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A high moral level is naturally worthy of the admiration of others......

However, excessively high moral standards and moral standards can often be daunting!

In many cases, this is the root cause of moral kidnapping, which is disgusting!

Moral kidnapping itself, in fact, is not wrong purely from a theoretical point of view......

Just like the story of Zigong's ransom, in essence, it is a noble behavior, but it is precisely because this behavior is made public, so it has formed a counterproductive effect, so that the vast majority of people will feel that this is a kind of moral kidnapping, and thus have disgust for this behavior......

This is also some good people in the real sense, who are more inclined to do good deeds without leaving a name!

For example, the famous Lei Feng is a typical example!

In a sense, also as a helpful model character, Lei Feng is more sober and wise than Zigong, he knows very well that his moral level is much higher than ordinary people, popularizing his good deeds, in a sense, not only will not make the social atmosphere better, but may have the opposite effect!

It is because of this, so he will never leave a name for doing good deeds, nor will he publicize his merits, he knows very well that his willingness to do good deeds is one thing, and his willingness to sacrifice himself for others is one thing, but if it is said that his self-sacrifice is defined as a moral standard, then I am afraid that there will not be too many people who can achieve this standard, in this way, in a sense, it can be said that it reduces the moral level of society, because it cannot meet the moral standard, People will naturally lower their moral level, and the so-called broken window effect comes from this!

Because of this, Lei Feng chose a way to do good deeds but leave no name to practice his good deeds!

And it is precisely such a cognitive and behavioral pattern that will make Lei Feng a household name!

In fact, his fame is not only based on his good deeds, but also on his sober understanding of the humanitarian order, and he knows very well what he should do in order to be able to contribute to society in the true sense, rather than kidnapping at the moral level like Xiang Zigong......

In fact, Lei Feng's spirit has indeed influenced generations of people and has played an extremely positive role!

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Moral models whose moral level is higher than ordinary people are naturally worthy of commendation, but no one should use such a standard to measure other ordinary people, if there is such an idea, then the humanitarian order will become chaotic because of such a situation......

In the same way, the question of finding money is also a widely debated topic......

In the past in the construction of spiritual civilization, people generally believed that collecting gold was a manifestation of a relatively high moral level, and encouraged people to do more so......

But in reality, such encouragement itself is against the humanitarian order......

In a sense, unconditionally spending time and energy to find lost property and lost owners, which in itself is not in line with human nature, many people are not unwilling to do some hands-on things, but if these hands-on behavior, can not get any kind response, and may even be questioned and suspicious, and bring trouble to themselves, then I am afraid that not many people will be willing to do such troublesome things......

It's like losing your wallet......

For people who pick up the wallet, in fact, the real value in the wallet is nothing more than the cash in it, in addition to the cash, other items in the wallet, such as bank cards and ID cards, are actually meaningless things for the person who picks up the wallet!

However, for people who have lost their wallets, in fact, the money in the wallet is the most useless thing, whether it is an ID card, a bank card, this kind of item is the most troublesome thing for the person who has lost his wallet!

For those who have lost their wallets, the vast majority of people are probably willing to give the money in their wallets to those who have picked up their wallets, as long as their wallets and the cards in them can be exchanged, the vast majority of people will be satisfied with this......

On the contrary, for the person who found the wallet, if the owner is willing to keep all the money in the wallet and only get back his wallet and various documents, then the vast majority of people who have found the wallet are willing to actively contact the owner and return the lost property......

In fact, this is a win-win situation for both parties......

For the owner of the wallet, it is natural to be happy to get back an item that is more valuable to him, and for the person who finds the wallet, it is naturally a great thing to receive an actual monetary reward as a kind of compensation for his good deeds......

If such a system is promoted, the probability of people being found when they lose their wallets will be maximized, as long as the wallets are not stolen, but picked up, then the wallets have a good chance of being recovered......

On the contrary, for those who pick up the wallet, it is equivalent to getting their due reward for their good deeds!

