"Mom...... This...... Big Brother ......"

Liu Qianghai's mind was a little confused for a while, and he didn't know how to reply at all, from the perspective of morality, ethics and family affection, he should definitely agree, but from the perspective of personal emotion, personal thoughts and selfishness, he was unwilling.

This is the core of the dilemma.

He thinks so, why is his eldest brother not, and why is he not entangled.

After a long time, it was Liu Fang who spoke first:

"Mom, you take care of your own parents-in-law, right, but I also have my parents-in-law to serve over there, although I am not alone, but it is obviously impossible for me to stay here and help you serve your grandparents all the time.

When your grandparents were here, didn't you just take the time to go over to help, what did you think at the beginning, what did you hesitate about, I am almost the same as you were at the beginning, so I can only take the time to come over to help at most, and it is impossible to live here all the time to serve you guys.

I hope you can also understand that my focus on the water spilled by my married daughter must be on my husband's side, otherwise, not only will I be poked in the back by others, but you will also be the same.

There are no specific changes.

We'll talk about that later.

I'll definitely come and see you more when I have time. ”

Liu Fang's so-called change actually means that if her parents-in-law are seriously ill, then she will definitely not have time to come over again, and if her father-in-law and mother-in-law die, then maybe she can come back a few more times.

And if she's sick too.

Then it will be even more impossible to come.

There may be too many accidents, so she can't be sure how often she can come in the future, or if she won't be able to come for a while.

"I understand, and I understand.

So what about the two of you, she is a daughter who got married, and you two are not married sons, do you two care or not?

It's now in the tube.

Or will I be demented in two years? ”

Qiao Mu could understand the situation on the girl's side, so he could only nod and look at his son, wanting to know what they thought.

"Mom, we want to take care of it, but we really don't have much energy to take care of it, you know my grandson, that is, your great-grandson.

He is already preparing to get married.

I can't help but participate in the wedding, I also have to participate in some of the processes in the wedding, and I can't just ignore anything after getting married and having a child or something, don't you say it, the child was born, my son and daughter-in-law have not yet retired, and the grandson and their young couple must continue to work, otherwise they will pay off the mortgage every month, and life will inevitably be very tight.

So we have to help bring our great-grandchildren.

At least bring it to elementary school.

And then they might have a second child.

Although my youngest grandson has only started college this year, I am afraid that I have not yet brought my first great-grandson or great-granddaughter, and he will also get married and have children.

So, we're really out of time.

Otherwise, if I send you to a nursing home, my second family and I will each contribute some money, and you will also contribute a little yourself, so maybe you will be able to do it. ”

In just a while, Liu Qiangliang has sorted out all the possible situations in the future, and summarized them into his own difficulties, and finally proposed a solution, that is, he hopes to send them to a nursing home.

"You're crazy, send to a nursing home, do you know how much it costs to enter a nursing home now, if it's just one, but they are six, and the price difference between the elderly in different situations is quite large, and the ordinary elderly are just that, we may be able to support it."

But you don't look at your grandparents, grandparents, and your father.

They're the most expensive.

The kind that nursing homes are not happy to receive.

What do you have enough for your pension? ”

Liu Qiangliang's words were obviously not discussed with his wife, so his daughter-in-law Qu Hui immediately refuted it in front of Qiao Mu regardless of face.

Others don't know the specific fees and conditions of the nursing home, but her mother was sent to the nursing home by his brothers a few years ago.

Therefore, she still knows quite well about the situation.

The nursing home is more willing to accept the elderly who are clear-headed, have no physical disabilities, can move themselves, and do not have some diseases that are not easy to take care of, and the price of this kind of elderly people is the lowest, and the number of a month is not much, basically three or five thousand yuan is enough.

Three or five thousand corresponds to the low and mid-range.

It's normal to be more expensive and upscale.

Of course, this is their side, if you go to some first-tier cities, some nursing homes with particularly good environment, or particularly good supporting facilities, then the price is not easy to say, the price is more than 10,000 per month, or even tens of thousands is normal.

Attention, this is an ordinary old man.

It's a normal old man.

The starting price of this type of elderly is at least about 8,000, which is still the price of a nurse to take care of several, if you want to take care of one-on-one care, the 20,000 yuan is estimated to be the bottom price.

The husband and wife took the pension alone, and the second family was the same, and the pension of the two families added up to about 10,000 yuan.

Sending the elderly to a nursing home, not to say the same as taking a car, one person is a price, five people are still a price, sending the elderly to a nursing home, one person is the price of one person, two people is the price of two people, there is no saying that more than one person gives more discounts, even if others only charge the lowest level of fees, then their pension is not enough.

Not to mention that their nursing home is not a charity, so it is impossible to charge a low fee.

So overall.

Sending to a nursing home is a good idea, but the price is simply not affordable for them.

"What else would you do?

Will you take care of it or will I take care of it?

Also take turns to take care of? ”

"If you take turns to take care of it, there are four of us in total, and it shouldn't be too much of a problem for my little sister to come out every seven days, and then we can also call our daughter-in-law over, then there are seven people in total, and they will rotate a week.

Although one day it was more tiring.

But it should be able to get busy.

In recent years, Mom can also help with the foil, let us be a little proficient, and wait for two years for us to be proficient, wouldn't it be good?

What do you guys think? ”

Concubine Li also resolutely disagreed to send people to nursing homes, and the money was simply a bottomless pit.

The consumption of six old people.

It was horrible.

Even if it is 8,000 a month, the sum of those six people is 48,000, and the sum of a year is more than 500,000, not counting other types of consumption.

It consumes their apartment in a year.

They don't have that much money to spend.

So she would rather be tired, one day a week, four or five days a month at most, and it is barely acceptable to share it.