216. Knowing that you are far away should be intentional

"I really didn't pay much attention to this," when he didn't figure out the situation, Sun Yuanqi decided to make a mistake first, "You don't know a few things, Mr. Jidao, I don't know anything other than physics, where do you know what is called Hui Zhilanxin?" ”

Yan Fu glanced at Sun Yuanqi: "If you all claim to know nothing, then tens of millions of students in the world study the textbooks you compiled every day, how should they deal with themselves?" ”

Sun Yuanqi laughed a few times and did not speak. No pop-up window update fast //!d to win phone bills)

Yan Fu suddenly sighed: "Bicheng is actually a poor person. ”

Sun Yuanqi picked up the teacup, ready to listen to the history of the blood and tears of the Chen Lu family.

As expected, Yan Fu began: "Bicheng's father, Lu Fengqi, was a scholar of Ding Chou in the third year of Guangxu, and had a friendship with the poet Fan Fan Shan (Zengxiang) in the same year, and served as a scholar and politician in Shanxi. After leaving office, he returned to his hometown in Anhui to live idlely, and his family has a collection of 30,000 volumes. However, when Bicheng was 13 years old, his father died of a sudden illness.

Lu Fengqi had two boys and four girls, but both sons died of illness one after another. After his sudden death, there was no male in the family to inherit the family property, and the clansmen drove the Lu family and daughter back to their parents' house in order to occupy the property. The Lu family was originally a local family, and Lu Fengqi passed the imperial examination in his early years, and there were many people who came to marry him. So when Bicheng was very young, he was engaged to a family surnamed Wang. Who knew that the family was backward, and the Wang family also used the excuse to withdraw from the marriage. This left a huge psychological shadow on Bicheng.

"Later, Bicheng ran away from home and went to study at the women's school I founded. She is extremely talented, and she is proficient in poetry, danqing, seal carving, and music, and often has poems in newspapers, and soon became famous in Tianjin. The children and nephews of Li Hefei (Li Hongzhang), Yuan Xiangcheng and others admired her very much, and they all threw poems to cater to her, but Bicheng regarded her as a chicken and a dog, and did not pay attention to it at all. Bicheng is proud of his talent and thinks that there are not many men in the world who can be praised. came and went, and now she is twenty-seven years old, but she is still in the boudoir. ”

Sun Yuan said in his heart: It seems that picking and choosing and relying on oneself is the only way to become an older leftover woman, and there is no exception from ancient times to the present.

Yan Fu continued: "Bicheng is half my student, and the ancients have a saying: 'A teacher is like a father.'" 'Bicheng lost her father as a young man, and later ran away from home, so I naturally had to draw a picture or two for her about her marriage. A long time ago, I persuaded her once and again that she should not work too poetry, and that she should choose a good husband earlier. She repeatedly shirked, always saying that she didn't meet the right one. What does it mean to be suitable? Love at first sight, the opera made up to coax people. Tolerance and humility are the way of husband and wife. How can there be a reason in the world to be born suitable for husband and wife? ”

Sun Yuanqi agreed with Yan Fu's words very much, and nodded again and again.

It seems that Lu Bicheng came this time, and it was indeed Yan Fu's invitation, but the purpose of Yan Fu's invitation was to let Lu Bicheng go on a blind date. Of course, Lu Bicheng herself knows this, but she won't talk to Sun Yuanqi.

Yan Fu said again: "As the saying goes: 'God is jealous of talents.'" 'Talented people with literary talent often have a rough fate or die young, and women are especially so, such as Yu Xuanji, Xue Tao, and Li Qingzhao, which are typical examples. If Bicheng doesn't marry again, I'm afraid that there will be countless tribulations in the second half of his life. ”

Sun Yuanqi feels that marriage is a personal choice, and it is really difficult for others to interfere. To put it mildly: how do you know that people will have less suffering when they get married? Maybe Lu Bicheng is a lily direction, you Lalang is matched to find her a husband, maybe it will make her more painful in the second half of her life!

