Chapter 83: Don't be in a hurry to have a baby
Okay, the matter of giving birth to a baby can be solved, but choosing the time to give birth is a problem!
For this, a member of the team proposed, "Don't we have to sign a contract, we must hunt for the team within a few years of this agreement, and this whole day hunting is naturally not suitable for giving birth to dolls, but when this period passes, someone as old as Sister Rong Rong is in her thirties, and it is too late to give birth to a doll at this age!" ”
As for whether it is too late to give birth in more than thirty years, I am afraid that their Zheng family has the most right to speak, Zheng Linchu immediately said, "This time is definitely not too late, everyone listen to me in detail." Although there are many people who give birth to babies at the age of fifteen or sixteen, and most of the women become mothers before they are seventeen or eighteen years old, if you look at their age, many of them are not in their thirties, or even in their forties. What's more, the period of your capable young adults is still longer, so thirty is definitely not too late. Everyone should know more or less about the affairs of our Zheng family. There are not a few women in our clan who have not yet married in their thirties, let alone give birth to dolls. ”
Although she said with a firm face, this remark is exactly contrary to the team's perception for so many years, and naturally it is impossible to make everyone believe it at once, so some team members refuted it.
However, since most women give birth to babies before they are twenty, and the older the woman is, the more difficult it is to say that they are married, and the men are also vying to marry young women as wives, it can be seen that it is very reasonable for women to become biological babies early, otherwise why do most people choose this way. Isn't it all for the sake of the fact that the woman is younger when she gives birth to a young daughter-in-law, and only a few others are right? ”
It can't be that the vast majority of people in the world are so stupid that they don't know what is right or wrong, and only a few people know the truth! The team member who said this wanted to use this to prove that Zheng Linchu's statement was wrong.
But I didn't want Zheng Linchu to really nod directly, "Yes, the sooner you become a biological baby, the better, the concept is wrong, so it is true that most people do it wrong." Why do women have babies early? It is because of the acceptance of this false concept. Giving birth too early is too risky for women, so that women give birth too early in the case of unsuitable childbearing, and the more they give birth in the future, the worse the worse the risk of childbirth. In this way, in the eyes of ordinary people, the older they are, the more unsuitable they are to have children, so they choose to have children earlier, and the result is even more outrageous. Men who also accept this concept naturally want to marry a younger woman because they want to marry a more fertile wife, resulting in women can only start to discuss marriage early, for fear that they will not find a good in-law when they are late. ”
"No, it won't!"
Many team members still didn't believe her statement that violated the world's cognition, so they subconsciously refuted it.
Zheng Linchu simply talked to them in detail.
"At the age of fifteen or sixteen, a woman's body has not grown, how can she be suitable for childbirth? Let's take an analogy, giving birth to an heir at an age when the body is completely mature is like using a small basket that can hold just enough to hold five catties of herbs, this small basket represents a woman, and five catties of herbs represent the fetus that is about to be born. When the bones of the body are not yet mature, the woman's body is not ready to have children. At this time, the girl's basket only contained three catties of herbs, but this full-term fetus would not become smaller because of this. Therefore, if a woman gives birth too early, it is like you insisting on forcibly stuffing five catties of herbs into this small basket. This little basket is so big that you have to stuff the herbs into it so hard that the amount of herbs in the basket is far beyond what it can bear, and the end result is that the basket is broken. So what's the bad law? It is the various dangerous situations that occur during childbirth, as well as the various problems left by women after giving birth to babies. ”
"But, didn't you say that a woman's body matures after she is in her twenties, how can it actually be that the older a woman is, the more likely she is to be in danger when she gives birth to a baby, and this can't be faked, how do you explain it?"
Isn't that an inconsistency in what I said?
"It's simple, although the woman's body gradually matured, but the foundation has been tossed and broken! Just like if you want to make it easier for the small basket to hold five catties of herbs, you add some more ingredients to the basket and make it bigger, so that it can hold five catties of herbs. As everyone knows, the original small basket has been squeezed and deformed because of the herbs that you have forced too many times before, and there are many damages. Even though it was now large enough to hold five catties of herbs, it was actually leaking everywhere, and it couldn't withstand the crowding of so many things. Because the normal five-pound small basket is enough to choke on these herbs, it takes some strength to plug it in, and it is also destructive to the small basket, just like a woman who gives birth for the first time in her twenties and thirties will also have various conditions. ”
"Also, the more babies are born, the worse the body will become, just like the basket, which is full of destruction again and again, the quality of the basket is worse and worse again, and for women, the body is getting worse and worse, and there are all kinds of small problems before twenty, and it is also very dangerous when giving birth. In addition, they have to participate in trivial and complicated housework, as well as farm work such as field work, which exhausts their already not very good bodies, making them sicker and sicker, and their bodies are tormented even if they are not broken. As a result, the older you get, the worse your health becomes, leading to a higher risk of childbirth. In the end, it is the same as the impression that 'men will not carry babies', which makes people have the illusion that the later a woman has a child, the higher the risk. ”
Some team members were curious, "Then when do you think it is most appropriate for a woman to have a baby?" ”
"When is the right time, this score man. Let's take the age of thirty as an example, as I said before, a woman's body will fully grow and mature after twenty, and then it will be suitable for giving birth to a baby. But being suitable for having a baby does not mean that everyone is suitable for giving birth at any time. Like Orion and women who do all kinds of business outside, even if their bodies are already suitable, giving birth early is not a good choice. ”
This is another division of people, and it is a moment of saying that it is appropriate and sometimes it is not appropriate, which makes everyone wonder, "Why are we not suitable for early childbearing?" ”
"It's also simple, let's take the female hunter who stays in the hunting team, the kind of woman who participates in hunting before getting married but returns home after getting married. What do the hunters go hunting for? Naturally, it is to earn money. I would like to ask how much money has been saved by a young man like you, who has only been in the hunting team for a short time, so far. ”