Their trust in self is often more and more qiē!

When these introduce their successful experience, the vast majority of them will not say this, more often they will only say that their luck is better than ordinary people, as for the ruthlessness in the business struggle, what is the inside story when earning the first pot of gold, it is not enough for outsiders......

After all, their so-called luck may sometimes be just some trivial intuition!

However, most people have such a thing as intuition, but there are very few people who really dare to trust their intuition and truly trust themselves!

To give you a simple example......

Someone goes to make a plane, and then he has a premonition that something might happen to the plane......

However, this flight is very important to him and must not be delayed......

In such a situation, the vast majority of people will ignore their inner premonitions, suppress their inner uneasiness, and choose to get on a plane......

In the final analysis, in the eyes of the vast majority of people, their intuition itself is not very reliable, and there are often very few people who will really choose to believe in themselves!

However, if it is a person who is truly self, in this case, he will choose to believe in himself......

For this type of people, as long as it is their own feelings, even if it is absurd, no matter how inexplicable, they will choose to trust unconditionally!

It's like a repentance on top of a wedding......

This kind of bridge, in the TV series, can be said to be a very, very common bridge, there was an affair before marriage, when the vows were read, they objected, and the third party snatched love, too many bloody plots will be born in the wedding banquet......

However, in reality, such a thing is basically impossible......

A wedding banquet itself is not simply a matter between husband and wife, nor is it decided by both parties to the marriage, whether it is the master of ceremonies or the pastor, in the final analysis, it is just a passing scene in the process......

A wedding banquet, in the vast majority of the time, is to invite the relatives and friends of the husband and wife to be present, in such an occasion, in fact, there is not much room for regret, and it can even be said that for the vast majority of unmarried couples themselves, they themselves are just the main props in the wedding banquet......

In a wedding banquet, the more friends present, the more family members present, the less likely it is to have accidents, even if there are a lot of unpleasant things, as both parties to the marriage, it is necessary to carry out the wedding banquet, because this is no longer a matter between the two of them, the marriage change in the wedding banquet is actually a very embarrassing thing, and not only the loss of face of both parties, the family members, relatives and friends, and even friends of both parties may be embarrassed......

Because of this, in reality, at the wedding ceremony, there will hardly be a newlyweds who regret their marriage, even if they suddenly don't want to get married in their hearts, they will not show their feelings on such an occasion......

And that's the reaction of the vast majority of people. No matter what you think in your heart. But under such a big scene. Individual ideas still have to be subordinated to collective ideas, and on occasions when everyone wants to celebrate, how someone pours cold water on it, then it is unjustifiable no matter what!

However, if a person with an extreme ego is likely to make some moves that will make others stunned, or even unable to get off the stage......

For example, suddenly I don't want to get married. So he simply ran away, but anyone who can do this kind of thing can basically be regarded as the type of extreme ego......

Do whatever you want, no matter when, always take your own feelings as the greatest pursuit, and only after satisfying yourself will you consider meeting the needs of others......

Many business tycoons, their success may only be because of their own somewhat ridiculous idea, ordinary people have such thoughts. Often left behind right away, but for a person who truly trusts himself. If they have the slightest idea in their minds, they will trace the source and think about the feasibility of this thing......

And sometimes their success may be just because of such a thought, a gut feeling, nothing more......

It's easy to say, but there are very few people in this world who really dare to trust their intuition, after all, intuition is just an ethereal thing......

In fact, in this world, many things that the superiors admire are actually disdainful of themselves, and the things they really believe in are often not humane......

Just like the leaders of any country in this world, they all hope that the people under their command are good citizens who abide by the law, they all hope that the people under their command can abide by the order they have established, and they all hope that the people in their own countries can have less self-consciousness, more national consciousness, and more group consciousness......

However, in fact, almost every person in charge of the position himself is often very clear that compared to order, power is actually the root of a qiē, and almost every country's top leaders are constantly trying to improve their country's military influence and status......

Dragon Slayer.

Almost everyone who is a superior in the true sense of the word is a person with a very strong sense of self......

In the midst of ordinary people, if they have a strong sense of self, they will often be easily excluded by others......

For example, in a school and a class, there will always be some students who like to show off their sense of self-esteem, showing off their family background, showing off their family background, showing off that they know more than others, and showing their leadership skills intentionally or unintentionally......

Such a person is actually often very annoying, but if this person can really show his unique side and show his first-class side in the student group, then he is likely to become the class president......

In a way, this is a humane test......

If a person wants to become a leader, then he must gain the approval of others, and the process of this recognition itself must suffer a certain amount of slander and rejection......

If a person is really outstanding and stands out from the crowd, then his ostentatiousness, his showmanship, and his high profile may become the cornerstone of his success, and conversely, if a person is incompetent, then his ostentatiousness, his showmanship, and his high profile may make him a hateful figure......

At the end of the day, it's the ability that decides what happens!

Even if it is a person with the same arrogant personality, if he is strong, he will naturally be followed, but if his ability is not strong enough, then his carnival and arrogance will become the source of his rejection!

This is a kind of humanity itself that is a test for people......

Wang Yu himself is such a very self-egoistic person......

However, his ego is different from that of many people......

Whether it is for power or wealth, he has no persistent pursuit, and he has never thought about what he wants to do to be the so-called number one in the world, let alone have any ambitions at all......

There are only four words he is pursuing......

Follow one's heart!

Yes, whatever you want!

These four words can be said to be the simplest wish for a person......

However, these four words can also be said to be the most difficult wish for a person to achieve......

There is no other reason for this......

For a person, the mouth grows on his body, he can say whatever he wants, his hands grow on his body, he can do whatever he wants, and his feet also grow on his body, and he can go wherever he wants......

And in this case, people live in this world, they can do whatever they want, they can do whatever they want, they can say whatever they want, and they will not be restricted by anything they want to go......

On the surface, everyone is capable of living the so-called freewheeling life......

However, the reason why he is difficult is because such freewheeling is not actually freewheeling in the true sense...... (To be continued......)

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