The next day, when Li Dai was eating in the cafeteria, his mobile phone suddenly rang, and an unfamiliar phone number appeared on it. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

"Is it a courier? I haven't been shopping lately! Li Dai pondered as he answered.

"Hello, is this Coach Li? I'm Yang Lin. Yang Lin's voice rang on the phone.

"Academician Yang, hello." Li Dai was a little surprised, he didn't expect Yang Lin to call him.

"I got your phone number from Professor Mao." Yang Lin continued: "Coach Li, I made a special call to you to thank you. Last night, I had a serious talk with Yang Sijie all night. ”

"All clear?" Li Dai asked subconsciously.

"Make it clear. Citrix told me what he had in mind, and I supported him too! Yang Lin on the phone sighed:

"Speaking of which, it was my mistake. When I was young, I had been focusing on scientific research, and I only gave birth to such a son at the age of thirty-five, which is also considered an old child, so I have always doted on him. A lot of times, I try to satisfy him what he wants. ”

"When we are engaged in scientific research, we usually soak in the laboratory, and sometimes we don't go home for two or three months in a row, which is also a common thing. It's me who didn't communicate with my child, Citrix has grown up, he has his own ideals, his own ideas and plans, but I have been ignoring this, I'm a father, it's really unqualified! ”

When Yang Lin said this, his voice paused, and then said: "Coach Li, thank you, this time it is really thanks to your reminder, otherwise, I don't know that there is such a big gap between me and Sijie." ”

"Estrangement!" Li Dai felt that Yang Lin's word was used very accurately.

Parents and children are the most intimate relationship in the world, but after all, they are two generations, although their purpose is for each other's good, but there will always be estrangement due to the ideas of different eras. However, few parents will sit quietly, listen to their children's thoughts, and bridge the gap through communication.

In the traditional education of Confucianism, the first thing to pay attention to is never communication, but a kind of responsibility and obedience. Responsibility is for parents, while obedience is for children.

The so-called "if you don't teach, the father's fault", this simple sentence means that parents have a lifelong responsibility for their children. If the child does not do well in the exam, the parents will blame themselves; If the child is not satisfied with the job search, the parents will blame themselves; The child is not satisfied with the partner, and the parents will blame themselves. This is a lifelong responsibility, even if the children are already fifty or sixty years old, those parents in their seventies and eighties will be heartbroken for their children's affairs.

It's a great responsibility!

As a child, you need to obey the instructions of your parents. When I was a minor, the guidance and education of my parents should be, but after adulthood, my children still have to obey, which is a major marriage event, and since ancient times, there has been a inheritance of "parents' orders and matchmakers' words". In traditional thinking, what parents say, children do not obey, can be equated with the word "unfilial piety". A "filial piety" rises directly to the level of morality! Therefore, as a child, you can only obey.

This is pathetic obedience!

However, the maintenance of interpersonal relationships is not about taking responsibility for each other, nor is it obedience to orders, but about communication. Even if you are a relative, if you don't contact you for a long time, the relationship will fade.

At this moment, Li Dai couldn't help but think of Fang Haiquan.

Li Dai feels that there are many commonalities between Fang Haiquan and Yang Sijie. They both had a strong father, and their fathers loved them dearly, and laid out their future paths, but there was also a lack of communication between them and their fathers.

At different times, Fang Haiquan chose to fight, but Yang Sijie chose to obey.

In the next second, Li Dai suddenly remembered himself and his father.

Since graduating from college, Li Dai has been wandering outside, and between their father and son, they haven't sat together quietly for a long time, talking seriously.

"It's been a long time since I've been home, my dad should be okay!"

Li Dai took the phone, hesitated, and dialed his father's phone number.

After a few "beeps", my father's voice was remembered in the phone.

"Son, what's wrong? What's wrong? Why did you call me at this time? ”

"Dad, I'm fine, I just miss you, I want to hear your voice!" Li Dai said as he spoke, but his eyes moistened unconsciously......

……

Yang Sijie held a brand-new camera with a satisfied smile on his face.

Not long ago, Yang Sijie had a serious conversation with his father, and he said that he wanted to be a photographer. He thought that his father would lash out and reprimand him, but what he didn't expect was that his father supported his decision.

Yang Sijie was excited for several days, and every day when he went home, he kept fiddling with the newly bought camera, and just after the weekend, he couldn't wait to run out with the camera, and began to dream of being a photographer.

Huajing City has a long history, with a variety of places of interest, and there are countless places worth taking pictures.

Towards noon, the words "Out of memory" appeared on the camera screen.

"The memory is low, this memory card is full." Yang Sijie sighed helplessly, he didn't bring a second memory card, so he could only put the camera away and pause shooting.

"It's time for lunch, so let's eat first and then go home." Thinking of this, Yang Sijie took out his mobile phone and searched the map for places to eat around.

At this moment, a shout came from behind Yang Sijie.

"Stop! Don't run! I'm a cop! Hold it! ”

Yang Sijie looked back, but felt that the figure in front of him flashed, a young man in black galloped past him, and behind him were two people, one was wearing a police uniform, and the other was plainclothes, and the target of both was the young man in black in front.

In the next second, Yang Sijie instinctively took a step forward and chased forward, that is, after more than ten seconds, Yang Sijie chased behind the young man in black, he stretched out his hand, grabbed the young man's clothes in black, and dragged it back.

The young man in black was running when he was pulled by Yang Sijie like this, and suddenly his center of gravity was unstable, he lost his balance, and he stumbled and fell to the ground. But he still planned to get up quickly and continue to escape.

At this moment, the police behind had already caught up, and the two directly pressed the black-clothed young man to the ground, and the plainclothes directly took out the handcuffs and handcuffed the black-clothed youth.

"Give me back the run! I've been squatting for three days, and I've caught you! Plainclothes spoke.

After the plainclothes policeman finished speaking, he looked up at Yang Sijie in front of him.

"Young man, it's good, this is the road to see the unevenness and draw a knife to help! There aren't many people like you now, thank you so much, or if you hadn't done it, maybe this suspect would have escaped. The plainclothes policeman spoke.

"It's okay, it's what I'm supposed to do." Yang Sijie was also panting after the strenuous exercise just now.

Next to him, the police officer in a police uniform also said: "Young man, you ran really fast, we chased two or three streets, and we didn't catch up with this guy, you are good, you caught up in the blink of an eye!" Running so fast, it's an athlete, right? ”

Yang Sijie subconsciously said: "Yes, I am an athlete and practice sprinting!" I'm ......"

In the next second, Yang Sijie suddenly stopped talking.

I couldn't help but touch the backpack where the camera was placed.

"I almost forgot, I'm not an athlete anymore!"