At that moment, Sun Yuanqi asked, "What are the gentlemen going to do?" Looking for one for Miss Lu at Jingshi University? ”

Yan Fu shook his head: "It is difficult for ordinary people to enter the eyes of Bicheng Law, otherwise she would not have been married to Yunying so far." ”

Sun Yuan smiled and said, "How high is Miss Lu's vision?" Our Jingshi University students are all selected from all over the country, who doesn't have a few brushes? The young talents who are proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting are also rubbing shoulders and sweating like rain, are they not in the eyes of the law? You also advise Miss Lu not to be too demanding.

"You know, those who are proficient in poetry do not necessarily have a lot of money,

"Those who are proficient in poetry and rich in wealth are not necessarily powerful,

"Those who are proficient in poetry and have a lot of money, and those who are powerful are not necessarily handsome,

"Those who are proficient in poetry and have a lot of money, are powerful, and handsome are not necessarily single and unmarried,

"Those who are proficient in poetry and have a lot of wealth, are powerful, handsome, and single and unmarried do not necessarily match.

"Proficient in poetry and wealthy, powerful, handsome, single and unmarried, and the eight characters match, maybe people don't look down on you Lu Bicheng at all!

"So, Mr. Jidao, you'd better persuade Miss Lu to lower her standards a little, and she will be able to find a suitable spouse in Jingshi University."

Yan Fu was amused by Sun Yuanqi's series of sentences, and said for a long time: "Bicheng is not too picky about whether he is proficient in poetry, has a lot of wealth, is powerful, handsome, single and unmarried, and has eight characters that match, the key must be a strange man." ”

Odd man? Sun Yuanqi smacked his lips: Anyway, I know a few people, but it's a pity that Mr. Zhongshan is Lolicon, and a mature woman like Lu Bicheng is obviously not within the scope of his recipe. Taizu is still Zhengtai now, does Lu Bicheng like Zhengtai to cultivate? It is estimated that she will do it, but Taizu is still unwilling! Chang Kaishen is the same age, but it is rumored that his physique is suitable for practicing "Sword Spectrum to Ward Off Evil Spirits", I am afraid that he is not very interested in Lu Bicheng.

Sun Yuanqi had no choice but to say: "Okay, we only have good students in Jingshi University, and there are no strange men. It seems that Miss Lu has to look for a good mate somewhere else. ”

Yan Fu's face turned pale, and he said solemnly: "Then I'll tell you the truth, Bicheng thinks you're good!" ”

Sun Yuanqi laughed: "Mr. Jidao said it's funny!" Don't you know that I'm already married? Hehe, my son is already there, my daughter can also play soy sauce, and there are still people to match? It's ten years late! ”

Yan Fu still had a serious face, but stared at Sun Yuanqi with blazing eyes and did not speak.

Sun Yuanqi laughed for a long time, and when he saw Yan Fu's expression, he couldn't help but be a little surprised: "You can't be serious, right?" ”

"Do you think I'm going to joke about this kind of thing?" Yan Fu said in a deep voice.

"Uh......" Sun Yuanqi's eyes widened suddenly, and then he said with a straight face: "I have already married Vera, and I won't take a concubine!" ”

Yan Fu said angrily: "Who said that Bicheng wants to be a concubine? ”

Sun Yuanqi was a little pale: "Mr. Yan, Vera and I have a very good relationship, it is impossible to divorce, let alone divorce because of Lu Bicheng!" Isn't Miss Lu looking for some strange man? Just let her find it! I'm just an ordinary middle-aged person, with a wife and children, and I'm very satisfied with my current family, so why let Miss Lu be wronged? ”

Yan Fu saw that Sun Yuanqi's tone was not good, so he hurriedly snorted: "Baixi, that's what I said, you don't have to be serious." If you don't want to marry, will I let Bicheng sit at your door and not leave? Haha, don't hurt the harmony between you and me. ”

Sun Yuanqi's color was a little faint at this time: "I'm sorry, Mr. Jidao, I was a little out of shape just now." ”

"It's okay, it's okay, after all, it's me." Yan Fu waved his hand, "Baixi, can you listen to me calmly?" ”

"Mr. Jidao, please speak."