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On the contrary, if the so-called behavior of picking up gold is encouraged, then the vast majority of people who have picked up the wallet may not be so active in wanting to return the wallet, after all, returning the wallet itself is not necessarily any benefit at all, and even encountering some bad owners, but also to be suspected of being a thief, and even to be questioned about their own motives, in such a situation, it is naturally difficult to have the idea of taking the initiative to return the wallet......

In the final analysis, in the case of the loss of the wallet, the owner itself belongs to the weak party, and the return of the owner's lost property is more of an obligation than an absolute responsibility, and if everyone is forced to do the gold, then in fact, in a sense, it will promote the development of the social atmosphere in the opposite direction!

People's moral concepts and behavioral habits can often be guided by one party!

Forcibly restraining people's behavior, raising moral standards, and carrying out moral kidnapping will only make people resentful......

On the contrary, if the interests of the party who picked up the lost property are protected through legal means, and those who are picked up and kept for themselves are severely punished, it can be relatively simple to reverse people's first reactions and attitudes when they pick up the lost property......

In some countries, there are relatively strict regulations on spitting or littering, and even smoking in some places where smoking is not allowed, etc., and those who violate these norms will be punished heavily!

And in such a country, it is easy to feel that the moral level of the other side is generally much better than the situation at home!

In fact, this is not a moral constraint on their behavior, but simply because of the law!

The code of conduct itself is not enough to restrain people's moral level, and more often, only by means of law can we truly restrain people's behavior patterns and thinking concepts......

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Of course, the constraints of the law are not the best way to cultivate morality, and the most ideal way to cultivate moral concepts is to return to the perspective of humanity in the final analysis!

The so-called twisted melon is not sweet, that's the truth!

Using the law as a mold to distort the shape of various melons and fruits can achieve immediate results, but in fact it is not a correct principle......

Only by making people agree with a behavior from the heart can people naturally obey the order in the true sense......

However, before the humane order has developed to a certain level, it is inevitable that the appropriate use of the power of law to restrain human behavior will be unavoidable......

It's like a lot of people in the education industry have such a philosophy......

The so-called education, if you want to achieve the best effect, simply let the child learn, ask the child to learn, force the child to learn, it is difficult to achieve the highest efficiency, and only let the child want to learn from the heart, in order to achieve the highest efficiency!

The so-called "I want to learn" and "I want to learn" are two completely different concepts!

The former is the constraint of the law and the order of the parents, while the latter is the interest of spontaneous learning and the embodiment of subjective initiative!

For parents, for schools, to stimulate children's curiosity, in a sense, is the best way to educate, with strict rules and regulations to restrict students' life and learning, although it can improve the quality of students' learning for a period of time, but it may be because of excessive strictness, so that students have a rebellious mentality!

Just like losing weight and choosing to diet to lose weight or take medicine to lose weight, maybe there will be a practical effect for a period of time, but this effect cannot last too long, as long as the time is long, there will always be a day of rebound, even if the exercise is simple, in essence, it is the same, as long as you don't move after that, and return to your previous habits, the rebound is only a matter of minutes......

Only if you really fall in love with sports, be keen on sports, get used to sports, and enjoy the happiness brought by sports itself, can you achieve weight loss in the real sense and have a truly healthy body......

In the same way, from a humanitarian point of view, using the law to punish those who make mistakes, in essence, cannot really change the evil of people's hearts, the law can only restrain people's behavior, but it cannot restrain people's nature!

Yes, human nature cannot be restrained!

A lot of times, people don't commit crimes, they don't break the law, not because they don't want to do it, it's simply because they understand that doing so will get them into trouble, and that's it!

And when they are not afraid of those troubles, or when the impulse in their hearts breaks through the shackles of reason, they will no longer suppress the * in their hearts, but will release these * at will, and even for some high-IQ criminals, their crimes are often not the result of impulse, but when their reason tells them that through precise thinking, they think that their criminal plan will not let them have any trouble, at this time, they will unscrupulously violate the rules……

However, humanity is different! (To be continued.) )ad_950