Seeing Yuan Dongshuai's solemn expression, Yuan Xiti knew that his words had a role. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

He gave Yuan Dongshuai ten minutes to digest his words, and then continued: "To be a good captain, you can't just remind the position, it is also very important to encourage morale, when you yourself were running for captain, you also said that when your teammates are upset, you will give encouragement, why did you forget it today?" ”

After Yuan Dongshuai realized his mistake, he was a little lacking in confidence, and said weakly: "But they are not disappointed!" They just don't obey me! ”

Yuan Xiti gave him a violent shudder and said: "Stinky boy, the active players who play football with you, when they make mistakes, they are not less taught by you, right?" You don't want to think about it, can you not be upset when people make mistakes? If people have to cry, is that called chagrin? ”

Yuan Dongshuai was speechless, he did feel a little frustrated when he made a mistake, but his thinking was different, whenever he made a mistake, he would tell himself, it doesn't matter, this time I made a mistake, I will behave well next time! I gave myself a positive hint, and that trace of frustration was covered up, so that he always thought that mistakes are not a big deal, and it is nothing to be scolded for mistakes, anyway, I will have a good performance next, let the person who scolds me shut up!

People are different from each other, Yuan Dongshuai himself is Ma Daha, but others are not Ma Daha, on the contrary, young people are quite sensitive and rebellious, people make mistakes, you go to scold others, don't give you a slap, it is already polite to you.

After Yuan Xiti beat Yuan Dongshuai, he continued: "Morale is not scolded, nor is it taught, it is encouraged!" When a team plays on the pitch, the players will definitely make mistakes, how do mistakes happen? It may be that the player is not in good shape, and he takes the initiative to make mistakes, which is not to blame others, blame himself, or it is possible that the whole team does not play well, and the errors accumulate to a certain extent, and they explode in a certain player, resulting in mistakes, but no matter what kind of mistakes, you have to encourage them, here, I have to compare you and Stu together, when Stu makes mistakes with his teammates, he always encourages loudly: It doesn't matter, play well! Get back on the defensive, keep an eye on the guys, and come back next time!

With such a shout, the effect is immediate! The player who made a mistake, the little heart of the wounded was comforted, because they knew, others did not blame him, and his mistake was understood and forgiven! At the same time, Stu also reminded the players who make mistakes, it doesn't matter if you make mistakes, the important thing is that you have to deal with them well, and don't be negative because of a mistake, after all, on the football field, mistakes are common, and no one will beat you to death because of one of your mistakes!

In this way, every player who made a mistake was encouraged by Shi Tu, they were naturally very convinced of Shi Tu, and the whole team was naturally twisted into a rope, they were not afraid of mistakes, dared to play, had a positive attitude, and their combat effectiveness naturally improved. ”

Yuan Xiti's words made Yuan Dongshuai's face more solemn, it turned out that being a good captain is not only about good ball skills, but also about emotional intelligence!

This time, Yuan Xiti gave ten minutes again to let Yuan Dongshuai digest the big truth he said.

After Yuan Dongshuai's expression eased slightly, Yuan Xiti continued: "As the captain on the field, when you are playing, you should remind your teammates, encourage your teammates, and let the team unite and have high morale!" Only then can you be considered a qualified captain on the field! ”

Yuan Dongshuai nodded heavily and said: "Dad, I remember what you said today, I will correct it in the future, make my instructions clear and easy to execute, and encourage my teammates a lot, so that when they play, they can get my support!" ”

The children can be taught! Yuan Xiti smiled with satisfaction.