Yan Fu said: "Since the Zhou and Qin dynasties, all ministers who have made meritorious deeds, in addition to being crowned with officials, will also be crowned with wives and sons, and even posthumously awarded great-grandparents, grandparents, and parents for three generations to show praise. Being a courtier and sacrificing one's life to make meritorious contributions, in addition to being loyal to the country, is actually filial piety to the family. "The Book of Filial Piety: 'The body is skinned, and the parents who receive it dare not destroy it, and the beginning of filial piety is also.'" Standing up and doing the way, making a name for yourself in future generations, in order to show your parents, and the end of filial piety. 'The greatest filial piety is to make the parents famous for future generations, so there will be the reward of posthumously sealing three generations. After the Ming and Qing dynasties, in order to commend loyal ministers and filial sons, as long as they are officials in the court, they have been gifted, and the five grades or more are called the edicts, and the six grades are called the edicts.

"Baixi, you have entered the official career seven or eight years ago and started to be an official; Four or five years ago, he crossed the fifth grade and became a bachelor of waiting; Now, you are a high-ranking official from the second grade. According to reason, the imperial court should have ordered you to posthumously seal the three generations of your ancestors, but why hasn't it been? The reason is that your wife Vera is a foreigner, and there is no precedent for a Western woman to be named a lady in the "Great Qing Huidian", and the Ministry of Rites and the Hanlin Academy are unwilling to open this opening, so it has been delayed until now.

"Because of his wife, the three generations of ancestors cannot be gifted by the imperial court, and then they cannot be listed in the history books and be famous in future generations, is this the act of being an heir? Baixi, I heard that your father was an officer of the Beiyang Naval Division and died in the First Sino-Japanese Naval Battle. Since he threw his pen into Rong and died generously, his lifelong dream is to win fame. He died unfortunately, and as an only son, shouldn't you fulfill his unfulfilled wish?

"Besides, your father is a single son, you are also an only son, and you have no brothers and sisters. If there is any accident that causes the clan to crash and the ancestors do not eat blood, wouldn't you regret it for life? In order to pass on the lineage and the ancestors smile, you should marry more wives and concubines, spread the branches, and carry forward the clan. ”

Yan Fu's painstaking persuasion must be very lethal to other Qing officials, after all, the concept of "filial piety" has penetrated into their bone marrow, and "unfilial piety" is the biggest crime for ordinary people. But for Sun Yuanqi, it didn't have any effect:

In a different time and space, because of the disappearance of their only child, their parents were grief-stricken and washed with tears, so what is the meaning of the imperial court giving them a gift? In this time and space, not to mention the parents, even the grandparents have not yet been born, who can the imperial court give the edict to?

But how can this be said?

Yan Fu saw that Sun Yuanqi was silent, and thought that he was already moved, so he hurriedly struck while the iron was hot: "If you marry Bicheng, these problems will be solved." Bicheng was born in a family of eunuchs, and he is right with you. You don't have to care who is the wife and who is the concubine, because no one can tell the difference: Vera Ming is marrying the first family, so she is naturally a wife; But she didn't have an edict, she was not recognized by the court, and she was legally a concubine. Although Bicheng entered the door later, she had a decree from the court. In this way, both should be acceptable.

"Although Bicheng has nothing to spare, he admires you very much, thinking that you are a pedantic and talented person, and you have a gentle personality and a broad vision, which is a hundred times stronger than those sour literati. From the bottom of my heart, I feel that you are a match made in heaven. Bicheng is proficient in middle school, Baixi, you are the grandmaster of Western learning, and in the future, the heirs will inherit the strengths of their parents, and they will definitely be outstanding and extraordinary! ”

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