Chapter 82: Hunting and starting a family do not conflict

That's right, in this way, the reputation of the family in the village will be much better, and maybe the father and mother will be more acceptable.

It sounds so incredible to let her daughter sell herself to work for others, and her reputation is better than that there are old girls in the family who can't get married, but the reality is so.

Sensing that Bai Rongrong's mentality was already biased towards agreeing with herself, Zheng Linchu naturally continued to increase her weight, "And people only sell four taels of silver, and they can be envied if they get five hundred yuan a month, and you are dozens of taels of silver, which can directly buy a new house for the family." People ridicule you for selling girls to the Bai family, but in fact, they see that you have built a new house, and the whole family lives in it, and the son is not worried about not being able to marry a daughter-in-law, but I don't know how envious I am. ”

Of course, I was envious, just like the Li family in the west of the village, who sold his daughter to Zhao Yuanwai in the town as a concubine and gave birth to a boy, Zhao Yuanwai was old enough to have a son, and when he was happy, he agreed to build a new house for the Li family, and it is said that it cost forty-five taels of silver.

Although the villagers laughed at the Li family, saying that their daughter would not do it if she let the wife that Ming Media was marrying, and she had to be willing to be a concubine with the most no status and no status for others, but she was envious of the Li family's new house in her heart, including her own father, who was also sour and scolded, but in fact, she was not looking at other people's new house with red eyes!

Looking at Bai Rongrong's expression, Zheng Linchu knew that she probably believed that her father and mother could be convinced.

"So do you still think that your father and mother can really refuse to get this dozens of taels of silver? You know, the same is to let your daughter leave your home, your father and mother only need to sign a deed of sale, in exchange for dozens of taels of silver, and marry a daughter, only get a bride price of five taels of silver, usually even if it is not, this is all in front of them, when they look at so much silver, they will naturally consider which one is more cost-effective. And after this girl gets married, that is the person of the in-law's family, and the heart will be biased towards the in-law's family, after all, it is the home where she wants to live for a lifetime, and she will think of her mother-in-law's family first, and will not think about her mother's family first, compared to everyone, I haven't seen many daughters-in-law who keep taking silver from her mother-in-law's house, right? ”

I really haven't seen it, at most, some women are really distressed that their mother's life is not good, so they occasionally bring some food back to subsidize their mother's family, and many times they have to take it secretly, and they dare not let their husband's family know.

"And you sell yourself to work for others, there is no other in-law in your heart to give you bias, if you want to be a family, you can only think of your mother's family, where there are your parents and relatives. If you are filial, and see that life at home is not good, send some silver to your home, just like the maid in the east of your village. The same daughter from another family, after getting married, there is no precedent for taking 500 yuan a month to the family. With such a comparison, it is naturally clear to your father and mother which is better and which is inferior, and there is really no fear that they will not agree. ”

After such a detailed analysis by Zheng Linchu, the team members basically knew whether they could convince their parents.

However, their worries are not just that their parents will not agree, but they also have a lot of thoughts in their hearts!

However, Zheng Linchu quickly analyzed them again.

"As for the problem that some girls say that they don't want to cut off relations with their families, it's even simpler, this contract is not to let everyone sever ties with their families, it's just that your family can no longer control you, your relationship is still there, it's impossible that you signed a contract and you won't be their daughter. As long as you want to go back, you can continue to go home as daughters and spend time with them when you have time, the only difference is that they are no longer in a position to restrict your freedom, or to decide everything about you. The bottom line is that your family relationship is still ongoing, and you're free, and no one is in control of your life anymore. The life I described before that could be lived if you thought about it. ”

As soon as her voice fell, a member of the team put forward his thoughts, "But I, I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life, this person must have a companion to live." ”

"yes."

Several members of the team echoed her, sharing the same sentiments.

"It's simple, do you remember when I said that those female hunters in their forties who are still in the hunting team, and some of them can even earn hundreds of taels of silver a month? Most of them are not alone. Not to mention anything else, isn't the example of the Xue family sisters right in front of you, you can recruit money, and you have no family constraints, you are more free to recruit than the Xue family sisters, you can recruit whatever you want, everything is up to you, are you afraid that you won't be able to recruit a husband if you have money in your hand? You don't have to look at your husband's face and act to serve your husband, and you don't have a husband who has a family to take care of, and you don't have the power to restrict your freedom, nor can you decide your affairs, and you can't force you to be a hunter like those hunters who marry into your mother-in-law's family. ”

"But, what about giving birth to a doll? We have been hunters, don't we have no children, and no one will provide for us in the future, and the end will be just as miserable? ”

This question made Zheng Linchu a little crying and laughing, "Who told you that if you become an Orion, you can't give birth to dolls!" ”

"Then let's hunt all day, how can we have time to give birth to dolls and raise dolls?"

"Being a hunter for a long time does not mean that you go hunting every day. When you feel it's time to think about heirs, take a break. Wouldn't it be nice to wait until you have finished giving birth and your body is completely healthy, and then you can participate in the hunting of the hunting team. ”

"But how to raise a doll, we have to hunt every day to earn money, how can we have time to raise it, who will bring it, there is only a husband and a man in the family and I can't take the doll."

"Who said men can't bring dolls? At least in our Zheng family, there are almost few men who can't bring babies. Generally, people in the world think that men will not take dolls, that is because the world will never let men to bring, do not let them do anything, they have not been exposed to this matter, naturally it will not, the rules have been passed down from generation to generation, and the effect is the cause, so that everyone believes that it is true, and finally it comes to the conclusion that men will not take babies. If you really let them bring it, even if they are rusty at the beginning, they will be able to get started after a few days, and our women are not born with it, and they will never come to the meeting if they stumble all the way. ”

Before the team members could discuss how the man should bring the baby and how to bring the baby, Zheng Linchu continued, "Moreover, even if you really think that your husband is not suitable for taking the baby, won't you hire someone to bring it?" If you don't need one or two taels of silver a month, you can spend five or six hundred yuan, and then you will have food and accommodation, and you are really not afraid that you will not be able to invite people, so that you will not have time to hunt yourself. ”