But immediately, Yuan Dongshuai asked: "But sometimes, some players are obviously grinding foreign workers and treating the game with a negative attitude, shouldn't I criticize and correct?" ”

Yuan Xiti smiled bitterly, and then said loudly: "Are you blind to me?" When I'm this coach is a decoration? The player's condition is obviously not good, the player is obviously negative and slack, can't I see it, won't I make substitutions and adjustments? Stinky boy, just take care of yourself, don't be too wide, with your ability and prestige, you can't manage so many things! ”

Yuan Dongshuai shut up and began to ponder: "Daddy is right! The players are passive and slack, and it is not my turn to take care of them, first, everyone is the same age, some of them are still high school students, how can they be willing to be blamed by me! Second, my criticism has always been sharp, and they will probably not accept it. Third, even if I criticize others, I can't think of a way to make their attitudes straighten, and it's too cost-effective to make one more move and end up complaining! ”

After pondering and understanding, Yuan Dongshuai regained his smiling appearance and said to Yuan Xiti: "Who am I?" I'm the number one football genius in the world! Can my dad be blind? If my dad was blind, he wouldn't have given birth to a football genius like me! ”

Yuan Xiti gave Yuan Dongshuai a violent shudder again, and scolded with a smile: "Stinky boy, don't go to the house for three days, be careful of my family law!" ”

"Am I your own son? Serve at every turn! I can tell you, child abuse is a crime! Yuan Dongshuai said with a grin.

Yuan Xiti rolled his eyes, and said in his heart, the stinky boy's skin is getting thicker and thicker, and he can't be entangled with him anymore, otherwise, I, who is a father, will still be majestic in front of him?

Thinking like this, Yuan Xiti restrained his smile, straightened his face, and said solemnly: "Stinky boy, I have something to give you to do. ”

"What's the matter?" Yuan Dongshuai asked with a grin.

"Help the school team make a poster and make publicity for the school team!" Yuan Xiti commanded with the coach's shelf.

"Make a poster? I don't know how to make posters! Aren't you embarrassed for me? Yuan Dongshuai was puzzled.

Yuan Xiti snorted and said, "You don't know how to make posters, but Zhou Yutong and Bi Jing can!" You go to the two of them, and work with them to make a poster for the school team. ”

Yuan Dongshuai's eyes rolled, and he smiled happily: "Okay! I'll make a poster for you. ”

Yuan Xiti reminded: "Give you a week to make the poster, by the way, this poster should be placed on the school's official website, and it will also be posted on the notice board. ”

Yuan Dongshuai sighed and said, "Dad, can't you trust my own son like that?" ”

"I can't believe it!" Yuan Xiti struck.

"Well, I'm going to have to do some self-reflection! But you can't trust me, but you can always trust Zhou Yutong and Bi Jing! Yuan Dongshuai said sourly.

"They're good boys, I can trust them, but with you, it's not so easy to say." In the final analysis, Yuan Xiti just can't trust Yuan Dongshuai.

This made Yuan Dongshuai wonder: "Dad, since you can't trust me, why do you want me to make a poster, do you want to match me and Zhou Yutong?" Dad, do you want to be an old man? I'm not even 15 years old, so you don't have to worry about it! ”

Yuan Xiti stood up, used the knuckle of his index finger, gave him a heavy shudder, and said: "Stinky boy, running the train with a mouth, I don't know who to learn from, neither like me, nor like your grandma, I doubt myself, whether you are my own son or not!" ”

"Yes, I doubt if I am your own son! Otherwise, let's get it identified another day? Yuan Dongshuai said with a hippie smile.

Yuan Xiti was choked, he was not so boring, he went to do a paternity test in a good manner, if he really did that, Ayiguli would be angry to death.

Yuan Xiti shook his head and said with a wry smile: "Don't interrupt, back to the point, the principal named you and asked you to participate in the production of the poster, after you finish making the poster, the final judge is not me, the coach, but the principal!" ”

Yuan Dongshuai was clear, but he was still puzzled: "It's good, why do you make a poster?" ”

Yuan Xiti explained: "You can go home and check on the Internet to find out that Turpan Huozhou Middle School has made a poster to promote its team and create momentum for the first Xinjiang Middle School League. (To be continued.) )

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